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Hi guys! My name is Ally and I'm 14. My first name rhymes with my last name. I am full on italian and proud.I love making people laugh, and I hate war & fighting. I also hate bullies because they think they're so much better then everyone else. I love to sing, act, and dance, which is why I want to be on Broadway when I grow up :). I am a unique person, i put my own clothes together, and I don't really have a style,I hate being like everyone else. I hate cocky guys, and guys who make fun of girls that aren't pretty. My favorite band is O.A.R. and Ben Folds Five. I love the keyboard. That's about all you need to know about me :P.
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I'm a married man. I used to have a group of female friends in high school and they recently contacted me. I want to see them, but my wife would probably not want me to. Should I see them secretly, ask my wife and respect her wishes, or tell my wife and do as I please? We are just friends.
NEVER go behind her back, because eventually, she will find out, and that will make her even more mad then you going to see your friends. Or even if she doesn't you will probably feel bad for hiding something from her. Have you ever thought about bringing your wife with you to meet your friends? Or is that embarressing because you don't know what the girls are going to say? Well, if it is, you should be like "Hey Wifey, is it ok if I go visit a group of female friends from high school. I promise nothing will happen blah blah you can trust me." Stuff like that. She SHOULD respect you and let you go.
Best of Luck ♥
hey my name is ashley... and almost everyday afetr school i come home crying because i am always being made fun of because i smell... i have no reason to smell. whats going on, how do i get them to stop, what should i do about the smell?
I know you probably shower daily, right? (If you don't, you should..when girl's become older it is a necissettee (spelling?) to shower daily.) Does your house have a certain smell that maybe other houses don't have, and then when you get to school you smell like it? (that's happened to my friend before.) Ask one of your friends that have been over your house if the house has a distingushing smell to it. Or, everyday before you go to school, spray JUST A LITTLE BIT of your mom's perfume (Or whomevers is there.) on your wrist, and then with your wrist, put it on a little piece of your neck. As for the bullying, I know I HATE bullies (It even says so in my advice colomn.) Just don't show them that you are getting hurt by the comments..if someone says something..just start laughing. They'll be so confused and angry that they're joke (Which they probably stayed up all night to think of with they're itty bitty minds.) didn't make you cry. If you just keep on laughing they will eventually stop (I know from expierence.) just think that you are not alone, everybody gets made fun of.
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I've had a crush on a boy since I was in third grade. Now I am going into sixth when school starts again. I asked him out in fourth grade and he said "Yes I will go out with you." Everyone found out thou. A month later he came up to me and said "You know we are just friends." Then I would say "Ya, I know."
I love him not like him. He is a christain (And I am supposed to marry a christain). And I was going to go up to him and say," Why did you say we were just friends when we were going out and if it is because everyone knew then we can go back out starting now and no one has to know.
But I don't know if I should.
Of course you should ask him, just don't ask him that because he might like take if offensivly or something. What I would do is just ask him why he said you were friends, and if he gives you a reason just be like oh well we can change it by *blah blah blah*. Do you hang out and talk with him a lot? It might be kind of weird if you just randomly ask him out..try to like get to know him a little better like talk on the phone with him and go to places in groups of people but have him be there.
Hope I Helped
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i hear O.A.R is a really good band.
What are some good songs by them?
You've come to the right place my friend
there absolute best song is:
Crazy Game Of Poker
Some of there others are
Hey Girl
Love n Memories
Old Man Time
52-50
Delicate Few
King Of The Thing
Risen
Wonderful Day
The Stranger
Program Director
If you need more just tell me :)
what are some good idie/rock/emo
songs or bands.
i need a new myspace song but ive had like every single song!
here are some like indie/ska bands.
-The Low Life
- O.A.R. (Of A Revolution)
-Dispatch
-Sublime
And then there's Ben Folds Five..I just like the sound of they're songs..they're pretty non emo though.
hey people i start cross country next week and i have no clue what kind of shoes to get.so any one know a place to get good running shoes.and i will also need cross country shoes ...please help me!!
thanks.
meghan
The best shoe for any long-distance sport is lightest running shoe with the most support the for the weight. Many coaches suggest Saucony running shoes, but there are many brands. You want a very light shoe that has built-in support for the arches. When you go shopping, check the weight of the shoes very carefully. Many runners also like to have spikes for rough terrain. There are both the screw-in kind and the permanent. This depends on the level and age of the runner. Again, check with your coach.
