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i have a new coach for my volleyball team and this year before season starts we have to run 2 miles in 16 minutes. I have never been a good runner, and i definetly have never run a 16 min 2 mile, or even an 8 minute mile....what should i do to get ready for this?!obviously run, but i just need some tips to get myself motivated. (link)
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i use to NEVER be a good runner at all
but i'm a very good runner now. simply because i went running EVERYDAY. i did the same work out EVERYDAY, & i NEVER ever quit or stopped. to modivate yourself, find a friend or someone on the track team or something that you know if a good runner, & run w/ them. they'll run at a faster pace, & be able to run longer than you will, & keep up w/ them. push yourself & never quit. i can run a mile in 7 minutes, & that's all i did.
good luck!
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17/M (This is going to be ind of long so PLEASE bare with me. Thank you)
Well a few days ago i was hanging out with my (now ex?) girlfriend, well i go her house to pick her up and i go into her room and we talk for a little bit and i pick up these chopsticks in her room and they had a little sleeve thing they slip into so i took them out and i was playing with them and i was holing the sleeve in my other hand (up-side-down) and a half of a pill fell out if it. it was a half of a sleeping pill and i didn't really think much of it, but after she saw that i picked the little half of a pill up she started acting weird and she tried to take the sleeve away from me and that got me curious, so i started feeling down the bottom of the sleeve and there was another pill in there so i asked her what else was in there and she said "nothing why are you snooping around my stuff" so i told her "i wasn't snooping i was just playing with your chopsticks i didn't know there was something in the sleeve" but i just slipped the chopsticks back n the sleeve and handed them to her while questioning her asking what else was in there (I can deal with a lot of stuff in a relationship, but i can't stand a pill popper and she knowns that) so she takes them and puts them in her dresser and THEN tells me it was a roll (AKA; Drugs for those of you that don't know what a roll is)And then she went on to say "Oh i bought that like five months ago, i was thinking about trying it but i never did. so now i'm trying to sell it and no one wants to buy it" Well that pissed me off because i thought she was lying to me, but i was trying to give her the benefit of the doubt so i let it go. well after that we went over to my house and hung for a little bit and around 8:30 i dropped her off at her friend's house (lets call her Bethany, and my girlfriend/ex? Molly) Well they always get drunk together and i don't really care about that but i still don't like her going over to Bethany's because she is just a bad influence on Molly, so after i do that i go home and passout because i was up all night. So i wake up to some drunken texts from Molly and Bethany and then i check my facebook. Well bethany posted a new pic and it was of Bethany and Molly on some webcamming website and i read the convo on the side and it said (from some dude who they were camming with) and this is how it went from what i can see in he pick "Dude; Hi" "Them; Hey" "Dude; How old are you?" "Them; old enough" "Dude; nice" "Them; show me/" and it cuts off there because the picture didn't get all of the screen, but the next thing said "Them; thanksss" "Dude; Now you" "Them; omg" and then in the picture Molly is lifting her shirt up! Now this is on facebook so of course theres no nudity in the picture, but that doesn't mean there wasn't nudity at all right? So now i'm at a loss of what to do with this relationship, i mean i really love the girl and i know she loves me but theres just some things i can't look past anymore and it's hurting me to be with her and at the same time it's going to kill me if i leave, now after seeing that picture i set my relationship status as single and my status as "Done." hoping she would see it and know what i was talking about, but now it's been four or five days and i haven't talked to her and she hasn't tried talking to me.
But this is how i look at it, if i ask her about it and she says she didn't really lift her shirt up, i wouldn't know if she was telling the truth or not because of her not telling me about the pill so thats already killed the trust because she could have sold that pill in five minutes at her school or to her friends if she really wanted to get rid of it, and why would she be the one lifting her shirt in the picture and not her friend? This isn't like Molly at all, this reminds me more of Bethany and i don't like it.
So what do you say? Should i officially break up with her or should i try to work it out? This is a really hard one for me on my own.
But thank all you guys in advance (: (link)
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my boyfriend & i have liked eachother for 2 years & have been dating for 3 months
we to have trust issues.
i see why you wouldn't trust molly. if she hasn't talked to you, she obviously doesn't care enough about you. i mean, if i don't talk to my boyfriend for a few hours, both of us go crazy. i think that you should just end it with molly, as painfull as that may be. i think it would be the best for you. let her realize what she just let slip threw her fingers
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i m male/22 i don't musterbate ,but have sexual urge ,will i have sexual problem in future,i mean am i be good or bad at sex? (link)
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because you don't masturbate doesn't affect how you'l be at sex. it's good you don't masturbate, that's gross. everybody has sexual urges. hold it in, & wait for the right girl to give your virginity to.
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Alriiiight. So I'm fifteen and my ex is sixteen but I was fourteen while I dated him. Since we broke up (he dumped me) I've left him alone, been a good girl, ya know, didn't cause drama. But he's telling everyone I gave him a BJ, which... yeah I did. I really regret it cause Jesus I was fourteen, but while we were dating I let him walk all over me... I was definitely whipped. He made me feel so guilty saying I should do it if I loved him and stuff like that... I know I know, please don't tell me it was a mistake because you'll only be telling me what I already know. And you wouldn't understand how it felt unless you were in my place... and I got dumped four days later in a text message so I think I got my punishment. Anyway it was my understanding that something like that is supposed to stay inbetween you and your boy (thats what he promised me at least...) but yeah he told the entire baseball team, who told the football team, who told the basketball team... I don't know why only guys are hearing this... Well anyway my ex ALSO started telling people that we had sex which ISN'T true. He's saying digusting things too. Like "When I was on top I was scared I was gonna break her cause she's so tiny." and "She let me do whatever I wanted, I bet I coulda stuck it up the a$$ if I wanted to." And now all the guys think it's real funny to come up to me and put their finger up my butt. Ha-ha, right? It's been two months and these rumors HAVEN'T faded... I even went away for camp for a week and when I came back WORSE things were being said. I don't know what to do. Our school is so small... and my repuatation before this has been "goody goody two shoes" now people are looking at me differently and guys have been saying all these gross things to me... I told my ex that I don't deserve any of this because I never did anything to hurt him... Everytime I tell him about this he says he's telling people he was lying... but he's not. He just doesn't care he's being an ass... he doesn't care but I do. How can I just make this all go away? I have super supportive friends but I can't handle this anymore. (link)
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sad to say, the rumors will never go away
they will fade, but will never leave your side. if you're ever confronted about it, just say, "i did not have sex w/ him" & if they say they don't believe you tell them they can believe whatever they'd like but you know what's true, & that's not it. if people come up to you & stick their finger in your ass, grab their finger, & ask them to stop & that you don't like that. that's truely terrible, & i'm sorry you have to go threw that
the rumors will fade & things will get better.
just give it time.
by the way, you are not a slut
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I'm a girl and 14 almost 15.I have liked this guy for a really long time.For the past few days we have been talking non-stop.He told me that he really really likes me and that he wants to be with me forever.I want to be with him forever to and i love him and he knows that i do but he has a girlfriend.He doesn't want to be with her so he can be with me but he doesn't want to break up with her.what do i do??? (link)
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well if he doesn't wanna break up w/ his girlfriend then obviously he doesn't mean it much. he may mean it, he really may like you, but the thing it, if you were to go out w/ him, how do you know that he wont do that to you? that he wont be talking to another girl saying that he likes her & just doesn't wanna break up w/ you.
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