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Hey!

I'm Jacky. =]

I used to have a pic of me up but now I don't because that one was really old but I'll be getting a new one soon.

I was born in Augsburg, Germany although I've lived in many other places because my dad was in the army and right now I am currently living in Rochester, Minnesota.

I hate the weather here.

I wish I could move back to Germany because I love it there. All my relatives live there.

I'm sane here because I have my friends and family.

I'm pretty optimistic most of the time unless someone gets on my really bad side and I try to be positive. It's hard sometimes.

I love to give people advice. I'm pretty good at that.

I play soccer and tennis. I'm pretty athletic and I love to dance. I used to be in precision. I also love to sing.

I'm pretty outgoing even around strangers but that's nothing new. Haha.

If you want to get to know me more just IM me on aim or something or if you need advice just ask anytime because I'm on daily.

Thanks lots!
Jacky.

advice

I recently got almost 9 inches
cut off of my hair and it is not
sitting right on my shoulders.
My problem is I have an oval-long
face, so this cut isn't flattering.
[It had to be done because of damage]

Do you have any sites or tips
on how to style my newly short hair?
I'm used to long and curly, but curly
doesn't look good this short.
(I also straighten it)

You should try using hair clips and twist your hair and put bobby pins in your hair.
It would look really cute.
Also you could crimp it or use a curling iron and make it flip out.
That always looks really good.
You could also have your hair in a half pony or something.
Or maybe you should just put curls on the top and then leave in straight behind your hair.

Hope I helped! =]
♥ Jacky

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Okay well I gained weight. I want to loose like 20 pounds. I feel horrible abut the way I look and how clothes fit on me. I love clothes but I hate the way they look on me. I've been eating better. Also, I'm starting to do 100 crunches a night, increasing by 50 each day. At this rate, how much weight will I loose in like 1-2 monthes? Any other simple workout techniques/tips? I'm really stressed and desperate!

I know exactly how you feel because I had been in the same sitation recently.
I love clothes and I just think about, 'Oh wow my body is so disgusting, I can't wear that.'
But what I started to do were these Billy Blanks work out tapes.
They are incredible.
They work really good and you feel much better after you do them for a while.
I guarantee you it will make a difference.
It might help you lose some weight in 1-2 months but I'm not exactly sure how much.
Oh also you should do a lot of stretches, it helps you get flexible too.

Hope I helped! =]
♥ Jacky

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Okay. For the last 3 days I've been trying to download iTunes. Heres what it did/does;

It got to around 40% after a few hours then said that it was complete and asked me if I wanted to Run or Not Run. I clicked Run. The a little pop-up box came up that says its not a valid Win32 Application.

What does that mean? How can I fix it?


I have dial-up if that matters. Thanks a lot!

I'm not 100% sure but I think it's because you don't have windows XP.
But I don't know.
You should find out.

I hope I helped.
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I got the Sims 2 Pets for Christmas.It's the one for Nintendo DS, not for the computer.
I bought the $20,000 house. It looked like it was 2 stories, but when it was built, it was only 1. Is there some way to access the 2nd story or is their not one?

Well if it shows that there isn't a 2nd story then you should just build your own..
I'm sorry that there wasn't a 2nd story.
But you should just build one.

I hope I helped.
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Oh lol I'm sorry.
If you need any advice with anything just ask me.

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14/f
This is a lame question. Buuut.
Okay for a long time my boyfriend and I have done stuff like fingering and that but he's gone away to Europe for 2 months. I keep getting sexual urges.
Okay. sooo. what are the best ways of masturbating. like if you dont have a vibrator. just wondering.
thankies.

OMFG use the shower head!
Lmao..
That's what I used and omg it feels so great, trust me.

Hope I helped. =]

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is there any program that can remove red-eye in pictures? i use adobe photo album, and they have red-eye removal, but it doesn't always work. in fact, it barely works. and i have pictures that all have red-eyes, so i really need a program to remove them. thanks much!

Yes there is.
I use Arcsoft Photostudio 5.5.
It works great, I think if you google it you'll be able to find the site to download.

Hope I helped. =]
Jacky.

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so there is this one boy
i like alotalotalot.
ive never met him before, he lives about an hour away
and we talk online everyday and on the phone once in awhile
and he tells me he loves me so much and he calls me gorgeous and hes like perfect..
until right now.
i just found out he asked his best friend out because hse just got out of a relationship and now theve been going ofr like an hour
and im like heartbroken.
i dont know what to do
but i just hope it doesnt last
cause i love him alot and im like crying!
what should i say to him
or do?
i dont wanna be mean tho.. but its his fault he told me he loves me so much and then go out with his bestfirned.
any help?!