You could go to like Foot Locker, or just a sporty shoe store that's near you. Just ask the people that work there the type of shoe you need (very light shoe that has built-in support for the arches etc.)and they will probably help you! GOod luck!
How do you bring up, or you know the possibility of oral/hand sex? I really want to, but I'm not sure he will (he's very shy and modest). We've been dating for almost a year now (but haven't done anything because he goes all over with his dad who's a world traveler)and love him with all my heart.
You can just be like..how do you feel about oral/hand sex? And then if he says no..maybe he's just not ready too..but don't be embarressed, because he is probably embaresed to for saying no, just respect his opinion. You could ask him to just take a break from traveling through the world with his dad so you guys could have like a a really cute date together or something,..and then you could ask him then..it might be scary, but it's really the only way you're going to know.. i hope I helped!
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I keep making plans for dieting. I try and give up im 13 yrs old 5'2 and 117 pounds.I need some inspiration. Please help!
YOu could like,go on it with a friend, and like that owuld make each other stronger..like if you staart giving up your friend could be like NO! This girl I know is on a diet with her mom. You could do that too.
Some people go on diets cause they truly think they are fat and that motivates them to get skinnier...now you are 117 pounds? that seems like a normal weight for a 13 year old..I'm 13 and I weigh 120 pounds..It's really normal! So maybe you don't even need to diet..you can do something else like..running or doing situps or something..
If you truly think dieting is the way to go, then just try to motivate yourself somehow to keep with it..you can like get a friend to make sure that you are doing it or something
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Can someone help me find step by step pictures and instructions for making a fishtail braid on the net?
I've tried to find it by myself but the instructions i got sucks.
thanks in advance!!
I love fishtail braids!! haha. they're really good to wear if you go into the ocean, because it doesn't let any of the salt absorb into your hair. (Sorry extra information.)
Step One: Start by pulling all hair back into a ponytail and tie it.It should be noted that this braid works best on dry hair that is medium to very long in length and is not layered.
Step Two: Divide the ponytail into two equal sections of hair. Take a small (approximately 1 inch section) from underneath the left section of hair and cross it over the right section of hair.
Step Three: then take a small section (same approximate size as the previous section) from underneath the right side.
Step Four: Cross the section from underneath the right over to the left side of your hair. continue steps 2-4 until you reach the end of the ponytail. Secure the remaining "tail hair" with a "hair friendly" elastic band.
Oh jeez I hope that's easy to understand..it really isn't as hard as it looks..i learned it in like 5 minutes. I couldn't really find any pictures that show you how to do it, just pictures that are already done.. I hope you figure it out!!
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so theres a guy i used to like alot; he's cute and wonderful...
lately ive been talking to him, and those feelings i had have been coming back.
the problem is i have trouble starting conversations.
any ideas???
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haha omg me too! I had to write down subjects to talk about before I called him! haha
You can do that, too if you ever forget...
What are you doing like tommarow or next week? you can tell him about that and that can sprak a conversation..or like what does he like to do ? you guys can talk about that..you can talk about what classes he is having next year, and then be like cool, why are you taking those? or you can talk about like what's going on with your friends (If you guys have the same friends.) or like what shows or music you guys both like and stuff just think about what you talk about with your friends, and talk about it with the guy.. it's not as scary as you think it might be. Do you plan on talking to him over the phone? Well what I do is, i turn on the TV and he turns on his, and then we watch a tv show together..haha it sounds stupid but it comes in handy cause then you don't really have to make up a conversation..you can just talk about what's going on in the show. (This guy and me watch south park..I know it's so romantic..)
To graduate high school I had to take a theater class but I wasn't really into that stuff so instead of doing my assignments, my teacher let me do other things for grades (stay after and clean the stage, stuff like that). Whenever I'd do that, we would be together. We talked all the time and started to get really close. We ended up making out once but we didn't let it get in farther. We got together a few times outside of school for coffee and such but nothing more because we knew we couldn't
Well, now that I've graduated, he not my teacher, and I don't even go to that school anymore. So do you think it'd be okay to try to pursue a relationship with him? I'm 18 and he's 24 by the way.
absolutely...age shouldn't get in the way if you guys like each other..Just be careful ok?
