His name isnt jason but im gonna call him that Jason came here from Ecuador and i wanna know are immigrants allowed to get married? :/
Yes, but there is a lot of legal issues that come along with it.
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I have a basic phone, meanwhile most of my friends have a smartphone. I know if you have an iPhone or use an app like kik, it tells you if the person you're texting has read your message or not. I wanna know if since I have a basic phone, does that still work?
Example, I have a friend getting on my nerves and I've been ignoring his texts all day, and he has a smartphone (not sure which kind or brand) I have a basic phone with the most minimal data plan possible. Does his smartphone still tell him that I've read his texts?
No he doesn't. It has to be another smartphone for him to tell. Also he might not even have that function on, on his phone.
Lillian Garvin
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17/f
I have the urge to have sex but I don't want to lose my v-card. IDK, I'm pretty desperate for it and I kind of hate how I'm always fantasizing.
I am a 18 year old female who still hasn't swiped my v-card either. I want to everyday haha. All the time when I home alone haha. But seriously I think about it this way I've waited so long, why not wait until the right person comes along. I'm not saying wait until marriage, I'm just saying wait until he is what your looking for. And if you do decide just be safe. And masturbate, we all do it so don't be ashamed.
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So my bf broke up with me about a week ago saying he wasn't really ready and wasn't that interested he said we were friends for now but he blocked me on IG and doesn't respond to my kiks and he didnt defriend me on xbox. Then today, his cousin texted me and said to take him out of my bio (one of my back up IGs I haven't been on and I had him as a friend) he doesn't like you anymore. And all if this has made me so depressed to the point that I wanna kill myself because he really loved me and showed me that he cared and he changed my life and I really loved him. I really want him back so badly and i want him to talk to me but what should I do? Thanks.
(Btw: we were together for 3 months :/)
Defiantly do not kill yourself for starters. I know this is cliche but there are other fish in the see. Because there are, you got him and later on you can get another. I am not going to tell you to just get over him, because saying is a hell of a lot easier than done. I can't get over Chris Brown and we've never met before haha. Though I know that him leaving you was the best thing for you. Just think about it, he let you go so that another guy can who is actually right for you can come along. There are 4 billion dudes out there, you are too great to cry over ONE. Sulk for like a day, then delete him from everything and then add some more cute respectable guys to take his place. Trust me when I say, HE ISN'T WORTH IT!
Lillian Garvin
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I'm really confused about this, I place my penis inside her but it doesn't ENTIRELY go in, half inside half outside! There's something inside like a layer that stops it from going in , this must mean that she's a virjin right?
By the way my finger also goes in easily and doesn't reach that layer.
So how much distance is there between the outside layer and the inside virjinity layer?
High five to all.
-Thank You.
I will answer the first question first. I don't know if she was a virgin or not before, but if she was she isn't now. Just because you didn't get it in ALL the way, you still got it in. Second question, just because that layer of skin the hymen wasn't broken doesn't mean she was a virgin. It took my friend several times of trying before she broke hers. And I'm hoping your finger is shorter than your penis and can't reach her hymen and this is why...hopefully. And there is no such thing as a virginity layer. Don't read this the wrong way, I'm trying to say this in the most informative way I know how.
Lillian Garvin
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I dunno what to expect in 9th grade. I mean the work is nothing to me i have great work habits idc about that its just like i go to a PreDominantely white school, and im black so people make a lot of jokes about stereotypes for black girls over the years ive never had a lot of problems with things maybe a weave joke or two mostly but now thag im going tohigh school im scared that people be rude to me. Does it get like that in high school? Or does it just stay the same with an a fewjokes i mean im not sensitive but i have some friends that might be not sure. Im also afraid that some people i hangout with are going to like go down the wrong road
I was in the same boat as you 4 years ago. I am black, in a pretty much all white community. Not only that i'm 5'11. I prepared myself for every thing imaginable. The thing is that high school is not what you see in the movies. Yes there are cliques, but its nothing like what you see in t.v. People only say what you allow them to say. I'm not saying to fight or anything, I'm just saying you don't have to take it. And also know your friends will likely change because you will change during your high school career. You seem bright and know when to cut it off with people who have nothing going for themselves. I wish you the best of luck, and have fun. high school is the beginning of the end for being a kid. so live it up! don't worry to much.
