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I am 12yrs old and my boyfreind broke up with me because he said i was getting dirty as in burping and all that stuff and like 2 weeks a go i let one slip and he broke up with me do you think it was because of his freinds or that because i think it was stupid how about you

Well it depends on what his friends say. He could of been imbarrassed but I think if he liked/loved you then a burped then it wouldn't matter. But I guess guys think thats a turn-off. I do think its stupid though, because like I said, if he really liked you then it wouldn't matter. But it could be what his friends think, too. A lot of guys go on what there friends say. Hope this helps
Jedi [ ♥ ] Katie

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Okay...well i was going out with this guy for a LOONNNGGG time...rly long like 2 yrs and then he broke up with me bc of his STUPID macho frends...and i just cant seem to get over it...i rly liked him. any adivce?

Thats a pretty stupid reason for a guy to break up with someone. You said you really liked him- so I don't know if you still like him. If you do, then maybe try talking to him to see if he still likes you, because you said that he broke up with you because his friends. So I'm guessing he didnt break up with you because he doesn't like you... so just try talking to him & maybe geting close to him friendship wise. Hope this helps ♥

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Hey! i heard your advice was good & i need help!! 0kay... i really like or maybe even love this boy. i am 12. i dunno if i love him though. He is just so adorable, & sweet and hes just perfect, but my friend is going out with him =( i really want him and i need him! i went out with him before but i broke up with him. i dont know why. it was stupid of me and now i am regretting it. so now he is going out with my friend and they love each other. i dont think they will ever break up, but i need him. anways, if they do brake up i would feel bad to go out with him because it would just be weird because he dumped my friend. i really need help. what should i do! i am scared to tell him that i like him. i think he likes me. i can kinda like tell sometimes. but i dont kno. okay please help me!!

This is hard. You might want to tell him you like him know if you thinks you like him, because if he stops liking you then you could possibly not be with him in a long time. And if he did break up with who he was going out with now(your friend) for you... then you might not be able to do that to your friend. So your in a pickle =) . So just tell him how feel & hope he feels the same. If you need anymore help you can ask more or i.m me at Tainted X0 Lovee. Hope this Helps x3
Jedi [ ♥ ] Katie

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Okay, there is this guy. Like in every life..lol well ne way he likes this girl that i have just started becoming friends with. If he ever does ask her out i dont know what will happen..or if she will say yes. what should i do?

First of all, you should ask her if she likes him... or if she would ever go out with him. If your friends with her, & shes friends with you- then she would probably ask you if its okay if she could go out with him (thats what most of my close friends would do). But you can't stop people from going out with each other. Hope this helps

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Hey Jedi! Do you have any ideas on where I could have my 14'th birthday?

I was thinking about Lazor tag, but that's in Illinois and I live in Missouri.

Anyways, I can't have a house party, too cold to do anything outside. I just want somewhere fun and I was thinking of just having like 5-6 people.

Thanks!! ♥ ♥

Hmmm 14 - sounds great. Well you could go to a big city or shop with a few close friends. For my birthday I wanted to go to Chicago with a few friends for the day & just walk around & stuff. But i never got to it lol. I guess you could always shop, go to movies, go out to eat with friends (me & my friend always do that... we act all fancy (=.), or have those 5-6 people over & watch movies all night & pig out =). Haha sorry those were all i could think of... but I'm sure there's tonsss more. and when it comes... HAPPY BIRTHDAY ♥
I ♥ You Teza
Jedi

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There is a girl I really like, but she likes my friend. And the girl's friend likes me so she won't do anything because she would feel bad. What should I do?

Well you can't blame her for not doing anything because it's like a rule of feminism =), a lot of girls just can't do that to their friends. But I'm sorry to say that you'll either pursuade her into doing stuff & just not leting anyone else know(thats less likey to happen) or just wait for her friend to stop liking you, but that might take awhile. The girl you like might just not like you back & doesn't want to do anything... but maybe she does. Hope this helps
Jedi [ ♥ ] Katie

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How do you ..
Kiss
Make out

and anything else guys want

i know this sounds stupid.. but will you help please and thanks

Hmmm ♥
Kissing: Do what you see in movies & shows... pucker your lips & um its kinda self-explanitory. You can always watch in movies/shows/etc. do it ;; cause its kind of hard to explan, just do what you think you should.
Making out: You just like open-mouth kiss with your tounge. Again this one is hard to explain...but try spelling out your name with your tounge =). But after you've done it more than like 2 times you get the hang of it & become more experianced ;).
Some guys (depends on who) like cuddling. When you cuddle you just have to felt something special & just be close. Most guys like flirting so when you flirt you just have to look cute & yeah haha. Hope this helps
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There is this guy at my school and i really like him but i found out that he likes another girl. I've known him for a while..but cant get the guts to ask him out. Do you have any advice to help me?

