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There's this guy in my gym class who's really flexible than most guys because his mom forced him to take gymnastics when he was realy little. And for gym every morning we do these stretching excercies and these guys always tease him saying that a guy that can do that (bend down to teach his toes and wrap his arms around his legs) can have kids.
I want to tell them to leave him alone because he's a really nice guy! Why does everyone always hate the NICE guy?
And yeah I techniquely have two problems:
1. I don't want it to seem that I LIKE LIKE him by defending him.
2. They're the mean guys that would hit a girl and i am VERY weak and bruise easily!
Thank you so much! Please respond soon! I don't know how much more he can take of this or even I can take of this! he always defends others but he's not defending himself this time... (link)
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I think your friend has heard it all before so if it doesn't bother him,it shouldn't bother you.Being friends with this guy should be great.On the chance that he is offended,he should be the one to speak up.Sticking up for a friend is not a gay thing,it's a friend thing.Once these 'mean guys,find that no one cares about them or what they think,things will go on and nobody gives a hoot.Every school has the bullies.You should pay them no mind.Just do your own thing,the rest will far by the way side.If you do bruise easily and faint at the sight of blood(joke),I think your tougher than you know.Your pretty smart because you know that fighting never solved anything.
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ok so im a 15 year old girl and for two years idk
why but i think girls are hot i can't help but look at there bodies and stuff and i actually have and internet girlfriend but i know i like guys to but they don't really you know make me happy sexually i mean i can see myself doing it with a girl and a boy together but i can't with just a boy and idk why i need total help . i know for years ive been tryin to hide that i think girls are hotter than guys but know that im about to be 16 i want to figure out my sexuality and have it out in the open so i can start looking for that special someone so any advice will be greatly appreciated thanks in advance . (link)
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We all have strange feeling growing up.Your still very young and you just haven't found yourself yet.All girls look at other girls,that normal,so don't let that get to you.Having thoughts about how it would be to make love to another girl is also normal.You probably have or will have the same feeling about the guys.Comparing girls to guys,girls are just better looking and have smoother curves than guys.Did you know that 65% of women have had thoughts about having sex with another woman? Only 35% have really done it,15% stay with it and are lesbians.All girls have kissed another female once in their life.I'm not just talking about your mother,aunt sister,cousins at family picnic.So the bottom line is to just relax and don't worry about it.You will be alright,go with the flow.Your not going to hell for it.By the way sweetie,guys have the same problems growing up.
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http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=534630
i don't think you guys understood my question.
i am completely aware of the fact that it's unfair & terrible for me to be mad at a girl who did nothing wrong.
THEREFORE,
AFTER I CAME TO THAT CONCLUSION,
i went to advicenators to find out
HHHHOOOOOWWWWWWW
to stop being mad at her & being jealous of her grades.
not to be retold that it's unfair & terrible.
can someone please help me? i really need help & advice. i cried so long yesterday and i felt so worthless... i need you guys to please help me. she gets perfect grades. i don't want to cry as i type this but i can't help it... (link)
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I had a friend that hardly ever cracked a book.He told me to just listen to what the teacher said in class and you will get most of the information you need to pass the test.It helped some but he still got better grades than I did.I needed to open the book.Since your friend is a girl,why don't you ask her to get together for a study group after school to go over the days work.Maybe for a couple of hours on the week end.You can both go to the park,back yard,her/your room.Maybe it will come to you easier in a more relaxed setting.Working under pressure is a lot harder than if your just kicking back with a pretty girl.Give it a try,you got nothing to lose for asking. March 26th. I don't think you read my answer very well.I don't think I gave you anything about a romance.My idea was to tell you that if your having trouble with some subjects and she isn't,then why don't you ask her for help,a study group.I did think you were a guy and but that still didn't mean you can't ask her for help.Some people just learn differently.There will be times where you will shine and she won't but that's life.Sorry about the confusion.I guess I should have left out the word Pretty.
