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Hey..My names Shelby im a Junior in highschool. I love my boyfriend ~*~AnDrEw~*~ I'm a cheerleader.My friends are the shit..((you know who you are)). And yea I'm pretty much the fucking shit =P jk..so yea if you need advice dont be afraid to ask.
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From your point of view, what do you think the cons of illegal immigration are? And remember, it is ILLEGAL immigration, not legal.
Thanks!

They do a lot of work that americans are to lazy to do.

They also don't ask for a high salary. Money isn't as important to most immigrants as it is to americans.

They give america and variety of culture and keep us culture influenced.

They bring ideas from different countrys to ours.

Thats all i can think of for right now..hope i helped hun.

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what exercises should i do to lose weight in my stomach and could you say all the most effective and that make the quickest results

Running, ab works, no snacking, 6 small meals a day, and at least an hour work out is going to be the best way to lose weight if you stick to it. A lot of diet pills and stuff..you lose the wieght fast but then it comes back really easily and you end up gaining more weight then when you started. Make sure your drinking 8 glasses of water a day. I hope i helped hun.

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Hey i am turning 16 at the end of march. Im a girl :)..but I am having a little party with just some of my friends. They are coming to my house and then we are getting in a limo for an hour ride or so. We are getting all dressed up (party dresses) So i thought that maybe we could go somewhere..? But i dont know where. We are coming back to my house..because my mom is making a Sweet/Dessert table and then we will open presents and stuff.. But where could we go with the limo instead of around town? Like i'd like to get out somewhere and maybe take pictures and stuff. I just done know where..dont say go out to eat or the movies!! THANKYOU

Bowling, a club, ice skating, skiing, a hotel and stay the night, lazer tag, mini gulf (if its warm), i hope i gave you some ideas..good luck hun happy upcoming birthday!

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how old do you have to be to get a job in most places?

16 for most, a lot of jobs now days though are making you be 18. Hope i helped hun.

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im not fat but i wana loose weight. for the past week or two, ive been running for atleast 15 minutes a day on a tredmil (plus cheerleading and volleyball), and cuting down my meals. i eat 3 meals a day and try not to snack inbetween and i dont eat sweats. i weighted about 123 but i think i might weigh the same or a pound less. should i be seeing results better or am i being impatient? what else can i do?

Instead of eating 3 big meals a day try eating 6 small meals a day without snacking inbetween. Make sure also that your burning more calories then your eating. Running is the key to losing weight. Did you know just by working out you raise your heart rate so when your resting you burn more calories then you would if you didn't work out. Also drinking 8 glasses of water a day will totally help you lose weight. Hope i helped hun.

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I ususally hate these kinds of questions, but this has been bugging the crud out of me lately! Does anyone remember a music video in ...the 90's maybe...or early 2000-2001 where it was a summer house party and there were a lot of people (older teenagers there) and they were by a pool. The main band member was going after this girl through the house that party was taking place. I remember it was a band like, blink 182 or good charlotte ...i'm not sure if it was one of them. The lead singer was blonde if that helps?
thanks!

Definetly sounds like "In the Middle" by Jimmy Eats World. I remember they were all by a pool and everyone was in like bras and underwear and stuff but these 2 people because they were nervous and it was at this house party..i dont know i hope i helped hun lol.

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i have a question i was wondering what u can wear to look more preppy please i need help asap and also how to act it!! and i need anything possible that has to do with being preppy thankyou so much in advance!!!

Abercrombie, Hollister, American Eagle, Coach, Gucci, Prada...etc. Skirts, polos, jeans with holes, accessories, high heels or cute shoes, french manicures, curled or sometimes cute straight hair...you get the picture. Preppy isn't really an "act" its more of..the style of clothing or atire you wear. Be bubbly and fun and smart. hope i helped hun.

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Okay, when I went tanning today, I went nude...obviously...so when I got home, I noticed a white line from my but to my shoulder on both sides. This has never happened before and I'm wondering why those to stripes didn't tan or whatnot.?????

Also, I'm guessing I have to raise my arms to get my sides tanned..right?

you could do that if you wanted..but that usually happens. People get stripes because they dont move while they are tanning they lay in the exact place so light gets more to places then others (if you know what i mean) so try not to sit so still and raising your arm i guess could help but it will go away once you start tanning more. I hope i helped hun.

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my basketball shoes smell, what should i put in them to make them smell better?

Try Baby powder or the powder you use after the shower. It makes them smell way better i use it for my sports. Hope i helped.

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i'm a 15 year old female. i recently broke my fibula and tibia at a soccer tournament. i had surgery last week, where they installed a rod in my leg. i'm supposed to be putting as much pressure on it as possible, to start the healing process, but it hurts too much. so i've just been staying off of it. my homecoming is in two weeks, and my goal is to be able to go without crutches. but i can't seem to convince myself that it's okay to walk on it. please, if you have any advice on stretches i could do - or just some encouragement to get me motivated would be nice. thank you :]

