I am in a very serious commitment with my fiance. I have been through a lot of love problems and learned from my expeirence. If you need love life help or anything dealing with relationships, i'm your guy.
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Location: Terre Haute Indiana
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Age: 19
Member Since: October 28, 2009
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My bf and I been together for like 3 months. He's grate. Love him. And then we started off kinda diffrent than most couples cause we hooked up @ a party of my friends and like went at it and he told me he liked me after and that was that for us. We never use condoms tho and he always always cums in me. we probably do it like idk at least once every day but sometimes twice not always?? Anyways my period aint come yet this month and I'm like am I pregnant? What are the ODDS of getting pregnant like this? Cause I told if you have sex EVERY day then you cant get pregnant cause his sperms go too low and there aint enough to cause pregnancy. mom knows we been doing it so R E L A X were cool (link)
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i agree with lilophra. Are you crazy?? How old are you? u met this guy at a party and had sex how many times without a condom? Don't mean to be rude, but have you ever heard of A.I.D.S?? You know how it is spread?? By unprotected sex!! Wow, i've never even heard a situation like this. I hope that it wasn't ur bf that told you the whole thing about having sex everyday won't have enough sperm count. Honey, it only takes one of his little soldiers. My advice, which your not going to take, is to either leave the man, or quit havin sex with him. I garuntee if you quit having sex you will soon realize he don't like you for you, he likes you becasue you put out!
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So, ironically enough, that guy (ex boyfriend) ended up getting a hold of me after I had apologized and said I wanted a fresh new start. But he’s the one that blew it this time pretty much. The first thing he texts me is “How much gas money do you have?” Am I just being “high maintenance” or am I justified in being offended about that? I mean, after a heartfelt apology he comes back with that??? If he really wanted to see me couldn’t he have found some way to get his own gas money?
So I didn’t see him. Instead, I had met this other guy at an Army recruiting office like three days ago and I went to go hang out with him. We both needed to take our ASVAB and we were scheduled at the same time, so we were in the car talking and he said “How about whoever scores higher has to take the other person out to lunch” and I agreed, I thought that was kinda cute to be honest. And I kept thinking about how weird it was that I was so upset about what’s-his-name and then all of a sudden out of nowhere here comes my prince charming to save the day. Everything was perfect. HE paid for the meal, that’s never happened to me before, I’ve never been on a date. We were at the restaurant for like 3 and a half hours just talking. We had a lot in common and I really enjoyed it. He then invited me out to a sports bar by our side of town to watch the Bears and the Packers play. After that he kissed me goodnight, and we’ve been talking ever since. I thought wow, it’s about time something good happened to me lately. And then last night we had decided to hang out again, but it ended so badly. He sprung on me that he was in love with this girl, who I had met at the sports bar the night prior, and that things between him and I “Shouldn’t happen”. I was devastated. It really hurt. He was mature about it, but it didn’t really cushion the blow as much as you would think it should have.
So now I’m stuck. The ex boyfriend texted me again this morning asking if I was doing anything today. I don’t know what to say. I would like to say yes, but then I don’t. I got all excited to move on, and now I can’t even do that. Should I move on, or try with this guy again? It’s like this ongoing battle between my brain and my heart. I don’t quite know what to make of it.
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okay your in a pickle. Some guys are bold and arrogant where as some are sweet and charming. I fell into the bold and arrogant trap before about a month ago. Some guys need another chance, but then some blow it in the first ten minutes. Him asking for gas money would send up a red flag for me, but i wouldn't call it game over. Do you care for this guy? Do you love him? Think about all the times you have had together and think about all the good and the bad that has happened in your guys' relationship. Does the good out way the bad? Does he say that he is willing to improve his personality and do what he needs to to be a better persons? If he is willing to give it a shot then i would say to just try it. Tell him that he has a month to prove to you that he wants to be a better person and if he blows it, your done for good. That's what my girl did for me and i garuntee if she hadn't have left me in the first place, i still wouldn't be pleasent to be around. If you can, give the man a chance. If you feel that you can't, then try to move on. Don't move on to another guy, but try being single and living a stress free life for a while then if you meet someone go for it. Good luck sweetie, hope it works out for you.
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Husband wants me to get a 3some together me him and another girl. we've been married 4 months. I have experianced this before and have kissed girls when really drunk. He knows I like to look at girls and love to watch porn with him. I dont know if this makes me bi or just loves the woman body. I kinda do want that 3some he askes for but in a way dont want to share our bedroom love life with someone else. Is this a normal thing a guy wants or do you think he is not happy with JUST me and my body. I am 29 180lbs and 5'7 he is 6'2 272 and 36 yrs old. (link)
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I agree with peeps. If your not comfortable with something like this then don't do it. I joke around with my girl about have a 3some but i know how she feels about sharing and i know how i feel about sharing. I'm totally okay with using our imagination and trying to come up with new things to do. If your husband is going to get all angry with you about not wanting to do it then are you sure you found the right guy? Just a question, no one knows how you feel but you. It's normal for men of all ages to want to do more freaky and kinky things in the magic room, but also, some guys can't stand to be told no. It's okay if your not comfortable with it. Just tellk him how you feel and go from there. Good luck to ya, hope everything works out in your favor.