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do guys like it more if a girl shaves "down south"??
and if so.. like.. straight bald or what??..
i really don't know!!! (link)
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Personally,a guy doesn't really care if you shave or not.You can be the missing lync or as smooth as a cue ball.If a guy thinks he's going to get some sex it won't matter.Guys will do most anybody.I think it should be your choice,after all it's your body,isn't it? If you want the bald look,then shave it off.If not,then shave as much as you feel comfortable with.I have answered this question before,some with a sense of humor,other with more truth.I prefer the very close shave and the bald.My reason is the health reason.Its cleaner,looks better and I don't have to pick hair out of my teeth.For the guys,I think you should look at your partner with the same out look for her.
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I met this guy 4 years ago. I am in my late 20's and he is in his early 30's. We hit it off. He was everything I was looking for; attractive, charming, sweet, succesful, and loving. 3 months into it he changes into a cocky, disrespectful person. Apparently he had another girlfriend. I suffered as the other woman for almost 3 years. I knew what I needed was to leave, but I didn't. Actually throughout those 3 years, we were on and off. It is now into the 4th year and he has made some changes. I think and feel like he is only seeing me. When we're together, we are deeply in love. We laugh, we enjoy each others company, We are so happy together. And I mean literally "together". He is a very busy guy, so when we're apart...we do not get along. Because I already have trust issues considering he disrespected and cheated in the part, I would think that he would try his hardest to communicate. Of course, he doesnt. Some nights he simply doesnt return my calls. His excuse the next morning is he had a long day and he was tired. I really think that he is not cheating, but I feel like I deserve to be communicated with. Would counseling be worth our time? Is our relationship savageable? I am deeply in love with him. Please help. (link)
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Come on lady,your pathetic.Why are you with this loser? You can't find anyone better? He lies to you,he cheats on you,he treats you with disrespect.He's walking all over you.Your his door mat,a whipping post.Drop this Bastard like a hot poker,and don't give me the female whine, "But I love him" crap.He doesn't love you.All you are to him is a piece of butt.Lets just face the facts.I bet your much better and can get better.Take a look at yourself.Do like every other woman,stand in front of the mirror and check yourself out.Make some mental notes.Do you need to lose some weight?Maybe not.Ask yourself what can I change,my hair color,The clothes I'm wear.Tell yourself that I'm good looking and I don't need this 'JERK' in my life.There are tons of guys in this world and there is one or two or maybe three who will make me happy all the time,if we are together or not.I know that we all have to work and can't be together 24-7, but I can trust him either way.I know that he will call me just to say "I miss you",Maybe "I love you".I just called so I can "hear your voice" before I go to sleep.I'm so mad at you,I can hardly type. March 26--A lot of my friends(who also read this page) told me that My answer to this woman was too harsh.I should have been more considerate of her feelings.All day today I really thought about it.Should have I somehow sugar coated my answer.I think I did the right thing and said what needed to be said.You heard of tough love for kids,well this is just the way I feel she needed to hear.Here is a almost 30 year old,who at this age most other women are teaching their own daughters about men and romance.This woman whoever she is needs to be told the truth,no matter how hard.She is an adult and should be able to handle it.She can cry,throw things and do the female thing but the truth and/or problem is still going to exist.I know that women stick together like a bunch of nuns or is it sisterhood,the unspoken club around the world that really dislikes the male gender,but still needs them.Many of my answers are to the point.I can't think of any reasons why a woman will stay in a relationship if she is being abused.A woman has a lot of choices,Go home,go to a girlfriends house for a few days.There are women shelters in every city.Get a restraining order if he's not controllable.That also goes for the married women but at least they can keep the house.I hope this explanation will satisfy the softies out there and that includes my co-workers.
