Im your typicle teen girl who likes to hang out with some freinds, go to the beach, camp or the mall. Im an animal lover. Ive done the whole dating thing even the braking up thing. I have a younger sister who can drive me a lil nuts time to time, but thats what siblings do. I love helping others ans il help as much as i can!
E-mail: lil_miss_mandy16@hotmail.com Gender: Female Location: Canada, Toronto Occupation: student... Age: 16 Member Since: October 4, 2006 Answers: 50 Last Update: January 26, 2008 Visitors: 4226
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I have a HUGE problem. I've never made out before. And basically, very soon I'm going to have to. The thing is EVERYONE thinks I have already. I have no idea what to do. I'm so scared someone's going to notice that I've never made out before. Is it really as hard as I'm thinking? I just don't want this person to think I'm stupid and disgusting because I wont be able to kiss good. I really don't know what to do! I'm freaking out. Somone please help! Give me some advice on what to do or something. Or please explain how to do it! I'm scared. HELP! Thank you OH SO MUCH. ♥ (link)
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Ok first of all calm down, making out is no big deal and is quite simple. Just go with the flow. And dont put toomuch importance on kissing or els you'll just drive yourself insain with panic.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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im worried about the size of my penis, i think its too small, ive never really seen another penis so i dont know whats big and wats small, and like wats the average guys penis size, if it helps mine is 7 inches, is that good or bad? please help (link)
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yep i would say thats bacicly average.
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Here it is. The famous kissing question. I know you are all probably sick of answering this question, but please I'm desperate.
A few weeks ago this boy and I started liking each other. I went over his house,but nothing happened because of a certain reason that has nothing to do wtih this story. anyway, and then the other day he kissed me on the lips, and so soon I'm pretty sure that soon we're probably going to make out. A lot of my friends just said go with the flow, do whatever feels right but is that really it? Can anyone relate me back to there first make out and what happened and how they felt? My guy friends always talk about how when someone is a good kisser, they just want to kiss them over and over again. How do you be a good kisser, liek what qualities does a good kisser have? Please, no one send me links to teen magazines telling you how to kiss. I want the real deal from actual people.
Thank you so much :) (link)
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Honestly your first real kiss will most likly be a little akward seeing as its your first time. But don't hold back becaus of that. No one knows exacly what there doing, but with practice you'll learn and become a pro.(Now this dosn't mean go kiss every one and evry thing.lol) Just fallow him as he guids youz(as your freinds said "Go with the flow". Soon you wont even have to think twice on what your doing.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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im 12 years old and i've had pimples since the beginning of 6th grade (im in 7th now) and i have a boyfriend, but i hate my pimples sooo much. i would do ANYTHING to get them gone. i have recently purchased ProActiv Solution and i've been using it once a day because it was drying out my skin. How long do you think this will take? I've tried Benzaclin, AcneFree, and now Proactiv, and nothing seems to work. Help? (link)
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My sister hase both acne and dry skin, she uses Aveno products and it works real well with both the acne and the dry skin.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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I am 13 and obvisily a female. I had my period when i was 12 in november and havent had one again. And guess what month it is? It has been about a year, and of course i havent had sex. I know it takes a while to get regular but all my friends have started and they say i should see a docter. Should i see one? I have been worried about this a lot. Please help. (link)
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All menstral cycles vary from girl to girl, for girls who start there periods at a young age 10, 11,12,13... are most likly to have an iregular menstral cycle. Yet missing a WHOLE YEAR without having any periods at all seams quit odd. I strongly sugest that you consult a docter.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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i am a virgin but u an seriously thinking about having sex soon. on halloween i think might be the time. but my period will be somewhere right in there. so i was wondering if you have sex right before or right after you have your period, is it more likely you will get pregnet or anything? because i dont wanna get pregnet at all! but i think i am ready for sex. and if i am on my period on halloween can i still have sex and all? i know that might be nasty though. (link)
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Im sorry but your not ready for sex, not with questions like thoes.
When it comes to sex it doesnt mater if its before, after or durring your period.
When not beeing on birth control at leasts two months before having intercours there is always the chance that you can get pregnate!
Even with a condom, you can get pregnate! *Condoms are used to prevent STDs in other words Sexualy Transmited Deseases...like Aides, Gonoria, herpeys and others!
Even if he "pulls out in time" you can still get pregnate! Theres such thing as "precum"
If you don't want to be a teen mom. Take this in consideration.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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Iam 17 years old and i babysit my niece and my nephew every saturday from 3:00pm until 10:00pm and all we do is color and watch movies and iam pretty sure they get tired of it sometimes i read them stories but iam running out of ideas.cheyanne(girl is 5)kaligha is 3)and iam running out of activities for them to do please help me. (link)
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You could try playdoug, arts and crafs(more for the 5 yr old), house...
hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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ok so im invited to my friends costume party but we have to dress in pairs so.. my friend was gonna go with her bf as catwoman and batman but they broke up so now im gonna go with her. but she already bought her catwoman costume and she doesnt wanna waste it so i dont no what to dress as.. i dont want it to be like really stupid so ya...im 13f.. thanks
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Seeing as cat womans olong the super hero theam why not go as wonder woman?or any other super hearo.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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do you think that its weird if i want to break my own hymen with a tampon
so it wont hurt when i eventually have sex for the first time? (link)
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No its perfectly normal, although even if you break your hymen with a tampon that does not mean it wont hurt durring your fist time having sex. Usualy your tense, and a man penis is at least 3 times the size (in with) of you super absorbant tampon.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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well my b/f and i have been going out for a week or two and all we have done is hugged. i want it to move a little faster. what should i do? (link)
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Then make the next move when he goes to hug u, u kiss him.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for just over a month now. She had been a very touchy feely person, not in any sort of sexual sense, but always holding or playing with hands, or hugging and such.
