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Putting your question out there for people like me to answer does not give you the right to bitch at me if you don't like what I have to say. And for God's sake, am I the only one who is sickened and disgusted by all the thirteen-year old sluts asking questions about sex? I think I'm going to have to give up those kind of questions, it's all just too painful. So many children in that generation are turning out RIDICULOUSLY IDIOTIC.
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Hello!! I never wear makeup!! Should I?? I have medium brown hair, brown eyes and white skin (not very tanned) what colors should i use, and fiunally how do I put it on?? PLEASE answer as much as possible!@!! !Thanks so much!! I'll rate you
Try for colors that bear the word "nude" in the name. Nude pink, nude beige, nude nude nude. It's all neutral, it looks more natural, and you don't really have to do that much with it.
Okay, so I only just turned 13, and I want to become a professional singer.
I've always wanted to be one. Now I want to be one so bad I'll do anything. After seeing JoJo become a singer and she's only 13, I think I could do it too.
What I need to know is where I can go to shove my singing career off the ground. I've had private lessons on singing, and the only problem is I have stage fright of singing infront of people.
I just need to know 2 things. Places I can take my singing career further, and how to overcome my fear.
Thanks!
Well.... I DID think JoJo looked godawfully young! Wow. Anyways, about your career, I can only say keep at it, be in as many choirs and choruses as you can get into during high school, study music theory in college, and go to auditions when you hear about them. So what if you don't end up raking in majillions of dollars as a pop singer? You'll be a TRUE musician and you'll rock everyone's socks RIGHT OFF. About your fear, I would try practicing in the bathroom and in the shower, and just forcing myself to do things in public, like standing up on a park bench and singing "I'm a Little Teapot". Trust me, once you can do the stupid silly stuff, the nerve-wracking stuff will melt away.
when i grow up i want to be a cosmotolegist. sorry if thats spelled wrong im in a hurry. but anyways i know they do face makeup but what else do they do? and how can i get started? im only 14..is there a site about a college that does that stuff. thanks
Well, I should think that you should look into studying the subject at your local community college and getting a job at the make-up center in a department store. But, you'll probably change your mind soon enough... most fourteen year olds don't know what they'll do in life.
Okay, this guy asked me out and I really like him in all but he is shorter than me. Please don't leave well if you like him then it wouldn't bother you. I know that I need advice on how it won't affect me, if that makes any since?! PLease Help!!!
Well, the sad fact is, guys like to be in a dominant position when snuggling. And with short guys, that is pretty freakin' awkward. I mean, EXTREMELY AWKWARD. Plus, you never know when something will escalate into pregnancy (!!!), and really, do you want to have short kids? Heh. Go on a date with him, but if you're not head over heels, you should start looking around for tall guys.
well, im not depressed, but lately ive been really sad. i miss my best friend that goes to the other middle school in our town, i dont have a b/f, never been kissed, and basically all my freinds are biotches. i dont know what to do. i cant talk to my mom cuz i just cant, and the only person i can talk to is my friend at the other school. can someone help?
What do you MEAN, you just can't? Look, you're only in MIDDLE SCHOOL. Wait until high school before you start bitching about never having been kissed, chica. Secondly, call your best friend more often, spend more time with her. It's inevitable that you two will drift apart eventually, but you can and will make new friends. Friends that AREN'T "biotches".
Alright I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 17. A while back, we were hanging out; and I guess you could say things got a little out of hand. Well, I recently found out that I was pregnant. Today, my friend Amber (who is also pregnant, but not from my boyfriend) pushed me into telling my boyfriend. He didn't freak out, but he was upset. He told me that it'd be too much of a burden to have a baby now, and so he told me he wanted me to get an abortion. I'm very against abortion. I told him this, and he respected my opinion, but still tried to push me in that direction. He also suggested this "safe baby" thing. I don't really want to put my kid up for adoption either, because I can just imagine how much it hurts knowing your parents gave you up. My boyfriend doesn't want to tell his parents either, but he said he will, but you can tell how reluctant he is. He told me he loved me no matter what, but it was too much of a burden. I know he's not going to dump me, but he is afraid to keep it because he's going to college next year nad still trying to figure out his own life. Someone please tell me what I should do.