Theres this guy that I work with (I work at Worlds of fun, an amusment park were both 14) well anyways i really like him. hes one of the people that dress up as the snoopy characters (lol i know its funny) and i work in the gift shops so sometimes ill see him. that last time we talked we talked and kinda flirted a little bit. and the other day we walked passed eachother we just stared at eachother it was like neither of us could take our eyes off of eachother lol i know it sounds retarded but i really do like him but i dont know what to say so him when we talk please give me advice about how i can show this guy that i like him and hoe can i terll if he likes me?
Well i don't really think there is a correct way of flirting..girls have different opinions..what i would do is just keep flirting with him haha. I read in a seventeen magazine (I think it was 17) that if you like a guy ask his friends about him, and his friends will probably tell the guy....or in your case other workers he hangs out with. When your alone with him or something you can ask if he wants to go get like a burger with you at lunch break or something...or to go see a movie after work (If your uncomfertable with that, you can get a bunch of other workers to go with you guys.) You can also give him your phone number. If he calls you a lot, he probably likes you..and if he talks/asks about you to other workers..
Or, if the workers with you gossip a lot, you can tell one of the workers, and then she tells someone, and then it gets to him..
but don't ask one of your workers to tell him cause i just htink that's being cowardly.
GOOD LUCK! Can you tell me what happens? I'm so interested in it now!!
P.S.- you can work at amusement parks when you're 14?
Hello. I have an appointment to get my eyebrow pierced tomorrow and a tattoo on my shoulder. I've already decided I was going to get a butterfly tattoo on my shoulder since I have a butterfly tattoo on my lower back. I'm sorta trying to look for more designs though just in case I find something better. I am wanting either something with butterflies, or something with stars and moons. I want a really pretty design. I've been looking soooo much for some nice tattoos. It's hard though cuz I keep finding all these sites where you have to buy the design and download it and everything. I want to just be able to save the picture as it is, so I'll be able to send it to the guy who is doing my tattoo tomorrow. If anyone finds any really nice butterfly or star and moon tattoos that would be good on someone's shoulder, please let me know! I'd really appreciate it. Please answer back asap cuz I don't have much time. I don't want the tattoo to be huge either, but I also don't want it too small. I guess you could say i want it to be medium sized.
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I've always been into the ska scene. I was wondering if you guys had any new ska groups I can try out. I like a lot of ska, but I prefer the sounds of sublime, etc. Kind of laid back and more mellow as apposed to say... the Mad Caddies or faster ska music. Do you have any other bands I could listen to?
The best ska band in the whole entire world is O.A.R. (It stands for Of A Revolution.) download the song "That Was A Crazy Game Of Poker" or get the CD In Between Now And Then...I'm telling you they have the best music, even though they're songs are pretty long.
Another band is The Low Life...download the song "Bag Of Money" and "Snuffy"
The greatest song ever is "The General" by Dispatch, it is kind of fast, but it's really good.
Yesterday my friend wanted me to sleep over her house another day but I cou ldn't because I had a bbq to go to and she wanted to come. So I called my parents asking if they could ask my aunt so they did but she said no. Then she got pissed at me because I wanted to go even if she couldn't go. I think it is really dumb but I don't know what to do. Last week she got mad because she couldn't sleep over my house. What should I do? How should I talk to her because I want her to stop getting mad at me over stupid things.
Whoa that's creepy haha..Does she have any other friends? Maybe she's worried that you will like ditch her for some other friend or something. Or maybe she is worried that you guys aren't spending enough time together. Or you could just ask her why she gets so mad. For the BBQ thing, just tell her that you can't help it, it's not your fault she can't go.
Hope I Helped
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Is DDR a good way to exercise? lol thankss.
haha even though it's a video game, it actually is a really good way to exercise. If you go to the main menu, there is a type of DDR game called workout mode (Or something like that.)
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Hi,
uhm
i have zits, pimples they look like red small dots but it is not on my head..lol..Its on my cheast and on my beast..(how gross is that) maybe i get them cuz of the hot weather/ do u know anything i can use to make those pimples dissaper??
I hate them so much!
PLZ HELP
Yeah I have them, too! So do a lot of my friends.
Do you have long hair? It could be your hair oil rubbing onto your body oil or something like that.
