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hi, ive had my first period a month ago,but i haven't had sex because im only 12, and ive missed this months periods is it ok, after my first one to be irregular i dont know what to do, i would really like a answer please,

thankyou, (link)
It's totally normal for girls to get their first period and then miss a few. Unlucky for me that wasnt my case. I got mine when I was 11 never missed a month once.


What is better? Asking a girl on a few dates then asking her to be your gf, or, flirt awhile and be "talking" then ask her to be my gf. Which is the better way to go? How do you go about starting a relationship up with someone you just met? (link)
If you just met the person a few dates would be more appropriate but if you've like aquainted or are friends with the person personally I would rather flirt then be asked to be gf


I've had two abortions previously and they have been very expensive $$$. I just found out that I'm pregnant again and I don't want the baby and so my first thought was to have another abortion right away. I called the clinic and they gave me the same estimate as the previous time and I really don't have that kind of money right now and don't know how I can come up with the money. Is there a way I can get a cheap abortion or something really low-cost? I just turned 18 a couple of weeks back so I don't think my parents insurance would cover it or anything either so that's kind of out of the question I think. I don't think I can ask my parents for money for the abortion this time because they already paid for the first one I had.

I'm up for any ideas you guys might have.

Thanxxx (link)
Please dont get an abortion that baby deserves life why dont you have the baby and then give it up for adoption instead?


can anybody suggest some really hard hangman words? Whenever my friends and I are bored we always play hangman and all my words are too easy LOL! (link)
Trikadekaphobia (fear of the number 13)

Antidisastablishmentariunism

Onomatapeia

And you can use illness names to like Bronchitis

Hope I helped :)


when you dream off someone is it cause they went to bed dreaming of you? or when you think of someone is it cause they are thinking of you? (link)
If you dream of soomeone that means they went to bed thinking of you same way if you think of someone they will dream of you.


Last year, my heart skipped a beat every other day ish.


But now, it's a daily thing.

And it's scaring me.



Can anyone tell me if this is danerous?

What do I need to do?

HELP?! (link)
I have the excact same thing except less frequent. If it is that frequent yes see a doctor. it's not dangerous (from what I heard it can seem dangerous but it isnt unless it's very very very serious yours is only very frequent) But it is permanent. You will have this the rest of your life but it is not dangerous so yes I say go see a doctor but dont be deranged and over dramatic about it :)

Hope I helped :)


I Feel Moving Like Kicking In My Stomach And Feel Pregnant But My Tubes Are Tide And I Have Had Two Negative Pregnancy Tests?

Can humans have parasites? (link)
You arent pregnant but you could have a condition where your brain either thinks or convinces it self that your pregnant when your really not. I know it sounds stupid but it's real and you think you can feel kicking and movment when it may just be your brain tricking you. Im not saying this is what you have excactly but it is possible. Hope I helped :)


I need upbeat songs to dance to that are appropriate for children! No LADY GAGA PLEASE! (link)
Stamp on the ground by the Italo Brothers


hey my name is evan im 15/m
girls i just want to know why do you hit guys in the junk? im 15 and it happens to me all the time from girls and guys. i see no reason for it. it makes us feel sick. and it hurts like hell. is it funny to you to see us men in pain or hear our voices crack and get high from it? or make us cry? why would you do that to people? i would never hit a girl so why would you hit me? you have no idea how much it hurts to get punched in the nuts. do u think that just because im a man i deserve to be in that much pain? (link)
Well first of all because you guys think we girls are over reacting to our periods we think you should feel OUR pain. And second some guys deserve it for being so cocky and sexist all the time! And when it makes you feel sick and when it hurts like hell then you feel our pain.....NOW you guys think we are over reacting about our periods NOWW!?


hi im 14 years old and im turning 15 in december and most of my friend in my class have gotten there period and i have started puberty like hair and pimplies etc and im going into grade 9 and im kinda worried because one i have breast my cup size is 34B and it strange how i havnt gotten my period yet i really need help i just want to be sure that i wil get my period (link)
Some people freak out about this and you dont nessecarily need to go to a doctor even though Im not saying that you shouldnt or it's dumb it's totally fine if your really that worried about it but I wouldnt fret about it some girls dont get it till they are 16 and your only 14 going on 15 so my adice is dont fret about it and enjoy your time without it because I got mine and it is horrible so dont fret and enjoy the time without it :)


Okay so im on the end of my period, (the fifth day) and its like basically over. But everytime i put a tampon in (just in case) it hurts sooo bad. It hurts on the way in, and then when its inside of me its sore.

