ok...my name is Jessica im 15 years old and i am a very caring but outspoken person!!I love to help people with their problems...Im not saying im the best person to go to for advice but you can try it and ill tell you how i feel and what i would do if i was you and i will help you the best way i can...i have alot of problems in my life right now to so be on the look out for questions from me!! Love ya guyz!! *Jess*
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OK,i have a guy friend named Klint he is 16 right and we were friends until we started liking eachother.....we went out and i cheated on him he broke up wit me and we decided to jus be friends,but after that we started hangin out right well...this is the part that confuzez me...when i'm wit him hangin out he alwayz wants to be all over me lik kissy,kissy and huggy,huggy, i alwayz ask why he is lik this and i tell him were jus friends but he ignores it.another part that confuzez me is that we broke up and r friends but he still treats me lik his gurlfriend.... and i don't want that plz i need advice!!Thnx!
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ok i know exactly how you feel i had the same exact ting going on with my ex...he still tries to be that way but i finally sat him down and told him that i didnt want him hangin all over me because i wanted to be jus his friend nothin more and it was hard but you have to do it or it will never get better...he may feel weird around you for a while but things should get better...hope this helps
your friend,
Jessica
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hey i have a boyfriend and he cheated on me 4 time i been with him for like a year and a half but i love him to death and the poeple he cheated on me with was my best friends and they dont talk to me anymore and yea they write whore and slut on my locker in school and they wanna jump me cause i am mad at them cause i though they were my friends but they are not anymore now they are getiing all my other friend not to like me and i think that is not good cause now i walk through school with no one to talk to i just wanna leave this LIBERTY HIGH SCHOOL... it sucks....PLEASE HELP ME WHAT SHOULD I DO.. (link)
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ok i hate to say this but your boyfriend doesnt care to much about you if he cheated on you 4 times especially with your friends!!Thats crazy if i was you i would get rid of the boyfriend i know its goin to be hard but he has done u so wrong and then i would make new friends and hopefully they'll stick by you and help u out some...hope this helped
your friend,
Jess
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my bestfriend and i have been friends for 2 years.well recently at school she ignores me or if l try talking to her she talks to someone else. when l asked her abt it she said we were still friends and that she was just being nice to the other girls but i dont believe it.do u guys think she is tired of being with me.confused im 15 and im a girl. (link)
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ok i went through this last year and believe me it is hard...maybe she wants to meet other people and start hanging out with other people more...some people get tired of being with the same friends all the time...i think you should sit her down again and talk to her about it again and see what she says...if she says yall are still friends tell her how you feel about it and see what she tells you then...maybe yall should take some time apart and you should find some new friends but still talk to her!!hope this helps believe me its hard...i went through this for a month last year and i finally realized i needed to hang out with other people to and give other people a chance but i still talk to that girl just not all the time and when i have a problem or whatever we still go to each other hope this helps!!
your friend,
Jessica
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There is this girl I like at work. She seems really cool and it seems like we have alot in common. But she says she has a boyfriend for 7 months. What are some ways that I can get her to leave him and date me? I know its bad, but I think there is a chemistry there. (link)
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ok i think you should see how this girl feels about you first before you try to get them two broke up...if she likes you as much as you like her then she'll probably leave her boyfriend for you anyways but what if shes happy with this guy that shes with? You wouldnt want to mess all that up would you? Think about it!!
your friend,
Jess
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Ok there is this new girl at my school and I am friends with her. My ex boyfriend broke up with me the other day due to he liked someone else. So today it turns out that they have known each other for 2 years! So I am getting the feeling that he likes her. Like today when she first came he kept standing beside us listing to our convorsation. I still have feelings for him and still love him but I am so confused whether he likes me or her! He flirts with me but then again he acts like he likes her. So what can I do? Sorry that I asked this question b4. :) (link)
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ok i think you should sit this guy down and talk to him about how you feel and see how he feels...i think it would be wrong if he started liking your friend or whatever but then to i guess you dont have control of who he likes but just sit him down and talk to him and see where you get then...hope this helps some because im going through the same thing with my ex boyfriend and my friend ya know its a rough situation but i hope this helps you out some!!
