ok im 12 and i have a 36c cup and my breasts hang down real low(not like an old ladies though) and sumtimes i have lumps that r felt from the inside...do i have breast cancer???? and is the hanging a sign????? im so scared....help!
look you should go get checked out by a doctor person .. and u can also tell if like ur family members have had it .. its probably not it thou but i hope helped :)
- Mandee
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whenever i sing or act in a large group of ppl i dont, i get so scared i wanna cry. how do i get over being scared?
imagine them in the underpants! nahh.. im j.j, tell urself that ur alone in an empty adoturium and, y0u'll break a leg!!
h0pe i heLped
:D
xox ManDa
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okay well im not bi but like i've thought bout it n like.. i look at my friends as if i like them n u know wanna make out with them.. does that make me bi? I rate high please help?
im gunna be totally honest with y0u cause this is advice , hunn im not gunna lie !! maybe.. your a lesbian? im sry but i wuld think that plenty of lesbians go out with guys and then when they get old enought they relize that there not itersed in that type, its confusing i kno, but or even u jus wanna for fun, i dunt think ur bi but there is a possiblity that ur a lesbian, admit it now or u'll never be able too.
:D i try to be honest and help :/
xox ManDa
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OKay i really like this guy .. i mean like i love him n he loves me..! I just got out of this whole real love relationship n i truely loved him but i got hurt a bunch of times within that relatinship so he dumped me! Then this guy i like was going out with my best friend so my best friend dumped him n went out with my ex i was talking bout.. so now i like her ex! [[i know its confusing but try to help]] but see i dont wanna go out with him n hurt her like she hurt me.. but i like him alot! WHAT DO I DO! I RATE HIGH!
u should tell ur fryend that she stole ur ex-man so ask if u can do the same to her im sure she'll understand! :D and if u have her approval then go for it! dont stoop to her level be a better fryend then that
xox ManDa
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okay - i know HOW to lose weight but i have no willpower and a major sweet tooth lol ne advice on how to stop snacking??
y0u can styll snack , jus workout more, tighten those abs - crunches are the #1 thing i do everyday , jus to keep up with the same weight, and instead of eat as many calories that u burn, burn as many calories that u eat!
xox ManDa
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Okk I have really small boobs, and i just wanna know what kinda things to wear to distract people **guys** from that.. i mean im comfortable in my body but all my friends have like Huge boobs..soo what do i do?? help!! i rate high!!
heres a tip if u walk down a hallway w/ a friend that has big boobs then urs r gunna look small, so try to avoid that :/ wear a padded bra , and dont tell anyone (rumors ) and dont seem unsure, cause ur boobs are only as big as u want them to be! lol well good luck
:D
xox ManDa
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does anyone have any good makeup tips?
heyy , my fave l0ok is the ' natural look ' lol i think guys go for slutty girls, i wuldnt consider myself a slut thou. you suld get XX mascara ( the new kind by mabaline New York) and apply the base coat (the white side) 2x , and after let that dry for about 30 secondsz and the black side of the bottle apply 3 times. then u should find a suddle pink ( lite pink , peach) eyeshadow ! um lipgloss is easy just get anything normal , like bonnie bell , or smackers
u will h0pefully look great!!
xox ManDa
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hey uhm i asked you a question about my weight like is it muscle or not .. well you can delete that one cuz it was a stupid question thanks i know that its all muscle anywayz cuz i play soccer so uhm yea thanks discard my other question pleasee thanksss
uhh .. sure :D
xox ManDa
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hey i heard your a good advice giver so maybe you can answer my question -- okay im not overweight but im not skinny .. and i play sports so i wanted to know if i need to do something about my weight or is it just all my muscle from sports? please help
heyy, hunn i have that too its probably half and half :D if you dont believe me then exercise , like crunches or situps!
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I might be suicidal. i dont know but i do think about killling myself a lot
so i guess i am... so someone help... and actually help!
REPEAT 5 TIMES EVERY 30MINUTES! killing your self is NEVER the answer never!!!!! never! if u kill urself it will despress anyone who loves u
for a long time .. suicdal is bad but u can overcome it try doing what i said!!
xox ManDa
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my best friend is having her sweet 16 on september 4th. my question is, does anyone know any good sites online to shop at? like girly stores. thanks.
heyy hunn w0w y0ur a good fryend it seems , you should get her, maybe an outfit and go to hollister, american eagle, or aeropastale?
and after u get that , get a camera to take pics at the sweet 16 ( i always do that at partys ;])
lol and make a day for just you too to go to a spa, or an amuesment park OR even a day at the mall sorta thing and definatly treat her to anything her lil heart desires!!
xox ManDa
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i just found out that one of my best friends has been telling people that i was pregnant and had a miscarriage before, it really hurt when i found out, especially when i found out that this was why my boyfriend broke up with me, i want to tell her how i feel but i have no clue what to say, any ides on what i should do?
well if y0ur friend really is a friend then she would not spread rumors as such , i hate ppl like that (no offense to ur fryend) they just want to be the center of attention and want to be the ones asked for the latest 'gossip' and u should confront her and say, who told u that i was pregant , and also say that u dont want a friend that would start spreading around info that wasnt true , and tell her to taLk to y0ur b0yfryend and tell him it isnt tru, cuz that was wrong that she told him and he should forgive u and hopefully that rumor and lie will become old news :D good lucK !
xox ManDa
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During school i've liked this guy and he liked me back. The thing is we never talked before and we had a messenger. Later on we didnt really like eachother because everyone was talking about us and it was too much pressure. We never went out and im over him. Will my feelings comeback when i see his face the first day of school? And what if hes in a class with me? What should i do?