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this is so confusing.
ok well i have these two friends that are guys. lets call them A and K their both really good friends and very close to me. i like one of their friends a lot (M) and i told them. They both told me i should date him. but the thing is i have never had a boyfriend let alone kissed a guy. and its not cause they dont ask me its because i dont want to. but i really like this guy. Ok heres where it gets confusing. so a few weeks later me and A are getting to know eachother better and are becoming really close and im scared. evertime im with A i get this weird feeling inside of me and it makes me really happy. im not sure if i like him like that or not. hes a really good friend and i dont ever want to lose that but i dont know what to do. everytime im with him or talk to him on the phone (which lately has been every night) its like the best feeling in the world. sorry if im overdramatizing it. its just that thats truely how i feel and im confused as what to do about it. do you think i like A?? what if i do?? then what?? (oh and btw he has a girlfriend) should i date M? and thats another thing..if i were to talk to M..what would i say?? im so nieve. please help!!
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Lets take this one at a time,ok? First you have A,K and you.The three musketeers,all of you are really good friends.Along comes M into your life.You never been kissed(hard to believe)or had a boy friend.Now A is seeing a little competition from M.Maybe some jealousy.The question is ,do you like M better than A? I would keep A & K just as you always were.M is too new for any kind of kissing or be considered as a boy friend yet.You haven't even gone out with him,so how do you know if your feeling are leading you down the right path.I would try and get M to join your pack of friends and see what happens.If everything goes great,then you'll have the fourth musketeer.If not,then you still have the original three.You and M still could see each other.A girl/guy could never have too many friends.After a while,you may find that M didn't have the qualifications that you are looking for in a date-mate.
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i have this fantasy like when i have sex. its like we go like hard and slow. like real slow. and im on the bottom. but alot of guys i heard always like going fast. how do i take control and tell him how i wanna do it. (link)
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To take control,get on top then you are in full control.What man doesn't want the girl to lead in this kind of situation.I think it's great.When you are on top,you control the speed and how far you want it to go.Most girls can feel if he's getting close to letting go and she can slow down or just stop and let him rest a little bit.It'll make the love making last longer.Guy tend to get very excited and want to rush everything.Try just sitting on him and talk to him also will get his mind off of wanting to finish quickly.Sex is made to have fun with your partner,it is not a race to see who can get to the finish line first.Relax and just enjoy yourself.By the way,you can also live out some of your fantasy's,I love to play act,as long as it doesn't hurt anybody.
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i like guys. im definitely attracted to guys, not just looks but everything, how they feel smell, hold you, whatever, but then i hang out with this one friend(girl), i question my feelings for girls. she gets near me and i get that same tingling sensation.then after i have those thoughts about her, i wonder if i like girls in general... cause i look at others like that too.
i dont know if im bi or gay or whatever, or is its just a girl crush or a phase, gimmmie alittle insight (link)
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I don't really see you as gay,bi or whatever.I have noticed that most women are just more into feelings.A female seems to have certain sensitivity toward other human beings.I guess that's why mother nature made you the ones who give birth.Men don't really have that,at least not as much as you do.I guess that's one of the reasons that men and women balance each other out.As for you friend,I don't think it is a sexual thing.Having more feelings for this girl and not as much for your other girl friends,I think it's normal.Don't fret about it and just enjoy her company.
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when you finger a girl do you usually use one finger or two? (link)
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You are in luck,This is my brilliant answer to your question.As you may or may not know,the most sensitive spot is her clitoris.It is not even in her but resides just above her vulva.It's also called "the little man in the boat".Why,who knows,maybe its because he never drowns when she's gets wet.If your talking about going in her,starting with one finger is always a good choice.If you ever saw a girl masturbate,you will hardly ever see her put any fingers inside,unless just to lube and get back to making 'Popeye' happy.Most girls will let you know if she wants more than one finger.One thing to remember is not to use to much pressure,she's more tender down there than you are.Also she will take longer,so be loving and relax and just enjoy the sounds that she make and the movements of her hips.If she's doing that,then your doing it right.
