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What do you want to be when you grow up? And when is your birthday?
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porno star like peter north or lex steel
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Hey everyone,
I'm an 18 year old female weighing about 190 lbs. Even though I don't look morbidly obese, my weight does bother me, and I'd love to lose a bunch of weight, especially for the sake of my health.
At school, we have a gym. Most of the machines are broken (elliptical, bikes with no resistance) but you can still use them. There's also a treadmill, which I love using.
So, here is what I've been doing lately. I use the treadmill for a good 35 minutes, with in incline of 10% and speed of 5. Is that good to lose weight?
I hate the elliptical because it's so tiring, but I love it because it helps lose weight. So I usually do about 10 minutes on it (unfortunately)
And although I don't like the bike because it has no resistance, I use it just for the heck of it, to about 10 minutes as well.
I don't do weights because I'm afraid my already big upper body will get bigger.
So if anyone can help me plan out a regimen, I'd really appreciate it! (link)
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weight loss is slow...
its all about doing it day by day
timing is everything to: make sure to exercise before you eat
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19/f
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over 7 months now. I've given him oral sex many times, but he's never done it for me. So when I asked him last night, he said he thought it was gross. I asked what part was gross, and he said the er..fluids that come out i guess. Then he went on to say that he wasn't ready, "just not yet". Which made no sense to me. How is this fair? What should I do about it?
I was really offended like I gross him out. Or that he doesn't want to make me happy. Because I do it for him, and it's not like my favorite thing in the world, but I enjoy making him happy. (link)
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offer to try 69 with him, and don't give him any more bjs
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My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months now,and she wants me to take her virginity.I want to do it but i keep telling myself to wait till im about 17.....but on the other hand i don't want to get drunk at a party sometime and lose my virginity the wrong way.What should i do? (link)
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if you want to long break up you'll probably lose the only chance you'll ever h ave to take a girl virginity. After all girls sell their virginity for more than 10,000$ I'd personally take her virgin in a heart beat, but I'd know what I'm doing. Like said above it's a big deal if you don't follow the simple rules: use a condom.
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please some one tell me how to give a jickie my girl wants one but i dont no how (link)
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you make suction marks on her neck, and then everybody will go oh.... and you both get to be popular. it's really simple just hope that her dad doesn't try to merk you
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21/f
This is a really weird question, I know, and you're probably going to think I'm making a big deal over nothing. I was going out with this guy in a band, and we broke up in December. It was a bad break up and he was really bad to me. Anyway, in the time we went out (3 months) I became fairly good friends with the other two in the band. One in particular I really liked. I recently found out this one has left the band, and from what it sounds like it was under pretty bad circumstances. Anyway I recently found him on Facebook, and I really want to add him. However, I'm not sure if this would be weird? I really liked him and enjoyed speaking to him (as a friend) We go to the same college too, but I haven't seen him around. I haven't seen him since my ex and I broke up. I know it's only Facebook, and people add each other all the time there. I just don't want to make him uncomfortable and I can't decide.
So to add or not add? Thanks (link)
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If you had sex with the ex boyfriend, and then broke up with him it is to the equivalence of firing somebody from a company. Therefore if you want anything to do with a future between you, and an honorable gentleman then you better not even think about adding him.
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hi it is me again the one about me and a guy in school and the one bf and gf.well i just found out he already has a gf!!!!that jerk!!! and his gf is my bff. i mean he asked if i wanted to be his gf. well here at ten i get to talk too him but every time i try to talk he won't answer and he said we r not even friends any more i am going to try to talk to him to see what is going on. other than that plz tell me what i should do to at least be my friend. he was/still is my best guy friend.well i just talked to him and he still hates me plz tell me what to do.
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you need to recognize your hormonal feelings, and separate them from logic, because ............................ it's clearly evident from your jealousy that there's a sexual attraction going on keeping you from dropping this scumbag like he's hot.
Life sucks so make sure that you do what you can to make it suck less such as for example by not allowing a douche bag without any honor violate your body and mind.
If I were you'd I'd snap right back into gear, and stop wasting mind on him.
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THIS IS NOT NORMAL HIGH SCHOOL DRAMA. I'M BEGGING YOU TO READ THE WHOLE THING. PLEASE.
16/F
There's this guy at my school that has been literally obsessed with me for like two years.