Same exact thing happened to me except i needed a cast and no surgery....THE DAY BEFORE PROM!!!!! i couldn't go..yea it sucked really bad..my boyfriend however was nice enough to stay home with me..i would be thankful you could go to the homecoming =P anyway..i would start going to physical therapy.. THAT HELPS alot..if your already doing that..you NEED to start walking on it trust me i know how it feels it feels like your legs about to break off. but if the doctors orders are very important. if you dont do what he says..then its going to take a long time. I mean..if he gives you permission to walk...hun trust me you can walk. and it will heal alot quicker to..for stretches..you could do those ruber band things where you work out your quads. You just really need to start walkin though thats going to help you the most..dude i know it hurts like a mother and its kinda scary..but the only way its gonna get better is if you try you know. I hope i helped hun! goodluck have fun at your homecoming im sure youll go without your crutches =P

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What is up with these 13 yr olds and getting pregnant/asking for advice about fingering and sexual things like that. wtf is our world coming too.When I was 13 I was still playing coodies with the guys next door or riding my bike around the neighborhood. Gahsh by the time I turn 30, 5 yr olds will be worried about sex. WTH

yea i know right? I'm 16 and i haven't even had sex yet and there all doin it. God do i feel lame =P jk..but yea I dont see why they wanna rush into it to be honest..to much to deal with..to much heartbreak..have any of them even had a REAL relationship yet? seriously..? I bet not even half of them know what REAL heartbreak feels like and if they do..then their weird..I totally agree with ya on the 13 year old thing. Thanks for sayin something someone needed to my god..

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I have all the mental illnesses listed in the subject line.
For the five-hundredth time since I was diagnosed, I will explain what cyclothymia is. Cyclothymia is a milder version of bipolar disorder but it sure doesn't feel like it. It affects less than one percent of people in the US.
I have post-traumatic stress disorder which has manifested itself through voices and A LOT OF noise in my head, and also obsessive compulsive disoder.
I see a psychologist and a psychiatrist. I'm told that I'm at risk for a psychotic breakdown.

I'm scared and I don't like being mentally ill. How do I keep calm when everything in my head is so loud and stressful? Medications don't help anymore.

My step mom recently just died..and i think she had your illness.(she didn't die from the illness she died from a bloodclot) Shed take medications and theyd only make things worse..you should see a doctor if you haven't already. My dad helped her alot ..like in the middle of the night shed get these bad headaches and to make her calm down he had to hold her.. I found her journal recently..and she wrote out somethings the doctor told her to do to fight her from going crazy..here are the ones i remember.

1. Drink lots of water
2. Get plenty of rest
3. Try to reason with yourself..think if its really a big deal to get mad etc.
4. try to fight it the best you can

I dont remember the rest..but if you want add me and ill get them for you. I think you should go to the doctor pronto if you haven't tho..I hope i helped hun..

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i met this kid names adam through another friend of mine and me and adam started to hang out. we would do guy things and just chill. lately he hasent been talking to me as much and i think he might be avoiding me..whats wrong..?

Maybe he thinks you guys are going to fast or something..maybe he doesn't want a girlfriend and maybe he thinks you want to be with him. I was talking to this guy once..and i wanted a relationship at first..but then after hanging out i realized i didn't so i avoided him..didn't answer the phone..didn't call him..etc. i mean it sucks cuz IVE been avoided once to..but like who knows maybe he is really busy also you know? or maybe you should ask him why he hasn't been talking to you much lately..good luck hun! hope i helped

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I have a strange problem.
My boobs got smaller.
My bras don't fit anymore, but my old bras do.
I went down about a cup size.
How is this possible???

You must of lost weight or got skinnier in that part of your body.

Ex: lindsey lohan used to have huge boobs then she lost weight and now shes like nothing

I hope i helped hun

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I was wondering if any of you know of a cute cordless phone for a teenage girl. I broke my sister's and was planning on getting her a new one for her birthday. Thanks in Advance!

For a cell phone the Pink Razor is SOOOOOOO EFFIN CUTE but if you dont wanna spend alot if have a cingular LG and i think its cute. I love cingular i always get service..but if you want like a house phone go to best buy they have alot of cute ones..or sometimes even walmart. I hope i helped hun

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I've decided to take up indoor tanning. I'm gonna start a membership at Hollywood tans this month. I was wondering, how many times should I go a week, and for how long (10 minutes, 15 minutes)? I want to build up a DARK tan. As dark as i can get. If it helps, I'm using HT60 tanning bed. Thanks alot! : )

id go 3-4 times a week for the full 15 min. if you wanna keep your tan at the same darkness after you get dark then 1 to 2 times a week..but for the start 3-4. Make sure you buy tanning lotion that helps alot. I hope i helped hun

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I had unprotected sex on friday night and got my period on saturday. Is there still a chance I may be pregnant?

No you cant be pregnant. But if your a little considerned about it go get a preg test. I hope i helped hun.

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i have itunes right now and im spending so much money

i wanted to download limewire instead...but im scared about getting a virus from it!
idk what to do

a really long time ago i downloaded something like limewire called KAAZA or something, and i got soo much spyware from that

any suggestions???? THANKS!!

I have limewire and i dont have a virus..it works good and its really easy to use. no Kaaza sucks..limewires good. get that. I hope i helped hun.

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when you're at a dance, how do you get guys to come up and dance with you?

Flirt..or you could go up to him. After you go up to him once hes gonna go up to you probably alot after that. Or just give him hints that you wanna dance. I hopei helped hun

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I have this beautiful dress for holloween but i dont know what to be. it is a floor length dress and it strapless on it is pink with a brown sash. i dont want to be anything scary either.

You could be miss america thats always cute. Hope i helped hun

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