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at my daughters school next year,(9th grade) in PE there will be a swim unit and boys and girls have it together? Why is this allowed? Wouldn't this make girls feel uncomfortable. Wouldn't boys use this opportunity to harass or humilate girls? Also, why are boys allowed to be shirtless in the presence of girls? Why is no sense of modesty maintained (link)
They could have the same class togther and I am sure they have diffrent locker rooms so it would be just another day at the pool but if you are really worried I would keep close contact with the coach that would make you feel safer and let the coach know you care but don't be so worried because that could make your daughter mad and you never know what could happen.


My father is catholic, and very controlling of every step i take. I still have to call him all the time, where i am, who im with, and i have a curfew. Or more of a limit of 2 hours after my work to see friends. I fell in love with my boyfriend, and we plan on moving out together next month. I dont know how to tell my dad that im leaving and not going back to europe with him. (link)
You need to tell your father that you wont be a little girl forever and that you are ready to move on and that you will still call him and keep in touch and that you love him and will see him soon.


When your period was brown and stuff, because I just started birth control and so is mine. Is it normal for it to smell bad too? Because this is kind of freaking me out! (link)
Its ok I am on birth control. Thats normal becasue if you just started thats the pills starting to work on your body it will slowly get better you just have to give it time I promise.


Okay, so this might be hard to make sense of but here goes.
When I was year five I had my first boyfriend, I really liked him and he really liked me. Then we broke up after four months. It didn't get to me, I just moved on to another guy.. But I didn't like him the way I had liked my ex boyfriend.. But I had heard that he did like me so I went out with him, not coz i liked him but coz i wanted a boyfriend. After we broke up, I didnt feel anything. I don't fall in love anymore, I don't feel happy or excited, not even nervous or angry... I lack emotions.

I am now year nine in high school and I thought that it was about time i researched what the heck is wrong with me. So I researched all last night and came across something called 'ANTISOCIAL PERSONALITY DISORDER' and it was amazing at how many of the symptoms I can relate to... And it was amazing how there are so many other people out there who feel the same way like this.
I don't know what to do anymore... I don't know who I am anymore. Ive lacked emotions since year five, I am now in year nine. its been five years... Nowadays I just pretend that im happy or excited, angry or nervous.. and i also pretend i fall in love like normal people. so i don't look like im not human or something..

Please help, its not as easy as it may look, going for five years without emotions. its hard work.

I am 14 years old and I am a female. (link)
You will be fine you just don't feel because you put alot you had into something that didn't work like a relationship. And you probly cared alot and people always came to for advise and never took it and you got feed up with all the bullshit. and so know you dont care so theres nothing wrong. And something could have happend to you that was bad and you shut the emotions out you just need to find it agin.


hoe to impress a girl
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I would find out what her personality is and find out later here is what i go by:

1.Emotional but yet fun because she always needs a shoulder to cry on: Take her on a date to a carnival or some place fun where you both laugh and have fun.
2.All over you but yet scared to do anymore: Take her on a date to the beach at night it is romantic and yet relaxing that would let her know that you are ready when she is.
3.Sassy: Take her to party with a bunch of friends there for she will have a great time and be thankful.
4. Layed back: I would ask her where she wants to go because more then likely she is happy no matter what as long as ya'll get to have fun and she is around you injoying her self.
5.Always wanting more: I would take her to a place where you guys have fun with friend and later take her to the movies just you 2 then if shes a wanting more kind of girl I would give it your all and do is much as you can to let her know how much you feel.


listen last time i asked a question and i got some good answers now im back about the same guy now everything is worst. he says he loves me and that he wants a kid and a family. im already 2 months but the problem is that his ex girl of three years AND HIM STILL LOVE EACH OTHER HE LOVES ME AND LOVES HER AND IM CONFUSED....HELP! (link)
I would tell him the way it is. "If you still love her why did you tell me all that and now we have a child on the way." Then tell him,"Tell me know if you want me or her because once this baby is here I don't want you to have second thoughts because I need someone to help with this baby and if your not going to I need someone who will help me and take care of my child." And if you say that is should work and if it doesn't i am sorry honey GOOD LUCK


Well first off Im pale and I hate it!! I have alrighty got in the tanning bed btw im 13/f and I stopped because you can get cancer. Also I don't tan good in the sun. Is there anything I can wear or do to look more darker and not too pale? other than spray tan.(two orange) I already put on lotion that makes you darker. Please Help Thanks(: (link)
To be honest I would ask someone like a doctor Becasue there are many things that could go wrong whatever you may do so i would ask your doctor...


Is it ok to love your cousin? I dont mean everyday love love i mean like in love with him?Would I ever be able to have a normal relationship with him? (link)
It is ok to date your third and forth cousin because they maybe only related to you by marrige but your first and second are more then likly closer and if date them its like dating your brother or sister but I hope whatever disiton you make will make you happy thats all it really comes down too.


im 13 and im SUPER SCARED to wear tampons.My best friend(12yrs old) wears them and she told me it hurt the first time she tried them. im ANXIOUS to try them, Do they hurt really bad ? (link)
At first it might hurt because you are still a virgin and sticking stuff up there may hurt alittle but I wouldn't worry it just takes some getting used to.




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