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Does he still like me?
18/f
I'm sorry, this is long... But advice and responses would be much appreciated! Thank you!
So me and my ex-boyfriend broke up a month ago. But we were still acting like we were together for a while. A couple of days ago, he was acting a bit weird and he was becoming less affectionate. He said that he didn't notice, and that he was just stressed out about a lot of things. And 2 days ago, he told me he loved me and 30 minutes after that he texted me saying, "we need to talk. I read your blog." My blog was a place I write in private and he was the only person he could read it (which he only does once a month).
My blog was about him. How he's been treating me a bit badly, and I was writing out how I felt and afterwards I would feel better. (He usually doesn't like it when I talk to him about how I feel because we're not not together).
He texted me the next morning telling me that I should make my life easier and just move on.
During the beginning of those text messages, I said "if you don't like me, then just say so." And he said, "ok. I don't like you. Take care" So because of that text message, that's when the whole conversation happened. And I asked him if it was true because it didn't make any sense when he told me he loved me the night before. And he said, "it doesn't matter." And I said, "I want you to be honest with me. I don't want you to say that just because you want me to move on." He replied, "On what conditions would you move on?" And I said, "Idk... But is it true?" And he said, "Whatever you think." "I want to know." "I don't care."
We messaging back and forth that day, until I basically got the last word. He didn't answer because I was "too stubborn to get through." and because he was "tired of this."
And after all of the text messages, he texted me 4 hours later randomly saying, "my family are at ______" Me: Huh?? Him: "They're going to be back tomorrow." Me: Oh. Him: "Let's have sex. Come over. Just kidding." Me: What??" Him: I was kidding. Me: K. Then afterwards he said, "bye" and I asked why, and he said that he was moving to another country for a year to study there as well.
And of course, I'm a very gullible person so I called his best friend and asked. His friend told me that he's most likely joking because he already applied for another university and he got a loan to go there. So I tried tricking him into telling me the truth after I heard that. And at the end he said, "He needs to eat. Plus, I don't want to go over there to tell you. It was a joke."
I'm not sure if he did that because he was bored, or because he wanted to get a reaction out of me since I wasn't talking to him much after that conversation. Or he was saying that to try to get me to move on. And right now, he's acting cold-hearted to me. We haven't spoken all day today. But he still kept our relationship status up on facebook.
So does he still like me?
Yes, it was my fault for venting on my blog. I should've put it on private for him not to see.
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He is basically trying to get a reaction out of you. I believe he still some what cares because when dudes move on they really move on. You should feel if he is really playing you. But that might not be the case. Only you know him and wahat he is capable of.
Lillian
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I think he definitely still has feelings for you. If he just wanted to end your relationship, he wouldn't continue to play his games, and as insignificant as it sounds he probably wouldn't have kept his relationship status the same. If he decided to randomly text you 4 hours later without talking, then he definitely wasn't kidding. He wanted to see how you would react. That's what guys do...they say what they're really thinking, then they say "just kidding" so they don't get themselves in trouble for what they say. Trust me, one of my closest guy friends does this all the time and it gets me so mad.
I think there needs to be some changes in your relationship...definitely consider making your blog private or try talking to him about things first before you put it online.
So yes, I definitely think he still likes you. Good luck girl :)
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