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I'm Edith. I'm optimistic, and i've learned from my mistakes, i believe everything happens for a reason.
Gender: Female
Location: Californiaaa
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Age: 14
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MSN: guyswhoweareyelinerarehot@hotmail.com
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15/f, Im going to dye my hair red, my dad has approved..But i dont know what dye to use. I want the most permanent dye you can find..I've been eyeing up MANIC PANIC..I don't know what kind to get, for the manic panic site, ive narrowed it down to two:http://www.manicpanic.biz/ct_PRhge10016.htm
or
http://www.manicpanic.biz/ct_PR309389.htm
If you have any OTHER suggestions, please tell me...And if you dont, just tell me if you think the gel will work better or the cream.

Also, If you have any pictures of your RED hair, i'd like to see them, thanks. (link)
for manic panic you have to have really light hair or bleached.
but if you want a more natural red, i'd try garnier fructis, i always use their products, and i feel that the color stays the same shade until it grows out.
hope i helped.


i have been with this one guy (bob) for almost 2 years. and i can honsetly say i do love him. but also like another guy(bill). AT THE SAME TIME! the one that i like i have known for awhile. and everytime i hear he has a new girlfriend i wanna punch her in the face. lmao. i dont know why i get this way. i mean he has his right to like other girls,i know that. but i dont know what to do.

what if i break up with bob because i like bill. and then later on i find out that i was meant to be with bob. but what if i stay with bob and find out that im suppose to be with bill. im so confused and i need seriuos help!

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from experience, when you're with someone and you think you really like them, but you're mind wonders off and you develop an emotional attachment to someone else, something isn't right.
it's not fair for you to lie to Bob or yourself.
you can run the risk of losing them both, or try and cut communication with Bill until you figure your emotions out.
hope i helped.


Is there any websites where you can upload a picture of yourself and a picture of your boyfriend/friend or something, and it'll give you an idea of what your cchild would loook like? Even if it's just for fun. Thanks (link)
morphthing . com


i have really dry skin and i was wondering wat kind of make up would be best to use for my skin and wat kind of stuff can i use to make it not dry (link)
avoid liquid foundations, they can make your skin look flakey and crumbly.
whenever i swim he chlorine dries my skin out so i use curel or pond' face moisturizer daily, and that really helps.


i break out alot, and i ALWAYS have pimples on my face. it's usually on my forehead, and i have bangs that go across my face. i never get to wear my bangs up, for i don't want people to see my acne.

i have used a variety of acne products, and havn't seen much of an improvement. i've used clean&clear fomaing facial cleanser, oxy daily cleansing pads, clearasil acne treament cream, and rareminerals blemish therapy. (i do not use them all at once. i know using more than one treatment can dry the skin and cause more breakouts.)

if anyone has any product suggestions, please tell me. and please don't recommend proactiv. i don't want to purchase any expensive products. the rareminerals blemish therapy was $20 or a tinytiny thing. and it did NOT work. (link)
i dont use any products, i just have a toner, or rubbing alcohol, but rubbing alcohol can dry your skin out, but i just use something simple get rid of the oil when i wake up and go to sleep.
you can see all the dirt that you've removed.
i hope it helps you too.


hey, i'm a girl and i need some suggestions for masturbating. fingering myself does not feel good. i've had to use a variety of objects but i just can't find one that satisfies me enough. i have no access to buying or getting any dildos. i do NOT have a shower head to use.

anyone have any ideas or suggestions of things to use? please suggest household objects that i would most likely have. (link)
if you have a bathtub, use the regular faucet, let the water run very lightly or water pressure you prefer, lay on your back and spread your legs, this also allows you to be able to use your hands.


I know you girls love guys and...

I know their has been this myth going around that asian guys can't get white girls..which is not true,since I'm asian and have a white gf,but I want to know what you girls think

Question1: Would you date an asian guy? considering he has good looks and personality

Question2:Have you ever liked an asian guy?

Question3:Would you marry an asian guy?

Question4:Where does the asian guy stand among the whites,latinos and blacks?Your preference?
Example:Black>White>etc.etc

thank you (link)
1: yes, i would.
2: i liked an asian guy for 6 consecutive years.
3: yes.
4: white, asian, latino, black.

p.s. i'm latina and completely prefer guys out of my race.