Look, your baby's life is important. And you're only fifteen, kiddo. If you're too scared to tell your parents, well, first off, that's bullshit, because you guys's parents won't stop loving you if you spring this news on them. But if they're not willing to help you care for a child, and that's exactly what you'll NEED them to do in order to assure that you'll get through high school and college, then your only option is to give your child up for adoption. I know it sucks, but trite as it may sound, you're giving them a chance for a life that you won't be able to provide, and it's better than the alternative. *pat pat* You might want to look into local organizations that specialize in helping single and teenage mothers, especially since there really is no way to guarantee that your guy will look out for you at all.
Hey, i dont know wat to do my ex-bf broke upwith me and this kid i know that likes me and i like him just got outta jail my ex already got a new girl should i wait 4 them to break up or go 4 the one dat just got outta jail.
Jason-17 just got outta jail
Justin- 15 new girl
HELP ME NOW PLEASE WAT SHALL I DO!!!!!!
..WHAT? I don't understand. But The Kid From Jail is probably messed up. So don't go for him. You should go for someone who doesn't have problems, if you're the fourteen year old that you sound like. And don't wait for your ex, babe. He's a scumbag and whatnot.
What should I do I like alot of boys and one is my friend but should I tell him or keep it to my self??
You should get them all to fight to the death in an arena, Ancient Roman Gladiator-style. The winner is obviously the one most worthy of your attentions.
i like this boy at school- he's your average funny, sweet guy. i met him this year and i think he's so perfect no matter his flaws. he always can make me smile and i wouldnt want anything more in a guy.
my problem is he's a tad more popular than me and im not sure if he'd be interested. sometimes it seems he is, others it seems he doesnt even know who i am. i occationally talk to him in my science class where he sits next to me... [hurrah for assigned seating]... lol... but the only friend that is good friends with him is my friend kate. she used to be my best friend but over the years we went our separate ways. she wants me to tell her who i like because she will talk to whoever it is for me and help me with him. but im not sure if i should trust her- we arent the friends we used to be... but she is my only connection to finding out what he's thinking. im extremely shy around guys, and i dont know his screen name or email or anything... please help =[
-love is beaten me around
Grow some cojones and talk to him yourself, sister. What have you got to lose? The worst that can happen is that he'll reject you, and while that sucks, you're right back where you started. Only THIS time you're not mooning over some jerk.
ok me and my boyfriend broke up and we still say "i love you" but then one day he got really mad at say he never wanted to talk to me again..but then he called me 3 dayz later and was talkin to me (that night he called and said sorry about sayin that!) then the last couple of nights he wouldnt hang up til we said "i love you" like he would just say "bye" til i said it then last night i said bye and he goes "bye shut up you know what to say" ...but then he used to tell me about missin out on some other girl...so whats his deal ..can someone tell me or explain his game to me!!...SORRY SOOO LONG!!
His game = being a rat-ass manipulator. If he calls you again, you let him know that you're not playing his games anymore. When you say bye, hang up. That ass doesn't deserve any of your time, and he's lucky to get what you give.
Well, I'm a vegitarian. Ever since I stopped eating meat, I've had a horrible appitite. All the sudden I'm never hungry, and when I eat, I sometimes feel as if I'll just puke it right back up...what's wrong with me? I'm not anerexic, I'm just a vegitarian. I think I might need to give it up...
