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I have a question, and I know it's gonna sound stupid, but you know how when you were little and got all excited about Christmas? You'd count down the days and get up early to open presents, and you just had that special feeling that you only get around Christmas? Well, I don't get that anymore, and I haven't for a while. Why is that? Is it just cause I'm older and more mature? I still love Christmas, but I don't get that special feeling anymore. It's like Christmas is gone or something, and I just feel so weird. I want that feeling again. Can anyone help? I know, dumb question, but I needed to ask. Thanks. (link)
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Is there anything you're upset or depressed about lately? Anything bad going on in your life right now? That can get you out of the Christmas spirit. If not, then I'm sure it's just because you're older and more mature. Things fade over time. Start a tradition for you and your family or friends, that should get the spirit back up.
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Every guy that I like only thinks of me as a 'good friend'. What should I do? Should I act different, telling them that I like them doesn't seem to make a difference. I don't like being just everyone's friend,...I want more than that... (link)
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Try playing hard to get with the guys you like. Be a flirt towards them, and don't let them know they like you unless they ask.
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Well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and I still love him a lot. But he's going out with another girl. Im still crazy about him and I really want him back. Should I wait around for him or try to move on? ..Oh, and I've heard from a bunch of people that his girlfriends gonna dump him for his best friend which is really low and I wanna tell him but he'll just get mad at me and say that I'm just trying to break them up so I can get him back.. should I tell him and risk the chance of losing our friendship but keep him from getting hurt or should I not tell him and keep our friendship but have him get hurt? Thanks in advance.. Kellie (link)
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Well, it's obvious that he has hurt you. He deserves to feel the pain that he caused you. I know EXACTLY how it feels. Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago too and he also has a new girlfriend. If she was planning on breaking up with him, I know I would NOT tell him. Payback's a bitch, and let's just say..This can be your chance for him to realize how bad he really wants YOU back. In the mean time, you need to try and move on and get over him. If you truly love him, then chances are you will be there when he is ready to be with you again. By telling him his g/f is breaking up with him..It'll sound like you're jealous and then she might not break up with him. Just let it happen, and when it does..Be there to comfort him.
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Ok. I like a girl. She is still in love with her ex-boyfriend. We are kind of friends with benefits and make out everytime we get together. Things haven't been going so great, I want more, she is still in love. Lately I've been hanging out with this new girl, we will call her girl B. she is amazing, and beautiful. She says she doesn't want a boyfriend right now, which I know is girl translation for back off. but I really like her. I like them both, but I'm in a pickle with both, so any advice would be good. (link)
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Alright, I can relate to this girl you like. I really, really liked my ex-boyfriend, who..I guess we could say I loved. And lately i've been hanging out with this guy and we make out everytime we're together too. She's doing this to help her get over him. It's obviously over for good between them, and she needs someone to move on to. She picked you. You have to wait and give her time to let go of her ex. Once she realizes he's seeing other people, she'll want to do the same. As for "B" goes, saying you don't want a boyfriend right now doesn't ALWAYS mean back off. She could mean that she wants to be with other people too..not just one person all of the time. Commitment can be scary to some people, which is why most people like to stay single alot of the time. Stick with the first girl you mentioned. Give her some time to adjust to being single and away from her boyfriend. It takes time to get over someone you like so much. Just make sure you are there for her if she needs someone to talk to.
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Jenna was over my house and she wanted to talk to him on AIM and I told her to shut the hell up :) she wasn't even mad and then I told her I had to talk to Santa my love .... And she makes a personal joke out of it... Jenna really ain't a bitch she says I don't care if you like him ... I don't even know why I told her probably cuz I'm upset but thats alright I'm going to ignore her when she talks about him? Hows that sounds? (link)
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Sounds good to me! If she had had any recent crushes like in the past that you know, say something about them..and tell her you like one of them. It'll make her jealous right back! haha.
