Hey all, my name is kimberly and I'm here to help. I'm just an average teen just like ya'll so feel free to ask ANYTHING and EVERYTHING and I'll try to answer it as best I possibly can... don't be afraid... ask away!!
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My friend has has some things happen to her this year, and she cut herself afew days ago! She is the nicest person I have ever met in my entire life and I'm not even exaderating. What should I do? (link)
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Thats nice of you to be worried and all but like I don't think there is anything you can say or do to make her stop. She needs to realize herself that she needs to. If you want to help I would suggest just being there for her as a friend and listening to her clearly. Hope this helped!
~KiKi
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okayy, well i mean ive madeout with guys before but i was just wondering if there was a way that you could do it wrong? im always afraid that they talk behind my back ro say stuff about how i like do it wrong. (link)
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Nope... there is no "wrong" way to kiss someone... although some people may like a kiss like more aggressivley or more passivley but that just depends on the person you are kissing... and yeah some guys do talk about that stuff behind your back no matter what... but they could be saying " wow she was amazing!"... maybe its not all negative. Hope I helped!
~KiKi
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wow, a rough month. This month i went to many different partys. All of 'em either had a camp fire or movie on a couch. The problem is....everyone their had sum1 to hold onto and kiss and snuggle with except for me. WEll, right now, i like this one guy...but i don't kno how to show him i care about him. Everyone at school knows me as the girl who always says no, every guy that asks me out i said no bc/ i didn't like 'em at the time. Now, i rele like this guy but i don't kno how to make him want me. So, all boys who are 13-14, wut turns u on in a girl? (link)
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ok im a girl but i thought i could give u my input anyway. with this guy u like... start talking to him and flirting with him, if he gets the hint and likes u too he'll start flirting back, if he doesnt he might also be just slow so dont take that as a bad sign. I'd invite him to like the movies with maybe a friend and her boyfriend so you and ur guy can get comfortable togeather without it being awkward and also ur friend won't feel left out if she has a guy there too~ Hope i helped!
~KiKi
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alright, if it helps, im tara and im 14.
i've been cutting myself for some time now. always on my wrist and always in the same general area. whenever its a cold day i wear a jacket, and whenever its hot out i just wear bracelets. nobody has ever noticed or said anything. so last night i was laying in bed and i forgot to put on a jacket. my mom came in and saw my arm and said something like 'what's that?' .. i freaked out and pulled it away and said i was drawing.. and she asked why and i said i couldnt find any paper. she asked me if i wanted to talk about anything so i just yelled no and she left. i dont think she has even heard of people cutting themselves. so this morning i covered my wrist with coverup and a few braclets so that she'd think it really was drawings that had washed off. it was very akward and i tried to pretend nothing happened. all she said was 'is body art a new trend or something?' i dont know if she believes my excuse or not.. what do you guys think? and do you have any ideas of how i can cover these darn cuts up? mucho thanks in advance.
PS: oh and please dont tell me to stop cutting. im working on it, i promise. but its like cigarettes or drugs, you cant just stop. it takes time and effort.. =) (link)
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yeah i cut too so i know how it is... you just have to do it yourself cuz no1 can tell u to stop. I bought a wrist band... thats really helpful espeically if its in one small area on your arm it'll cover that right up and u can buy really cute ones too. I got mine at Hot Topic... i think they work the best too cuz they can soak up the blood also. Hope i helped.
~KiKi
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where is a good place is to buy punk clothes? NOT GOTHIC! (link)
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I love the store Hot Topic.. its really awesome and has "punk" clothes (if you need a label for it)
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I deleted your question for two reasons.
First is because it's not really an advice question.
And second is because of this "Mods dont delete"
Don't put that in your questions because it only has the opposite effect on me and pretty much all of the other mods. You know, like a reverse psychology thing. (link)
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I put that in there cuz i really needed help and i submitted it the first time and you guys deleted it. The second time i thought you'd be a little nicer ... i was wrong. Thanks anyway
~KiKi
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I didn't know what category to put this is... but what are your opinions on tall girls.. I am 13 and 5"8" do u think thats weird cuz im starting to feel self consious but every1 is sayin its good cuz i can be a model.. any thought? think boys will like me or be intimdated? (link)
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yeah im 15 and 5'10... boys are definitly intimidated by tall girls. But you'll start to like it as u grow older. As for modeling... not all tall girls can. You say u have a pretty face which is a plus for modeling and a B cup is definitly the average. 120 pounds is considered very thin for your height! Girls usually stop growing completley (with height) 2 years after there first period. Hope i helped!