17/f. I asked a question awhile back: so much wrong.....no one cares. Well, I went to the doctor(this past Saturday) and now he's sending me to a psychologist. But it hasn't happened yet. And things are still spinning out of control. I cut myself yesterday. I just freaked and I wasn't really thinking. I know I have to talk to someone. Like really talk. And like that question said I talked to my teacher a little but it was just about the panic attacks. I trust him and I think I could talk about more. The thing is though, if I do, I'm afraid he'll like tell a counselor and then my parents will find out I cut myself. I can't let them find that out. If I talk to a counselor, I'm afraid they'll tell my parents. So my main thing is, to what extent is everything kept confindental? I need to talk to someone; I'm going to snap. Last week I was having suicidal thoughts(not too severe, I just didn't care anymore). And it wasn't like I attempted it. I feel like I'm losing everything and no one cares. (link)
maybe you could find someone on this website, who is willing to talk to you whenever you need someone to talk to.
they dont know you, so it would be completely anonymous and they wouldn't judge you.


hey im 13/f and live in australia.i skate,i play guitar,im a tom-boy, i have a great sense of humer ,im fun and im looking for someone with the same intrests as me,male or female, to talk to on msn. i love meeting new people.even if u dont have the same intrests as me it would be great talking to some1 from another country.also if you live in australia and have the same intrests as me i wouldnt mind talking to you aswell.just leave your msn addy on the answer thing. (link)
guyswhoweareyelinerarehot@hotmail.com
sorry its so long.
i'm from california, usa.


Ok I'm super confused so maybe someone can explain this to me! Let's say a boy is 17 and in your state the law is a 17+ person can't date a minor then can he have a 15 year old girlfriend? Because I was reading that there are laws that when your like 17 and up you can't date minors but what about teens around the same age with only a couple years difference? Thanks so much and I will rate everyone who helps me! :D (link)
Yeah, I'm pretty sure that is the law, but people still date anyways, but be careful, and make sure that the person you do go out with really wants it too, and don't have sex, you could get sued for statutory rape.


My boyfriend and I have been going out for 10 months and I want to write a really nice note to him.He is turning 14 and I want to write things about our relationship and his birthday of course I was kinda hoping that It could be a page long. His birthday is in 1 and 1/2 days so if you could help or maybe give some suggestions thanks for reading this and thanks for your help. (link)
you could write about the following things:
a special moment you two have had
why you like him
how you're really glad to be with him
telling him you hope he has a great birthday
hope i helped.
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Hi Im almost 15 and I havent had aboyfriend yet it may be becuz I am fat but I was wondering if I willl ever have one I feel so lonely and confused That all my friends have had one and I havent!!

plzzzz tell me why im so unwanted! (link)
As cliche as this may sound, other people can't love you until you love yourself. Maybe guys notice your lack of self esteem, and most guys see that as a turn off. So gain confidence, maybe run a couple laps or eat healthier, you'll feel amazing about yourself, and you'll look great.
good luck.
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so this me and my guy friend roger, have been hangin out alot. and he really likes me. and i like him to, but relationships make me nervous. so i have been reluctant to date him, even though he's asked. and i want to, i just in the past have second guessed saying yes and turned around and dumped the person. i dont wanna do this to roger.

and it's not that i dont like roger, but part of me is confused too because this kid laun that i work with has been hangin out with me randomly. like showing up at my house and suprising me and hes really funny, and last time he was here, and he held my hand. and i think its dangerous for me to bearound laun cus i could see him ruining things, but i like his company.

so i dont really know what i should do, i dont wanna get with roger and then regret it from my own issues or from laun coming around too much.. (link)
If you don't get over your fear of relationships now, you never will. Give Roger a chance. Don't mix previous relationships with future once, and clear things with Laun, and tell him you're involved with someone.
good luck.
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15\f

my friend told me that having sex isn't even that pleasurable! It was her first time though...
I was just wondering; is she right? the first time doesn't even feel good? and when does it start feeling good?

thanks (link)
It depends on the person and what they enjoy, as the person below has said, the first couple of times aren't that great, but once you know what you like and your guy knows what you like, it's pretty pleasurable.


so my guy friend (older than me, I'm 15) asked me to show him pictures. I did. He asked for more, and I showed him more but told him they were "bad"...and he didn't believe me and thought I was exaggerating about them being bad. But they really were. And he was bothering me ...trying to make me upload them. And so I got annoyed, didnt care anymore, and showed it to him (it's a personal pic). And now, he's all like Omg I'm so sorry I shouldn't have asked you...I feel so embarrassed..
He SHOULD.