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13/F
My friend Shayna and I we're chilling with her really hot cousin who likes my friend Jenna... All he talked about was Jenna I left at 6 and Jenna came over Shaynas at 7:30. well jenna already said he was ugly and i had no chance to tell anyone that i liked him. SO NOW jenna is going out with him and Shay and her b/f and Jenna and Shays cousin and me are hanging out friday . this is going to me completly weird im the only single girl .... i feel so left out and kinda pissed off at Jenna cuz she keeps talking about him even though i told her i liked him today :(
is it alright to be pissed? do you think it would be weird? (link)
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I would definetly be mad..If I were you, I wouldn't go. Chances are, they could be all over eachother and that would not feel too great for you. Just tell Shayna you think you'll feel left out and you don't feel like going. Plan a different day to hang out with her. This Jenna girl sounds pretty bitchy, if you ask me..Sounds to me like she's talking so much about him knowing that it makes you jealous. Tell her to get over herself and that you don't like him anymore (whether you do or not). Then she should shutup.=]
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ok i am signed up for advicenator but i never thought that id need advice myself theres this girl and everytime i see her my stomach feels really weird and i feel like i want to be around her for a long time and i try to pick my words carfully but they allways come out wrong, i might as well be saying hoopiewatlenslurgin? wat the heck is wrong? im confused!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You like her. Obviously. It sounds to me like you're scared of rejection. Meaning, you want to impress her but when you try and say something it comes out wrong because you're scared of what she might say. You just need to get comfortable about her. Let loose and be yourself.
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Ok well i like this kid a year older than me A LOT the problem is he has a gf well one weekend he begged me to come over but i couldnt now he wants me over this weekend well I know his gf and im not a slut so the best choice is to stay home right ? (link)
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Going to a boy's house doesn't mean you have to do anything with him. My bestfriend's ex-boyfriend of 9 months came to my house one time, and she wasn't mad at all. Chances are she MAY get jealous, but if you want to go then go. People shouldn't get mad if nothing happens. If this girl is your friend, then you might not want to go over there. It depends on how well you know the girl.
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*14//female if it helps* ohkk .. so um theres this kid who i like and im pretty sure he like me too (we'll call him bob) and he just broke up with his girlfriend cuz she was cheating on him =o .. but one of his friends likes me too - and i sorta like him whos been single for a while -sometimes it seems that they're fighting over me - ahhh i dont know what 2 do (link)
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It pretty much just depends on who you like more. If you like bob more, go for him..Tell the other guy that you would rather stay friends with him.
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ok the other day i was with my boyfriend and weve been together for a month and 2 months next week and he said 'i love you' to me like properly but hes into long term relationships, his last gf he was with for 8 months and he said 'i love u' to her.
do you think he really means it...i love him so much and i dont want to get hurt!
thanks ill rate high
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Personally, I think it takes awhile to really KNOW that you're in love with someone. I was with my ex-boyfriend for 5 months and was convinced that I loved him with all my heart. But now I realize that I never LOVED him. I liked him a lot though. I think it will take awhile for him to actually mean that he loves you. By saying i love you RIGHT NOW probably means 'i like you more than i know how to describe'. Which means, he likes you..but when he tries to tell you how much, the only words that he can come up with are "I love you". So chances are, he won't hurt you anytime soon. He might in the future, normally..Coming out of any long term relationship, you will end up hurt. Just be careful and try not to get too attached too soon. And I'm not trying to tell you that you aren't in love, because only YOU will know. But when you are, you won't need anyone to tell you that you are or not.
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Hey i am 17 and i have this boyfriend whom i care alot about. he is 19 and last thursday we went through a little problem. his friends tell him he needs to date older women because they are more experience and that they dont make no bull crap. anyways he told me that they make sense but he really cares for me to much and he dont want that to happen. he is going to cancun in 2 weeks and i asked him if we were going to break up when he goes. and he asked me why i asked that. but then thursday he said all thatand he is the kind of person who does not take bull crap and he tells it like it is. but i really care for him alot and dont want us to break up for no reason. well then last night we were on the phone and we were talking about why i asked if ihe wanted to be with me. because saturday i was feeling like he did not want to be with me, and i asked him and then we finally talked. i know i may confuse you but i am confusing myself but what i want to know is how can i get him to talk really serious to me?
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Guys hardly ever take anything seriously. Chances are, if he's going to Cancun..he won't want to be "tied down" and in a relationship. Atleast that's how my boyfriend was. Since I don't know him or how long you have been with him..It's hard to tell. Depending on how much you can trust him, will determine how to get him to talk serious with you. Have him come over one night and tell him when he gets there that you want to talk about some things. See how he acts when you say that, and then tell him how you feel. Usually it's harder for them to lie to your face. Hope this helps.
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I am a sophmore in highschool and I have been thinking about careers for my future. There has been one thing that I have been interested in for a while now. I want to become a sex therapist to cousil couples about their sex lives.. Sort of like Dr. Ruth? (Short little lady that talks about sex alot). The thing is.. I'm not sure how to approach my parents about it, because they would probably think it's a horrible career choice and wouldn't agree with what I'd be doing with my life. In my personal opinion I think it's admirable career.