~KiKi
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Ok, i'm a huge flirt. even tho i've never had a bf. But i tend to flirt with guys that my friends like. And sumtimes they start to like me. (omg that sounded so cocky) Anyways... This happens a lot. And i'm sick of my friends calling me a man stealer, and i'm not! I want to stay loyal to my friends, but i can't help flirting. And i want guys to like me. What should i do? (link)
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Yeah i'm a huge flirt too... just be careful who u flirt with... i mean u can help flirting with certain people, its just u may be more interested in those guys cuz u cant have them or something like that. guys will like u no matter if u flirt or not... it usually doesnt have a lot to do with flirting, just ur looks and personality.. i mean flirting is always fun to do with guys but once u have a boyfriend i dunno how much he'll like u being so flirtacious! Hope i helped
~KiKi
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I just have to wonder how all of yall bush lovers can actually support him after all the fucked up things hes done?? you really enjoy us being at war?? how can yall continue to support him?? honestly? (link)
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A- fucking-Men!! haha jeez do i hate bush... he sucks and kerry definitly should have won. America is just a shit place to live now... i wouldnt be surprised if by the end of his term that he ends up destroying all of america.
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has anyone here become pregnant at a young age? please tell me ur story, im 15 and 3 weeks pregnant, n i dont know if i should get an abortion. what did ur parents say and do? (link)
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Hey... im very sorry to hear this, i am a 15 year old girl. I have never been pregnant but after reading all the comments on here saying "I've never been pregnant but u shouldnt have an abortion." none of these people know what its like. I mean i cant say that i do... but i am very much for abortions and i'd say that if u dont want to carry this baby for 9 monthes, possibly leave school, go through horrible labor, then id say that u should have an abortion. if u need to talk at all.. leave a comment on my site and we can talk through IM... my site is "KimRose" Hope I helped...
~KiKi
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Well, yesterday my best friend Rachael came over, and my crush Paul came over too. We all sat around watching movies and then Rachael goes, I'm in the mood to make-out with somebody, so she makes out with Paul 2 times!!! I was sitting right there too! She knows I like him and she just did it right there I got so pissed, and shes like dude jess your a stalker so she walked into the kitchen and they were holding hands n like his hands were on her hips as she was looken at me sayen "don't look jess" so i was like wtf whatever so i sat there with the mute on the tv cuz i didn't know how to react, they walk in and then i jus got so pissed i had to call my BESTEST FRIEND courtney and when i did, she had her phone off so i had no one to talk to. i was sitten on the computer talken to some people and then rachael stands up.. and walks into the dining room with her pants unbuttoned and i was like oh my god and she went to the bathroom i then flippen out on paul and when they left rachael said bye jess n i shut the door on her. you'd be mad too right? or do u think im just overreacting? (link)
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That is so rude... jeez that makes me mad just reading about that. haha. my ex best friend did that to me also... grr i was so pissed at her. You definitly deserve better cuz u sound like a sweet girl, i'd say ditch that "friend" cuz u dont deserve to take crap like that from someone. hope i helped.
~KiKi
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As a post-election project. My teacher wants each of us to write and give an oral report about which party we support and why.
I am a communist, and communists tend to be frowned upon and I wouldn't feel right not doing it because I'm afraid of what other people would think.
So, should I do it on communism, or just pretend to be a republican? (link)
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I would ask your teacher so you can get a good grade. If the teacher says yes then go for it... if she says no, then DO NOT do republicans... do democrats because they are so much better! haha. I hope i helped.
~KiKi
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my boyfriend always calls me sayin how some girl kissed him today at school but if i just say my friend likes my butt he freaks out and i dont care about him flirting cz we dont go to the same school so im not there to do something..anyways i wanna tell him on halloween i was holdin this guy i just met hands but i dont want him to freak out..how can i tell him and ask why he freaks out about me doin the smallest things with my friends and me not doin nothin about him and his???
o yea when he flirts i get jealous but i dont act or say nothin about it..is he tryin to get me jealous? (link)
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Wow why are u still with a guy like that. I know I have serious jealousy issues so i envy u for not freaking out over this situation. And also why do u need to tell ur boyfriend u were holding a guys hand? thats not that big of a deal! Hope I helped.