Haha you met him online?
Hm well that's not exactly the best place to meet someone to get into a relationship..
I know how you feel.
I've done it before and but you're not really in love with that person.
Since it's long distance it's gonna be really stressful and hard even though you feel like you really love that person..
You should pretty much move on because there are many guys out there for you in this world.
You don't need an online guy.
They're a waste of time, trust me.
You'll be better off if you just forget about him.
I'm sure everything will go fine for you.

I hope I helped. =]
Jacky.

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when you give a guy a handjob do you usually use some sort of lubricant or can you give him one with out it?

also, when a guy cums do you clean it up aftre or during?

Unless you know he doesn't have a disease then you don't have to use a lubricant..
But to be cautious you should really use one.
Anything could happen.

Hope I helped.
♥ Jacky

I doesn't matter.

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I like this boy alot we are so cute together everyone says i saound go out with him but the problem is he is 18 and i am only 15 wat should i do not go out with him cuz of his age or go out with him n forget all the age stuff
Please help me

Haha wow I have the same situation here.
I'm 14 and my bf is 17 and we're still going out..
I think it'd be perfectly fine if you 2 were going out just as long as no one finds out you are having sex or something.
It's perfectly normal.
No one cares if we're going out, we even hug and stuff in the halls, I don't think people should care.

I hope I helped.
♥ Jacky

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Okay there is this guy who's a foreign excahnge student from Germany and he is so cute. He's in my math class and gym class. The problem is that I sit sort of far from him and in gym, he's in the advanced level gym class so there is rarely a time when I do have the chance to talk to him. I'm also a freshmen and he's older than me but I don't know how much older.

How can I stike up a conversation with him? In math or gym. I don't know what to do. I have never talked to him before and I dont know how to talk to him

Any suggestions?

Well just be casual..
Just come up to him sometime and be like hey, what's up?
It's pretty simple and I'm sure you'll do fine.
That is so awesome that you have a German foreign exchange student.
I am from Germany.
But just talk to him casual and then start asking him what his interests are.

I hope I helped.
♥ Jacky

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a couple of days ago I was fooling around with my boyfriend and he was fingering me really hard and right after that we had dry sex (just with the underwear) when I came home I noticed that there was blood on my underwear so I realized I popped my cherry, but right now I'm still feeling discomfort and I'm kinda concerned if something went wrong and I might be pregnant. Is that possible? or is this all completely normal?

Well since you had your underwear and he had absolutely nothing on it could be possible..
But doubtfull.
Nothing bad is really gonna happen to you.
If you want to get yourself checked out you should make an appointment at the hospital or something..
Otherwise I think you're fine and that is normal.
I've been in the same situation as you but I didn't pop my cherry, yet.
You're lucky.
Haha.

Hope I helped.
♥ Jacky

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do ipod nanos come with chargers? or do u have to buy them separate?
xoxo

Yeah it does come with a charger.
I'd know because my sister just got one and you have to charge it on your computer.

Hope I helped.
♥ Jacky

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my female roommate in an all girls group home raped me, well idk if she really raped me. at first she did then i really liked it. what should i do. be mad or happy to have finally gotten laid.

If you liked it then it's not rape.
So I don't really think it was rape.
You should just feel laid back about it..
Maybe you like her or something?
I'm pretty sure everything will be fine though.

I hope I helped. =]
♥ Jacky

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OKay there is this song its pretty old but i dont knwo what its called it goes

Im blue *if i was green i would die ,if i was green i would die *


*=thats what it sounds like they say

please tell me the name and the band?!?!?!

Blue da ba dee daba dye.
It's called I'm blue.
And it's by Eiffel 61.


I hope I helped. =]
♥ Jacky

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Okay, so I read a question about a girls boyfriend wanted her to give him a lap dance, which got me thinking...

I wanna give my boyfriend a lapdance.
I just have no idea what to do..
Can someone please give a step-by-step on how to give a sexy lapdance? Thanks.

Alright first of all you can't have steps to giving a lap dance.
You have to just do it on your own and start by sitting on his lap and rubbing around..
Just mostly moving your body.
I'm sure he'll enjoy it and you can do more from there and maybe he'll ask you to give more.

I hope I helped. =]
♥ Jacky

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14/F

please help! okay so 2 nights ago i masturbated for the second time and again felt absolutley nothing. i mean i felt it but it didnt feel good or bad it didnt feel like anything. i stuck my finger up there and nothing happened. whats wrong with me!!

my way of masturbating really taht feels good is making a fist and doing a hitting pounding motion on my bladder lower area. it feels really good.

whats wrong with me. any ideas why i cant feel anything and why the "hitting pounding" feels good!!!!!

