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Hi JennaRESPECTS i am really upset. Im really worried that my best friend is avoiding me. I dont want to ask her because i dont want her to get mad at me. But i dont know what to do to find out if she is or not. what should i do? Help me please.. she means ALOT to me. I love her alot. Thanks so much!

Sincerley,
Confused and Worried.
My real name is alli.. but thats how i feel (link)
um, well everyone feels like that sum times u just gotta come clean with her and tell her how u feel


ok.....ive liked this boy for awile now and i think he was starting to like me but im not sure and now this really hot new boy came to our school and im really starting to like him ALOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but i have told my friends that ive liked this other boy for awile now and now ive told them that i really like this new kid and to make matters worse this girl that i told her i like him now"all of usudden" she loves him now and she wants to go out with him?????
wat do i do?
13 female (link)
dont go for the new guy just yet stay with the old one


Crest Whitestrips Premium...worth the $30? (link)
well,, maybe if you have the money to spear... they do work so just give it ur shot


wut do i do? my boyfriends best friend ahas been saying crap to me about how i should treat my boyfriend and is always gettin me and my boyfriend into fights. i told my boyfriend about it and he says maybe u should listen to him and wont tell him to stop. i no i dont treat him like crap but he thinks i do bcuz his bf tells him i do. his bf had a bad relationship a lil bit ago andi think hes tryin to ruin r's. wut do i do? (link)
toon his friend out ignor him... dont talk to your boyfriend about it because that will make things bad... when his bf tell u stuff just go along with it and be like okay thanks for the advice cus i really love my boyfriend and he deseveres the best and stuff


Ok well me n my bf have been goin out for 10 months today!!!!!!!!!! and i love him to death!!! well n e wayz his birthday iz in october and so iz our 1 year anniversary so i wanna get him a shirt and a CD for his birthday but wat should i do for our 1 year???? (link)
for your one year u should do something cute... get him something u kmow he wants or make him something be creative and use your own ideas and thoughts dont be worried if he likes it or not because its the thougt that counts... good luck gurly!


OK, the othere day I went to the doctors and the doctor told me this scale on puberty. 5 being you have gotten your period and stuff like that. Well, my friends mom told me mom my friend was a 5. And the other day we got in a fight and my friend was really frusterated. My friends mom told me, my friend, and another friend, you get really frusterated during your period. Do you think my friend got her period? PLese help! Oh yea, she has been in a really bad mood lately. (link)
well, i dont know for sure if she did or not... she couldnt of... talk to her about it she may be in a bad mood because sumtin else or like something bad is going on in her life and she needs sum one to talk ot her about it dont worry and dont make exsumptions... be there for her cus she needs a friend right now


me and my ex boyfriend were one of those couples where we were exact opposites. he was kind of "Wigger-ish" and i was moare "Skater". he would even call me a skater .. and then he'd say how much he hates them. it always affended me so he would add "Except for you" but it didnt make much of a difference. when he found out my favorite color was orange, he got all weird like "Holy fuck, you're only supposed to like black". who the hell tells their girlfriend, let alone anyone .. what colors they can like? it really pissed me off, and we broke up later that night for other reasons, and he just moved here over the summer (thats how i met him). now hes going to my school where no one knows him, and he's going to be in most of my classes. i really liked him even though we were different. and im shy around guys so i probably wont talk to him. what should i do if i want to be with him again, but keep him from treating me like shit? (link)
dont label ppl... save that for soup cans!... tell him how u feel tell him u dont apprciate how hes acting and that it hurts ur feelings and if he really cares hell stop and if he doesnt stop then dump him... i skateboard to and i dont like how ppl judge and sterotype... so dont worry ur not alone and im sure if things get worse u can find sum one better! good luck


Im goin out with a guy who is 2 years older than me and he lives an hour away and we can never see each other and our parents don't approve of the relationship.He can drive on his own in January so then we'll be able to see each other but as of right now we can't and well im not really sure if i should stay with cuz well shouldn't relationship partners be able to see each other at least once a week?or at least once every 2 weeks?Anyways there is this guy who lives in the same town as me and is only 15 minutes away and he really likes me and i kinda like him and well im not sure if i should dump the other guy and go out with this one or stay with the other one.Anyways I really need help so plz offer as much advice as possible...thanks....

Boys are very Confusing :( (link)
who do u like more? answer that ? and then go for them, relationships are all different so u cant base urs on everyone elses... just go with ur instincs and dont worry it will all work out in the end


tomorrow i am babysitting my little cousins ALL day. i've babysat kids before, but not babies. I am babysitting for Kaylee, who is 5, and Reilly who is 10 months. i just need some tips on changing diapers, bottles, how to handle crying, all that stuff. because i dont want to ask and sound stupid. please tell me everything you know. thanks (link)
okay well, the bottle thing the mom will help you out with that and she will tell you all u need to know... dipers.. if it smells you know theres a problem or if they make noises like they are pooping you'll know and to tell if they peed feel the area and if its all mushy then they peed... diper chaning is easy u might wanna wipe even if they just peed because u dont want a rash.. crying if they cry try to feed them or burp them or change their diaper os ask kaylee if she knows why the baby is crying and ask her for help... you maybe surprised on how much she knows, dont worry this stuff will ome naturally


