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i love her
there's this girl and i really love her....i mean there's just no going past it.....there's no running from it. but i dont just like her, i love her. i didn't think it would happen, i totally didn't expect it to....but it did. here's the thing; she's online alot and clowns around with other guys, and even though i've NEVER been the jealous type....it kinda gets to me that she does it. i know we're not dating but i WANT us to be in that kind of relationship. what should i do? should i resign myself to the fact that we'll just be friends? should i ask her and hope for the answer i want? what if she says yes? should i just ignore the fact that she messes with all these guys' heads or tell her i dont like it? hannah, i love her....and i'm crying right now writing this out.....:'( like, REALLY crying...
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Well first of all, since y'all aren't actually dating, you hold no authority over her, nor are you in any place to start giving orders. Even if y'all were together, it still wouldn't be your call to push her around and try to control who she does and does not associate with. Since there's no changing THAT fact, the only thing I could suggest to you is letting her know what EXACTLY she does that hurts you. Perhaps she'll change her ways, but you should not assume and get your hopes up. If you know this girl WELL and have the opportunity to spend time with her then perhaps you should ask her for more than friendship, however, if that were the case.. I don't suggest it. Personally, long distant relationships don't fly with me, and I have to know someone very well before I decide to hop into things. You really need to do what is going to help YOU here... do what will make YOU feel better.. there's actually not much more I can say about this.... I wish you the best. :) Hope I helped?
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