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Hi there!!! My name is Bianca, I'm 15 and I loove Tae Kwon Do and i LOVE SPONGEOB!, I go to High school and I'm currently a Junior. Well in my spare time I enjoy doing sports and going out with my friends. I am out-going and I am a burst of energy and I love making people laugh. But I can be pretty helpful once it gets to advice. I'm currently single and I am a karate instructor. I live near Miami and I am Cuban. I have been through so much and I can probably help with anyone's problems! I hope I can help you in many ways please rate my advice! It helps me!

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I'm 15 years old, 5'1, and weigh 113 pounds.
Any weight fast and easy weight loss tips?

what the heck your not fat are you joking that's skinny no way.

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Whats up Bianca i got bored so i decided to leave you a message so you would feel special!! Did you get a new S/N or are you just never on?

err who is this is this linda if it is next time right your name derr

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ok im 13 and i wanna no should i care what people think? theres a guy i really like and he asked me out but he's like a 7! i need answers!

Oh thats kinda messed up, who cares what people think seriously. As you grow up you'll start not caring what people think and trust me you'll be so much happier with your life. and if n e one gots a problem with u and your 7 guy. Tell them to screw a pole. :) lol but really go out with the kid, maybe you'll start a new trend going out with semi cute ppl! -Bianca

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my boyfriend hugged me for the first time... and it was awesome!!! the only problem was that we were both hesitant... we just stood there looking at each other... bye the way... we're both VERY shy... he says he is gonna hug me again... but he is going to surprise me... how can i make it so im not hesitant?? thanks !

Are your serious. I feel like a slut now. I kissed my guy the first day we went out. Geeze. Wow, you must be young. But thats still cute. You should go hug him first! He'll be surprised n mayb u can sneek a kiss on the cheek or something.

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You probley know what this is going to be about {cause of the title and catagoery}, and your exactly rite in what you are thinking. Heres what happened: i've been dating this guy forever
{3 years in April} and he called me up and invited to his 'fort' {i know it sounds super doofy but he and his friends built in the cloest of thier guest house and watch moivies and stuff} but anyway, i went over and he told me he was moving, i was like 'whoa'. and we cryed and hugged and kissed. he was was movin to Japan because hes a navy kid. thats like to far to go to from kansas even if you flew. so we had this big thing as to what to do and he was moving in a week. we sat there for a few hours thinking and he asked me what i thought. i said we should make this a memborable nite. {ha ha im such a slut!!} he smiled and we were like yeah we should, and we did {all of those clueless blondes out there: we had sex}. i layed there in his arms all nite and half of another day untill i relized what time it was. Our parents were out looking for us of course. we got up and got dressed and ran to meet them. they thought we ran away because we mad, so they didnt suspect a thing. me and him were all giggle and stuff so my brothers and sisters supected something but kept there mouth shut. A few days later he said he didnt regret it but felt bad about how it happened and he asked me to marry him. { keeep in mind i was a virgin, as was he, and we are 17 and 18} i said yes and me and his siblings and my siblings planned a roadtrip for a day or two before they left. we got married and it was great. when we got home he left. {sparing a few detailes}. this was a half a year ago {or so} and i dont know if should tell my parents or not. and i miss him so bad. weve talked but we have to be careful what we say. i want to go to college with him and get an apartment together, but how do we do this without my parents knowing? i havent dated or anything and they still dont get it. but theres one more thing: i'm pregnate (sp). i just dont know what to do....

Holy shit, your in a load of crap!!! Im sorry to say this but, it sucks to be you right now. Do your parents know that you married him. Oh and good job with the sex thing I woulda done the same lol. (not a slut tho) lol. But ya wow. You gotta tell your parents everythang!! Either that or there gunna find out the hard way. Seriously this is something you need to talk about now to them. Wow your young to be marrying but that's you it's all good I guess. well you gotta send me feedback on everything!!! -Bianca

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i just need opinions about things, me and my bf have been together for over a year, and i was at his house looking for paper and i found a letter from another girl. in the past we did have problems and he liked another girl but we were still together. i never knew he had this but since i found it and read it, it kinda made me mad that he kept it over 6 months since the problems. so i took it home and tore it up. i know for a fact he wont know its gone, but if he were to confront me about it, was it a good reason that i took it from him? or should i tell him before anything were to happen? thanx.

I would of done the same thing. No one lieks to see a note from another girl that your bf liked in his drawer. Nahh, jus tell him you felt uncomfortable reading it and mad if he confronts you, I would be seriously pissed with that girl, lol but thats me, nahh I font think you did the wrong thing. Send me feedback on how it goes. -Bianca

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ok...im 13/f 7th grade... this might sound crazy... but i no i am in love!! i have a boyfriend and i am completely in love with him!! ive never felt this way about any of my other boyfriends and i know he feels the same about me... he makes me smile just thinking about him... i melt when i see him! theres only one thing... this is wierd... but since we're young and all... is there any chance this could last forever

Aww!!!! That is so cute, hey a lot of ppl get married to the Middle, High, or College Sweet hearts, it's possible. And make sure you dont let any fights make your relationship worse. Gotta keep it going.

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my parents are divorced and i live a hard life....and what really frustrates me is when i see my dad and his gf making out... it makes me sick to the stomach!!!what will make me not feel this way????
♥ indeed2

Eww your dad makes our with his gf in front of u! I would die, hmm, I'm afraid that won't go away till your used to it. Not really much you can do or take to make that go away. -Bianca

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okay i liked this kid named hector a long time ago and know im goign out with this named hugo but know hector wants to do shit with me but i dont know what i should do cuz i like hugo alot weve been dating for more than 3 months and hugo had fought with hector for me well what should i do????????

