15/f
i have this fantasy like when i have sex. its like we go like hard and slow. like real slow. and im on the bottom. but alot of guys i heard always like going fast. how do i take control and tell him how i wanna do it.
Larry1 answered Monday March 24 2008, 9:52 am: To take control,get on top then you are in full control.What man doesn't want the girl to lead in this kind of situation.I think it's great.When you are on top,you control the speed and how far you want it to go.Most girls can feel if he's getting close to letting go and she can slow down or just stop and let him rest a little bit.It'll make the love making last longer.Guy tend to get very excited and want to rush everything.Try just sitting on him and talk to him also will get his mind off of wanting to finish quickly.Sex is made to have fun with your partner,it is not a race to see who can get to the finish line first.Relax and just enjoy yourself.By the way,you can also live out some of your fantasy's,I love to play act,as long as it doesn't hurt anybody. [ Larry1's advice column | Ask Larry1 A Question ]
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