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okay well i knew this kid since 2nd grade nd i had feelings for him but u no i never showed it but then in 5th grade i moved and i never saw,spoke or heard of him until 8th grade and now we talk alot and tonite he goes i had feelings for u.. but now its more cuz we got older and i guess he wants to hook up w. me.. but u no its been 3 years i havent seen him for 3 years and i might be movin bak to that town this year and he was supose to go to a private school for better education but now he knows that i might go and he might see me again and now he wants to go the public school just to see me yeah its sweet and its his decision.. nd i'd like to hook up w. me but there is jsut one problem when i moved i met a new kid that im in love w. i no i am but y am i fallin for this kid? i have more chance w. this kid but.. i dont know.. shud i give him a chance??
tnxs ill rate u high
I think you should give him a chance, if you two have had feelings for each other since 5th grade, unless you are going out with the new kid that you said you are in love with, otherwise don't break up with the new kid, because that really pisses guys off.
Good Luck - QBillion
hey im 15/f and i was at my really good friends jacobs hosue the other night (16/m) our families have been close forever, adns he is the sweetest best looking guy u will ever meet, although kinda cocky (in a cute way) sometimes. well we were alone at his house (nothing new, our parents dont think ne thing of it) adn he said something really sweet, and we kissed. after we just had dinner and were watchign tv, in alittle while he was telling me about when he went shopping wiht his friend and he got a free pair of hand cuffs, we joked aroun wiht them, untill he locked them to me adn to the leg of the table. we made a game out of it, adn we were kissing and playing around, before i knew it he was on top of me. i told him 2 times i didnt want to do that and to stop, but eventrally i just stopped adn actually enjoyed it. is this rape , please some one help me
This is rape. (Trust me I just learned all this in health class like a week ago) If he has sex with you without your consent without you saying "Yes, I want to have sex," it is RAPE. If you just smile and giggle a little and then he has sex with you, it is still rape, even if you enjoyed it and said no.
Good Luck - QBillion
my question is that i asked my bf if he looks @ porn he said yeah and he was being porn but like a couple of Months ago he said he only looked at it when he was single but before i was like wow he looks @ that and he said he loves me and shit?? what should i do?
Did you know that a study showed that 95% of males and 92% of females look at porn? Just saying... but he loves you and he looks at it to get pleasure on his own, theres nothing wrong with masturbation, I guess he could look at it a little less, but theres nothing you can do to stop it, unless you follow him 24/7 so he doesn't look at it, but he would probably get mad and break up with you.
Good Luck - QBillion
For the age and gender thing i'm 16/f
ok...theres this guy i like and he seems to like me but i think he's too shy to admit it...he smiles at me alot and i have been starting to notice him staring at me..but whenever someone asks him if he likes me he says something like i never said i do like her but i never said i don't like her...i have thought about just keep talking to him to see how it goes and try to show him i like him and wait for him to ask me out...or should i just straight out ask him out myself?
Well, if he is shy, I think you should ask him out. Maybe he is waiting for you to ask him out because he is too shy. It seems he really likes you, you two should go out it seems.
Good Luck - QBillion
im not sure if they really have this online.. but is there anyway that i can play DDR ( Dance Dance Revoloution ) online? and if so.. does anyone know a website i can go to to play it? thanks
Actually, no, you can't play it online, but there are programs out there that you download and where you download the steps for the songs and you have to find the music yourself. It is called StepMania, and to play you can play with the arrow keys or if you have a PS2 - Computer converter (You can order those online) you can play with your mat, and the converters usually cost $15-$20, and they aren't available in stores, only online. But if you want to play a game like DDR, you can go to flashflashrevolution.com where you play with the arrow keys instead.
Good Luck - QBillion
when should it be okay to have sex?
When you and your husband/wife love each other very much, or if you have known the person very well and know that they wont leave you if you get pregnant, when you are 100% sure that if you are not planning on a baby that you can take care of it and accept the responsibilities of a baby, and when you know that you can support the baby, and when you know that if you aren't wanting to have a baby still to use condoms and the pill.
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Ok well I like this guy, whose name is Frankie. Frankie is a total skater dude, and I’m well... kinda preppy. The only reason I’ve really talked to him is cause he sat by me in a couple of my classes. When I talked to him he was really nice.. and sweet. I finally realized I liked him. I really don’t know if he likes me because he's so different from guys I normally like.. And so different from me. Anyway we had this little inside joke thing where we always like wave to each other outside of this one class we have 2gether... and yea.. He always smiles and waves when he sees me and he is so nice. I mean from what I can tell I barely know him though... it really stinks. Yesterday he switched some classes and now I have no classes with him... I’m really upset. It ruint my whole day yesterday anyway.. I really want to talk to him and just get to know him better. But there are some problems... I’m pretty outgoing but I can be really shy around guys and stuff.... Frankie is totally different from me, and a skater dude... most of his friends totally hate me (mostly cuz I’m a little preppy, and smart).... And most of my friends don’t really know him (and I wont tell them who he is)... and I have no classes with him. He still waves to me though. I need advice on how to like talk to Frankie and like really have a conversation with him or just play around. I’m pretty creative, but with all the problems I dunno what 2 do.... And I’m just not very bold when it comes to guys... please help me find a way to talk to Frankie! (PS. in case it helps, I'm 13)
It seems like this guy likes you. Try to get him alone, maybe at lunch, and then start talking to him and things like that. Think of convorsation topics before you start talking, so you don't look stupid to him when you are saying completely weirdo things. Maybe if things go out with him, ask if he likes you, or tell him that you like him, and if you two know you like each other, ask him out. Who cares about if his friends don't like you, the point is you two like each other.
