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i need a way to cope with stress i have no one to talk to know one gets me im emo and im 14 female and all alone i'm a cutter and i hate myself and it seems like im the only one thats like this because everyones so preppy help also i get depressed alot (link)
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One you arent emo. Emo is a type of music to clearify that. You arent alone you just wont open up. Make friends. I was the same way. Once you get over the cutting stage you will hate all the cuts and will most likely be ashamed. Its a lifetime problem with a temporary situation.
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This is NOT a joke. I seriously think my house is haunted. Tonight I saw something (a black figure out of the corner of my eye) walk past my room. The reason why I dont think it was "just my eyes playing a trick on me" is because I felt a prescence, like there was someone there. When I looked down the hall, there was no one there. I asked my Dad who was watching TV in another room if it was him and he said, "No." And my Mom was sleeping in her room and no one else was home. Please help! This has happened 3 or 4 times and I cant sleep at night! What should I do?? Has this happened to anyone else? How did you feel less scared? :( (link)
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Well, I have ghosts in my house. I have seen them before. Just think of it as a blessing to have someone with you because they could be evil. Most likely if you dont go searching or saying stuff about it you will be fine. I just dont go in my attic when im alone. Other then that i basically just look at it as a blessing and a good thing.
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Ive always had low self-esteem but for the past few weeks it has really hit a high point. About two weeks ago I ate too much after being on a great diet and losing almost 15 pounds and I weighed myself for the first time then since I had lost weight and i already gained 2 pounds back. I know it wasnt much but it made me so upset that I decided that I would just throw it up and just not eat for the rest of the night. Since then its become a habit. Ill eat a regular sized meal and then throw it up, eat later in the day, keep it and just not eat again. Some days I dont eat at all because I know that I will just want to throw it up later. I really scared myself and Ive been okay for the past few days, but I dont want to feel like I need to throw up again. I know the health issues with it and I know it is very damaging both physically and mentally. I dont want my mom to worry about me any more than she already has to, shes dealing with a lot of stress right now and so I was just wondering if there are any ways that would help me to deal with this or if there is anywhere I could get help. Any advice would be helpful. Thank you (link)
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Actually, throwing up doesnt help. The more food that goes in you, the faster your matabilism ( sp?) and yeah. thats it. So good luck.
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if you have sex with a condom ..what is the percentage of getting pregnant? (link)
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if used correctly, the chance of not getting pregnant is 99.9%
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okay...i'm 13, and just lost my virginaty yesterday. actually, i'm not sure if i did or didn't. i was raped by my next door neighbor who is 16, and has a gf. also, my bf came to find me, and caught me being raped, but he thought that we were actually having sex. now he's mad and won't talk to me because i won't have sex with him. i really need help talking to him and everything. and should i tell my parents? or not? help!!! (link)
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you NEED to tell your parents. tell them everything and tell them how your boyfriend saw you being raped. they will probably call the police and you can go from there. the biggest mistake you can make now, is not tell.
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my dog is a maltese and turning 2 years old [ i guess 14 in dog years ] and lately has been barking a lot at night. he used to when he first got here but stopped. about a week ago he started to bark after everyone goes to sleep. so i have to keep going down stairs and wake up and either hit his cage or take him out to the garage for him to run around and come in...but he keeps barking a few minutes after i go up. what should i do? should i try to tire him out by running with him or something right before we go to sleep? or will that have an opposite effect and have him wanting to play more? please i'm desperate - i havn't been able to sleep at all because i'm the only one who is willing to go downstairs. thanks in advance. (link)
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barking collar.
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My cat is in heat...what can I do to stop her from bleeding/cuming...or being in heta for less time? (link)
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get her fixed
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hey, i was wondering if weed will show up in a blood test. I'm probably going to have one for something completely un-related to drugs. i mean like, they aren't looking for weed or anything. So, i guess i'm wondering if it will show up at all and if they have to be specifically looking for it to find it. How long does it stay in your system? I've heard 38 days, but i've only smoked twice (yesterday and three days ago) and i didn't smoke very much at all. Between both days, i probably didn't even have a bowl. Thanks (link)
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yea it probably will but if you drink vinager it wont * good luck
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i don't know if anyone has ever had dwarf hamsters, but i do and yesterday i was cleaning out the cage and i saw three little pink things in the nest and it turned out one of my hamsters had babies. All three of the hamsters are female, i've checked and the breeder checked so i don't know what happened. i thinhk she was pregnant before we got her because we've only had them for a little while. Anyways, i was wondering if there is anything special I should do to take care of them? or does the mother do it herself? i really have no idea what to do. If anyone could halp me with this i'd be really happy. thanks. (link)
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I had mice who ended up having babies. Don't touch them until they begin to grow fur because the mother will kill them. When you clean the cage clean everything except where the mother and babies are. [ aviod that spot ] When they open their eyes, they normally have enough fur to be handled with, they will probably be jumpy because they are nervous.
hope i helped*
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A few years back I had this friend who was really nice. But then after a while she started acting strange. If she saw me talking with another person she'd get all mad and butt in and tell them I was her best friend, and her only best friend. And then she started getting weird and always wanted me over, and if I couldn't come she'd start yelling at my Mom.
