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ok theres this boy i datedd 2 yers ago for 8 months nad recently we started talking agian and i just moved to las vegas and he lives in georgia and we recently got in a fight and i heard rumors that hes telling everyone that the reason hes pissed at me is because i said i wouldnt sleep with him but i neve said that adn the person that told me doenst lie what do i do or think
id say this long distance thing isnt workin too well.. just forget about.. dont worry about and make some new friends in L.V. dont let him get to you.. he is being a guy, an ass
okey the boy that i like is soo shy..he is one of the shyest boys that you ever would meet but like only when it comes to girlfriends and doing stuff other than that he is like outgoing and my best frend..he knows i like him and he sed he dno wat hed do if i kised him because he doesnt make the first move..i have thought it over allot and he sed he wudnt pull away so tomorrow morning when he comes to wake me up while were laying in my bed i am going to say "heyy can i show you something" hell sey ya and im going to kiss him not an all out hook up but i am going to kiss him a little bit..and then see wat happens..were best frneds and we flirt all the time we always act like we like eachothr but we are both shy..its just like i cant wait any longer and i am going to make the first move..do you think that its a good idea? what else could i do?
KISS HIM!! :-*
ok here it goes: ok..i LOVE to write stories, poems, and song lyrics..like it's fun (the idea of doing it). I try but i just dont get anything good. Any tips?? thAnKs
just concentrate and when you have an idea let it spill out! write about things you know!
ok this is wicked embarassing but im a 14 year old boy and im not alot like my friends. i get scared wicked easily. i hate it! i hav panick attax wen im outside in the dark.after i saw the movie The Village(which sucked) i couldnt get those creatures out of my head and ive had a hard time sleeping ever since. wen me and my friend saw it i kept grabbing the arms on the seat(not his arms of course} and he kept asking me if i was feeling ok and he sed that my face was all white and harfly ever blinked. i just wanna no how i can stop being afraid so that wen i c a scary movie w/ a girl im not the one huddled up againstt her
either dont watch scary movies or just dont pay attention when you are watching them
and remember that they are totally a joke and nothing is real at all.. good luck
Kevin1986 here again. I've been hearing a lot about guys only look at looks and everything like that. Lemme set the record straight here. If a girl is hott,she's a lot more likely to get asked out,true enough. But very few guys will tolerate a hot bitch. We're much more likely to go for the average looking girl with a great personality. I get pissed when we're made to look the bad guy and not every guy is as shallow as you describe. And besides,who are you more likely to ask out,Brad Pitt or the nice fat guy down the street? Stop being so hypocritical.
that is a good way of lookin at it!
I have a problem with opening up to my friends. I've been a big flirt for like my whole life! I even won biggest flirt at my middle school. But I havent really DONE anything if you know what I mean. Like I kissed but didnt make out. ANYWAYS i have two best friends and they havent done that either! But I have a secret. I actually have gone farther than that a couple times... I'm not comfortable telling them about it because they asked me what happened when "john" came over to my house and I told them NOTHING! so then they would know I lied to them. I dont want any answers saying something like "be honest cuz thats the best" blah blah blah!
I just dont know what to do....
dont tell them .. its perfectly fine.. they wont figure it out and you dont need to tell the whole world about something you would like to keep to yourself.
It's Kevin1986 here with a problem and a couple of questions. I'm friends with two guys,let's say D and J. J used to go out with a girl that I'm very close with,but not dating,although I'd like to. He's pretty obessive,talking about her all the time. Anyway,D used to like her too and they almost went out,but they had a falling out. About a year ago,a new guy,M,goes out with her. I don't care about M and neither do they. J and D want me to tell M that the girl he's going out with is a headtrip because their relationships with her didn't work. I say,it's his bed and it's job to determine whether his girl is crazy or not. I say D and J want me out of the way so they can get her,because I know she'd hate me forever if I tried to break up her relationship. Since I care about her,I want her to be happy even if it's not with me. Your thoughts on this issue? P.S I never really considered telling M this,but I want your opinions on what the real story is.
i think D & J stright up jealous.. its obv. to see. yea i think you should let M figure it out himself and if J and D really want M to know that then maybe they should get some balls & do it themselves hope i helped..