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its just my heart still is telling me not to give up. i mean yes he doesnt seem insterested so is that my key to just move on.
and okay but lets say, what if you broke up with her and she said that to you? would that be weird or desperate?
jw
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Follow your heart. If you think you love him then that is a totally different story then liking him. If you do love him my dear, don't smother him just tell him how you feel and if he don't feel the same way then there is nothing to do but move on. That's all i can think of sweetie
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if i may ask.
how did you end up getting her back? (link)
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I told her to think about the times we had together and if she wanted to be apart, then fine. But she meant everything to me and i asked for one last shot. Took her some time but she thought about it and took me back.
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My title says it all, really. I feel like my crush likes me, I've read when you think he likes you, trust your instinct, you're usually right if you truly believe it. But, I want second opinions. So, I'll bullet some things that make me think he likes me and you can tell me what you think! Thanks so much!
-I was upset that he didn't walk with to class after he walked with me for three days, so when he was in front of me because I got out of class late, he turned around and said he was waiting for me and when I caught up to him, we were walking to class together and he was running into me a lot.
-when we walked to class, he told he my hair looked awesome because I curled it and it looked different than the normal straight.
-I was joking around that he hates me because every time my friends and I make plans to hang out, he has to do something. So, I told him since we don't talk anymore, he probably hates me and he looked right into my eyes and said "I don't hate you at all"
-My crush's best friend, me and my best friend were all talking and I guess he felt left out with his group that he was talking to because he came over and talked to us.
-I catch him looking at me a lot and when I look at him, he doesn't quick look away.
-He was playing with a wiffle ball and a bat with his friend and I was joking with him that if he hits me with the ball, I'm gonna be so mad and he actually did hit me. He put the bat down, held out his arms and walked to me and hugged me. Then a few minutes later, he called me into the room room he was in and hugged me again because he felt bad.
-He came over and told me something and put his arm on my shoulder when he was telling the story.
-My best friend and his best friend (mentioned in another bullet above) were talking and my best friend asked if he knows who my crush likes and his friend said "Why does (my name) like him?"
-My best friend and my crush were talking and she told him that this really weird girl we are all aquainted with has a crush on him and he said "ew, I would never do that." then my friend said he asked if I had a crush on him.
We are both 16, I am female, he is male. Haha.
Do you think he likes me?
Thank you! (link)
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HAHA you don't even need to ask sweetie. HE LIKES YOU! Good for you, is this what you wanted to hear all along? Just don't do anything silly..i know how you teenagers are!!lol
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so about four months ago my ex broke up with me and recently i found out that its over for good.
i want to move on with my life. i know ill never be able to forget what happened but i dated the kid for eight months and he was there through an important time in my life.
so i was just wondering, what are some ways that i can move on?
what sucks is that i didnt get any closure. he broke up with me over the phone and that sucks cause its not like i could totally give my goodbye. (link)
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First off, nothing is going to make it better unless you are ready for things to be better. Some people give you the fish in the sea crap but someone that is truly in love aren't interested in the other fish. It seems to me like you really loved him. Talk to people. My girl...god bless her heart..Left me right before our anniversary. I was torn up for a week. I talked to all my family and tried to figure out what i could do to convince her to take me back. after a week she did but in that week i had feelings that i didn't even know that i had. If you are ready for things to get better than do activities to get your mind off of it. Find a group of friends to hang out with. Do anything. Then, time will heal your wounds. Hope this helps.
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To sum it up my whole high school career I experienced love. My first love and then the one who stole it.I was with both guys for roughly a year and a half each. The 2nd guy and I ended a little over a year ago and that was still the last time I had real feelings for someone. I've never experienced such a harsh and hurtful breakup as I did with him, not even when I had to break the heart of my very first love. Now this 2nd guy still crosses my mind especially on my lonely days. He hasn't spoken to me since we broke up a year ago. Sometimes I get scared that I won't be able to find someone to fill this hole. I'm 19 and finally living the single life which I haven't really gotten to experience growing up. There has been hopefuls, people who start falling for me, but I just can't. I can't find the right person to fall for. Recently I've been more into checking girls out rather than guys and its making me so confused. I think I've just been feeling so alone this past year and getting so sick of these boys that I want to be open minded over who I fall in love with. I've been feeling more spark in me over girls then I do in boys. I don't know whats going on with me. (link)
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Well if you find that you can be happier with women, then I recommend being a lesbian or bisexual. I cannot say that I feel your pain but, I'm sure that you will find someone soon. Keep your head up and don't lower your standards too low. I made that mistake and now i'm stuck in it. Seriously, just enjoy the single life and when someone comes along, snatch them up and never let go.