So my Mom made me break off the friendship with her in fear of my own health. I did. And she was devistated at the time, but when I changed schools and moved across town, I stopped hearing from her.
But now, three years later, she's sending me threatening mail, she's calling my house, and she won't stop IMing me on different accounts after I block her. I'm pretty creeped out, and I would go to the police, but she hasn't said anything too threatening. She's just calling me bad names and all that.
I really, really want her to stop. What should I do?
Thanks. Sorry this was so long!
~KaT (link)
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In prefences it allows you to 'allow only users on your buddylist' so you can block her, set that, then she cant talk to you on IMs anymore. sorry i couldnt help more. * sara
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There is a long story behind this, but basically I had drunken sex that I didnt want to happen so it could be called rape, but its a whole messy story.
But anyway, onto my question. I was on the last day of my period. My period had stopped earlier on in the day. I don't even know whether the boy wrapped it up or not, and just the THOUGHT of him makes me want to vomit, so I'm not asking him. I wasnt on any birth control because I use the ring - and you take that out for the week you're on your period. I've been vomitting and feeling sick to stomach all the time since then (which was Friday night) and I can't eat. How possible do you guys think it is that I'm pregnant? And should I wait to take a pregnancy test or should I just take one now? 17/F (link)
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I would take a pregnancy test now and a test later on if this keeps happening.. i would deffinately go to the gyno though. * sorry i couldnt help more*
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Hey.. My friend is having a party tomm. (boy girl) and me and him are having a prank war with our friend (girl).. so she really doesnt know im in on it.. but i am.. and i know she has help too so dont worry its fair. Ok.. so we have ideas for .. taping a tampon on her back.. playing this game where two people clothes there eyes and try to hit eachother wtih sppons that are in their mouths and someone else hits the person harder.. .. and telling her to close her eyes and breaking an egg over her head.. she can wash her hair right after.. and shes a good sport so shell think its funny as hell .. and so we cant find any more.. so Does anyone have any good ones we can do with household items?.. NO SITES / LINKS PLEASE!! Stuff thats funny but no one gets hurt.. THANKS I NEED THESE BY 6 TOMORROW! (Later today actually lol)
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you could duck tape her to the floor while she is in her sleeping bag.. then put two flashlights in her face and scream "TRUCK" .. you could freeze her bra/ underwear .. go outside and play manhunt or something and ditch her .. i dont know.. i wouldnt want this done to me though =)
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i really want to get the area between my bottom lip & chin peirced (like christina aguilera has) does anyone know how much this costs and if its painful? (link)
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between 25-25 dollars and i heard it hurts really bad.. all my friends except for one who have gotten it almost passed out
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ok well im 14/f n i dont consider my self as " ugly" but i still didnt have my first kiss but im not like some girls out there who are like freaked out bcuz they aint sure how to kiss. im ready n all but i want to kiss soon hehe. i dotn wanna b like 17 n still didnt kiss so my question is it better to tell the guy that you are about to kiss that you never kissed b4 or just go with the flow.srri its kinda long. (link)
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Just go with the flow then talk to him after
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Hello. I am 14 years old, and have secretly been cutting for 3 years. I have never told anybody before, but I am wondering if I should. Would it be in my best interest to get help?
I have a lot of trouble trusting people,though.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks (link)
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Well i used to cut too. it is a bad thing to start and a very difficult thing to stop. I tolded my sister who is 15 years old and she got me to stop. you could tell your parent/s and if not them then a close friend or an adult you trust or consleor. hope i helped
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Hey, I want to get my lip pierced. The lebrae (sp?) kind. (You know how it's in the middle and what not) But my fear is that it will hurt extreamly bad. If anyone has gotten theirs pierced could you tell me how bad it hurt? Or any other information I need to know? THANKS! (link)
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my friend got hers done and she passed out because of the pain .. but everyone is different
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I was three days late for my period so I took two home pregnacy test and they both came up with a very faint positve. I then got my period like an hour after I took the second one. Is it possible that the test were wrong or can you be pregnate and still get your period? (link)
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Take another test. my moms friend had her period when she was pregnant but the doctor said to check the blood in case of any baby fingers or whatnot. it is possible. i would go to a doctor.
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How short do you have to be to be considered a migit? im 15 and 4'10...does that make me a migit? (link)
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after my researching you have to be under 4'11 to be a midget. You are short for youe age though. im 13 and 5'6..
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i wanna dye my har ether red or brown. i dont know which one to do. i dont like bieng blonde bcuz its not that punk and.. people make fun of me saying im a dumb blonde.which color do you recomend???? (link)
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well im blond and people who make up all these blond jokes are really dumb.. hair color has nothing to do with intelligence... dont juss go dye your hair.. i did and it is terrible
what will you do when you get roots?
have you thought ahead/ planning?
wut you gna do wen your natural color comes back?
and being punk?!? .. dress differenly wow
go with brown but think about other problems you shall experience
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hey so theres this girl were friends and all but i like her. shes 2 years older im 14 i like her alot i mean ALOT but i want to tell her. so last time i told my self id tell her on my next 5 star day and here i am its a taurs 5 star day and i havent told her. i think im scared (link)
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tell her.. dont be scared.. call her or talk to her online if you dont want to in person
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