Well you're probably not finding your position of masturbating.
Your clitoris is right above your vagina.
So you should rub in and out of your vagina and then go out and move around your clitoris.
That's usually the way you're supposed to do it.
But it's different for everyone.
If you do it more often you'll find the position you like best.
I'm sure everything will work out for you.

I hope I helped.
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13/f

okay.. its almost been a month since me & my boyfriend has been going out.. and my sister & my boyfriends older sister's boyfriend told me to be careful, because he can do some things, and that they don't want me to be getting hurt. and they think that he's not right for me. so what happened was that.. once and a while.. he asks me these weird questions like "do you even want to be with me?" and im like "yess.. if i didn't wouldn't i broken up with you already?" and he was like "ohh i knew that.." .. 2 days ago. out of nowhere he said "i miss holly" (my friend.. but not so close anymore cause drama). and im said "...." and he says "shes my friend." and im like "yeahh i know." >.< and tonight. i was talking to his older sister, shes my friend also.. and she told me that she saved one of their conversations on aim onto notepad, so she can read it later.. and he was telling holly that he wanted to break up with me but he didn't know how to. and she was calling him "babes" and stuff and he said "iono hun" . and then his sister was like "why do you wanna break up with mary? and how do you not know how to do it? you broke up with linh.. how many times?" and he said "no.." and he started cussing her out. and i she also said that holly told him that i liked some other guy.. WHICH I DONT. i did like a long time ago.. but that was BEFORE i went out with him. it was also weird.. because she aimed me up today and said "neil wants to break up with you." and i said "O.o" and she said "jk."

SOMEBODY PLEASE HELLP ME.

Wow um..
If this is happening, you should confront him about it.
People like to TALK.
So don't let peoples talking get in the way of your relationship.
Most of what your hearing is probably not totally true.
So you should ask him about it and if he's your bf I'm sure you can trust what he's gonna tell you.
I'm sure everything will work out fine.

I hope I helped.
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I recently posted a question about:My friend is Pregnant and I have feelings for her??? If i tell her can it damage the relationship or should i just take a chance and tell her? She is a really nice person and I don't want her to get the wrong ideas. Like i am helping her only for a relationship. I am nervous but I feel she has a right to know.

You should definetly tell her.
But you should tell her when you think the moment is right..
Because you don't want her to get the wrong idea or something.
But you should go for it.
Maybe she'll feel the same way?
I'm sure it will all work out.

I hope I helped.
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13/f

me and my bestfriends has been friends for a long time ! i would totally be a different person without her.. but for some odd reason.. she stopped talking to me, and i aimed her after i called her cause she didn't pick up.. and she never answered on aim. she was typing.. but she didn't enter anything, she js backspaced and didn't say anything.. then my older sister got mad and aimed her up saying why is she ignoring me and stuff.. but i told my sister that shes gonna get more mad.. so she said "don't tell mary that im aiming you, she doesn't know." and etc. finally when i commented her myspace.. i told her i was sorry for whatever i did that i got her mad at me.. and she put "............" and i said "are you mad?" and she said "should'nt you know if im mad or not?" and i said "okay, your mad.. can we talk about it?" and she said "i don't know HOW to talk about it." and i said "tell me what happened?" and she said she doesn't really wanna talk about it right now. idk what to do.. i didn't talk bad about her.. she treats me so well.. theres nothing bad to talk about.

my friend says that i should js give her some time and ask her again later.. and i told her when shes ready to talk about it.. aim me.. but she hasn't yet..

SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE !

It's alright, I've been in the same situation.
Maybe she's sensitive?
Maybe you did something to her that you don't remember doing that you didn't think was that important.
But if she's gonna be acting like this..
Your friend is right.
You should just give her some time and ask her again later or wait until she comes to you.
I'm sure everything will be perfectly fine between you two in no time.

I hope I helped.
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so theres this boy.... i havent met him but all my friends are friends w/ him. just to start outt hes a player and every girl wants him. i just finally got over this one guy and then me and the playerr started talking on myspace then aim and now we like always talk on aim and text like every day.. he started out flirting w/ me like he does w/ like every other girl but then after a while he started implying that he thinks that we'll probably end up going out... which he doesnt do to every other girl.. well we've been trying to make plans for a while now but i keep fucking things upp and i fucked things up for the like 6th time and now hes mad at me.. he wont answer my texts.. i dunno what to do. help me out.

Instead of texting, IMing, and talking on myspace, you should make plans talking face to face..
That'd make it a lot easier.
And ask your parents if you can hang out that day to see if you can.
Because if you keep telling him yeah I can hang out that day and then say you can't..
He's definetly not gonna be waiting much longer.
So just talk to each other face to face.

I hope I helped.
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