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I'm getting mysterious love notes.
On Monday I found one in my locker that says that "this boy" lovesme sosososososososo much. He also said that he's in two of my classes.

Then today (Thursday)I found another one in my locker. It said I was the most special, cutest, and sweetest person in the world. He said his love burns for me like the white hot embers of the sun.

What should I do about this?
I know all the boys that are in two of my classes, and I know none of them are guys that I'll never want to go out with. How do I handle this?

Well, it could be a joke, or it truely could be someone who has a crush on you. You could just ignore it, and wait until he reveals himself, or secretly watch your locker and see who's doing it. If you hear them talking and snickering and sounding like its just a joke, confront them and ask them to stop, but if things keep happening you can confront the principal about it.
Good Luck - QBillion

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How many hours of sleep should a 14 year old girl get each night?
Thanks--

About 7-9 hours per night.
Good Luck - QBillion

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I like 2 people a LOT!! One of them has a girlfriend, and the other one is my good friend. We're not BEST friends, but we talk a lot. I know that the first one is kind of out of my reach right now.. so I want to go for the second one! How do I get the second one to notice me as more than a friend?
-*I'll rate, thanks!*-

Tell the one that is your good friend that you have feelings for him. Maybe flirt with him a little more. If things go well, ask him out.
Good Luck - QBillion

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Hey I just found out that my new boyfriend was cheating on me with another gurl, Im crushed!
But last night after I broke up with him He called me alomst 6 times before I answered it.
well he said he wanted to met me on the cornor of my road well I went but he didn't show until 12:12am, Then he wanted to make out I didn't and I left Did I do the right thing?

Hell yeah you did! If he cheats on you and then arrives late, asking for you to make out, then he doesnt deserve a second of your time!
Good Luck - QBillion

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im 5'4 n i weigh 90 and my friends and family are always telling me that i look like im loosing weight but i think im fat! i havent eaten anything in like 5 days and i feel really sick. what should i do???
xox rica

Your 90 and you think your fat. No. You are not fat. YOUR NOT FAT. What should you do??? EAT!? You may start anorexia and that means that if you get skinny enough YOU WILL DIE! EAT, DRINK!
Good Luck - QBillion

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Hey, a couple months ago me and my boyfriend got caught having sex. I'm 15 years old and my parents were not too happy with me. They had no idea that I was sexually active before. They grounded me and told me that I could never see my boyfriend again, but I talked them into letting me stay with him, thats all taken care of but how can I gain their trust back? please help..

It must have sucked to be caught doing something like that. Anyways, try regaining their trust by doing extra chores, be back when you go out at the time you say you will be back, do ALL of your homework, clean the house, do things such as those.
Good Luck - QBillion

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I'm 15 n me n my boyfriend are in love, we've been together for a long time n we have been through everything together. We feel like we're ready to have a baby i just dont kno what people would think n stuff, if we feel liek we're ready should we proceed with it or not? helppp..

15, and your deciding on a baby.
No, no, no, no.
That's what I have to say for a few reasons. You are waaay too young to be thinking about a baby. You should wait until you two are married and you are sure he is the right one. At least wait about 4-5 more years!! Enjoy high school! If you get a baby, your parents will be PISSED I'm sure, and on top of that, you will be overloaded from homework and the baby! It may have mental diseases from being born from a teenage mother and stuff. Just believe me, you are not ready to have a baby.
Good Luck - QBillion

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Okay I am 14 years old and going out with a guy that is 16. we love eachother to death but then i started talking to this other guy and he is really cool too. we have a lot of similarities and i sorta think i could start liking him. what should i do? i love my bf so much i dont wanna like another guy.

Go out with both of them, because nothing could ever go wrong in that scenario. Lol, jk. Don't. Guys hate it when girls do that to them. Answer these questions before you break up with him.
Would he ever want you back if the guy became a complete jerk?
Who has been there longer for you?
Think about things like that before you dump him and run off with a new bf.
Good Luck - QBillion

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Hey thanks but if I go out with one of them and their both relly funny and nice how do I chosse???
Oh and Hows California??