But should I? I only did it because I was sooooooo annoyed.

did I do the right thing? (link)
Well, I can see how you are embarrassed, this has happened to me before, one tip is to stay on his good side, he has something to black mail you with, but hopefully he isn't the type of person to black mail with something that bad. Next time be careful.
good luck.
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About 3/4 of the seniors that attend my high school want to pull off a really good senior prank. We have only a few rules. Nothing severely vandalizing. Nothing illegal (to the point of jail time for those 18+), something that will be remembered, something that a bunch of people can do.

We don't want one of those stupid pranks that 4 kids do and barely anybody finds out about. We want our school and our class of 2008 to be remembered for a long time.

We are having secret meetings twice a month. We call ourselves the senior gift committee because we consider our prank a gift to all underclassmen. Something for them to remember and talk about for years to come.

We don't want to really hurt anybody, and if it can be multiple small pranks or one HUGE thing, it doesn't matter. We just need help with suggestions. A lot of things we've come up with either break a rule (too illegal, too harmful, etc.) or have been done a million times over.

So, if anyone has any suggestions or anything that they've done and that their school and peers have really enjoyed, any suggestions are welcome.

By the way, seniors have the same last day as underclassmen. (I know a lot of school have senior graduation before underclassmen get out, our school isn't like that).

Thanks =] (link)
do a jungle theme type thing.
like plug the sink drains, and put real goldfish so that people can't use them.
and put plastic toy sharks in the toilet so people can flush.
hope i helped or inspire an idea.
if you questions ask, feel free to ask.
good luck.
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I have this school dance coming up next month. My best friends ex-boyfriend likes me and I like him. I told my best friend that I couldn't do that to her by dating him. She told me I don't care about him anymore. I started to say okay when I had just remembered that a little while ago in fifth period everyone was talking about how weird it was that she had asked him if they could get back together.I thought how long ago that was and then said okay. My first question is should I believe her when she says she doesn't like him anymore? Then at lunch he asked who I was going to the dance with I said no one and asked why he asked he said just was wondering.Second question if he is afraid to ask me to the dance,what should I say in order to dawn to the question want to go to the dance with me so he might just ask me. (link)
well, your friend probably still has feelings for him regardless of whether or not she wants to admit it. going out with your friend's ex will probably make your friendship a bit awkward and you might become distant, but if you think he's worth it then go for it.
But if you truly want to go to the dance with him, bring it up, casually ask who he's going with or who he is planning on taking.
or jokingingly talk about how cool it would be if you and him went together, maybe who would get the hint.
good luck.
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hi i am a 13/f
and i would like to lose some weight by halloween,
here are my problems
no access to a gym
running huge problem because my area is not safe to run, even if i'm with someone.
any exercises, diets i can do at home?
ex: sit ups?
things like that.
thanks so much! (link)
try eating salads and fruits.
cut down on the junk food.
drink lots and lots of water so that you feel full.
you can sit ups.
and lunges.
scissor kicks.
ask me if you need me to specify something.
good luck.


Ok first if my boyfriend told me he just wants a break right and if someone asks me do i havea boyfriend do i still say yes ?

Well my boyfriend is Muslim and his fasting and me and him had a little argument his friend kept flirting with me and i was just being an honestr gf and told him anyways yesterday he told me he wants a break until he finnishes fasting that in like 20 days and he said he'll let me know if he still wants to be with me do you think he'll dump me ? (link)
talk to him, be upfront about it.
no matter how much you like him it's not fair for you to put your life on hold for him, and you were honest and that's what matters.
he should be more understanding


my friend is gay. and i love him.
and everyone wants me to tell him i like him
but i cant. because hes gay, but im the only one
in the entire world that knows
WAT DO I DO?! (link)
It depends on both of your ages and has he ever gone out with girls before. If his reasons for being gay are because he wasn't attracted to girls when he went out with them then there's no chance. But maybe if you tell him how you feel, he'll maybe give you a chance, as weird as that sounds. Since he was comfortable enough with you to tell yo he was gay. You should be comfortable enough with him to tell him you like him.
Good luck.




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