Well Yo Dogs... yea... i don't think i'm black i just always say that. Its liek my trademark. Ask me whatever... i'll give ya straight up answer or a sarcastic answer... depending on my mood. But i'm usually brutally honest especailly since i don't knwo you peopel and your feelings won't get hurt and i don't care what you think of me. And thats that
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well... i like this girl a lot. and i want to know the proper way to finger a girl. i dont want to do a bad job and i want her to be pleasured by it. so please tell me the best way to do it. i need to know by thursday. (link)
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Well, there is no perfect way. Every girl is different and every girl has different nerves with different sensetivities down there. Start slow, heavy on teh foreplay. Don't just go jammin away at it. Kiss her softly, nibble her ear, kiss her neck. I would assume if you are going for fingering then you are already past feeling her up. Move from her neck down to her belly button. Kiss her there, run your tounge over her stomach, slowly inching up her shirt. Slide your hands inside her bra, massage her breasts and then maybe if your daring lick her nipples or nibble softly. Pay close attention to her facial experssions, as these can be a major indication of whther she's enjoying herself. If all is going well, unbutton her pants and slide them off slowly. I'd recommend rubbing her clit first, as this will really get her wet and make penetration easier. When she seems extremly aroused, start to tease her. Rub just around her pussy hole and insert a little bit of your finger at a time, nice and easy. Start to work it in deeper, making sure your not hurting her. Then when you feel you are in deep enough, i recommend a forward "come hither" motion with your fingers. This action with massage her insides, and quite possibly her g-spot. Above all of what i have told you, the most important piece of advice i can give you is COMMUNICATION! if you are close enough with this girl to be sexually active, then you should be able to ask her if she's liking it or what feels good. Hope i helped. If you have more questions feel free to ask me
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how do you acually masturbate? (link)
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if your a boy... you stroke your cock til you shoot your load... if your a girl you finger yourself or rub your clit til you orgasim... which is a little harder to describe, as it varies from girl to girl... if ya want more detail just ask me
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can you get pregnet from cum? im not sure! please help and ill rate high if its atleast half decent! (link)
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how old are you ... like 5? of course you can
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i have a lot of questions regarding sex, relationships, and everything in between.. but some questions are too personal to ask.. is there any columnist who has an AIM screen name who can answer my questions.. i'll feel really weird asking them but i have no one here to help me and there's a lot on my mind and i would really appreciate the help..
thanx♥ (link)
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On this site your name is kept complteley hidden from most users. And no one knows you really on this site so it's not liek they are goign to go around laughing at you. We are all on here to help... not make fun. But if ya want... IM me= Stalkssl
hope i helped
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okay i know this is a weird question but whenever i see a girls area 'down there'.. well their clit isn't big and it doesn't hang or anything and mine does and it seems big and not mornal.. is this normal and does every girl have this.. i've been really concerned about it for awhile and i just wanted to know (link)
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First of all... are you sure you are looking at your clit and not another part of your vagina? If you are... then... it's normal... girls come in all shapes and sizes. If you truely thing you are abnormal then see a doctor.
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i think this weekend my boyfriend and i will start having oral sex..i've never done it before but he has and he's had sex before....i don't wear thongs.. but yet i don't wear big grandma underwear..they're exactlylike thongs.. like with the strings around the hips and all.. but instead of the string up my ass, it's just all covered..i'm scared that his other girlfriends wore thongs and stuff and that when he sees i don't he'll think i'm like a looser or something...do you think it matters.....or do guys REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY prefer thongs and totally hate like thekinda underwear i wear (link)
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my boyfriend lieks both. I used to wear the bikini style underwear you are talkign about and htne i swithced to thongs cause he hinted that he liked them... but if i wear regular ones he's like "you should wear these more often"
if a guy cares about you enough to the point where you are fooling around with him... which shoudl be a lot of caring... then he won't care abotu your underwear... he will enjoy the time he is getting to be with you and how close you are getting... if you aren't comfortable in any type of clothing for your boyfriend... tehn you aren't ready to take that next step...
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why do u think saying 'yo' is sooo black. not all black people say it. (link)
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i honestly don't know. People have told me i'm a whigger sometimes so i figured it was becasue of stuff like that. Didn't mean for it to be offensive... sorry if i did.
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My boyfriend's dick is like....three inches. I'm not getting the kind of pleasure that i need. He's really nice and i like him, but i don't think i can live with that. So i told him that we could use like...some "toys", but he got all offended. Should i break up with him? 57/f (link)
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If he got offended its probably the way you approached the question. Don't suggest toys as a replacement for his lack in length... suggest them as a sexy way to turn you on even more.
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My boyfriend's dick is like....three inches. I'm not getting the kind of pleasure that i need. He's really nice and i like him, but i don't think i can live with that. So i told him that we could use like...some "toys", but he got all offended. Should i break up with him? 57/f (link)
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If he got offended its probably the way you approached the question. Don't suggest toys as a replacement for his lack in length... suggest them as a sexy way to turn you on even more.
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thanks for the advice it was great, however ive asked her about the entries and she says that her "friend" wrote the scrapbook one..but she does seem to lie alot so... (link)
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yea... i think you know the answer... its just hard to admit it to yourself that its the right thing because the heart plays a strong role in decisions. Good luck with the situation though.
