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there's this girl and i really love her....i mean there's just no going past it.....there's no running from it. but i dont just like her, i love her. i didn't think it would happen, i totally didn't expect it to....but it did. here's the thing; she's online alot and clowns around with other guys, and even though i've NEVER been the jealous type....it kinda gets to me that she does it. i know we're not dating but i WANT us to be in that kind of relationship. what should i do? should i resign myself to the fact that we'll just be friends? should i ask her and hope for the answer i want? what if she says yes? should i just ignore the fact that she messes with all these guys' heads or tell her i dont like it? hannah, i love her....and i'm crying right now writing this out.....:'( like, REALLY crying...
Well first of all, since y'all aren't actually dating, you hold no authority over her, nor are you in any place to start giving orders. Even if y'all were together, it still wouldn't be your call to push her around and try to control who she does and does not associate with. Since there's no changing THAT fact, the only thing I could suggest to you is letting her know what EXACTLY she does that hurts you. Perhaps she'll change her ways, but you should not assume and get your hopes up. If you know this girl WELL and have the opportunity to spend time with her then perhaps you should ask her for more than friendship, however, if that were the case.. I don't suggest it. Personally, long distant relationships don't fly with me, and I have to know someone very well before I decide to hop into things. You really need to do what is going to help YOU here... do what will make YOU feel better.. there's actually not much more I can say about this.... I wish you the best. :) Hope I helped?
I can't apply eyeliner on the top lid for the life of me!
I get it perfect on one lid and the other lid is really bad.
I suppose I just need to get used to it like with my bottom lid (I can put that on like second nature now)
Any tips though?
You could try experimenting with different brands, I know that can make a difference sometimes. Also, you could dampen the end of a very fine brush, and place it in some eyeshadow, and use that as eyeliner. No one will even notice the difference. Mostly, you just have to practice.. it doesn't come naturally to everyone. Goodluck.
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Hannah
My back is itching like mad!!!!!! I don't have a back scratcher, and I can't go out and get one! What else can I use!? PLEASE HELP.. I'M GOING INSANE!!!
A long spoon or a hairbrush would probably work. You could also rub it on the corner of a wall, but I find that doing this usually makes it worse. How about asking someone else to scratch it for you?
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Im only 15 years old but i need a job this summer. Do you know any jobs that will hire at 15 other than publix
I know Wendy's hires at 15, for sure.
What should i do, i like a person but i don't know if they like me back?
Build up enough guts within yourself to share your feelings, and ask them theirs!!
OK.. well usually my period is.. well i dont really know how to put it.. thinck i guess. and dark. But this month it seems a lot thinner and lighter. Is this normal? Or should I see a doctor or something?
Nothing irregular about this at all!!
I love denim skirts and flouncy skirts from abercrombie! ..the problem is..They are too expensive! Do you guys know anywhere I can get a bargain skirt?..don't say ebay! Thanks!
Anchor Blue & Wal-Mart & Old Navy!!
what do you get if you mix a apple with snapple
yo daddie!!!! :)
could someone give me a screen name for aim that has to do with summer?
BeachBl0ndie
x Beach x Bum x
sunXfunXtan
oO my tanline oO
skimpy bikkini
LustySuMMeRLove
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Hannah!
ohk well im sick of people hating me because im a "slut, hoe, whore, or skank" the thing is dat im really not any of that ... how can i make people see who i really am, or just get da image of being a hoe out of my life?
i rate high so please help
You shouldn't care so much what people say about you. If you know it's not true... then that's all there is to it.
well here's my problem. there's this really beautiful girl who isn't just beautiful on the outside but on the inside too. even her name (hannah) is beautiful. i like her alot even though i've only known her for a few days and talked to her a few times. how do i tell her my feelings without spooking her? (maybe i should add that she lives a good distance from me and we've only talked online but i feel a special connection to her) if you know what i mean. what do you think of this possible match???
i'm 22 male louisiana
she's 18 female connecticut
Well it sounds to me like you've met one terrific person. Judging from your question, you seem like a remarkable guy, so I'm going to assume that she's even *luckier to have found *YOU. And yes, I can COMPLETELY understand how you can grow attached to someone you've met online. Honestly, it happens to the best of us. And I know for a fact that I'd be lying through my teeth if I said I've never felt that way. Though the distance gap is quite great... ya never know what the future holds. So I recommend just staying close and involved with this person, and it's quite possible great things may come of it.
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Hannah
guy #1: we've been good friends since the begining of this school year. everyone says we like each other and for a while i just denied it. he's funny and has amazing eyes. i can be myself around him so i'm pretty comfortable around him. he's always been there for me and he's really nice. he looks out for me. i like flirting with him more than guy #2. we're a lot alike. we like working out together at the gym. he's so funny. all my other ex boyfriends thought i liked him instead of them. my parents like him, my parents know his family and like them. if i do break up with my bf because of this guy, it won't be gauranteed that we'll be going out... i think hes a little scared to ask me out. this other guy said that this guy would go out with me if i asked him out but who knows if he was telling the truth. so many people say he likes me though! and when we were dancing he pulled me in reallllly close.
guy #2: we've started dated a few days ago. this is guy #1's friend. we've only liked each other for a week or two. i don't know him as well as guy #1 and i'm not THAT comfortable around him. but he is funny but not as cute as guy #1 and he's shorter than me. he's pretty nice. i used to like him more when we were NOT going out but now were going out and i don't like him as much. he's really sweet though and smart. my mom thinks he's really nice and he is. he's open and not afraid to ask me if we're 'going too fast' or anything, i like that.
