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Hi, i've been dating this guy for 2 months, and the first time we made out i was really nervous and i almost didnt want to. However, ever since then, i just want to kiss him a lot. I told him that i wanted to wait until my birthday to do anything too sexual. But, now my birthday is over and i feel ready but i'm wicked nervous. i think that once i do something i'll get used to it like i did with making out. i dont want to get his hopes up then smash them.. but i dont want to fool myself.. help?
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Don't do anything you aren't comfortable doing, and don't feel like you HAVE to do anything with him. Don't put any pressure on yourself (or him, for that matter) or force yourself into anything.
You'll only end up regretting it in the end.
-Laura (16-f)
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You're giving away something, and he's got nothing to give in regards to sex. His hopes are silly ass shit that you aint got to worry about.
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I know you must be excited about this guy. It sounds like you are really attracted to him. Is he someone you'd like to live with forever, or is he someone you wouldn't mind having to deal with if you have a child? You know, you have to think of all the consequences. Would it really hurt to wait and see what he is really like? You are stalling for some reason, because you planned to wait after your birthday, and you didn't. Remember, you don't owe this guy anything, you owe yourself everything. Don't worry about getting his hopes up, this is your life. The decisions you make right now, will make a difference in your future. You have only known him for 2 mo., I hope you think about this some more. You have to make this decision on your own. I don't know how old you are, but, obviously old enough to be on a date. Good luck and take care.
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