He texts me constantly, and I used to text him back and we'd have these really cool intense conversations.
But then it got a little scary. About two months ago, he began to text me every single day like once every thirty minutes until I answered him back. And I'd have to answer him back, because if I didn't, he'd come up to me the next day at school and corner me at my locker and ask me to explain why I didn't answer him back. And he just would have this puppy dog look in his eyes, so he looked non-threatening, but he'd also be blocking my way out with his arms.
He's constantly leaving notes in my locker and on my desk in homeroom about how we're going to spend the rest of our lives together and have a bunch of kids. We are not dating.
I've told one of my friends about it, but it's embarrassing because I don't know what to do. Plus, he keeps telling me in every note not to tell anyone because they'll make fun of our "love" and he doesn't like it when people make fun of him.
This note thing has been going on for almost a month. And if he sees me flirting with a guy in the hall, he just gives me this look and then he'll corner me after school again. I'm allowed to flirt though, aren't I?? Well I can't anymore and I've stopped.
The puppy dog look has left his eyes by now.
And the reason why I've finally gotten up the courage to write this is because I'm all out of ideas. My friend that I told doesn't know what to do about it and she isn't really taking it seriously. And I'm too scared to go tell the guidance counselor about it because I'm pretty sure he'd find out somehow. (He tends to follow me around school). But the thing is that sent me over the edge is that he called me last night after school (today is Saturday), and his speech was slurred so I'm guessing he'd been drinking, but he said that he was planning on killing himself soon unless I:
1) stop flirting with other guys
2) stop talking to other people when he's around
3) have sex with him soon
He's crazy, right? What to I do? I was so scared last night that he was going to come over my house. I locked all the doors and I slept in my brother's room.
I don't want him to kill himself, obviously, but I also want him to leave me alone. I'm scared also too that with everything else that's going on (the notes about how we're going to be together forever) that if he does choose to kill himself, he's going to take me with him.
Please help, I'm so scared right now. (link)
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Good HTML skills first of all : D
I got no time to format.
And this guy isn't going to kill himself, and even if he does problem solved. You must understand that's his problem. That's over there, and you're over here. You don't want to be over there with that asshole, because somebody like him could get someone hurt.
Now allow yourself to be harshly introduced to the fact that life sucks. You have a sincere problem where this guy is handling his problem with you by one of two means: civilly or uncivilly, and it's obvious which route he has chosen to go.
In any uncivil situation you must realize that you're not only protecting your physical well being, but also your criminal background.
You don't want to learn why life sucks when it comes to the law, and how even a criminal can in a downward spirally way use it to fuck you over badly, so I wouldn't hesitate to take this matter to the police or at least your parents who should have much better leverage over the situation.
This isn't uncommon by the way.
May this be a lesson for you in the necessity of practicing self defense.
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"Okay. 1) "Good HTML skills first of all"...are you mocking me? I didn't format the question at all and I don't understand what the hell you are talking about. 2) "And this guy isn't going to kill himself, and even if he does problem solved". You are a horrible, heartless human being. 3) "Now allow yourself to be harshly introduced" "You must learn" etc, etc. Thank you for the harshness? Again, heartless advice. 4) May this be a lesson for you in the necessity of practicing self defense". I'm sorry, are you actually blaming ME?? You are terrible and mean, and I advise you never to advise another human being. Or if you do want to advise them for some ungodly reason, try having a little more tact in your responses. You're terrible.
My Response:
You simply just can't handle the truth, and sorry that I didn't tell you what you wanted to hear.
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i was wondering if you keep your car in good shape such as gettin regualr check ups and oil changes and gettin it fixed when it needs fixed does the mileage actually matter? (link)
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If a car has well maintenance of oil changes then millage should not matter as much as your opinion of how the motor sounds.
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Hey, I'm trying to find the right laptop for me... and I know nothing about laptops. My boyfriend has a black Mac.. he bought it probably for about 1,500.. and he says they're good, it's lasted him for a little over two years now. But my friend says that's a horrible decision and they get hacked the most easily. I'm leaning towards a mac, but is that the best idea??
I want something with a built in webcam/mic so I can video chat with my boyfriend while he's away at school, and something that can hold my schoolwork, music, movies, photoshop or other programs like the rosetta stone. Which laptops hold the most space and will last me a good 5 years?