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14/f ,
im just wondering..
but if a girl looks at a picture of another girl, or just a girl in person (model, friend, whatever) and is like oh she's pretty/hot is that normal? is that considered lesbian-ish?? (link)
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There is always something about other people that makes us look.I'm pretty sure that as you yourself walking down the street,someone is saying something nice about you.If it another girl,are you offended?You don't even realize who or when this happens,but it does.I'm a guy and I like George Clooney,boy what I would give to be like that.You need talent too and I don't have that.So,don't worry about it,if you think a girl/woman is beautiful,more power to you.I think it's great.you have nothing to feel embarrassed about.We are all in the same boat.It would be a strange world if we weren't.Look,have fun and don't forget to whistle when I walk by,ok?
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OK i was listening to K-Love and i heard this song, it was really creepy and was talking about mornings or waking up or something, but i liked it and i dont know the names. its a band playing with a guy singing if it helps. please tell me the name, its really annoying not knowing
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There is a place called name a song or name a tune.All you have to do is to give it a few words or a line and it will show you who sings it and/or the title.
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ok well this guy likes me a lot and we always cuddle when we hang out. i feel really safe when im next to him so i love cuddling with him. but when he tries anything else, i back off.
i told him i just want to be friends, and he has told me he wants more.
but now we have been fighting bc ive been with other guys and now he just wants to end our friendship. but i cant stop thinking about him.
i really want him in my life so so much.
could i actually like him more than a friend?
im really scared to think that i do. bc im scared to hook up with him.
i dont know why, hes the only guy i get nervous around when it comes to hooking up.
im soo confused.
can someone help me please?
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First thing to do is to stop cuddling.Your sending the wrong message to him.Your swooning in his arms one minute and the next minute your telling him you just want to be friends.Your a tease.You can't have both.Just be good friends first.I would let things cool for a while.You sound like you don't even know what you want.I don't think I could plan any long relationship with you.My advice to you is to add him to a long list of good friends.That way you won't lose his friendship.
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for my health class, were learning how how the baby grows and what you have to do to take care of it. the only thing is, is that we never learned what would happen to the baby if you DIDNT take care of it. like, for example, if you didnt eat for a long period of time. and this is going to sound stupid but, if you didnt eat for a long period of time, would you actually " get rid " of the baby? like, it just wouldnt grow anymore? and how long would it take, like,day's or weeks, before the baby just " dies". im never going to do this, and i know it sounds stupid, but i was just wondering. because we never learned in health.
thanks for all your help! (link)
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Wow! You do have a lot of questions don't you?I'm not a doctor or anything,so maybe you could enlist the help of someone in the plan-parenthood,the state Health Dept..Ask if they have any thing they can send you or that you can pick up on the subject.I don't think that if you stop eating,it will kill the child.The unborn child feeds off of you through the cord that is attached to you both.You could probably mentally handicapped the child. If You died the baby would still live for a short time inside you.I would assume that the doctors would cut you open(sound gross) and try and let the baby survive.It might depend on how far along you are as to how long your baby will live.I wish you the best of luck on your search.I may have to look some things and see how close my guesses are.
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i have a 1995 mustang, with dynomax side exit exhaust. i'm looking for a little bit more rumble, so i'm looking at buying some longtube headers. it's a 5.0L GT, and the only long tubes i can find are for 1996 and on or 1993 and older.
they have to be long tubes, i wont fiddle with shorties.
another question is, is do they come in sets of two? or do i have to buy one for each set of four cylinders? (link)
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I had the same problem with my car.Nothing fit the way I wanted,so I finally went to the muffler shop and had them do a custom job for me.Let me tell you it was worth it.Looks good and the sound is unbelievable.The best part is that I didn't have to hassle with anything.It's great because they have all the tools to do the job.