Lillian Garvin
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So my boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over two months and we haven't kissed. I know he wants to kiss me, because he has said so before. I'm just nervous because what if I do something wrong? He will be my first kiss and it will probably be after school, in front of all our friends. Oh and so you know I'm in seventh grade so I'm not that young. Also, please nothing about " You're too young, you don't know what love is " because last time I checked you don't have to be a certain age to love someone. Thanks c:
Actually your to young to do other things but not kiss. Be honest with him and tell him your not comfortable kissing in public quite yet. So do it in private some where so you can get use to it. And even if you don't want to tell him its your first kiss, just kiss him alone first.
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Okay, so I have these two "friends" that I've known for a long time now. One of them has always been really jealous of me, dated every guy after I did, always tried to sabotage my relationships, etc. The other one was the same way, but slightly more sneaky about it and her thing was making everyone feel bad for her. So anyway, we were friends throughout high school and I always forgave them for everything they did and acted like nothing happened because I hate drama. But then Senior year, they made up a HUGE lie about me and everyone believed them. For about 3 months of my senior year, I had no friends. No one would talk to me, even teachers believed them. I was completely by myself. When I would walk in the room, they would make bitchy comments about me and everyone would laugh.
Then after we graduated I made the mistake of forgiving them and letting them too close, and they put sugar in my gas tank of my brand new car and ruined the motor. Since then they've done numerous other things to try and bring me down.
So fast forward to now. I am getting married in 5 months. My best friend (who WAS a mutual friend of theirs) is in my wedding as a bridesmaid. These girls think they are going to be as well... I have no idea where they got that idea, but thats what they think. I don't even want to invite them. But I really do not want any more drama, and I know that if they dont get an invitation they will raise hell again. I'm scared to lose all the friends I worked so hard to get back. But my mom (who is doing all of the invitations and basically in charge of everything guest-related) said she will NOT send them an invitation and is probably going to get security to keep them out. Honestly, I think if they come they will do something outrageous like knock over my cake or say something terrible about me. I guess I'm just on the fence about what to say to them when they find out theyre not invited. Or should I just invite them to save drama and risk them ruining my wedding?
Thanks so much for your help!
Not to be mean but why are you referring to these girls as friends? They have never been your friends and never will be. If their not your friends why would you invite them? They have only brought chaos and pain in your life. You should not even think twice about inviting them.This will be one of the best times of your life, don't let them ruin it. This is a new chapter of your life. Move on from the past.Hoped I helped.
Lillian
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So I'm in the uk from usa and I took a trip to visit friends with friends. So my on friend ron I began to like like him and I began flirting and like randomly he would grab my hand with is hand hold it and then like stroke it but the problem is he is like a really friendly guy with girls he's a big lovable guy so i can't tell if he likes me bc he puts his arm around other girls to but my friends want u's to kiss but I leave soon with him bc hes with my group that came. So like I don't know bc tonight I just feel like crying tonight bc we were all walking around and on of the groups uk friends came along and he was like all over them but he like left me for them instant. I just want someone to like me I'm 15 f bc I really fall hard for guys:(
You wrote the answer in your own question. He flirts a lot a guy likes that usually tells you that he likes you because he does everything thing else with other people. And another thing I think you might not want him but just a relationship in general, sooner or later you will find that boy to like you. Until then live your single life free and without care. That boy will find you once you start doing that.
Lillian
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18/f
I'm sorry, this is long... But advice and responses would be much appreciated! Thank you!
So me and my ex-boyfriend broke up a month ago. But we were still acting like we were together for a while. A couple of days ago, he was acting a bit weird and he was becoming less affectionate. He said that he didn't notice, and that he was just stressed out about a lot of things. And 2 days ago, he told me he loved me and 30 minutes after that he texted me saying, "we need to talk. I read your blog." My blog was a place I write in private and he was the only person he could read it (which he only does once a month).
My blog was about him. How he's been treating me a bit badly, and I was writing out how I felt and afterwards I would feel better. (He usually doesn't like it when I talk to him about how I feel because we're not not together).
He texted me the next morning telling me that I should make my life easier and just move on.
During the beginning of those text messages, I said "if you don't like me, then just say so." And he said, "ok. I don't like you. Take care" So because of that text message, that's when the whole conversation happened. And I asked him if it was true because it didn't make any sense when he told me he loved me the night before. And he said, "it doesn't matter." And I said, "I want you to be honest with me. I don't want you to say that just because you want me to move on." He replied, "On what conditions would you move on?" And I said, "Idk... But is it true?" And he said, "Whatever you think." "I want to know." "I don't care."
