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*nAmE- Shannon Nicole Farmer(if you dont know my name why are you reading this? lol)
*SiNgLe Or TaKeN?- *SinglE
*B-dAy MoNth- June
*SiBlInGs- a 19-year-old brother
*InTeReStS- dancing, singing, the phone, and chillen with Nicole and Kaileen lol
*LoOkS- reddish hair w/ blonde highlights, green eyes and im really short...
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E-mail: angelbabe72@mail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Grand Island, New York
Occupation: 8th Grade(lolol)
Age: 13
AIM: Raining Tears087
Member Since: August 17, 2004
Answers: 38
Last Update: August 27, 2004
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I'm trying to write a final paper but I'm having a helluva time concentrating. Anyone have tips on keeping focused (besides not looking at websites instead of working)? (link)
try disconnecting internet and im hookup while you write and try listening to instrumental music instead of music with words...it'll help you concentrate...hope it helps!


How do i overcome my shyness? Im like really shy around people i don’t know but once i get to know em im not what do i do? I don’t wanna be like this well at least this shy cuz people judge me. (link)
just try talking to new people...try talking to some people that you know are shy also...hope it helps!


I'm 15 years old & have been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's not a virgin and he's done sexual things with many girls. He told me he was ready to have sex whenever I was. I feel like I don't live up to his old girlfriends and that I'm such a good girl - being a virgin & unexperienced. I'm a little scared to have sex but when will I know I'm totally ready and mature enough to do it? Is it that wrong to not be sexually experienced at 15? (link)
NOTHING IS WRONG WITH BEING A VIRGIN! Jessica Simpson and alot of other people saved themselves until they were married...if he really likes you, he'll accept you for who you are...hope it helps!


Are the new colored ipods any different that the original ones? (like other than the color, like do they do anything else?) (link)
nope :)


I am really trying to cut down on the snacks for when school starts. Unfortunately, I work in an icecream shop... for about 5 hours at a time...ugh...any tips on how to stop myself from eating the icecream I crave? (link)
try eating ice: it cuts down cravings...or just bring an apple or a healthy snack to work...hope it helps!


i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
i rate good (link)
it depends how old you are...if you're old enough to understand the consequences and use protection! try planned parenthood...they have some good packets there! hope it helps!


my moms boyfriend molested me.. and im really scarred for life!! i told my mom about it.. but she thinks its fine and that it happens to alot of girls.. she doesnt understand how freaked out i was and AM! i think we should go to therapy but i dont no how that would help.. what should i do? (link)
talk to a teacher or an adult that you absolutely trust; like a school counselor or something like that...it DEFINATELY does NOT happen to lots of girls, and it is NOT fine! hope it helps!


when you ask a question but send it into a columists inbox can they see who asked the question?? (link)
nope! :-) it's completely, 100 % confidential...hope it helps!


who come ur sayin ur boyfriend is prude wen ur sayin ur gfoin to get ur first meaningful kiss?
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b/c i think he's going to chicken out :-/


do you think that it is weird that a 24 year old guy is dating a 16 yr old girl? i do but i need other opinions, the girl is my best friend and i dont like it. I need help on how i can be more open about the situation. please help!!! (link)
well...remember the old saying:"Age ain't nothin' but a number." if you really like her then it's fine...but if you don't like her then don't lead her on...hope it helps!


do u think ur boyfriend is prude
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lol...yes


would u get nervous if u were about to kiss that u really like
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yeah...i think i'm about to get my first meaningful kiss...and i really like the person alot...i'm really nervous...good luck!


how do u no wen the moment is rite to mAKE out wit ur girlfriend and how do u no if u screwed up or not?? (link)
ask her if you screwed up...she might not think you did...if it were me i would want to be surprised...i wouldn't want the moment to be planned...


wat should my girlfriend and i song be????
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i have no idea...something that fits your personalities or one that describes a time you had together...hope it helps!


mmy girlfriend thinks she will get me drunk and take advatage of me wat to u think she will do (link)
maybe she was joking...but she's not a good girlfriend if she tries to get you drunk if you don't want to...hope it helps!


if my girlfriend thnks im prude wen im not wat should i do (link)
well maybe you should show her you're not…


How can I keep my eyeshadow on all day? It's powder eyeshadow that I love but it always fades away during the day. I don't want to keep reapplying it. Any tips so my eyeshadow stays on longer? (link)
try using liquid eyeshadow…works for me!

hope it helps!


im in 8th grade and i havent got mi period yet. what time am i supposed to get it? (link)
it depends on when your mother and grandmother got it. the range is usually 9-17 years old…hope it helps!




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