Sorry, like I said I know NOTHING about this stuff. Advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much! (link)
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The only people who typically demand computer performance are gamers, so unless you're a gamer you can pretty much be very satisfied with any computer that they have on the shelf today. I'm absolutely shocked by with you can get for $500.
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I'm engaged and thinking of getting married next summer. Both of us are 20 years old, will be in our third year of college. Both of our school costs are paid for except books, and we both make just minimum wage. Can we afford to get married now? Keep in mind our rent would be around $500, and min. wage here is $7.50; don't know what other costs to include that's why I'm asking? (link)
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Marry now, and celebrate later. Any big weddings are paid for by the lady's folks.
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I'm 17/f and I just had my first prom. You know what proms are like, where couples are practically having sex on the dance floor? Before prom I had promised myself I wouldn't do that and I wasn't even confident enough to go close to a guy anyway. Next thing I know I'm pressed up to a guy I don't even know, dancing in a way that makes me blush just thinking about it. Where did this come from?! I'm the girl that doesn't talk to the boys at school because I'm too nervous. Suddenly I'm rubbing up on some guy like it's natural. Is this part of me natural? What is this?
Sincerely,
Allix (link)
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There's been in general a decline in the morality of humanity due to the lack of in many ways responsibility most people let go by forgetting everything else, but worrying about the out comes resulting in fun, popularity, and acceptance.
Religion for instance used to be spread by actions of other christians, which literally compelled other, but now like all religions it's mainly spread by indoctrination.
Now speaking of indoctrination us stupid kids face it in many forms media, and TV shows on MTV are very much teaching kids how to think, act, and what to buy.
You questions has to deal wth many variables, but the main thing to take note to is morality: simple moral conscience, and if you're brave enough to put it forth, stand tall without anybody behind you, remain calm, and confident while doing so then I will be a fan of you.
Just FYI one the things I regret most is that my woman had sex with another man who was a total stupid pig just because of her selfish want to be loved so please don't follow the stupid into the hell, and fire like millions have had in the past yet till this day nobody has learned from.
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I don't know the first thing about playing guitar.. but I've always wanted to learn. I have this cheap acoustic, and no money for lessons... so is there any way I'd be able to learn it easily enough through some sort of website?
One of the first songs I want to learn is "This Boy: by James Morrison. Any tips?
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First man if you haven't looked into guitars at all you can pick up on a few things just by searching google, because there are those cheap guitars out there with action so terrible that nobody can play a song with them unless you don't have to change cords or frets for the entire song so make sure to have an idea of what you defiantly don't want.
As far as playing the song goes you should be able to look on youtube for people that post guitar lessons
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i've been dating this absolutely amazing guy for two weeks now. he has been one of my best friends for about two years but we recently started dating. we're both seniors in high school. i have absolutely no idea what to get him for valentine's day though. we've neither one dated much, but i want to make it special. he's not into sports or i would get him something along those lines. he does theatre and performs a lot.
does anybody have any suggestions? i'll take anything.. whether good or bad. i'm desperate!
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One things for sure if you want to buy him computer software then you'll sure be putting his acting to the test.
Don't get him a cheesy as hell computer game.
If you want to get him something a big huge will be one of the best things he'll ever get that b eing if he really loves you...
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Hi, i've been dating this guy for 2 months, and the first time we made out i was really nervous and i almost didnt want to. However, ever since then, i just want to kiss him a lot. I told him that i wanted to wait until my birthday to do anything too sexual. But, now my birthday is over and i feel ready but i'm wicked nervous. i think that once i do something i'll get used to it like i did with making out. i dont want to get his hopes up then smash them.. but i dont want to fool myself.. help? (link)
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You're giving away something, and he's got nothing to give in regards to sex. His hopes are silly ass shit that you aint got to worry about.
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okay.. soo this morning my boyfriend and i were having sex. i'm not on birth control but we always use protection and as he's about to go he ALWAYS pulls out. today after we had sex we checked the condom to make sure there were no holes by filling it up with water. And sure enough, there was a freaking hole! but it was on the side of the condom towards the base of his penis. so it was not by the tip of the condom where the semen collects but towards the opposite side. he said the condom was really tight and that he pulled out before he finished. do you guys think i'm okay ? =( (link)
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Yes.