~Kiki
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Okay, I know that there have been many questions on the subject, but I looked, and I haven't found any other question/answers that were helpful. Okay, well here goes. I've gotten so addicted to cutting, that lately I've been doing it in class. I even cut my initials into my skin. Well today I got caught, and I was telling a friend about it, and my 4th period teacher heard. Well after the test in that class, she called me into the hall because we were allowed to do anything, and I got out a needle, and when that teacher saw she called me out. Then she was all like you know what you do is dangerous and stuff, and I was like yes... and she said other stuff like I care about you, and want you to stop, and I was like yeah, whatever. Well, now I really want to stop, but I can't it's like I'm addicted. I want to end my life, yet I want to live. And so now, I don't know how to stop. And I would bring it up to one or both of the teachers that know, but I wouldn't know how to bring it up, and I'm afraid that they would tell my parents, and my parents wouldn't sympathize, they would get really mad, trust me I know. So I was wondering, how might I get over this addiction, and if I were to tell the teacher that I need help, then how would I bring it up. What would you do to get help, and if you were to ask a teacher for help, what would you say. And if you were a cutter, but no longer cut, I'd like to hear your stories, no matter how long! Thanks a bunch!
Sorry it's so long, but I'm really worried about how far I might take this. (link)
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Wow... thats really long haha. But ok so i'm also a cutter at the current moment too. I am really depressed and life sucks yada yada yada i could go into all my stuff but i'm not going to because i'm supposed to be helping you! ( If you wanna talk too you can IM me at VETKRB) My suggestion for you to go to the person you are closest too in your life wheather that be a teacher, friend, sibling, or even the school phycologist ( but if u did that they would probably be obligated to tell your parents) but just talk to SOME1 about it... it will help. also with the addiction part of it, try to figure out why you do it. I think that will give you a lot of answers to your problem. I have also heard that like taking a rubber band and wearing it around your wrist and snapping it can also help whenever you feel the urge to cut. I hope this helped you in some way... remember, i'm free to talk anytime.
~KiKi
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okay, I didn't really think I'd get any more answers to my previous question, so I'm going to put my addition to my additional answer here.
Here is my question. When you cut yourself, which by the way I'm trying to stop, so I don't really need help there, I was wondering, will the scars ever go away? Because I cut first letter of my first name in my arm, and now I regret it, and it's not that deep. None of the cuts I made had actually bled, they jstu got scabs over them. So will the scars be there forever? (link)
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I don't think they will ever totally go away... they will fade though definitly, especially if you didnt break the skin. But i used to cut too and i have scars even from when i didnt break the skin too. Hope this helped!
~KiKi
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what kind of dancing is 'frinding' liek how do u do it
i'll rate high (link)
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I think u mean grinding... and its when like a guy usually stands behind the girl and they dance like really really close to a fast song and just move to the music.
~KiKi
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im 14 and my b/f's 15. He's a really sweet guy and always tells me that hes going to wait for me for when i want to lose my virginity and hes a virgin too. ive known him like my whole life and he is the sweetest guy ever and he is so nice and would never do anything to hurt anyone. all weve done is make out but everytime i come over or he comes over his older sister and older brother and older cousin will ask what we did and he just says nothing and theyre like well damn have you guys at least made out??? and they tease him sometimes n just be like oo all you guys do is make out??? and all that stuff and so lately i think its been bothering him. i know im young and all but i feel like, "pressured" to have sex with him and like i want to in a way so they stop teasing him, and i also feel that theyre gunna think im some prude kind of person and i dont want them to think that of me, i want them to like me and not talk about us. i dont really know how this is a question but i need some kind of advice, like what i should do and if i should have sex with him or not. (link)
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Absolutley DO NOT have sex with this guy. NEVER EVER do something because u feel pressured. If your intentions on this arent pure, then u know your not ready to have sex with him.
Hope I helped
~Kiki
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i need to reperice my ear does it hurt when u do it ur self? (link)
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A little bit of a pinch... i've done it twice. Just make sure to sterilize the earring and your ear and try to get something really sharp to do it with. (i did it with a sharp earring.) Hope I helped!
~KiKi
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hey -
i was just like wondering how you makeout.and wahts the difference between kissing and makingout.im 13 (link)
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OK kissing is w/o tounge... making out is with tounge. and how u do it... theres no set way to make out aka hook up. umm just experiment and try differant things. Since ur 13 thats a great age to start trying!! Hope I helped
~KiKi
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Does anybody no a good hair straghtner?? i rate thanks (link)
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Hot tools ceramic straightener is a great one that a lotta hair dressers use!
Hope I helped
~KiKi
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