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orgasm?
ok im a 16/f. i first had sex right when i turned 15. im currently not sexually active but i probably will be soon. i dont think that i have ever had an orgasm and i dont know if my cherry has ever been popped. when i first had sex i didnt bleed and i have bled twice from getting fingered but it lasted about two days, and it was after i started having sex. my now boyfriend thinks it is weird that i dont and thinks he is doing something wrong. it feels great when i get fingered but i just cant seem to "get off". any help? don't tell me to google it. thanks guys.
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It is hard for some girls to reach climax, and it can take a long time sometimes too. For a guy, they hit climax fast. So my suggestion is to do a lot of pre-talking and foreplay. If he does things to help you along before you get to the sex part it should help. He just needs to get you a lot more aroused before the sex. I hope this works, and that it answered your question. Good luck with the...sex thing...
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You said you've had sex before so YES your cherry has been popped. You don't always bleed when you have sex for the first time. Sometimes you do bleed after such events after sex. Your boyfriend isn't doing anything wrong, some girls find it hard to climax, for many of them, penetration just doesn't quite cut it, tell your boyfriend that he needs to give your clitoris some action, it's sensitive and it should help bring on an orgasm.
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