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JP
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Age: 16
Member Since: February 23, 2009
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15/f
So saturday night I spent the night at my friend M's house , we're not talking , but we used to. So things led to one another though we had sex I guess? It didn't really hurt like at all , as much as him fingering me ( guess I don't like getting fingered ?) . I don't regret it or nothing. I don't really see it as me losing my virginity to him , I don't really know if he even popped my cherry. But I know pretty much a penis entering a vagina is sex. Ohh yes we used a condom, and I have no worry that I might be prego. I probably wont talk to him no more, because I realized that night I really really don't like him. Not for nothing he did, I just don't . Buhh yeah I've been bleeding like since then & I thought it was my period, but guess not cause its like really light, so how long do you think I'll keep bleeding. And do you have any opinions about my first time.. well kind of first time? (link)
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i dont know much about sex, but i dont think your supposed to bleed afterwards. well, only a little, but not like a period. only like a couple a drops.
JP
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14/f
Ok so I need more things to do with my friends. I mean on weekends. Like the most we do is go to the movies and then go over to my house or something afterward. What else could we do? We've had bday parties and pool parties and some movie thing where they came over and we watched movies. I don't always want to go to the movies. Sleepovers won't really work if we want to include everyone since we have guy friends too. I don't really want to spend so much money either. We usually go to a movie where its cheap like 7 dollars. Is there anything else we can do? Thanks! (link)
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OK, so its a little cold now, but a little trip to the park could be nice. or maybe a little expedition to a bowling alley. walkingaround the mall is always fun, even if you dont buy anything. and if you see a really cute T that you just dont have the money for, you can always harass one of your guy friends into getting it for you.
JP
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I'm just going to say this is going to be very long, so try to keep up an enjoy the ride.
Ok, so last year I was in a play at school and I fell madly in love with a guy we're going to call "Jack." Jack and I had been friends since the beginning of the year but I didn't really like him until we were working together. Sufice to say I ended up with a HUGE crush on him. In moment of foolishness I told him I liked him a lot. He took me out into the hall and explained that he could never like me like that because I was too close of a friend. Plus, his parents wouldn't let him date until he was 16. I was crushed but we still decided to be friends and have remained good friends since.
Fast forward a year:
Jack and I have become increasingly close. Jack just had his 16 birthday and I was invited. One of his two best riends wasn't invited to make room for me. We're doing another play together (Les Misérables, hence the whores)and hang out a bunch. Yesterday when we had our scene together (I'm a whore and he's a sailor) he literally would not stop grabbing me. I was supposed to be with the other whores across the room but he firmly planted his hands around my waist. I said, "Jack, I have to go over and talk to 'John' too! Let me go, I'll be back in a minute!" He scowled at John and later said to me "I wish I was the only sailor who got to bring you home at night."
I still have a bunch of feelings for Jack. I mean, I he asked me out I'd say yes in a heartbeat. But I'm so confused as to if he actually likes me or if he's just being friendly.
So people, here are my questions:
1. Do you think Jack likes me as a friend, or MORE than a friend?
2. If he only likes me as a friend, do you have any tricks (Or think I have a chance in hell)to get him to like me?
Sorry this was so long! Thanks for being patient and all the advice I'm sure will ensue. :) (link)
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well, this is an impossible question to answer--if he likes you--because I dont know either of you. so my advice is to just tell him exactly what you told us: that you still like him, and are confused as to HIS feelings.
that's what i'd do.
Hope it all works out for you.
Good luck.
Julie P.
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well so im 14, turning 15 really soon. i do not look my age at all. i look atleast 17. anyways theres this guy. i met him and he said he was 19, and i really started liking him and stuff, but later on i did find out that he really is 27, he has his reasons to lie about his age but i dont want to get into it. and i just found out his real age the other day, it shocked me to death the first day, second day pretty weird, but today im totally over it and still really like him. and we had a talk last night about us being together and me soon moving in with him when im able to move out. he still doesnt know that i know hes 27, he cant know i know, long story. but is it wrong to be in love with a 27 year old when your only 14 years old? =/ (link)
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It's not wrong. Granted, it IS illegal, and he could get into serious trouble. Love comes in many shapes and sizes...and ages.
But if you really cared about him, you'd explain to him the situation, make him understand, and cut it off.
I'm not telling you what to do. That's all up to you. I'm just telling you MY opinion. (My OTHER opinion is to take my first into careful consideration.)
Good luck. I hope you find your way.
Julie P.
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I am having trouble making friends, so i invited someone over for later this week. the problem is my house is pretty boring and i dont know what we should do. i dont want to come off boring and lose the possibility of friendship. what should i do? (link)
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The first, most important thing to remember is... BE YOURSELF!!!! If they can't like whoy YOU are, then they AREN'T friend material.
But a good way to entertain is to chat and eat (first most). Before they get there, make sure the place is clean, and gather some tastey snacks around in the kitchen/living room/dining room/your room and when they get there, sit and talk. NO ONE can resist a tastey, free snack unless they're super man, and even THEN...
While you're talking, find out what that person likes to do/watch/read/listen to/etc.
If you have any of their fav music... PUT IT ON!!! Same with shows. Maybe you could play a game, or take a walk. Be free, be you freely. Show them who you are.
Then, invite them over again. I guarentee they'll agree.
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17/f
Is it possible to build a worthwhile relationship with a "ladies' man?" What typically goes wrong with this type of guy? He seems to know all of the right things to say and do but sometimes doesn't seem genuine. Thanks! (link)
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Of COURSE it's possible! ANYTHING'S possible! Sure his..."knowledge"...may seem a little too perfect, but you have no reason not to trust him yet, do you? If you do, then be careful. There's nothing worse then knowing you didn't trust him but let him blind side you. But if he hasn't given you a reason not to trust him yet, then go for it. Good luck!!!
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I'm 16 years old , Female . Well I fell in love at the age of 14 [ don't care if anyone thinks it's too young ] . Me and my first love Dated for a year and 3 months . We broke up summer of O8' June 1st , and best believe it was the hardest thing I thinkk i've had to go through . Well In November I started dating this guy named Jason , treats me better than any guy ever has ... Well I do love him and believe I am in love with him. Problem though , It's so hard getting over Justin [ first love ] & it sucks because i'm the first girl Jason [ current bf ] has ever been " in " love with . Y'all it's almost been a year since the break up with Justin & I really need to get over him but I know it takes time ... But I feel horrible bc I can't give my whole heart to Jason when I still feel as if Justin has some of it but I have all of Jason's heart ... It would'nt be that hard if Justin did'nt go to the same school abd I see him everyday . But Jason said he'd wait because i'm worth it but honestly no guy wants to stick around when ur stuck on someone else .. Help me get over Justin , I need to give my all , 100% to Jason , he's the greatest boyfriend i've had . (link)
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Think back. Who broke up with whom? Think back. Why? Think back. What made you except Jason's first offer. Think back. Wahat do you like about Justin and Jason. Think back. What don't you like about the two J's. Who has more likes? Dislikes? From you.
I hope this helps. It helped ME.
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