Herm, you gotta follow your heart bud, if you wanna get in with the oral or ect. if thats wut your talkin about then go for Hector, but I'm guessing if you wanna wait it a little longer then be with Hugo. I can't really say shit. It's your decision hun. Send me feedback. -Bianca

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well not in love...at all just I really like him ALOT. Im not sure if I should tell him or not....or how. But he has a girlfriend (its nothing serious theyve only hugged). But hes always flirting with me and staring at me two days age he was like lying on me. Hes o cute and nice i just dont know what to do
Please Help!!Sandy/13/f

Woot, seems like you already got it, what you've been telling me he likes you, go for it, mess his girlfriends face up make it deformed. Or, you can do the honest thing and tell him that you messed up her face. But it you dont want the physical stuff then tell em how you feel, blah blah blah i no it's hard but i bet he'll like ou even more for it. GO FOR IT GIRL!!! Woot woot, send me feedback bout the relationship! -Bianca

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I like to shave everything if you know what i mean. well this is the first time but i noticed red little bumps by wear my pubic bone(the triangle area) well im not sure if its razor bumps. the day i shaved it hurt and then little bumps appeared. I think they are since i do shave against the grain which i heard is bad. they dont hurt it just hurt after i shaved. if any one could tell me if its from shaving plz let me know. there very small and only right by wear i was shaving.

Ohh, thats i forgot what it's called but it's like razor burn or something i dunno, but it's a rash, and you get erd bumps. but not only on your "pubic area" but other parts. It depends cuz like if you shave to fast or hard it can disturb the area but yeah causing them no biggy it should go away it's not permanant. Hope I helped. -Bianca

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For me, high school relationships are about gaining experience and finding what you want in a relationship. But, what happens when you find exactly what you want your first try? And, do we ever really get over anything?

Hmmm tough question, I get what your saying hwne your say highschool relationships give you more experience. I dont think it makes a difference whether it takes your first date or your zillionth. I think it's just how ya feel with the guy or girl... BUT, ya i remember when i was with this kid, and me and him were together, man I thought he was the one! So when he dumped me unfortunately I cried and cried my self to sleep, but of course eventually you'll get over it, but you won't all forget. Hopefully you fine the right one. And I like your question! lol Hope you likes my advice.
-Bianca

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well theres this guy that i think im starting to like, but im not sure if i really do yet because i've liked this other guy for sooo long. im not sure what i should do because i dont really talk to the guy that i used to like that much because things got really weird when we broke up . and this new one is nicer and we have fun together. im not sure because the feelings for the old one will never go away, and i know this because it's been a long time and i still like him alot. yea so what do i do, try again for the old one, or stick too the new one?? (yeahh sorry so long)

I definetly think you should go for the enw one. It seems like when you were talking about the new guy, youhad more good things to say about him. And unless the one you've liked for soo long is going to ask you out then I say, try new things! maybe instead of liking him for a long time you can be in a reltionship with someone for a long time. Hope I helped -Bianca

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There's these really cute kids in my neighboring town, Dan and I don't know the other one's name. I went to see my mom to get stuff for dinner, there my age and so sweet. Is it wrong to like them?

How is it wrong to like them. Go say hi and talk to them, I dont really understand your situation o.0

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Does anyone know where i can get those Valentine's day ballons that have teddy bears inside them???

There's balloons with teddy bears in em!

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i'm like a tomboy. And i have my first boyfreind. But the thing is that he is shorter then me and i get picked on about that. But he is really sweet.

Whats the problem! If you really like this kid I see no problem in that. But personally if those kids were makin fun of my boyfriend I'd kick all there asses to mexico! lol but seriously, don't let it bother you, because you know in your heart you got the best thing of all, a boy that truly cares about you and doesn't care what anybody thinks about you =]. Hope I helped

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14/f hey does anyone know what i should wear on valentines day? nothing pink or anything like that-- i absolutly hate the holiday but i want to look cute .... maybe get a guys attention? lol nothing black either
thanks!

Hmm well i have the same problem! Im gunna wear white brazilian pants and i dunno botu the shirt! But, try something bright. You dont wanna look to dark cuz after all it's valentines. And guys like light and cute clothes. Hope I helped!

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ok... me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and we still haven't had sex... i am a virgin but he isnt, he has had sex 3 times. I am afraid that i am really tight down there and that either it wont fit or its really going to hurt. my friend said not to worry about it but i am freaking out and tomorrow i am going ova his house because its our 1 year and we are going to be home alone, and he is already brought up like hints that he wants to do it... i am soo scared... PLEASE HELP !!!

Geezus I feel your pain. Wel I'm sorry to say this but if you really scared about your Thang being tight. Im afraid you gunna hav to "find a way" to hmm i dunno i feel weird saying this but "open it up" lol. Ne ways! If you do get the chance to just let it flow. Most of all use protection!! lol. Hope I helped!

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Hi anybody got any tips at goin to sleep at nite.

I go to bed early cos im always tired during the day but all i do is lie there thinkin an starin for hours an i just cnt get to sleep.

Sum1 help me please!

What I do is just put on my music and sometiems the fan. it makes my blankets cold and like, I go and cuddle up in my blankets and it feels reallllllyyy good! Try not to wear n e thing tight, be loose, becuz if u do u get uncomfortable in the night without you even noticing it. Hope I helped. =D

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ok well my friend dean sit near me in homeroom. And hes a big flirt, he loves to pinch my but?? I dont know y its kind of a joke and stuff, and well yesterday he did it infront of my b/f. And my b/f is, well not happy about it.

How do i explain this to him?

If your boyfriend understood I think he would know it's just a game, dean is just a friend and you know everyone is like's to have fun. But make sure you show your boyfriend you care for him more than butt pinchin. It makes him feel better. Trust Me!

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