So saturday night I spent the night at my friend M's house , we're not talking , but we used to. So things led to one another though we had sex I guess? It didn't really hurt like at all , as much as him fingering me ( guess I don't like getting fingered ?) . I don't regret it or nothing. I don't really see it as me losing my virginity to him , I don't really know if he even popped my cherry. But I know pretty much a penis entering a vagina is sex. Ohh yes we used a condom, and I have no worry that I might be prego. I probably wont talk to him no more, because I realized that night I really really don't like him. Not for nothing he did, I just don't . Buhh yeah I've been bleeding like since then & I thought it was my period, but guess not cause its like really light, so how long do you think I'll keep bleeding. And do you have any opinions about my first time.. well kind of first time?
Myrrha answered Monday February 23 2009, 10:27 pm: If your bleeding, he ruptured your hymen. It may take a little while to heal. Not sure what opinions to give you about it, everyone's first time is different. It is never what you expect, definitely not like the movies. It usually hurts, and it may take a few times for you body to "learn" to orgasm thru intercourse. Young adults really don't ever get that information. Movies and tv show sex very differently, that I think when people do get their first time, they are dissapointed. Before you dismiss him off, just keep those things in mind. [ Myrrha's advice column | Ask Myrrha A Question ]
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