Up until this week. She has been in an absolutely horrible mood since Sunday, really hasn't talked to me or returned calls or anything, and hasn't been fond of any sort of physical or social contact from anyone. I would chalk it up to PMS (sorry about the stereotype, girls) but it's literally been all day all wee. I had asked her earlier in the week if she was okay, and she said yes, that she was just feeling weird and didn't want to be around people. Today at lunch it was awful. I asked her again, walking to class (just to note, the first time she didn't hold my hand walking to her class) and she said she didn't want to talk about it. She didn't say anything else, and I hugged her an kissed her goodbye, but still.
I've treated her very well, and I've been giving her space. I'm pretty sure it as absolutely nothing to do with me, but nonetheless, what am I supposed to do? (link)
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She dos'nt seem to be ready to talk about the situation. Just don't take it personal, let her know your there for her when or if she wants to talk and just be there for her. Other then that try to get back to your normal rutine. Dont let the situation side track u.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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I am being pippy longstocking for halloween and i understnad that she wears a bright shirt under a navy blue jumper with high crazy socks and of course the pigtails.
But...i've looked everywhere and i can't find the jumper!!!!!! I've tried walmart,target, goodwill.
I dont really know where to find one, cuz they aren't really in style. Does anyone know where i can get a cheap one? i am not ever going to wear it again so it doesn't matter that much what it looks like.
Oh, and i can't buy it on the internet.
Also, if you have an idea of another thing i could wear instead of the jumper that would be great too! I will rate and thanks in advance! (link)
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hey, my lil sis was the same thing last year and like you we couldnt find a juper so we went to a second hand store and got a blue dress that we mad into a jumper. it was real simple.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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iam 14 and in the 9th grade and I want to do more than just hug and kiss my boyfriend.Is there any other things that i can do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend?I know that there is sex and iam going to do that if that's the only other thing i can do i just want to get closer and if i do have sex iam already on birth control becouse of my messed up period and iam going to use protection.what can i do besides hug and kiss my boyfriend? (link)
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Well theres always oral or manual stimulation. Like handjobs blowjobs aka Brains or head... getting eaten out, or fingering.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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My brother and i were in a car accident recently and i was driving and totaled my brand new escalade. he told the police and our parents that he was the one driving so i wouldnt get in trouble since i only had my license for a few months and he has had his for about 6 years. i feel horrible about the whole thing tho and i cant figure out what to do. should i tell my parents the truth of just let it be? (link)
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Yes telling the truth is the right thing to do seeing as your letting someone els take resonsibility for YOUR actions. If your redy to face the concequences then you should tell the truth.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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i am 14/f and i i have this white chalky stuff on mii underwear and i have no idea what it is i am a virgin! however i have masterbated b-4 so0o n-e help will be great!!!! thanks! (link)
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Don't worry its just discharge. Your fine.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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I'm a virgin. I'm 15. Every time i talk to my boyfriend about sex, he wants me to be on top. I guess because he's really tall this is more comfortable for him. But for my first time, I think it would be a little weird to have to make all the moves, considering he's NOT a virgin. I'm afraid about being on top for my first time. I'm afraid that once I feel pain I'll tense up and pull him out of me....that would me a totall mood killer...I don't even know what my question is..I guess I'm just looking for comments or what not.
-Yes, I am ready for sex so telling me I must not be ready isn't going to be any help to me-
(I'll add adittional information later if anyone needs me to) (link)
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If you dont think you will feel comfterble on top for your first time tell him. Once your used to it you could try beeing on top
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okay, so i`m 13 right now, and i`m turning 14 sometime in the next 3 weeks. i`m having a party with some of my friends, and well .. i have no idea what to do for the party.
the party`s going to be in my basement at my house. i`m either inviting 8 girls OR i`m inviting 8 girls and 6 guys. what should i do for each ? i still don`t know if i`m inviting the guys yet.
every year i have a party, and we usually have absolutely nothing to do. so i really need some good ideas that are affordable, fun, easy, and appropriote [my parents chaparone. you know].
so please give me some ideas for if i`m having just a girls party ? and then i need some ideas for the party if i`m having both girls and guys. please and thank you! (link)
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GYUS & GIRLS-> Hawain them party! have every one were a hawian costume, and there could be limbo, dancing and stuff like that.
GIRLS-> Sleep over party! Get movies, and junk food, stay up late playing games lik would you ever and truth or dare, and dont forget to prank the 1st who falls asleep! lol
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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ok listen i have a real question and i might sound strange but i am fourteen and i got my first period a month and 13 days ago and still no second period. why? is there something wrong with me? and should i tell my mom? help! (sorry bout the long question by the way) (link)
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Seeing as your only 13 your period may be irregular for the next few years. Every one is diffrent, don't stress it will come soon.
hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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Well, im not ugly, But im not the prettiest person in the world.i just feel ugly.How do You be pretty, I mean those girls witht eh pretty eyes and guys are all over. how do they do it? anything is apreciated (link)
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Think pretty, think confident, if you think confident, youll feel confident and soon be confident. Find your better featurs. some have great eyes others are super nice. just be confident in who you are and youll shine with confidence and buety!
hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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So i gave my boyfriend a handjob and i got cum on my fingers but i washed it off and about 40 mins. later i masterbated and i got my period 4 days later and i read that even if you get your period you could still b pregant? do you think i am? (link)
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Dont worry the chances of you getting pregnat from this are slim to nothing.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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