My best friend and I are like sisters. We've been through everything together. Last night though we were at our other friends house. We talked about school and stuff but then out of no where, my best friend said that she has had sex with her boyfriend of 2 years. It came to a shock to me cause first of all she is only 14 and then second she didnt use protection. My other friend though said it was no big deal since she has been dating him for 2 years. I dont know what to say to my best friend. i really need some help cause i don't want anythin bad to happen to her. (link)
dont worry, i think its cute that u care but its between her and her boyfriend... as long as shes not pressuring u to have sex then its all good. just tell her to be safe and wear the rubber! or get the pill or sumtin... better safe then sorry


whats a wigger? (link)
a white person that trys to be black


ok i am a freshman, and september 17 is my homecoming dance. well all of my friends are always talking about their really pretty dresses and then my om was like oh u can stay at home with mom. i dont know if she was serious or not. and even if she wasnt she would prolly make me go in a skirt that i already and wore to school and stuff like that bcuz she is like a really sporty mom and she doesnt like getting dressed up all the time, so how do i ask her like if i can go, and if i can get a dress n' stuff like that? (link)
okay first off u need to pull her aside and say hey mom homcoming is coming up and i was wondering if i could go? if she says no make sure she gives u the reason why. For your outfit... ask her to take u to the mall and look around and if she cant ask one of ur friends... or make ur own outfit and be creative =-)


Ok, whats 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base. I mean I know what they are but I forgot which ones which, help? lol (link)
1st! making out/frenching
2cd! fingering/blowing/ and hand job
3rd! like oral and crap
4th! all the way homeeee ((sex))


okay well last night me and a bunch of friends were at the mall and we were just hanging out and this kid i thank i kinda like was there we were hanging out and stuff and i guess you could say we were "flirting" and 3 of my friends came up to me at the mal and were like he likes you you should go out w/ him hes really pretty you should but i really dont know if he likes me or not and im not to sure if i want a boyfriend rite now im so confused (link)
well, ask him about it... be like i heard u liked me is it tru? dont be nervous to you deserve to know the truth!!! and no one really wants a boyfriend when they get one it just happens and then ur relize it was a good thing... he may not even like u so just talk to him and if he does take the chance! it wont hurt and if he doesnt then thats okay to


Me n my bfz 1 year iz in october but so iz his birthday so im tryna start to save up sum money to get him sumtin but i dont only wanna get him sumtin i wanna like make him sumtin really nice and cute n e ideas?!?!?!?!??!



hmmm.... (link)
well what is he in to?

*if he likes baseball you could make him like a baseball card book... or football or sumtin..

*duck tape wallet *** the kewlest!***

*make him a little scrape book of stuff from your year together like photos and movie tickets and all that stuff u saved ;-)

*how made muffins,cupcakes, or cookies...

just do sumting cute and make it from the heart.. it doesnt matter what it is because its the thought that counts


ok well im 14 and a girl and ive been goin out w/ this boy for awhile now and i love him more than anything and hes so awesome and nice to me and cracks me up all the time!!!! but he has this friend logan that keeps talkin to me and like every1 knows he likes me and i like him but just as a friend!! just as a friend!!! hes so freakin halarious and is funny but sometimes he talks to me infront of my bf and i think my bf is startin to think i like logan more than him but i dont and i cant be mean and tell logan hey stop hangin out w/ me u kno!!! i mean i dont wanna make my boifriend mad at me cuz i like him more than any1 ever and then i also cant be mean to my friend logan wat the hell do i do im so confused this sucks!!!! plz help plz help!!! (link)
tell logan the truth, tell him u really like ur boyfriend... and u like him ONLY AS a friend he will understand. Honesty is the key!! its the best way to go!!! tell your boyfriend whats going on to so he doesnt get upset and reasure him everything is alright


I am only 15 and I already have a kid and pretty much my life is ruined.I hate bein a mom at 15 it really sucks.The father of my child is wonderful though.He helps and supports my child as much as he can although both of our lives are pretty much over.I can't stand gettin up every 2 hours to feed her.I really regret getting in bed with the father.It was the stupidest thing ive ever done.I now hate my life.I have a beautiful baby but a messed up life.I ruined my life to fast.I should have waited till I was older and well now I just don't know what to do.I love my baby very much but im just not so sure that i can handle raising a child along with going to school and working to pay for the expences of my child....Plz someone help me.I really need to know what to do.I don't wanna give it to an adoption center but that might be my only choice.I really need some advice so someone plz help.

Desperate for my life back and confused!! (link)
wow, that must suck. Just hold it out and wait. things will get better in the end. I have alot of respect for you for being able to take care of a kid at that young of a age. After highschool it will get better, you only have a few more years left, it will go by fast and pretty soon your child will be getting old enough to help make ends meet. This experance will make you strounger so dont worry... GOd bless you!


Ok there is a guy a like aand he thinks I'm cute and he and his friend asked if my friend and I wanted to go swimming and we said yes. But should I change my mind? I'm scared because what I fall or trip or something.


Sincerely,
CameronLover1 (link)
Dont change your mind. Dont be scared about falling or tripping. No one is perfect so if u do fall he will understand. Maybe he is as nervous as you are... think positivily and just have fun




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