Okay - well are you friends with him? Try being more comfortable around him. Hang out & talk to him online & crap so you can be yourself when your with him. If your not really friends then just talk to him online/phone to try & get to know him more. Be friendly =). Good luck ♥ & hope this helps
Jedi x3

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well im in 8th grade and like i went 2 a party and i drank a tad bit but not alot and i told my friends and they wont talk 2 me now wut should i do?¿?

Well- I think thats a tad stupid of your friends but there probably just disapointed & worried that you might do it again. Tell them your sorry & won't do it again (if you won't though). Hope this helps ♥
Jedi

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I need a lot of help. So, please try your best to help me. I am a 7th grader, i live in Chicago. Every one is starting to date, and like do stuff with eachother. I'm not sure if i am ready for a relationship like this right now. (i do have a boyfriend) i mean yea, me and my boyfriend have like kissed and stuff. But people are starting to have sex! i know its crazy! were only in 7TH GRADE! and i myself believe that you should wait to have sex after your married..but i have to much pressure on me these days. My boyfriend, Eric, is a like, i could say "wild" guy, i know he wants to do it! He is just like that. He has been giving me clues that he wants to..like saying, lets go lay down and a bunch of other stuff. I know you are probably going to tell me to let him know that im not ready for this kind of relationship. But i reallllyyy like him majorly. i dont want to let him go just because of something i dont want to do.

so please, help me

-Marjory

Well i think 7th grade is early to have sex. Really early, but yeah. I'm sorry to tell you but you should just tell your boyfriend your not ready. If he really loves you then he'll be okay with it & be okay with it too. It might be hard, but don't go by what other people are doing- cause its not always right. Hope this helps alot
♥ Jedi

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Well, I have this friend, see, and she's probably one of my best friends and I love her to death. But she's been going through some tough times lately and I've realized that she's been hurting herself. As in cutting. and I've talked to her about it and stuff, but I don't think it does anything. It really scares me to see her do this and I dont know what to do..

Talk to her. Try to talk her out of doing those things. There not good for anyone. She might not apprecaite it now, but she should later. Maybe even try talking to a student counselor or a parent. Show her all the cons of cutting & that its just stupid & shes hurting herself. Just try & stop her. Well i hope this helps *`
♥ Jedi Kt

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Ok well me and my boyfriend broke up lyk 4 months ago and ive never really really liked anyone except him. it makes me mad because he lyk totalyy ignores me now and calls me annoying and i have no clue why. people say its because im overly obsessed but im say im not. but i think i really am. i love him to death and i guess n one understands. do u have any advice for me that could help me get over this love - thank you so much for even looking at this - Christine

Mmmm i know what your going through & i understand whats happening to you.But if you guys like don't talk at all, then he has no right to call you annoying... like if you really dont talk or say anything to each other. & people(including him) shouldn't be saying your obessed. I think almost all guys think that... just because a girl gets butterflys, a smile, & looks at a guy... doesnt mean shes obsessed. But if you really are obsessed then maybe try not showing, like if he passes you then try & act like you dont care even though you might.
A way for you to get over this guy is to try & find someone else. Thats really all i think i would be able to do in this case - but geting over a guy your inlove with is hard, trust me. I really hope this helps you ♥

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Okay so yeah me and my boyfriend were really really close. we had already been good friends since like the first grade. Then, he just dropped some totally bad news on my shoulders.He said that his dad just got this awesome promotion, and he was movin to california! im soooo depressed. we just had our last make out kiss goodbye. what should i do?!?!