Oy, going vegetarian can be hard. I did it once, and I got pretty sick, and I lost a lot of weight in a short amount of time. What has probably happened is that you suddenly cut down a LOT of what you eat by taking the meat out. Suddenly, you're eating a LOT less than your normal amount. Your body's gone into hibernation, only without the six month beauty sleep. Here's the deal. You don't have to give up being a vegetarian, you just need to make sure you eat enough food with protein and get all of your essential vitamins and minerals. It might be a little slow getting yourself used to eating a lot again, but you don't want to get sick or anything. If you find yourself in need of protein and you don't feel like eating a lot, go for a spoonful of peanut butter... But I suggest the creamy kind. I don't like chunky.
Ok i just went to a hair dresser like an hour ago and got my hair highlighted. I wanted think dark blonde chunks and she ends up giving me these really super bright light blonde streaks. I hate it and i did it even tho my mom said not to...i didnt think the lady would mess it up. Well i came home and washed it like 3 times and its not lightening up. Someone plz help me, i dont know what to do, ill rate a 5. I cant dye it again, my moms not gonna let me.
Oh my lord.... Um, I hate to break it to you, but if your hair is changed to a lighter color, there's no washing it out. Your hair has been permanently altered. You can, however, dye your hair. Since your hair will already be a bit iffy because of the bleached streaks, you might want to wait a couple days before doing it. What you want to do is find a permanent hair dye near the same color as your natural hair, and get your mom to help you so that you don't miss any areas. You can buy a box of hairdye at any grocery store, near the hair fixatives and shampoo and scrunchies and stuff. Since you have the bleached streaks, you'll probably end up with much lighter highlights than the rest of your hair, so even though it won't be the look you originally wanted, you'll still get the two-tone effect.
(Sorry, I wasnt sure what category to put it under) Ok, ever since 5th grade I really started to hate my life. I mean, this large group of girls were doing petty things and were lying to the principal. Alot of people hate me. I lost 25 maybe more, friends. I cant take it anymore. My friends are starting to ignore me and "snub" me! Im starting to feel very depressed and lonely. My self-esteem is 2. Not alot. I cry myself to sleep. My family life isnt any better. My mom is SUPER paranoid, so I cant tell her anything. My dad wont understand. My mom wont let me go over to my friends house and such! Please help!
12/f
Aww. *pat pat* Now, I'm not speaking out of my ass when I tell you that I know EXACTLY what this feels like. All I can tell you is, it gets better. It sucks now, but it ALWAYS gets better. I promise you that high school will never be this bad, and that you'll have friends who actually matter. Your current friends are a bunch of bitches, and you feel free to tell them that if they don't stop acting like a bunch of backstabbing whores, then you really don't need those asshole sluts mucking up your life. If your friends treat you like shit, the only thing you owe them is a good tongue-lashing. Unfortunately, I don't know what you could do to change how people are treating you. The only thing I DO know is that, no matter how bad it gets, high school is infinitely better. And before anyone mentions that high school sucks, I would kindly point out that it's a love-fest and constant party compared to this kind of middle school experience.
If you want to talk a little about it, you can PM your email address to me (I won't put it anywhere public) and cheer you up a bit about the future.
Okay Where do i start theres this guy(Johnta) who i have been goin off and on with for the past two years.. and recently i broke up with him because i started liking this guy(Steve) i met at the beginning of school, i mean yea me and Johnta went to the same school but he never walked me to class and whenever i did see him all he did was give me a handshake like he was ashamed of me or something, and people came up to me and was like "Johnta said yall dont go out" and we did.. so i decided that maybe i should get to know steve better and i did and he treats me with respect, he walks me to class, carries my bookbag, and just makes me smile whenever i am around him, But now Johnta and Steve dont like each other because of me the other day they were about to fight in school and they didnt but they were in each others face and the only thing that came out of johntas mouth was " Fuck You! You Fucked With My Heart!" and i felt really bad.. but steve really likes me and i can tell he acts like it but when me and johnta were goin out johnta acted like we didnt.. i just dont understand why ALL OF A SUDDEN johnta acts likes he cares.. I Cant break up with steve i've gotten to know him and I REALLY like him ALOT.. all my friends tell me to break up with steve but they just dont understand how i feel.. what should i do?