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19 female. i fell for a younger guy. he will soon be 18. whatever, the age difference doesn't bother me AT ALL.
but my problem is that .. he doesn't treat me very well :( i mean he doesnt physically abuse me or ANYTHING like that but he emotionally drains me. he's basically a player and has a way with words urrrgh sucky for me. we are close friends and i think thats just what i want to remain. i think it would be the best for me.. i'd rather be a good friend than just another girl. i didn't even tell him i liked him but i know it shows everytime i see him. i should be upset with him for what he put me through and acting like he "cared" about me more than a friend but he's just one of those guys you cant get mad at no matter what. i want that to change. i hate being SO nice. i'm sick of being stomped all over and beaten down because i'm like that. i always give in. everytime we see each other i fall for him all over again and i give him all the attention.. which is what he loves. he flirts with me tooo .. and its cute but i can't take it anymore. i guess i have a hard time though because i have a flirty personality.. bad. its how i am. i don't know the difference between acting like a good friend or having a crush on someone. how can i just act like a good friend around him without seeming standoff-ish and like i'm ignoring him. i know if he starts flirting with me i will do it back because i also love the attention but i wish i wouldn't. ugh i have a problem. how can i fix this. (link)
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I just got out of a relationship like that, only I was the guy. Alot of men think that women like that "jerks". I recently thought that also, but the only thing that being a jerk will get you is your girlfriend making out with two guys in one night. I think that you need to let him know that you don't like the way that he treats you. If my girlfriend would've told me that, then I would have changed but lack of communication doesn't help. Depending on his reaction you will know whether he likes you enough to change his attitude or if you are just another girl.
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so, in my one class, there is this one boy, who is really good looking, and he seems like the type of boy that i would have a lot of similar interests with. (music, art.) anyway, i told the two girls i sit next to and talk to frequently in there how i thought he was hot, and so the one girl acted very.. middle schoolish.. & went and called this other girl skylar over, and she was like oh skylar! kendall thinks chris is hot! and they were like SHOUTING this conversation, and so, skylar had chris come over and hand me a paper, and i was so embarrassed, because i thought he heard. well she ended up telling him that i liked him or whatever, and the next day skylar was by my table, and she says loudly.."oh guess who is coming to give you your paper!" & i was like ughhh. & usually he just puts the piece of paper on my desk, and continues, but this time, he held it out, and i had to turn to face him and grabbed it & me being shy i just smiled, and so then he hit his head on the cabinet and me and the girl that sits next to me started laughing, so he stood at the end of the table, and was like "so does anyone else need paper?" (we all needed paper, he knew it too, because we were going to have to draw him, & it was the paper we were using.) & so the one girl was like "Yes? don't we all need it?" & he was like "oh yeah." & he stood there for another second, and then walked away.
it was really awkward, and i'm not sure what to make of it. in your opinion of what i told you, do you think he may be interested? a lot of my friends think he is, but i don't know. & if he is, what do i say next (keep in mind i'm really shy.) & if you don't think he is & probably finds me repulsive.. what do i do? just ignore him? (link)
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This kind of sounds like a romance movie. I think that he really likes you and if you don't persue his interests then he might think that he is trying for nothing. In my opinion, you should get his phone number and talk to him. Let him know your interests and let him share his. After a while, if you feel a connection, go for it. If not then you can still be really close friends. Be sure not to do what I did. I tried to look on the internet on things to get a woman interested, and how to make a girl interested in you and it all back fired. I hope that you can be happier with him then I was with my girlfriend...
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Recently, my friend has been talking about how "hot" he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and "jerk off" (masturbate) at any pictures of her in them. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to molest him he'd be all for it. Its kind of funny but its also kind of creepy to me. II always thought a teacher is someone you respect, not look at in that way. Is this normal (link)
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I am a 18 year old male. I am a senior in High School and can honestly say that I haven't fancied a teacher. When I was a Freshman, I had this choir teacher that was really hot, but I never fantacised about her.
In my opinion, it depends on the maturity level of the kid whether or not he fantacises about a teacher. If I were you, I would just lay out some ground rules. If he don't respect you enough to quit talking about (atleast around you) then obviously he likes the teacher more than you. I would break up with him if he can't quit. Any other advice just message me.
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ok look you guys,,, i really REALLY like this guy but he is 19 yrs old and we just broke up cause of our age differnce and i didnt want to get him in any trouble. But me and him still have a unbreakalbe connection, he still kisses me and everything, and he told his best friend and his best friend told me that he still wants to be with me!! but we both know we cant be 2gether, but we want to know if we should start dating again or not... so if you guys could pleazzz help me out (link)
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Me and my girlfriend are three years apart. She is 15 and I am 18. That is probably bad, but I don't care. I care about her more than I care about anything in the world. We both know that it is wrong to be together, and her parents hate it, but we have a bond that cannot be broken. I would say, if you like him and he likes you, go for it.
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