Well first of all, if you currently have a boyfriend... it's obvious you're unhappy, otherwise you wouldn't have this attraction to anyone else... so maybe a split would be good? But if you have only been with him a few days, perhaps you should wait it out longer, and devote all of your time to him 100% right now... put guy #1 in the back of your mind for the time being... if it's mean to be.. it will be... but right now you have someone else to dedicate yourself to
Hope this helps?
Hannah
My Boyfriend and I broke up a couple of days ago and i still cant stop crying. Any tips on getting the pain to go away??
Hmm... well, the BEST way to get over someone, if you ask me, is to find someone NEW! So I say try just getting out with some friends.. go have a good time, because you deserve one! Hit the mall, the arcade... make yourself approachable to men, and don't be afraid to make the first move up to them!! If that's TRULY NOT an option, try listening to some upbeat music, such as Christina Aguilera's 'Fighter', or Destiny's Child's 'Independent Woman'... just keep your head held high and keep on truckin.. there's better men out there, and you're on the prowl!!!
Hope this helps!
Hannah!
(14/m/oh) I broke up with my girfriend about a week ago and i'm kind of looking for other girls now because i know she wasn't for me and i need to move on. i have two girls in mind. one is a really hott girl that goes to my school. she isn't stuckup or snobby like most of the girls. she is fun to be around and she lives about 5 minutes away. (she might not work out because i am the skater type and shes more of a prep) the other girl is my best friends old girfriend. she is very beautiful and very understanding. she is so easy to talk to, i talked to her for hours last night about these situations. after talking to her for so long and realizing that she was just like me, i started to like her. she said she needed a boyfriend and i need a girlfriend, she doesnt like anybody in particular right now because she just got over my best friend. which girl do you guys think is better for me? and how should i become close to her?
I would think the first girl would be a better selection for you. She's kind, and lives near by; works good, right? And what's it matter if she's a "prep" and you're a "skater"! who cares! That doesn't mean you can't find chemistry! You never know until you try, Dear. And I understand you're probably very attracted to girl number two, but if you get together with her... would the possibility of losing that mutual friend come into play? It's true you can't let someone else run your life, but that's generallyu a strict upspoken rule of friendship.. ya just don't go there... so I guess just ask yourself if she is worth the loss of that friend! And if nothing else, you can always have that chick as a friend, and I'm sure she'd be a great one to you! And as for getting trying to woo her, just be polite... SMILE... smiling is KEY. Compliment her, pay interest in her favorite things and the rundown of her day. Approach her at school whenever possible, and just be all around outgoing and respectful; not many girls will turn away friendship from a sweet respecting guy.
Hope I helped!
Hannah
Ok so i am going out with this boy and its been 7 months and 20 days and he is moving to virginia and im still in florida and theres this boy named Doug and i really really like him a lot and i dont kno what to do??? do u stay with my bf which i dont see anymore or do i go for doug which i see every day????
-13/f if that helps
As heart breaking as it might be, I say it would be best if you and your boyfriend parted ways. You're only 13; you will have many many many ppl come and go throughout your lifetime, and 13 is too young to be tied down. Just be upfront and honest with him; there's no reason not to be..
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Hannah
i juts had a mole removed by a plastic surgon.. if anybody else has had this surgery can you please tell me whats to expect later... like how it will feel... scarring, etc? thanks a lot!!
i know someone who had a MASSIVE mole removed from their face, and the scarring wasnt even noticeable! of course, that doesnt mean yours WONT be... but its just a little hope for you to run on!
Why would a guy go around saying i was going to screw him and that i was making out with him when we were playing video games and listening 2 muzic.....i lost a best friend bc of his little lies..so how the hell do i get threw to everyoen that its a lie..and how do i get threw to him that he will NEVER SPREAD RUMORS ABOUT ME, TOUCH ME OR TALK TO ME AGAIN....! ( he was also sick & stoned)...and ive already got him for sexual harasment in the 6th grade...so what do i do?!
Please help asap
punch him in the face!!! what a jerk he seems to be!
So this Saturday is prom and I am going with the guy I like. What is some small ways I could let him know that I like him like what can I do? Thanks!
Look at him a lot, make eye contact. and SMILE!! always smile! try waving at him in the hallway, and approach him when you have an oppotunity
u like an angel tell how can i have a beautiful girl like u?
Tell her she looks like an angel!!! And she has lovely fashion sense : ) Just don't be so quick to throw money around at her... you don't want the WRONG type of girl!!
where u get that pretty face from
My Mom!! Thanks for the question, that was cool, and you're my first! ;)