What should i do? (link)
Well what you can do is put it in right. If it hurts when your putting it in and its sore when its in there then it isnt in right. When its in ther you shouldnt feel it at all.


I just started my period and Im scared to use a tampon. Is it ok if i just use a pad for now? (link)
Absolutley. Sweetie its your decision wat to use. Use which one you are most comfortable with!! Use tampons when you are ready and if you ever want to you can use whichever you want!!


im 13 i weigh 94 pounds and im 4'11 am i over weight? (link)
ABSOLUTLEY NOT!!!! At 13 your underweight!! Your supposed to be at least 100 pounds at 10!


More than 6 months ago I dropped something on my foot and it smashed my toenail place very good. It hurt REALLY bad and instantly bruised up underneathe the nail. It hurt for the first two weeks really badly and was difficult to wear shoes (had to anyway because of work). Well, it's been awhile now and my toenail has grown out quite a bit. This week it has start to detach from the toe itself (the toenail is still black/purple looking...nasty). Should I go on and pull/clip the rest of the toenail off or let it fall off in time by itself? (link)
I did the same thing to my finger in a truck door. Let it fall off DO NOT peel it off. Just let it fall off and a nice pretty new one will grow back ALLL by itself just lEAVE IT ALONE!!


I can never remember my dreams! When I wake up I can remember I had a dream and that I REALLY wanted to (for example) tell somebody about it but I cannot recall ANYTHING about it really. I know I've been dreaming but I can never remember them and it's frustrating. Is it because I don't get very many hours of sleep? Should I see a sleep specialist about it because my best friend said that her dad had to go to one of those before for something... (link)
No theres nothing wrong with it cause if your cant remember your dreams its because you finished them. When you finish a dream you cant remember a thing about it sometimes you dont even think you had a dream if you are woken up without finishing your dream only THEN do you remember it. No one knows why though.


13/f i haven't gotten my first period yet but when i do im planning to use tampons but is it okay if i practice putting the applicator in? thanks. (link)
Practice on something besides your Vagina. Practicing putting tampons in without your period is dangerous cause it drys out your vagina. Wait to practice on your own vagina till you get your actual period!!!!!!!


Iv'e had my period but don't know how to tell my mum.Whenever i go to tell her i end up getting nervous and don't say anything. How can i tell her? please help! (link)
I had the same issue and both me and my mom have cell phones so while she was at work i texted her saying I got my period so maybe you can do that if you both have cell phones if not then maybe you can actually e-mail it to her with watever kind of email thing you have? If you cant then wat you can do is just blurt it out without thinking....that can help to. hope I helped :)


One morning, I woke up to a yellowish- blue spot on my breast. I thought nothing of it because the night before I was with my boyfriend and we were fooling around and I just thought it was a weird colored hickey. I forgot about it until I woke up the next morning and it had gotten bigger and it was just yellow. I thought it was a bruise, but when I touch it, it doesn't hurt. I told one of my friends, and she said to tell my mom. Can you please help me, or tell what this mysterious "yellow spot" is?
Thanks in Advance
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Usually something that looks like that is you have a small tear in one of your blood veins and the blood that comes out rises to the skin and turns colours from yellow and blue to red and yellow and sometimes even yellow and green


hey, well i've had my period for almost 2 years and i still get that discharge is that weird?? what should i do (link)
Discharge has nothing really to do with your period its your bodys lubricant for your vagina!


All my friends got there period and talk about how it hurts and they hate it is it really that bad.....and when I get it I'll be emberssed to tell my mom how is a easy way to tell my mom that I got my period. Also there's white stuff in
underwear am I going threw it soon (link)
Just because you are getting discharge doesnt mean your getting your period because discharge is just the bodys lubricant for your vagina. And trust me telling your mom isnt THAT bad i just got my first one three days ago and It'll be fine and dont be jealous of your friends enjoy your time WITHOUT your stupid period. i mean three days and I already HATE HATE HATE it!! Everybodys body is diffrent you'll get it in time but ENJOY your time without it!!




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