My boyfriend's dick is like....three inches. I'm not getting the kind of pleasure that i need. He's really nice and i like him, but i don't think i can live with that. So i told him that we could use like...some "toys", but he got all offended. Should i break up with him? 57/f
MummuM answered Thursday July 28 2005, 6:49 pm: It's not the size that matters, it's how he works it, girl. If you asking that offended him, you probably just asked him this question in the wrong type of way. You could try asking him again. Maybe hint that you'd like to try new things and experiment a little. If when you ask him, he still doesn't want to try anything it might be that he's not too comfortable with you. Maybe then you'd like to talk to him about how things are going between you guys and consider a break up. If he's not making you happy nor pleasuring you, why be together?
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selectopaque answered Thursday July 28 2005, 6:10 pm: Length should not be everything.
There are positions to compensate for short length.
There is also the option of using toys like you mentioned. You need to get him to realize that it's not an insult to him that you want to use toys. He needs to be comfortable with the things that you want to try in order for the relationship to work.
But, seriously, the need to have a hugely long penis size is somewhat in womens head. There are almost no nurves after the first few inches in your vagina.
But, you should still try using toys and different positions before you become completely frustrated with his penis size.
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