Good Luck - QBillion
hEy tHis oNes fOr tHe gUys~ is it a total turnoff when girls smoke?
For me, yeah, it is, and it's the same way for many guys, and it sure usually isn't a turn on.
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Well these past few days I've been seeing guys that are totally hot at school!! Which is crazy beacuse I thought all the hott guys graduated. Anyway, the guys are probably like juniors and seniors...I'm a sophmore and I really really want to meet some of these guys. But I dont know ANYTHING about them. Their random guys that I think are cute and when I get the chance I'll probably tell them they are.(I'm not shy) But usally they smile or laugh and say "Thanks" and then I end up leaving. Maybe its because I'm young, or because I'm ugly...I dont know! I need help. How do I get these guys to talk to me???
Maybe they are too nervous around you, or maybe they don't want a younger girl, to tell you the truth. But maybe you need to carry on more convorsations with them, because you said you usually end up leaving. Try to think of convorsation topics before you start talking to them, and the convorsation could last longer. Maybe you could invite them to sit with you, because you said you aren't shy.
Good Luck - QBillion
I really need to find out whats wrong with me. Im almost 17 and ive never had a bf or my first kiss. Not to sound conceited, but TONS of people talk about how "gorgeous" and "nice" I am. Some people WONT even beleive me when i tell them ive never had a bf. I always see these nasty, uglier, RUDE girls get ALL these guys. But ive never even had one. I guess maybe its cuz im shy around people i dont know, but if you talk to me im NOT. Ive became more outgoing and flirted with guys.. but i cant seem to find anyone im actually interested in. I just wanna know what it feels like to have a bf. (I dont just want one to have one.) I feel almost like im missing out on my teen years. Sometimes i even get depressed thinking im doing something wrong. Any advice?
Just to let you know, nothing is wrong with you. It could be something wrong with other people, actually. Maybe you are so pretty, guys are afraid to get rejected by you, even if you talk to them. Don't become a slut, desperate for human companionship, however, but just try talking to guys you like a little more, and who knows, maybe you might get a boyfriend. Sometimes you have to make the first move when it comes to kissing, because the guy might be a little afraid to make the first move. Many people have not kissed until they are 17 or older, and could be in the same situation as you are, so don't feel bad.
Good Luck - QBillion
Hey. I have a question, well more like I need some advice. Okay. There's this guy Brandon who I met about 2 months ago. Before we met, we talked on the phone and he always said he loved me and would do anything for me. Once we met, I didn't talk to him for about a month. About 2 weeks ago, he IMed me online and said he liked me and all this other crap. Then he got mad because I wouldn't cyber with him. A couple nights ago, he told my friend that he was really sorry and that he wanted to go out with me.
What should I do if he asks me?
It seems all this guy wants is someone to cyber with. If he became your boyfriend, he would probably break up with you for not cybering with him. All this guy seems to want is some online sex fantasy, and even if you did start going out, he might ask for real sex, and get even more angry if you said no.
Good Luck - QBillion
Hey there. I'm a girl, 14, and on the fat side.. lol. I'm not obese, but i am overweight (working on itt!!) And i've only ever had one boyfriend.. when i was in grade 6. People tell me i have a pretty face, but i think i'm just average. I'm also told i'm really sweet, and have an awesome personality.. but it just seems like guys don't look past my weight to get to know me and like me better. I have a lot of guy friends, but no boyfriends, you know? I get in a rut for soo long about not ever being in a relationship, and seeing all my friends with their boyfriends.. SO my question is mostly for the guys.. have you ever dated a fat girl? lol that sounds so rude, but it's the only way i can put it. And what is it that totally unattracts you to them? Why don't you take the time to look past their looks to see their true beauty. please helppp.
I haven't ever dated a bigger girl, although... I would, if I got to know a girl like that, because to me, I value inner personality, not what someone looks like... it isn't the end of the world if you aren't pretty, just keep being who you are if you have a good personality, and maybe, who knows. Maybe you could work on not being overweight, and you would be pretty on the inside, and out.