We messaging back and forth that day, until I basically got the last word. He didn't answer because I was "too stubborn to get through." and because he was "tired of this."
And after all of the text messages, he texted me 4 hours later randomly saying, "my family are at ______" Me: Huh?? Him: "They're going to be back tomorrow." Me: Oh. Him: "Let's have sex. Come over. Just kidding." Me: What??" Him: I was kidding. Me: K. Then afterwards he said, "bye" and I asked why, and he said that he was moving to another country for a year to study there as well.
And of course, I'm a very gullible person so I called his best friend and asked. His friend told me that he's most likely joking because he already applied for another university and he got a loan to go there. So I tried tricking him into telling me the truth after I heard that. And at the end he said, "He needs to eat. Plus, I don't want to go over there to tell you. It was a joke."
I'm not sure if he did that because he was bored, or because he wanted to get a reaction out of me since I wasn't talking to him much after that conversation. Or he was saying that to try to get me to move on. And right now, he's acting cold-hearted to me. We haven't spoken all day today. But he still kept our relationship status up on facebook.
So does he still like me?
Yes, it was my fault for venting on my blog. I should've put it on private for him not to see.
He is basically trying to get a reaction out of you. I believe he still some what cares because when dudes move on they really move on. You should feel if he is really playing you. But that might not be the case. Only you know him and wahat he is capable of.
Lillian
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I'm a 13 year old girl, and I got my period (not for the first time) around june 12th and then from about June 29 to july 2nd. Then I got it the 21st of July and I still have it. Is it normal to get it twice in one month?
And tampons. I really dont know how to put them in. Does it hurt? Advice helps! Thanks :)
One of my friends had her period for 20 sraight days the first time she got hers. Your body is trying to regulate itself for the months to come. Though if it keeps occuring then maybe you should mention to your mother and docter. For tampons I strongly reccomend reading the box. For some girls it hurts the first time, though after while it gets easier and you get comfortable with your body and you don't tense up as much. Try, and you don't like it stick with pads.
Lillian
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My sink isn't bad at all compared to some people, but I do have a few pimples and I wish my skin was clearer. I feel like everyone stares at one of my zits when I talk to them. I'm 13 and a girl so it's cause of my age I get them but not all of my friends have pimples. How can I get clear skin, quickly and easily. Easy facials, soaps, creams, home concoctions. Anything! And I do wash my face with a special skin product but I guess it's not working! Please help :)
If its because of age for sure then u should try Proactive because if theres only a few it will be easy to get rid of, and once you keep using it its hard for themm to reappear.
Lillian
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This coming school year will be my senior year. My boyfriend graduated this past school year. We live in two different states and have just recently been allowed to visit each other. Last school year we agreed that due to the fact that I couldn't go to my junior prom with him that I wouldn't go and since it was his senior year he could decide whether or not he wanted to go. He decided that he wasn't going to go and promised that we would go to MY senior prom together. Now, with senior year approaching he has said flat out that he doesn't want to go to my senior prom, because he "wasn't allowed" to go to his. I really want to go but I have no idea how to convince him?
Not to be rude but you guys might not last fforever that is just how life works. If you want to go its your choice, just like you gave hm a choice. He should respect that this is your last year and you want to do it big. If he doesn't understand then maybe you have to talk about something more than just prom. You don't have to go with a guy just your friends. Hoped I helped.
Lillian
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i am from india..i am 19 years old female from india , mam i am really helpless i am still crying while typing , mam when i was 14years old i had some famly problem due to my dad he never liked me and same was from my side and also he used to fight with my mom then i took up mine mother n mine responsibility and always kept tried keeping her happy then i got ditched by my friends then i met one person (he was not my bf)i started liking him i loved him its been 4years that i still love him but i couldnt tell him about my feelings he used to love someone else , then i spoilt my self when i came to know that he has passed away , then i kept my self away from everyone , i am taking different different pills ( sleeping) since 2years but i dont sleep whole night , and now its been 7days i met one person over yahoo messenger i have started liking him as a friend , i feel good when i talk to him but now i want him into my life because i am all alone and also hes very much appropriate , but hes married but his wife left him and hes not intersted into love..please tellme why does this happens with me everytime why with me mam??????????????????/ my email id is payalgulati86@yahoo.in
I just want you to know that your not the only one who has a lot of tragedy in their life. Its a part of life. I want you to know that before you start looking for someone knew you need to make sure youself is stable. You can't meet anybody who matters until you get your self ready. You have to be comfortable being yourself alone before you can do that with another person.