Your friends are idiots! Johnta's being a possessive asshole, and you better tell him so! Stay with Steve, he's the one who cares about YOU. UNLIKE Johnta, who is only using you for the personal ego boost. If Johnta starts shit again, you smack that sucker and tell him to back the fuck out of your personal life. And tell your friends that they don't know shit if they can't see that Johnta is only trying to manipulate you.
my friends and i all hang out with the same group of guys all the time. ive liked one of the guys(greg) on and off since like last february. we went out for about a month(it was a pointless relationship cuz i only saw him like 4 times) antways, i recently found out from my friend that another kid in our little group, lets call him kyle, likes me. im not sure if kyle really likes me and ive never really tohught of him as more than a friend, but he is very cute and nice. lately, ive been thinking less about greg and ive been considering the possibilities with kyle. ive liked greg so much for so long and i dont think he likes me back. i dont want to start liking kyle just cuz he likes me, and also im afraid if something happens with me and kyle, ill still get jealous of other girls who like greg..... sorry its kinda confusing but i need help! xOx thanks in advance :)
Date Kyle! You're never going ANYWHERE with Greg, and it's obvious. You will turn into an evil pyscho stalker if you keep obsessing over Greg, and a mad scientist will turn you into a zombie and you'll STILL obsess over Greg, and he'll be disgusted by your rotting flesh.
So date Kyle, and if you still linger over thoughts of Greg, give yourself a Spa Day and call Kyle. And be sexy about it.
ok so i went to a football game this past weekend right and i saw all of my friends from my old school there that i haven't seen for like 3 years. so i was like oh kewl! then my one friends comes up to me and was like hey and i was talking to her about who else was there and she said my old good friend maya was there so i was like oh kewl then shes like yeah not really she's a slut now and then she took me over to these one dudes and they were like oh maya yeah shes a slut and i was like ok then so then i finally got to talk to maya and when i was done my friends like so... and i was like well shes changed. not like she was a hoe or n e thing i meen god i talked to her for like five miunutes. so then i talked to maya about it and was like whys everyone calling u a how and shes like who so we were talking about it and stuff and then everything was kewl but then today she pops up and was like w/e i know its you who thinks im a slut one of ur friends told me! so i was like wtf i never called you that! i meen god im so________________________ confused! i dont know what to do! please help!
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Just tell her you never called her a slut. If she doesn't believe you, call her a disease-ridden whore and be done with it. You don't need her.
Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?
Nope. Lots of people GRADUATE high school and never kiss anyone. It's sad, but it's no big loss. Nobody needs herpes!
Ok well Im a 14/female, anyway I just broke up with my b/f of 6 months and I feel really bad and now Im regreting it. I just don't kno wat to do I mean I still love him, I guess, but I feel really, really bad. Please help me I don't kno wat to do.
You don't need to be tied down at this young age, especially since you were only going out for six months. I know it sounds harsh, but he's one of many. By the time you break up with another boyfriend, you won't care one iota about this fellow. But to make yourself feel better sooner, give yourself a spa day to relax. Once your mind is set on something other than that kid, you'll regret it a lot less.
I have this problem. There is this girl I like, Lea, but she has a boyfriend...or rather had. I found out today that they broke up this morning, and i get the feeling it may be becos of me, due to her knowing i like her and i knowing she likes me to, but she's been with her boyfriend for 2 years. But the problem is, I don't think i like her ENOUGH to go out with her, but there is this other girl, Jo, who also has a boyfriend that i like more, quite abit more. What Should i do? I turned 17 this year, Lea is 17 (18 end of this year) and Jo is 16.
Go on a couple dates with Lea. You don't know if you want to go out with her or not, and you're only hindering yourself if you only go for girls who are already taken.
Which is more plausible: am I possessed, or do I have a split soul?
Burn and shine.
Either or. Depends on whether you're religious or not, I guess. But seeing as you could pick up the phone any time and ask me that, I'm going to wait until we meet again to give you my theory on that, hun.