So, I have a few questions here. One would be how should I approach my parents about this subject? The other is what colleges would actually have that course? Or is it made up of multiple courses?
If you have any helpful websites about schools and programs that would be great too.. Thanks if you can help! (link)
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hmm, I can see how that would be weird. I guess it all kind of depends on what type of parents you have. Supportive and cool? Or do they want you to pursue THEIR dreams for you? ..I would just casually bring up "I think I know what I want my career to be in the near future. You might think it's a little weird, but I think it's a good idea." then tell them. As far as colleges go, I'm not sure. Hope this was atleast some help.
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Hey. I just got the guts today to tell my mom & sister that I think I may have a bacterial infection down below. They made me an appointment to see a regular doctor (not gynaeocologist) on Wednesday. I was wondering, it won't be awkward, I shave completely down there. Like do you think they'll think I'm weird? Because I shave down there? I don't know, it just seems sorta creepy seen as I don't do anything with guys yet! I'm 15/f! :) Thanks. (link)
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Nah, it shouldn't be weird. Doctors look at stuff down there all the time. It's their job. They're used to people shaving. No worries.
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okay im a f/16 and i shave down there. is that weird if im not having sex at all and dont plan on it any time soon? does anyone else? (link)
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lol, That definetly isn't weird. That's good. Girls should shave, just incase anything DOES happen..unexpectedly. Besides, it's your body, do what you please to it.
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16/m
I am asking this because I don't really know where else to look. My hair always poofs up, no matter what I do and it looks terrible and is a hassle. It will stay normal looking though after I take a shower or wet it down, but when it dries it ALWAYS poofs up, I mean it stays together,becomes dull looking, poofs up and doesn't look good. Normally I will just use gel to get it in better shape and make it look atleast somewhat good (as in it doesn't poof up) and make it look less poofed up, but I don't always want to use gel.
I guess what I am trying to ask for help on is this, is there anything I can use on my hair that will make it not poof up and doesn't involve gel (as in I could just get up in the morning, comb my hair *or not* and go about my day normally with hair that isn't gelled or poofed up).
This really bugs me and I hope here atleast I can get some help in fixing it. Thank you.
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Try blowdrying it and brushing it after you get out of the shower.
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whats 4th base please answer asap!! will rate
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sex.
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okay i like this kid and hes in all my classes i have a feeling he likes me and he always ims me as soon as he gets on the problem is i have plenty of things to talk to him about at school but nothing online so does any one know stuff i can say to him and no hey whats up ? and hows school . just dont cut it thanks a bunch .. (link)
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Just talk to him online like you're standing in front of him. Start out with, like "how was your day?" and go from there. Some people are boring to talk to on the internet, if he's like that..then chances are talking to him online won't be fun at all. lol.
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i have the ipod mini and the regular one
my dad said he'd get me the nano for my bday on dec 22
and the video
for my mini
and hes get me a tiffany bracelet with diamonds
and everyone in my school would think im spoiled rotten
:: the question is does that sound too much for JUST a birthday?
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who cares what your friends think..sounds like an awesome birthday to me. Go for it.
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Okay like 2 weeks ago I met these 2 boys when I stayed after school they are best friends and they are about my age. And one is pretty cute and the other is ya know... -not my type- and both of them like me I know it might be mean to go for the cuter one but I dunno i would feel bad. And on a different note. I dont know if I should play hard to get with the cuter one cuz believe me I wish I could just kiss them right there and but I dont want to feel to "easy" to him because my school has a HUGE reputation of gossiping all this crap to other people. And if I seem easy the whole world would know..ya know? I dont even know help me if you can (link)
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Crushes are always confusing. Sounds to me like you don't really like either one of them, you just think he's cute. If you DO like him, then go for him. Who cares what anyone else thinks, it's your life and your decision..do what you with with it. If you want to kiss him, forget about what people say. Kissing isn't bad anyway, now sex..that'd be a little "easy".
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me and my bf have a good relationship. i want to have sex.i love him. i think he loves me. how would i tell him. or make it happen (link)
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I know the feeling. Just, jokingly, say (when you're around him)..god i wanna have sex. and then laugh, and say just kidding. He should get the hint from that. It's a way of flirting, and he should know that. If you don't want to do that, try making out with him and get into the "moment", once that happens..if he doesn't make the move, then you do. Just go for his shirt, or your shirt..or your pants, or his.
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