The one thing you should do is get scrub soap on them everytime you take a shower, and they will go away
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Hey guys. Right now, I'm a bit sad. For as long as I can remember, my number one priority in life has been softball. It's all I ever wanted to do. When, I lived with my mom, it was all I ever DID. I moved in with my dad when I was about 9, going on 10. I still played softball, and I still loved the game with all my heart. I made all-stars every year I played. Then, one year after we lost a game, my all-star coach made us practice right afterwards. We were all too hot and worn out, and my dad was furious with this, and told my coach I quit. This happened when I was about 12. Ever since then, I haven't made the all-stars team, and I see myself becoming worse and worse. I would do anything to play softball in college, but I don't think I'm going to make it. I'm now going to be a sophomore in high school, and I'm on the high school team. I want to get better, and help myself. But I don't know how. I also need confidence, something I lack tremendously. I'm going to the World Cup of Softball in July, and I just want to be able know that there's a chance I could be there one day. Maybe not on the Olympic team, but a college team, one that is highly respected, like the Texas Longhorns. It is my dream to play for them. I guess I'm sad because I know I'm not going to make it to where I want to be with softball. I don't really know what my question is, but could someone just help me?
So ok Let me try to get this...your dad said you quit, but then you went back, and now you aren't making allstars?
I see what's wrong. Since you don't make Allstar's anymore, you're becoming worse and worse. Well do you know why you are becoming worse? Because you're giving up!!! The reason you are you are lacking in softball is just because your not making allstars!!! Do you know what that means?! That means you've got to work harder! Of course a position on the texas longhorns isn't going to come to you on a plate. You have to work for it!! Does your coach not like you?! Work harder at practice, and he (or she.) will take notice. If you think you are getting worse, then practice outside of practice with a friend or your dad or just yourself!! Run a mile every morning! You have to work for what you want! If you are feeling unconfident, just imagine yourself pitching (or whatever position you like.) For the Longhorns and that will give you more adrenaline to be better. imagine yourself being the mia hamm of softball and going all the way to the world cup and WINNING! Just think about all that and you will be more confident in yourself!! Why don't you think you're going to make it in softball?! Your only a sophmore!! I can imagine you saying that when you're like 60!! but not when your 15! (or 16!) You still have the rest of your life to go where you want to go!
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hi, is it normal to feel suicidal if you family are arguing, not just regular rows, but like, heavy, hitting, swearing, etc....? this is getting to be real bad between my sister and mom. and i cant do anything. i hate it! it starts over something small, and turns huge. my sister usually starts it, but my mom doesnt help either. so is it normal for me to feel suicidal, and usually thinking about it?
Yes, it is normal to feel suicidal, ( I use to feel like that, too.) I know it isn't really you're problem, but if you want to fix it, you could go full house and sit down and talk to your mom about trying to not get in fights with your sister. Tell her to try to see the fight from her sister's point of veiw. (That's what I do.) How old is your sister? About 16,17, or 18? If she is, then trust me please, it's going to get better. My brother when he was 17 get caught doing some bad stuff and it was just horrible times, but he grew out of his troublemaker stage, my mom stopped crying, and our family was back to normal..So it will get better.
You can feel suicidal, but please I'm asking you to not actually do it because you still have the rest of your life to live, and if you throw it all away, your going to regret missing out on some amazing things that could happen
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I think I might be pregnant.. I had sex with my boyfriend without using a condom..about 2 weeks ago..He was supposed to pull out in time and he claims he did.. but "down there" was wet like "his stuff" was all over it... as if he pulled out as going ...!
I know this was a STUPID thing.. to not use a condom and whatnot.. but its too late.. and i want to know if you guys think im pregnant!?
Im like paranoid now.. and feel dizzy all the time.. ! My periods not supposed to come for a while either.. so I dont know.. plus, its realllly irregular and I dont even know when to expect it!
HELP!!!
Omg it's ok don't worry!! Even if you are pregnant, it's not a bad thing, it's a miracle. (cheesy I know but that's how I look at it.) My brother had a baby at 16, so don't htink you're the only one whose made that mistake.
I guess the only thing you really can do is just wait till you get your period, and get a test. Don't tell your mother until you take a test, because if you tell her you think you are pregnant, and then you turn out not to be, she is gonna start to be WAYY overprotective.
Here are some signs of pregnancy:
Nausia
Morning sickness
Tender & Swollen breasts
Extreme fatigue
Mood swings
Hope I helped
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P.S.- Can you tell me if you are having one or not when you find out? I really want to know now, haha. (You don't have to if you don't want to.)