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so i shave my pubes like regularly but its impossible to get rid of the hair close to the lips. does this happen to anyone else, or is there some thing i could do? thanks =] (link)
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I don't know how much shaving your doing but lets just say the you want it totally bare.The Brazilian.If your using a blade(must be a new one every time) it will feel good and then it starts to grow back.Don't you just love the itchiness? You want to scratch but you feel all eyes are looking at you.Your begin to walk a little funny,can't wait to get home and dig out the ole razor again and start it all over again.May I suggest laser hair removal.I'm going to try it and see what goes(hair I hope).They say it will take about six treatment and your as smooth as a baby's bottom.It should be harmless near your more sensitive area.It will be permanent and it will not grow back.so figure out if you want just a bikini,landing strip or total.I don't know how much it will cost but it will depend on where you live.I would look in the phone book and try your luck there.In Some cities there are beauty shops that do this.(If your a guy this will not harm you for making your future babies.It will just remove the hair,doesn't kill the sperm.I just threw that in just in case your interested.)
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this girl who ive never met before just started a bunch of crap with me and a few people. its getting to the point where its going to have to be handled in person.
i'm into kickboxing classes, so i know how to punch pretty hard.
bottom line is, if it gets down to the point where needed, i will punch this girl in the face.
please dont preach how violence isnt the answer
but just a few questions
1. how much trouble can i get in?
2. i dont want to like hurt her permanently, but like a nice bruise or something would be good, so how would i go about doing that?
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By the time you read this answer you would have already solved you dispute.Answer:Never hit the other person,never.You already have the advantage over her by knowing how to defend yourself(aka)kick boxing.In any self defense class,the instructor should have told you to walk away if at all possible.You have to have the mental attitude as well as the physical.Knowing you can hurt this other person should make aware of your self.Would you feel any better if you beat this other girl.If she gets physical,just do some side stepping and let her make a complete fool of herself.Afterwards,you can offer your hand in friendship if she takes it fine,if not,at least you let everyone know that you tried.Bonus-You come out the winner in any case.
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how does a person become a personal trainer (link)
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The best thing to do is just go up to one and ask.I don't know what field you are interested in but I bet no one is going to bite your head off for saying "how did you get started or what made you want to do this"? I do know that it takes some schooling.I think if you do get into it,it will be very rewarding for you.Before you do anything talk it over with your parents.They may be able to help you in some way or another.Maybe they know somebody or they know somebody who knows somebody.Another way is to let your friends know what your seeking and they maybe able to help.Worth a try.Never leave a stone over turned.Good luck.
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im looking everywhere for the song when it rains by paramore karaoke/instrumental [which means no voice just sound] especially on youtube do u know where i could find it for free? (link)
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It's just a thought but have you tried Amazon? Second thought is to go to a 'major' music store and see if they can get help from one of their suppliers.They have to get there music from someplace too.Good luck.
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so on my ipod i always have the option "shuffle" on so that it just plays random songs. but ive noticed it always plays the same random songs and like months after i add a song i finally hear it and forget i ever had it on there because the "shuffle" just like ignored playing it.
does anyone know if there are any like secrets to getting the ipod to play ALL the songs not just shuffle the same frikin ones?
i have an ipod nano by the way. (link)
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I have a lot of tunes on my Ipod.I can listen for four days without hearing the same tune twice.I really don't know that much about it but for me I select the artist or songs and it works well for me.
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ok I need some ways to really tease a guy. The guy i'm involved with loves teasing me and I want to get him back. lol anyways, we aren't going very far so, nothing too bad and I must say I'm somewhat shy but I can get over it. I already know the nibbling on the ear thing and that so, plz gimmie some other tips, it would be appreciated. (link)
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Personally,I like the wearing of very little clothes.Transparent is also good.It give the girl something to wear and it gives the guy a good view of your body.I remember once I was watching a football game on t.v.,my girlfriend came out in a very,very short skirt with no panties,bent over to turn off the t.v..Gave me the more wonderful view of herself and turned around,smiled,winked,all she said was "Like what you see,Then follow me".I spent the rest of the Saturday with her,at least I got out of mowing the lawn.Remember this,men go by what they see.Women go with what they feel(heart).
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