Love confused,
you no what? i liked a guy last year i sed i hated him but i really did like him, its weird i kno but its only hormones hunn so dont worry, you'll get over it unless u want to like him , ur body language will let u no, because otherwise i have no advice for u cause its ur actions u should pay attention too!
xox ManDa
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Hey theres this girl that i used to be really good friends with and we got a in a fight for the longest time and we just became friends again but i dont really like her anymore and i dont want to hurt her feelings by being mean to her have you been in this situation before? What should i do?
wellz, telin her the truth is the best wAy to go, honesty is the best policy! lol j.k i've never been in that situation cuz if i was mad at someone for a long time nothing wuld make me wanna be fryends wit them again l0l! i hope i helped ask another if u wish!
xox ManDa
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Hey i heard u are a good columnist so im asking you when other people tell me they just went to the mall or something and bought all this really cool stuff i pretend to feel happy for them but as i get older it gets harder for me to keep my feelings inside and i dont know what to do should i feel so jealous just because i dont have everything other people have i know its a bad habit what should i do?
I was on this diet and exercise thing where i only ate a small packet of sauce for lunch breakfast and dinner and i was doing fine on it then i stopped for the weekend for a break and i just kept eating and ever since i cant get back on the diet but i still do the exercise but i only lost 2 or 3 pounds. What should i do to keep myself away from all this unhealthy junk?!
SIgned i wish i had control of myself!
uhm THATS SUPER WEIRD i mean y wuld u feel jealous , ??????? theres really no way to answer that because its ur actions and u need to over power them hunn!! who would let them selves eat packets of sauce for every meal!? thats wrong, im not trying to put u down but ur body needs variety of foods for the rite balance of acids and bases and u culd get sick, lol if u get stressed out bout losing weight then u wont, cause simple stress leads to weight gain! so dont feel so stress , cause u seem like u are ,
sry im a little stuffy / sick but if i didnt give u enough help then ask more! and if u are fat then the older u get the harder it is to lose weight!!
xox ManDa
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hey im about to go babysit, i figured i'd put on a movie for the little girl , shes really cute, i've babysitted before, the only thing is that she doesnt really listen, what should i do??
you should show her whos boss ( dont beat her) just tell her that ur in charge and that if she misbehaves u'll tell her parents, say it nicely so she doesnt cry
xox ManDa
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HEy manada i love u soo much!!! lol ur my bff!!!! hey i got my scholl pics bak i have to show u them!!!
xoxox,
Michelle (hahahah)
HEYY!! l0l ILUSFM!! the school pictures! 0mg i wana see them soo badly!
xox ManDa
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this fat girl again thankyou soo much i will try to keep a balance diet!! but it will be hard to do!! i have a treadmill i can run on that too!! thank you soo much!!
anytime :D remember IM me too talk :} tr0pical x0 kiwi , im online n0w ! : )
xox ManDa
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dear Paradise88,
im rele fat and i need to loose weight! and everyone always calls me fat and even my parents are always telling me im fat and their friends are telling them that too!!! im 13 and i weigh 140lbs!! im bigger then my sister and shes 16!! i rele want to be skinny b4 scholl starts!! can u help?
signed
Fat girl
hey, its ok, ur parents are doing the right thing by tellin u that, cuz there tellin the truth!! wuld u rather them lie and say u look like a toothpick?? anywayz i have sum suggestinz , 1st off u culd only eat 3 times a day ( NO EXCEPTIONS ) lol : ], and balance out ur diet bedda, work with the food groups, and run outside or ona treadmille, for like 20 minutes a day, thats what i do for field hockey drills!! ohh yea and when school starts join a school team :D -people think ur atheltic- and -they think the "fat" is just muscle! IM me ( tr0pical x0 kiwi and tell me ur height and i culd tell u if ur just exagerating (s.p) get back to me and plz rate!!
xox ManDa
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theres this girl at school and she is always making fun of me....and i fight bak but she turns everyone against me!!!
plz help
signed,
anyone
the girl whos making fun of you is relle gay if she turns everyone against you, first off is there any reason y she makes fun of u? uhm u shuld definatly fight back still, n if anyone turns against u then they werent even real friends w/ u at all u kno? only ur tru friends wuldn't go against u! the girl, she just wants to hurt ur feelings cause shes a bully, and if u show any lack of sadness, or ur feelings look hurt, she just do it more cause she'll think ur weak, so definatly dont back down ! : ] IM me at tr0pical x0 kiwi and ill give u sum good comebacks! update me and pleas rate!! :D
xox ManDa
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