Oh im sorry &hearts . If you live far away i know its hard to keep a relationship. If you really don't want to loose him then write to him everyday & maybe try to see him (thats probably really hard if your younger). But, maybe if you want to... try to get a new guy. You don't have to, but its just a suggestion to make you happier. Realllyyy sorry this happened. But for now if you still love him then just write, email, I.M him alot. Hope this helps ♥

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ok... i really like this guy at school. He talked to me alot so i asked him out. and he said no. and i really like him and im like TOTALLY heart broken. What can i do to maybe get him to like me.

Oh im so sorry dear ♥
Try talking to him more. Don't let him slip away... just make sure you keep intouch. Like if your hanging out, at a dance, football game, social(you get the picture) maybe try flirting if your confident. Try to let him see how fabulous you can be. G0OD LUCK & H0PE THiS HELPS ♥

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Ok well lets see.. my dog just died. it was our familys prized poodle.and to mention it was 3000 dollars. i found it on the floor in my room and it was dead. it choked : ((. we opened his mouth to see what she had choked on. it was a used tampom. thats discusting rite? yeah well anyways my mom said it probably got in the garbage in the bathroom and found it and tried to eat it but i think i was someone trying to backstabb me for somethign i did. well do you know any ideas of thing i could do to keep my mind off this?thank you
p.s. my friend said ur advice really helps so please help me.

Hmmm this sounds alike to the one i just answered- but i have a feeling theres one person who asked both & is trying to be funny. But if not sorry ---> Well try to do or be with the people/things you like to do/hang out with. That always make me happy say if im at cheerleading & having a good time with my friends. If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend & if they make you happy... spend time with them. Hope this helps & sorry about your dog ♥

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okay so like i dont like this girl anymore but she used to be my BF! like totaly BF. So like when we got in the huge fight that ended our relationship i fed her a dirty tampon. n it was like a heave flow i guess. so then i ran away n the dog died. she came to school the next day n said sh'll kill whoever did it. what should i do?

P.S. she was really attachd to her dog. like took an hour out of her day every day to play with him.

This question sounds like a fake one but whatever? But why would you even do that... its horrible. I mean theres no excuse. I mean thats probably one of the most discusting things i've ever heard. But i really don't know. Do what you think is right. Hope this helps?

PS- To any one that asks stupid or fake questions im going to be pissed. If your a friend of mine & try to play a joke... I'm going to be pissed at you. So stop it because i take this seriously. Jezee ♥

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I have questions about Congenital heart defects
Like how does it affects a child physically and mentally? And how is detected?

Wow i have no clue. But i looked it up online...

http://www.marchofdimes.com/professionals/681_1212.asp

I was skiping through this site & it seemed to have a lot on what your looking for. Sorry I couldn't answer this one by myself. I'm no doctor or anything, hope this helps though ♥

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Well i have a lot of friends.. rite? Well i like to hang out with both! But the one i use to hang out with all the time are getting kinda old! What should i do?

You shouldn't judge your friends. I could have loser friends but i don't care because i love them. If thats the case...
but if you don;t like hanging out with them then don't hang out with them. Or just hang out with your other friends more. Hope this helps ♥

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hi its tara again well today was horrilbe this guy just kept making a big deal out of it to this eight grade that o have the hugest crush on and i was so embarrassed. so i went up to the kid that kepts saying stuff and im just like id ont want to make out with anyone one ok so leave me alone and then hes all like chicken to me and the eight grader starteed to laugh and i was just soo upset.so i ran to bathroon and was crying through out lunch i was so sad. but then the best thing happen in the whole world. the eight grader is a twin and his twin is the total oppostie of him and he was like my bros an ass and he walked me home and we like hung out today and then he was like tara ur really pretty and guess wat he kissed me and now i like him alot and were going to the movies saturday night.thank you so so much katie ill never have a way to show you how happy i am now well i have to go so later....tara

Awww your freakin` welcome =)
im so happy for you. good job... that guy was an ass. But you got the twin haha. Well have fun at your movies. & you just made my night ♥ Need anything else im here. Adios`

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ok i'm 13 rite now...i'm kinda emmerised to day this but my boyfreind wants to finger me and leik i dunno what to do cuz i have nvr done this b 4 and i'm thinkin will it hurt and leik thoes kinda questions...what should i do please helpppp

If you're not ready then tell him so. If he loves you he'll understand. But if you are ready... go for it. I might hurt, i honestly don't know. I'm sorry this isn't that good of a responce but i can't help alot for this question. I hope this helpss ♥

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