Hey,my name is Amanda aka Mandy,and im 16. Like most teen girls ive had my fare share of boyfriends, break ups, friend, health, and family issues. I guesse you can say ive been throught the whole teen drama. Il Try my best to give good advice!
E-mail: xox_mandy_16@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Oshawa, Ontario
Occupation: ...Student....
Age: 16
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my boyfriend and i are in love and we are perfect for eachother, we have so much in common and we agree on everthing.. well almost everything
the only thing we don't see eye to eye on is sex.
we both want to have it, we've been waiting a long time for eachother until we were both ready and everything. the only problem is i want him to use a condom and he refuses. he claims he can't keep the erection if he uses one. i want to protect myself from possible std's (he's had 7 partners in the past and obviously does'nt use protection) and from pregnacy because at this point in my life i am in no way ready to have a baby. his swares he doesn't have any diseses and claims he'll pull out ebfore he ejaculates.
what should i do?? thans so much (link)
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Keep it up! You should'nt give in to what he wants. Especialy if the concequences affect you negativly. Trust that what your doing is right, and sooner or later he'll just have to give in and wear a condom or leave. If he chooses to leave, he's simply not worth it.
hope this helps!
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Okay so i am having trouble right now...(obviously)lol okay so the thing is. Well all my friends are saying so many mean things about me and its not evento my face. I hear about it from pther people. One of my bff said that i wasnt really that pretty and i wore makeup to cover everything. I mean i think i am anaverage looking person ya kno? im not UGLY but im not BERAUTIFUL either. what am i supposed to do? They are saying really hurtful things (link)
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If you say that you didnt acctualy hear your friends say those things you should first of all confront them about it. (If they say something like "No! we would never say something like that!" with a high pitch voice, chances are there lying to you.) If your "friends" do have any thing to do with this, id say there not true friends, beacaus true friends just don;t say stuff like that. And what ever they said i wouldnt take it to heart, im shure your a perfectly wonderfull girl, dont let stuff like this bug you.
Hope this helped!
Mandy :)
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13/F. This entire school year I have been wearing a 32AA bra. My friends have always made fun of me for my little boobs. Well my mother got me fitted this weekend and according to the people I should be wearing a 32B bra instead. Now they dont look right on me and when I told my friends they didn't believe at all that was my size and even asked me if I stuffed. Im too afraid to wear my new bra cause I think people will believe I stuff or will say mean things about me. I dont like wearing this size bra and im going to my best friends house tonight and she deffinately doesnt believe me. What should I do? (link)
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If the B-32 bra fits then you should were it no matter what your friends say. Heck you can't your breast stuffed up in that lil AA-32 bra for ever, its just not healthy. Don't let your friends comments affect your desision. Just beacaus they don't believe your a b-32 dosn't make it true.
Hope this helps!
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I have been friends with this guy since Sophmore year in High School, I'm now a freshman in College (19 years old), we are going to the same college. Anyways with all the stress of college none of us have time for a boy friend or girl friend but we both do enjoy sex, yes, I will put it that bluntly. We both started this friends with benefits relationship with no strings and no questions asked and this started in the beginning of the school year. I recently met this guy who I have feelings for, actual relationship feelings for and really want to give it a shot. He has admitted his feelings to me on occasions before and we are now going out. The guy I had the friends with benefits relationship I tried to end it off with but he got mad and psycho! He started yelling at me and calling me a slut and all these names. I think he had actual feelings for me! The other day we met up because I had to tell him that there is no future for us and I don't need a friend with benefit anymore and he got even more mad, and I have never seen him like this before. I reported him to the police because I was terrified. He is now in the hospital and got 'evaluated' and he has bi-polar disorder and is taking pills. I feel guilty, should I? Isn't this my fault, if we never started this maybe this wouldn't have happened? Should I talk to him about the situation now that he is on meds or should I never see him again? He is still my friend and I don't want to back down on him... what should I do?? (link)
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You should definatly keep beeing freinds with the guy, its not his fault he had an bipolar episode he can't control that. About talking to him about the situation, if you feel like you still need to go ahead... but i would hold off on talking to him about it a little... maybe to see what he says.
well hopes this helps!
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okae. so i am a 13 year old female. and since i was 12 sometimes i would masturbate. but since i turned 13 i stopped. but idk if its normal for kids my age to do that. i use my fingers if that helps. but im so disgusted by myself sometimes. that i just break down crying. and i dont have a lock on my door my dad took it off for reasons [ family reasons ] so im afriad someone will walk in. ehrwsk - any ideas if its normal , and if it is where i could do it without anyone walking in cuz i have wanted to. (link)
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Msterbating at your age is perfectly normal. If your afraid of getting cought just do it at might befor you go to sleep or just do it in the bathroom.
Enjoy!
Mandy :)
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when i got married , my wife had periods and i did first intercourse with her inspite of that the periods r coming. i felt that my wife had no any pain & also not seen blood. is my wife was virgin?? (link)
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Im guessing you would like to know this from a religious point of view, your wories about your wife may not beeing unpure. But just as others have said a womens hymen can break from many difrent things such as sports, using female menstation products like tampons ect... but the braking of the hymen does not declare the los of virginity... infact it is the penis and only the penis inserted in the vaginal opening that can declare the los of virginity.
also u say that YOU felt she had no pain during intercours... maybe you should ask her if she found it painful. And again every women is diffrent and dont all bleed or feel pain during intercours.
Hope this helps! :)
xox Mandy!
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okay so my boyfriend and i are thinking of different places to hookup(making out and stuff not sex).. yeah it may sound corny but i think it'll be cool.. so does anyone have any ideas?? thanks! xox (link)
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u could try doing stuff in so many public places like a bus, the movies, civic pools....pretty much anywere! hehe
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Okk,well i didnt really know how too work this.And i didnt know were too putt it...But
ok,so my brother finger me ...I'm not sure if he touched his penis..were he could have touch cum//I have missed my period i'm 2 weeks late.Is it just me stressing..Or my period has skipped this month///Or am i pregnet.. i do have a the flue..Does this have anything to do with it..I keep stresing to make sure my tummy isent growing please helpp..Please...I jsut don't know what tood doo...
Thanks xxx
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IM sorry but most brothers and sisters fight...not resle under the covers... Im sorry but eww. YOUR BROTHER!
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i a 15/f and i love to masturbate. i do not actually stick my fingers inside me, just rub "down there" is there any way i could make it more exciting without sticking anything inside of me or buying anything? i'd like to know anything you have to offer: places to do it (although i want to do it alone), positions to be in, what to think about, or any other techniques. thanks so much. (link)
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heres a sight that might just help you, it has many ways for both women and men to masturbate.
http://www.mymasturbation.com/
hope this helps!
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