Alright heres the situation.. I have this friend, his name is Chris. Anyways, we are like best friends, i guess you could say. We talk alot hang out pretty often. He has a girl friend and i am single. Do you think he likes me if he does the following.. always smiles when he looks at me, always ask who i like, is really nice to me, and hugs me all the time.. i am really confused i dont know if he likes me or is it just a friend thing? Thanks in advance!! -xXoBrianna
I would say he does like you and is flirting with you. he may be sick of his current girlfriend but at the same time doesnt want to dump her for you if he isnt sure you like that way or enough.. hope i helped..
my friend who i was REALLY close to now has a bf so obviously they do "things" together and stuff and i know she's been drunk b4 and stuff like that and i haven't and it just feels to me that we aren't as close because it's not as fun for her to tell me things anymore since i can't relate and i don't kno how to make things the way they used to be
The best thing is probably to sit her down and have a talk with her. Tell her what you feel. tell her everything & dont hold back.. (if you think this is a friendship worth saving)
because.. this may have also happened by fate.. maybeyou and your "best friend" are different and shoudldnt be best friends .. maybe you have another friend that you should be hanging out with nd havin fun without drinking.. think about it!
hope i helped..
I might be suicidal. i dont know but i do think about killling myself a lot
so i guess i am... so someone help... and actually help!
dont go through with it! killing yourself is the most selfish thing a person can do.. you dont understand the pain your loved ones feel once you are gone.. ive experienced it. you are young and there is nothing in your life right now that you cannot change!
me and my boyfriend have been going on out for 9 months now, and we recently broke it off for about 2 weeks and i had the time of my life..but we got back together because i know i love him and dont want to be without him..but the fun i was having was gone..now hes been gone for 2 weeks and once again ive been back to having tons of fun..idk what does this mean? what should i do..
um that pretty much means you miss the single life! break out of this prison you call a relationship experience life girl! make sure he knows you love him but for right now you dont want to have any serious relationships!
i have fallen in love with my best guy friend, and i told him that i love him he said that he loves me back, but says that i just cant be. we hug, kiss and are all over eachother, but we're not dating, and everytime i bring it up to him he just says " it just cant be right now". i feel hurt but yet i cant stop thinking of him. what should i do? am i obsessed? ( i am 13/female )
no you are not obsessed.. ask him whats goin on and why he wants to be all over you but just be your friend.. is he using you to do stuff? find out! and if he doesnt wanna go out with you.. move on .find another guy that you can be all over and be goin out with him!
how do you heal a sprained wrist?
first i would ice it then i would wrap it up with an Ace-Bandage.. try not to use and it will be good as new - hope i helped .. tell me how everything works out..
is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14!
no that definitely not weird.. i promise.. it just means you have either gotten over all the boys in your grade and you have either become their best friend, hate them, or just are not interested in a relationship with them.. hope i helped..
On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long
yea.. i think you should wait until you are comfortable with him.. i think it would have been a TINY bit weird if he did finger you since it was your first time together.. i would maybe wait till you are going out.. hope i helped..
Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14?
yes it's a long time but thats good!! keep it goin and dont forget to tell him how much you like him!! - im 13 and i have been goin out with my boyfriend for 2 years! and i couldnt love him more!
ok heres how it is i like this guy a whole bunch and we hung out and all the begining of this summer ..well i went on vacation the past 3 weeks and came back and school had started for them .. this other girl i know really likes him too but him and her have never met so i dont really have to worry about her, but on the other hand this girl that lookwise is about the same as me has started to like him and is tryin to get him .. well i dont go to school with him but she does and i really thought he liked me but then all of a sudden we just basicly stopped talkin.. i dont know wat happened.. anyways my question is do u think there is a chance he likes me or do u think the other girl basicly already has him since she spends all this time at school with him now? please help me
there is a 50/50 chance he likes you and he likes her.. but if you like him a ton and you know you want him more than that girl(you should!) then try to get him back.. call him, IM him and just basically say that..ya know "i dnt know whats happened but i really like you and i know we dont go to the same school but.." stuff like that! kk hope i helped
hey..im looking for CUTE school clothes..and i wanted to ask from everyone to name off a BUNCH of stores that i can check out!!
thnx!
*i rate!:)*
when i shop i go to.. aeropostale, express, american eagle, abercrombie, filenes, and some other cute stores are kohls, rave, charlotte russe
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ok, well this guy and i r good friends we talk like for 3 hours every day. well i dont know if i should say he is my boyfriend because he never asked me out but he calls "boo-boo"(i dont why) and babygirl and all ways says i love so he acts like hes my boyfriend but i dont know if he is or not. plz tel me what you think thnx alot
~*~Emily~*~
I wouldnt say that you are officially going out since no one has asked eachother out yet but i would say you are "with" him which means you aren't dating but you "almost" are.. so no one girl can touch him and no boy and touch you! get it! =) hope i helped!
How old do u have to be to have sex?
whenever you are ready