your friend,
Jessica
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My best friend and i got into a fight. a really bad fight. one when we don't talk to each other for a month. my mom knos about the problem. now my x best calls and apologizes. we have gotten into so many fights i can't even count. so i told her we would talk a bout it in the morning. i don't want my mom to think we are friends because she don't like her. i don't like her. but i don't want to be mean or be enemies wat should i do????????? (link)
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ok i think you two should sit down and talk about this...believe me i go through this all the time with my bestfriend to...but if you dont like her then you should be as close friends with her and you was...i think if you dont want to be that close of friends anymore or whatever just talk occasionally like sometimes on the phone or maybe when you see eachother at school or out somewhere but dont become enemies with her...tell her if she ever needs somebody to talk to or whatever that you're there for her!! Hope this helps
your friend,
Jessica
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My boyfriend and I had sex last week and my period usally comes on around the 24 or 25. It is the 27 and my period still haven't come on. I have been have cramps and back pain. So am I pregnant or not? (link)
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ok i doubt your pregnant...maybe you are but signs dont usually show up this early...but if i was you i would try a pregnancy test and see what that says and see what happens next month...good luck
your friend,
Jessica
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How do you get an ex-friend to stop fucking talking to you. I'm usually good at getting people to leave me alone, but this guy is insane. He stopped talking to me for a while but now he is starting again despite when I tell him to leave me alone. Any ideas? (link)
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ok i think you should try to avoid him the best way that you can...if that doesnt work then just tell him how you feel and that you just dont want him around you...
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tomorrow is the halloween dance at my school. i dont have a costume. my friend suggested being a school girl because its hott and i have the things in my closet. good idea..except i dont even have a plaid skirt or knee socks :( and my mom can only go with me to get them if my dad comes home from work early tonite..
any other ideas that dont cost a lot AT ALL or i could maybe just get with the things in my closet. it has to be hott/sexii!! but anything too derastic. i just wanna wow them ;)
im in 7th grade & i am a girl.
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ok when i was in 7th grade i went through the same thing almost...i think you should find a short skirt or daisy dukes with a really cute shirt maybe a belly shirt or something...and maybe some high heels or some boots that come about to your knees are so or some high boots with heels...i think that would be a cute outfit...that what i did when i was in 7th grade...i hope this helps some!!
your friend,
Jess
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i have liked this boyy for about 2 weeks now and he is so hard to read i dont know if he likes anyone? but he flirts alot and stuff and he flirts with me too but i dont want to tell him that i like him...but if he doest know that i like him he might not ask me out? and i do not like asking guys out at all like i wont do it...any advisssee?? hopefully lol
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ok maybe you should get to know this boy alittle better...maybe then you could tell if he likes you or not...but if i was you i would flirt back with him and see if he ever notices that you like him...if you dont want to ask him out which i dont blame you because i dont like asking guys out either lol get a close friend to talk to him for you and see what he tells her/him!! hope this helps you some!!
your friend,
Jessica
let me know how things turn out!!
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I have a big halloween party this saturday. Thing is .. everyone is dressing up slutty and fun and cute, but every costume i think of that hasnt been taken already, is just lame (think lindsay lohan's in mean girls) and i really need ideas for a halloween costume .. or something i can make up for one. IM DESPERATE!!! Anything you can think of, i will love u for life. (i rate high)
THANKS GUYS!! (link)
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ok im going through the same thing...me and all my friends decided to dress slutty and all well all my ideas have been taken by my friends so im thinking of being a playboy bunny,a laungerie model(i kno its spelled wrong but deal with me lol),a Bad Angel or a sexy devil...im really going with the playboy bunny because i think that is so cute and if you're wanting to go slutty then thats the way to go...hope this helps!!
your friend,
Jessica
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ok my best friend since a year ago and i get along really well for girls like we dont talk bad about each other or anything right? but now ive started to realize all she cares about is herself like today at lunch her and a friend werent gonna go to lunch bc they went to the library and i was in the line w/ my friend and when we got back she had moved my lunch across the table and sat down in my spot i kno its the stupidest thing to get mad about but i am and the bigger reason is we made plans over the summer to go to fright fest with each other and it turned into a group thing but now she wants to ditch us and go to a friends party instead and she promised me shed go and shes only known this guy for like 2 months i thought friends were more important she wants me to go sunday instead of saturday but i dont want to bc my other friend are counting on me to go and i dont want to just ditch them like that what should i do??? shes starting to get on my nerves and starting to blame me for stuff that happens that is totally out of my control likes shes so innocent and doesnt deserve whatever happens to her anyways sorry this is so sorry but please, help!!! (link)
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ok i've been through the same thing soo many times...but i think you should confront your friend about how shes been acting...and i think that since you've already made plans to go to this fright fest on saturday then you should still go dont let her rule your life...and if she was a true friend she wouldnt blame you for stuff that you didnt do to make her look all innocent and all...but talk to her about how you feel and see what happens
your friend,
Jess
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ok so my friend and i arent getting along right now and i want to give her some space so at lunch im thinking about just eating with another one of my friends let her calm down you kno, but i really like this guy who eats lunch with me and my friend every day and im afraid if i eat w/ the friend im not mad at he wont eat with me anymore and i enjoy talking to him. should i just stay at my table w/ the friend im mad at or sit with my other friend and hope for the best please help im really confused and dont want this guy to think i dont like him! (link)
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ok...i think if you really like this guy then you should sit with the friend your mad at so you can still talk to him...maybe you should try to work things out with your friend to so it wont feel weird when you sit with them...hope this helped some..