Lillian
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I dont know if im in the write section but i have an eating disorder. I am 12 years old. I am seriously afraid to tell my parents. Or maybe its because i dont know how but every since i was in 2nd grade i was teased because of my weight so in about 4th grade i stoped eating. I would Only eat 150 calories a day and if i went over that i would through up whatever i ate then wouldnt eat for afew days. When peOple look at me they just think that imam fit but everyone can see the outline of my bones. My mom just thinks that i am skinny. I need help. Please somebody help
I beg you to tell someone. It doesn't have to be your parent(at first), your teacher, someone you trust. No disrespect but you do have a problem that a lot of people struggle with. You don't have to do anything alone. People will help you. And for the people who teased you, don't let them decide your life. By just writing this message I know your stronger then that. Hoped I helped and God bless.
Lillian
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About a month or two ago one of my co-workers and I started talking/texting pretty much everyday. HE STARTS THE texting. We will text for hours. I recently got out of a long relationship, and I am not looking for a boyfriend. It is just nice to talk to someone I guess, because he is a really cool guy. I am 20 years old, and I am not the kind of girl that just talks to whoever because I am bored. I think I am actually interested in the guy. He is cool with my ex, who does not know we have been texting a bit. I suggested friends with benefits ( we had sex once, and again I do not get around) until one of us got into a relationship because I do not want to get hurt. He was excited about the idea. I asked him if he had a crush on me and he said i am funny, hott, and cool but he does not see me as a future girlfriend. I don't even want a boyfriend right now anyway, but I have never really gotten rejected before. I don't think I am all that or anything, but now I feel so insecure like what's wrong with me! I'm confused, please any advice?
I don't care if your a ugly person or the most beautiful person in the world. Whenever any one gets rejected its kind of painful, its just a part of life. So nothing is wrong with you. But the key thing is to think positive. Think of the rejection as an opportunity for someone better to come.
Lillian
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Well today my mom was breathing down my neck as usual about my english grade and college. I need to upgrade my english marks for a college course, so i have to sign up for an adult high school for the course. She keeps reminding me about it and she keeps telling me i better get it done quick every time she sees me and i was getting sick of it. So for once in my 17 years of living i actually stood up to her and told her to stop pressuring me about school. Then she lashed out at me about how she doesn't care about me anymore. What should i do now?
Prove her wrong. Make sure you do what you have to do to be successful. You finally got your space, now use it to your advantage. When you start doing what you need to do, she will see that you CAN do it by yourself. But make sure she still realize you want her there just not breathing down your neck.
Lillian
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im 15yr old girl and the guy is 19
we started going out and everything went well but when we were dating for 3 months my parents made us brake up...(legal stuff) so we broke up but we still have feelings for eachother and we still talk the way we used to except we dont say we are a couplee so what does that make us? He is not my boyfriend and i am not his girlfriend but we still talk like we are. We dont have sex or anything like that but when we get to see eacohter we cuddle and stuff sometimes do stuff but nothing more to it. When a new guy asks me if im single i dont know what to say because i AM single but in a way im taken and same goes to the guy i like. We are not confused of what we feel but we are comfused of the title we have. What kind of relationship is it that we keep?
No matter what you say you are girlfriend and boyfriend. Your emotions label you not what you say. But you need to be careful with relationship just because there are some serious legal issues that can be charged on him.
Lillian
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how do u know if a guy is attracted to you? Do every guy think about sex at one point. Even the nicest guy who is really modest. How do you know if he wants you but is to shy to act or make the first move. What does it mean when a guy talks to you and looks straight into your eyes? I just have these questions so hopefully you can answer them that would be nice :))
There are many ways that you know a dude may like you. One is when they look at you for while, tease you or talk about you a lot. Some guys dudes go straight for the sex proportion about the relationship but that also depends on the age of the boy. If a man/boy looks you straight in your eyes meas really nothing, because he could be lying,telling the truth, or like your eye color haha.
Lillian
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Ok when a guy proposes and gives a girl a ring, does she get him an engagement ring too or does he just get the wedding ring? How does this work?
Just wondering, thanks!
It really about your money situation or how you want to do it. Women of course naturally get two rings. But men can live with just one. You can also get to for the man also.
Lillian
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