Good Luck - QBillion
what makes guys think that girls r sexy/hot
Hmmm... if you mean what do they think about a body... I'm not going to lie, but some guys like it when girls are barely wearing anything, or are wearing something skimpy so that they can get a quick hard-on when looking at the girl... but that usually gets you the title of a slut, so don't do that. Guys like it when girls have pretty, smooth, about a little longer than sholder length hair, a nice, clean acne-free face, pretty eyes, white teeth, nice and thin body... but that's only what some guys think are hot. Not only what they like about a girl. You could be the ugliest girl in the world, with the hottest guy in the world, or vice versa, because many people value personality, the ability to make you laugh, fun to be with, but some teenage guys only want sex, and a hot body, and think of women as things, however, that's only some guys, the ones you need to forget about.
Good Luck - QBillion
hey i was just wondering if there are any good waysz to loose wait fast . lol no starvinq lol or any other dangerous thinqs...plz reply thank you.
PS: i mean like a qood diet. or soemthinq qood to loose wait :)
Exercise 3-4 times a week, and eat healthy. Don't eat any foods that are fatty or have tons of sugar in them like McDonalds, or fast food, don't eat that. Have a good amount of fruits and vegetables daily.
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When I was 10, I got my first crush on this cute guy called Emmanuel (Mano for short). He was everything I dreamed of except he was 13 then. So now I'm 15 and he's 17 (turning 18 October 28) and he got this girl pregnant (which is now his girlfriend/potential future wife). But to be true I think he likes me because we're friends and we hang out a lot but one day we were hanging out by ourselves and he grabbed my sides and kissed me. I can't say I didn't like it because I did. What should I do? I don't want to him to leave his girlfriend with a baby by herself. But I really liked that kiss. What should I do?
Well... if he has a baby, I wouldn't advise dating him. Have feelings for him if you'd like... but put yourself in the other girl's life who had the baby, how would you feel if some other girl came into your baby's father's life? That baby would probably not know his/her true father for a long time if the mother broke up with the father before he/she is born... I'm only suggesting that you should forget about him, if he's cheating on someone he got pregnant. He could break up with her, get together with you, get you pregnant, and then leave you too... and then both of your lives are miserable.
Good Luck - QBillion
This girl likes me, and i like her, but she is not sure if she wants to go out with me, but it seems like we are still goin out and all, we kiss and hug and hang out like everyday, she says i dont have to wait for her, but i want to cause i think i like love her and shit
What should i do?
Tell her your feelings. Maybe she has the same, and is too shy to come out and say it. If things go well enough after that, try asking her out.
Good Luck - QBillion
okay i like this guy and i flirt wit him and he be flirtin wit me back, i really really like him and he knows this cuz my friends told him, so today and like 2 weeks ago..he was like oh do u like matt and i was like idk and he was like do u wanna go wit him and i was like naw and he was like do u wanna go wit me..and i didnt kno if he was jokin around or bein seirous so i didnt wanna feel stupid so i sed no..like not like mean or ne thing just like laughing bout it..so my question is wut should i do bout this i mean i would like to go wit him but i dont kno if he was like seirous..plz help..thanks
Talk to him, and see if he was serious. If he wasn't, just move on, I suppose, or try to get him to like you, if you still like him. Get him alone just you two without his friends so you don't risk getting embarassed. If he really was serious, tell him the truth. Tell him that you like him so that you were nervous if it was a joke.
Good Luck - QBillion
Okay, well, I've grown up with 2 brothers. I like video games, mmorpgs, and anime. I like rock and alternative music. I have a pirate fetish. I tend to be a pervert. I'm a virgin. I've been told I'm hot, but I can't judge my own appearance, don't know if it was friends trying to be nice or not, I'm not ugly though. I like strange guys. I like older guys (not limited to older, but more mature anyway, some older guys just want to fuck and I don't want those types). I need an intellectual connection. I would like a hot boyfriend, but if I had a strong mental connection appearance wouldn't matter too much.
I can give additional info. just ask ^_^
-Farren
P.S. Thanks for your opinions!
I think you are pretty cool, actually. I'm sure that guys would love your personality. If you want a hot boyfriend, maybe try talking to the ones who attract you a little more. Make a convorsation with them, not just "Hi". Some guys are into video games and anime and stuff like that, I know I am haha.
Well,
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ok im not allowed to have a date for homecoming but alot of guys tell me im hott and are like i cant believe u have date and all these guys all ways start at me wut is wrong are they afraid im gunna say no or wut? thanks i rate!
Well I guess if they say you are hot... and if you really are, they might be afraid to ask you to Homecomming. I know I would be afraid to ask a hot girl to Homecomming, Lol.
Good Luck - QBillion
14/f One of my friends is really starting to annoy me. It's not anything in particular that she does that gets on my nerves, it's just about everything she does. Some stupid/odd/quirky things she does that I used to like about her just annoy me. She's one of my best friends and I don't want to lose her. How can I stop being annoyed with her? I really don't want to be.
You should talk to your friend calmly about the problem. Say to her that she has been kind of annoying you and maybe tell her to calm down, and try not to be annoying.
Good Luck - QBillion