your friend,
Jess
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There's this guy I know, and well, let's call him *Andrew* . I talked to *Andrew* like ONCE. and all i ever said was if he was a sophomore and he's like yea. So that's it. So anyways, i have myspace and i found him on there and i was like HEY! OMGGG! and i was like hey i talked to you like once and stuff and hes like ohh yea i remember you. But before i ever sent him that message, i heard he was having this halloween party. So anyways, i kinda see him like almost everyday. He's in my P.E period and when i walk out of English i see him around. But ever since i sent him that message, we've talked about like random things. And everytime he sees me he either smiles,tapps me on the shoulder and wave or just waves. (I KNOW RIGHT!! GREAT..) But the problem is that i asked him what he was doing for halloween and hes just like uhhhhh ..well..ima C if theres a party i can go to..
UGHH! he didn't even have the nerve to tell me that HE was having a party. I mean, it wasn't like i was just talking to him to get invite me to the party! Now im a person who just doesn't give a flying f***. But somehow this just hurt me. I mean we've been talking just like i guess normal friends. But he could've just told me that he was having the party and i wouldn't care if i got invited. But its at the point that im about to cry. Not because i didn't get invited.But just because he couldn't be a man and tell me the truth. And i guess you can say i kinda liked him. But i dunno. Should i just forget about this? And why do guys do this?! After he sent me that message that he was like "im gonna go c if i can go to a party." i was just like "oh kool." .....should i talk to him like nothings wrong? should i wave to him and stuff when he waves back?. I know i should keep talking to him like nothings wrong because he doesn't know that i know. But ugh..its just weird. Please help me! i feel soo bad && im sorry if this is long!! =( (link)
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ok this is what I would do...i would just act like nothings wrong and find out if he's really having a party or not...if he is for sure ask him again what he's doing and see if he tells you the same thing or see if he comes out and tells you the truth...i hope this helps
your friend,
Jessica
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uhm, i am kind of confused here. it has been a week of this great guy being really sweet and nice. Maybe you answered and read my question about "does he like me?" well basically he always offers me his jacket so i can be warm and he meets me after a couple classes, and yesterday he gave me a hug the whole time we talked (like we were hugging and having a conversation at the same time. And he got dumped 2 weeks ago. I am thinking that this is maybe why he hasnt me out yet. That is fine; I can wait because he is worth it. But I would just kind of like to know when you guys think he might ask me out. thank you! :) (link)
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i think that the guy wants to ask you out its just he just got out of the relationship and maybe he wants to get to know you alittle better and that maybe why hes waiting...just wait it out and see what happens!!
your friend,
Jessica
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ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think? (link)
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ok i think that is soo sweet...if my bf did that 4 me i would flip the script lol...i think u should do that because thats just so sweet and i would love for my boyfriend to do that for me...lol
15 female by tha way
your friend,
Jess
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i was going out with this kid and then we broke up and we were still talking and like now we arent because i got into a fight with his girlfriend and i try not to call him but sometimes i do just to talk to him because i love him and i want to be with him and i dont know what do do because i know hell use me but i love him and hes really mean and treats me like im nothing but i love him. what do i do? (link)
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ok...if he wants to talk to you let him call you just dont bother him anymore for a while and see what happens then...maybe he dont know how to be just friends with somebody so just give him some space and if he cares about you believe me he'll come running back!! hope this helps
your friend,
jess
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ive been going out with a guy for two weeks and now i want to dump him because i just dont like him anymore and liked the way it was before but this whole week we have been fighting because i cant seem to act normal around him and i dont kno how to dump him because he gets this look in his eyes and i just cant what should i do to break up with him?i rate high! (link)
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ok if you're ready to break up with him then do it...i mean you cant be with somebody you dont like so find a way to tell him that wont hurt him to bad hope this helps
your friend,
jess
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My boyfriend just asked me if it was alright for him to spend the night at his best friend's house. His four best friends are girls. there's gonna be two other guys, but I still don't really like the outlook on it; he's gonna be all night with 5-6 other girls.
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no thats not dumb...if i was you i would be mad the re is no way i would let my boyfriend stay with other girls...but then to if he loves you he wouldnt do anythign to hurt you so listen to your heart about this one
your friend,
Jess
but while hes with other people why dont you go out with some of your friends
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Im pretty late...and I'm 16 going on 17 btw I feel like an idiot and I know its all my fault. Anyway how am I gonna break it to my parents? (link)
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ok my bestfriend is going through the same exact thing and she is actually just turned 17 so you guys are pretty close in age...well she had a hard time telling her parents and all but she hinted around and they finally got the picture they were mad and actually their makin her move out which isnt such good parents but you have to do something...hope this helps!!
your friend,
Jess
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