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I'm 16/f and I'd like to talk to this guy I've been crushing on for a few years but it always turns out that my mouth gets dry, I can't think of what day it is, the whole eight yards. Is there any trick to push the butterflies away? I really like this guy, but it's not going anywhere if I can't say "Hi."
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There's no way to push those butterflies out of your stomach until you go threw enough things in life to make yourself become more forward.
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so this guy i met at my friends house back in december, well i did see him again in january but i havent seen him since the begining of that month. anyways..in the begining [december] he really did like me, he told my friend how he did. but..then he told me that he didnt wanna go out with me because of basketball, and i didnt even ask to go out with him..so that kind of hurt. then a week later he started talking to me again but he told me he likes someone else [this girl who lives 2 hours away from him] but whatever i guess..so im not sure what it was but something made him talk to me more and more near the end of december..but, it wasnt normal talking. it was mostly sexual. before we saw eachother again he told me to flirt with him and that if i did he would like me and then he said hed make a move on me. one day we decided to meet at my friends house, and sleepover like the last time. i went..he ignored me for a while..he was being really immature [by the way he is one year younger than me]yeah so basically he was giving a lot of mixed signals..so anyways i went home the next day and cried for a good 2 hours. then 3 days later he IMed me and we talked about last time and he told me he wanted me to give him a hj..i said i would next time but when i said that i had no intention of actually wanting to do it and i just said i would because i like the attention of him talking to me but i wasnt actually going to. then since that day he progressively became more and more demanding with sexual favors from me and would think of something new to ask for, every week. i didnt say yes to them though. i said no in a nice way. looking back on our conversations, he used to be a LOT nicer. now, a typical conversation between us is, him: "hey i love your rack" "suck my dick" "lets just have sex" "i want you" and things like that. that is all he wants to talk about now. and he doesnt even ASK, he demands it. but anyways, last saturday night..and he asked for pictures and pressured me. then i looked on his facebook and the girl who he liked and went out with during the time i saw him at their house last, [i didnt know about that until my friend told me a week ago, they broke up] but anyways she wrote on his wall, i love you too! with a heart..and i think they are going out again..even though she lives far away..but..im sort of annoyed because now he isnt gonna talk to me anymore..thats WHY he hasnt contacted me since wednesday [well, i IMed him first..] but anyways when i IMed him he was begging me to give him a bj next time i see him [and who knows when that will be cause he is busy every weekend..]but i kept on saying nope sorry i dont think that will happen and he would just keep begging. but so he told me to text him and i did but his phone was off so whatever..so really, im just annoyed..because, i think he is back togethor with that girl..but he is trying to make it seem like i dont know..but i do know..and i could be wrong, but really..she writes on his wall everyday with hearts and says like i miss you and stuff. i think he just wants to use me to get some ass but im also confused because he hasnt talked to me in 4 days. i would think he would talk to me again but i guess hes done with me..i wish i didnt care, its embaressing how i care. i know this is gonna sound bad..but dont you think well, knowing him i mean, dont you think he would still talk to me and want to see me even though he has a girlfriend who lives far who he never sees, because it would make him feel cool. i know that seems terrible to say but he is immature like that and im pretty sure he would cheat on someone..ugh i feel really bad saying that..i dont know how to deal with this.. (link)
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Self-defense.
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I didn't have menstruation for a 2 months. My last menstruation was in November 26, 2008. maybe i had them in december, i dont really know. i lost my calendar where i checked my cycle but now i found it and im worry so much. Im virgin, but one time i was with my bf. however we were in underwear. is it possible to get pregnant? what to do to get periods back? (link)
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I'm not going to look up information on this subject for you, but please check up on this topic by using the google search.
If you're a virgin, and just had dry sex it would just be fucking silly if you got pregnant.
Go on google, and I'm sure that you'll find a list of conditions which may induce missed periods.
Simply staying up late, and not sleeping for instants will severely change your cycle.
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Hello, me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 6 months but we live in different cities (guelph cambridge) we do however see each other 3 to 4 times a month. Lat night we had a date and it was... AMAZING. we talk every night on webcam but... Now after the date I am loving her more than ever and only being able to see her like 4 times a month well... its just TEARING ME APART!! I don't know what I'm asking for here i just want some advice on what to do we see each other as much as our scheduals can handle but its just not enough anymore so please pleeeeeeease help.
Thanks in advance! Bye
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Calm down holmes.
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