Choose the guy who you knew first. That's what I would've done with two girls. And Cali is great.
Good Luck - QBillion

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Okay so I just back from camp rioght, well i have aboyfriend and I really do like this boy I met and He likes me , What should I do???
PLZ help

Think about it - Who have you known longer and loved more?? Who has been there for you? Who is nicer and funnier? Ask yourself these questions before you dump your boyfriend.
Good Luck - QBillion

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I'm a 14 yr old girl who wants to get slimmer , shaplier legs ... Is it true that dancing helps ? If so , what kind of moves do you suggest ?
If not , please help tell me of some other excercises which mgiht help !
Thanks ..

Dancing does help. Play Dance Dance Revolution. It's fun.
Good Luck - QBillion

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Hi. I am obsessed with anime and manga. Is there any way to turn myself into an anime character and jump into an anime?

I like anime, but not like that. And no, there isn't a way to turn yourself into an anime character... unless you draw yourself and create an anime with you in it.... I guess thats kinda turning yourself into an anime character.
Good Luck - QBillion

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Hi
I really dont know if Im inlove with this person but every day and night I cant stop thinking about him, he never met me before, but I really always thinking about him this gut is an actor. I know your thinking that this is just crush because his famous and popular because he really is a popular actor. I dont know but when im thinking about him I always think of a lot of good things like we will live happy and I will always protect him..and take care of him I know it's crazy but that's how I feel. im 13 years old and Im a girl... I think that I should forget about him but I know that it's not gonna hapen because his always in my heart...
If there's just something or someway that could help me forget about him I will do even though it's painful but I need to try..
I hope you can help me.
thank you...

Forget about him. He is famous. Even if he did meet you, he probably has a girlfriend. Try to focus on the guys at your school. People you meet and like.
Good Luck - QBillion

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One of my mates since she turned 12 has been in too much of a rush to grow up. She won't go to see any PG or U films she said "Im to old for them and im 12 now i don't want to see baby films *SHE WOULDN'T GO AND SEE FINDING NEMO*" It is starting to get on everones nerves. We are all wanting to have a laugh but she takes things to seriously. We have tried talking to her but she won't listen. At christmas i asked her what she got and she said that she doesn't really care about the presents she is mainly trying to help her little brothers out. I know that your suppoesed to do that but this year she will be 13 and a teenager so why can't she just live a little cause this will be her last year as a kid. You only get 1 chance of a childhood why not take it while u can.
Can anyone give us some advise.

Sounds like she's trying to be preppy....

If you want to see PG or G movies, go without her with a bunch of your friends. She should get jealous and hopefully stop.
Good Luck - QBillion

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What do the smiley faces mean ?like some are smiling and others are frowning.

:) = Good Question
:( = Bad Question
:| = O.K. Question
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If you have had cyber sex does that mean you have lost your virginity?

No. Cyber sex isn't real sex, meaning you couldn't have lost it.
Good Luck - QBillion

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OK i can't choose what to do. My boyfriend and I broke up over 6 months ago. But him and I been through so much and went out for over a year. Him and I broke up because he jsut put me through so much. He broke into my house. But my family forgave him because of the family problems he was having. His mother treated him really bad. My mom thinks he treated me wrong sometimes because he loved me and he dind't know how to show me becuase he wasn't taught how to love. I thought i ws over him but i think about him all the time. And he had my bestfirend tell me he said hi. But the last time we broke up he had the nerve to call me and ask me how he should ask otu this girl. I told him to never calle dback. he did and he told me to just listen to him. he dind't understand y i got so mad. DUh i told him. Because i was the one for you and you all of a sudden thinks its going to be ok for you to ask me how to ask a girl for you. And then later he called to tell me he had sex wit her and then after that i never talked to him again. I can't get him out of my mind. I know he is the one. But i don't know if i shouldc all him or just let it be and stop thinking what it could or should have been. PLEASE someome help. Love, Sierra Email me at SDRAngel2002@aol.com NO POST THANKS

This guy sounds like he could be abusive. He sounds dangerous, forget him. If he broke into your house and he's sleeping with other women, you shouldn't always be thinking about him.
Good Luck - QBillion

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im just wondering. if you ask a question on advicenators, does the person reading or answering you question know the user name i am on?

Nope.
Good Luck - QBillion

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is there any way to get rid of freckles?

Doubt it. Maybe plastic surgery? I really don't know.
Good Luck - QBillion

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how can u tell if u hav deeper feelins 4 ur close friend and he may hav the same feelings as he flirts with u and says ur attractive etc.....

Usually if a guy flirts with you and/or calls you attractive, most of the time he has deeper feelings than just friends.
Good Luck - QBillion

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