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...What do people think about a teenage pregnancy? Is it bad i mean If a person thinks they are lonley an are scared to be alone while their boyfriend leaves for awhile for the military..would it be okay to have a baby? (link)
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teens just plain old aren't ready for a baby... thats my opinion. And if you are havin ga baby just so you aren't lonley thats even worse
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Okay let me warn you this thing will be like 2000 characters, but let me start by saying i met this girl when i came to missouri to visit my grandma, we like eachother, well we love eachother, i dont feel like i could live wtihout her...we dated last year and broke up and then i tried for a year to get her back and finally did, however i found these questions asked on advicenators..about her ex..while we were going out:
*well my ex boyfriend is coming over tomarrow and i made him a scrapbook of all our memories cause i want him to know how much i still care about him! he has told me 3 times since we've been broken up he loves me and hes said he misses me all the time! but theres also another girl that he likes and im trying to pretty much win him over..but anyways..i was just wondering if you had any ideas on how i could do like a scavenger hunt kinda thing to lead him to it cause i want this to be special!!! please help asap! thanks!*
i knew her ex was coming over to get the scrapbook but she said that was it and that she didnt have feelings anymore and what not...but the most painful is the next one...
hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME!
sent while we were going out yet again, i love her with all my heart and i dont know what to do, i finally won her back and i dont want to let her go but i feel like its just a game and she is playing me. Should i keep her or let her go? any advice? (link)
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Ok... i understand you have feelings for the girl and i say this in the most sensetive way possible... dump her. Your too good for her. You seem like a great guy if you care this much and have this much feelings towards her. She is, like you said, playing you. If you don't want to be too drastic maybe approach her and try to discuss the two entries with her... maybe there is an explanation... are you positive they are hers? You don't want to jump to conclusions. But be careful... she seems liek a good liar. Your young, there are a lot fo other girls out there that won't hurt you like this and realitically this girl isn't "the one" for you so you might as well move on and get a girl that truly cares about you. Hope i helped. Thanks for your question and feel free to ask more.
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Does tooth paste really work on zits?? And if so how do you apply it? Thanks! (link)
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i've been told it works great. My friend was playing truth or dare and got dared to put it all over her face for 10 minutes... she said it burned after awhile but she didn't have any zits for like a month... best face cream she every used she said
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ok well here it goes
i'm 16 female
and i've had sex w/ about 5 guys, yea sounds sluty but o well, well this guy that i'm "sleeping w/" has a pretty good size dick, in the thickness and length, but my problem is, that when we have sex it hurts REALLY BAD, i mean yes he fingers me before hand and all the other stuff to losen me up, but it still hurts, we have had sex only twice, and i figured the second time wouldn't hurt as bad, but it about killed me, and it still hurts even the next day.
so the question is
what is the best thing that i can do, so it want hurt the next time we have sex? (link)
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i've heard the "cowgirl" position is good for loosing you up because it allows the girl to control the intake so she can slowly work it in rather than the guy just jammin away
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has any one got any tips on how to seduce my mate? (im female hes male) i want him so much but i have no idea where to start. i see him where he works most of the time so i need some pointers on how to get him on his own and that kind of stuff. thanx (link)
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Um... he's male... any comment about allowing him to get into your pants could be considered a seduction technique. If you want to take a smoother route invite him out for dinner or to your house or out for coffee... take him back home and then be all up on him
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how everyones mean to me and i rate them 5 because i think its funny when there mad lol!!! like.. people who said im ugly. i didnt mean it like im think im pretty i was being carcastic.
FREE 5S! (link)
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How did this question get passed through the mod's... why do questions liek this get posted?
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well my boyfriend and i have been having sex, he wa smy first. and its fine and everything but whenever he wants me to give him head or a handjob.. i cannot do t.. he says im really not that bad.. but i can tell i am.. it takes forever giving him head and i dont know... i try hard but i cant.. any tips or websites i could check out? thanksss (link)
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just cause it takes a long time doesn't neccesarily mean you are bad... guyz don't just get off in a few seconds... sometiems it takes awhile if they are good at controling their orgasim. If you really feel like you are that bad then ask him what you can do to make him feel good. If you two aren't able to communicate about what feels good and abotu other sexual things then you shouldnb't be having sex or fooling around at all.
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I understand that "cybering" is having sex over the internet but I dont understand how you do that. My 2 friends (a boy and a girl) say they do it all the time. I'm really good friends with the girl so I asked her but all she said was that "you say what you do" and that doesn't make sense to me. Anyone care to explain? (link)
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It's what everyone else described and usually involves personal masterbation while "cybering" at least thats what the boys do... i never did when i used to do it... i just toyed with guyz
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ok i know im not ready to have sex NOW but i dont know if i want to wait until marriage either..i mean what do you guys think?
a part of me says
"hey who knows if your husband will even be a virgin..then its kind of pointless that you waited..and besides if you wait until your married, thats the only guy your going to have sex with .."
then again anothher part of me says "sex would be more special if you waited to have it with your husband"
any input? (link)
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If your questioning it what-so-ever... you aren't ready. Wait til there are no questions
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why is virginity and breaking virginity such a big deal? like oh, you had sex for your first time. whats so big about taht? all it is is having sex except the first time. im serious can someone tell me why this is so big? (link)
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Sex is a very emotional thing for girls... thats why is a big deal for girls to lose there V-Card...
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