Well... it depends on the distance between the family members...
And whether we're talking about romantic love or pure lust.

If it is done consensually by both parties I don't see why two people should have a problem with it. But you can't expect the other members of the family to be ok if they knew...

Basically if you don't have moral issues stopping you then I say go ahead =] we only live once.. and there are far worse sins than extra forms of love.

This question sounds so familiar I thought one of my family members wrote it as a stunt...

You don't sound like you have typical pregnancy symptoms, especially if the only chance of pregnancy was when you had sex a week ago. You shouldn't have gotten your period the day after sex, if the egg was to implant in your uterus the blood would need to be there for cushioning.

I would see a doctor but I wouldn't panic. Although these aren't necessarily usual pregnancy symptoms. Did you have unprotected sex? Then I would be able to evaluate the risks better.

If you want to wait till you can take a pregnancy test then go ahead, but if you continue to worry I'd take a short visit to the doctor to clear my head. It'll just let you know exactly what's going on. I've been through the same and trust me it's not worth the worry.

If they are specific morning after pills they have very high efficacy levels. No need to worry =) Everything will be fine

First of all... an answer on advicenators won't resolve something like this unless you believe in yourself and trust yourself and take action.

I've been almost 6 months with my boyfriend and ditto on the perfect front. I couldn't change him for the better if I tried.

If you really do love him more than you ever have loved anyone, you really shouldn't worry so much. You sound like you know what you're doing and you realise how wrong cheating is. I used to worry about the what if's constantly and my boyfriend told me there are no what if's. We live in this moment here and now, and whatever our world seems like today could change tomorrow. But love doesn't come and go with the wind.. it sticks around. Nothing's just going to happen by itself, it's up to you two to keep up the contact and I know how hard it can be. My boyfriend and I have been through so much to the point of my parents now forbidding us seeing each other.

Obstacles can be overcome. But what's most important is to keep the contact and communication open. Make sure you are on mutual grounds about where you stand in the relationship and see if you can trust each other to not lose touch when away. I've had the same doubts as you but at the end of the day it comes down to believing your love and understanding what he means to you.

Don't worry about the future, it'll be fine if you trust and stick by your love and each other =]

Okay I think I should answer this question because the scenario sounds just a tad similar...

I used to have many insecurities with my body and still do, I always found it easier to just show body parts to strangers and flash them or sunbathe uncovered but whenever my boyfriend came near me, or someone I liked, I'd always get really really shy and want to cover up because I'd feel like he was examining me for flaws...

With strangers its different, its easy to be fine and confidant when observed from afar...I'm guessing you haven't had any previous relationships? That would explain why your not comfortable with the sexual at all but don't worry. You can start getting more comfortable with guys you like, for instance I know I have a nice body and there's no real need to cover up, but if there's the possibility of a guy I like finding a flaw with me I keep hidden because when you like someone you don't want to do anything that could jeopardise what they may think of you physically.

I know how you feel. The important thing to do is remember that the guy will most probably already like you and his opinion of you will be affected more negatively if he thinks you are one of those obsessive girls when he probably sees nothing wrong with your body. Try to think, are there any actual flaws or reasons you're paranoid about not being comfortable? Probably nothing that can't be fixed...

The next step is to do the hard thing and take a risk. You know the guy isn't going to revolt back in horror if you moon him so you've really got nothing to worry about. Im not trying to force you to do something you're not comfortable with but if your anything like me you'll want to do it..

At first it might feel really really awkward but don't worry! Just give that extra confidence a go once and you won't regret it =]. Once you start being more open it will come naturally.

And I have to say this or all the self righteous feminists will gang up on me -- remember that your body is yours and sacred and that no one can force you to do anything you don't want to do with it. So hopefully I won't have to ever clean my room again...

Don't be to hard on yourself =] Just try to understand whats holding you back from relaxing and if there's no real reason... you have to just take the plunge once in a while and do the daring thing. That is after all, why it is the daring thing...

Hope to have helped :)

Don't worry too much. How far into your cycle are you? It is extremely unlikely you are pregnant but speaking from recent experience make sure you try to avoid any sort of contact at all with his cum and your vagina

Again, it will ease your worry if you are close to getting your period since you will soon know everything's fine. Honestly from your answer the chances of being pregnant are next to nothing and I've been through the same so just try to relax :]

Let me know how things go and if anything causes you more worry just tell me about it and I'll be happy to help

He most probably does want to kiss you if he was giving you those signals..guys are often terrified of girls at the beginning of any potential relationship :]

Ok well not so much terrified as extremely nervous
He's probably scared about what you may think because you two have been best friends.. he doesn't want to ruin the relationship but is more scared of what you'd think.

I'd say talk to him and see if he keeps hinting towards being more than friends. If he does then make sure you show interest and don't be afraid to bite the bullet and tell him how you feel.. guys are often clueless so don't worry about showing signs which most girls would consider obvious signs of affection or attraction.

Bottom line, go for it! It sounds like you have an exciting journey ahead, but remember to keep communication open at all times and everything will be fine :) Talk to him, spend time with him, see how things go and good luck!

AND SMIIILE! =]

Hope to have helped..

I watched the film a couple weeks back and no it isn't horror or anything like that..

It gets creepy towards the end and a little unsettling but it definitely isn't a horror or gruesome film.

But if you get creeped out easily then stay away =)

If you watch the trailer you should understand the general theme :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uHw8URgDvxM

Is it this song?

(You're the reason I'm living) you're the breath that I take
You're the stars in my heaven you're the sun when I wake
(You're the reason I'm living) all you carry me through
All of life's little burdens I'd be lost without you
A long long time ago when I was down
You've picked me up and showed me true love still could be found
You're the reason I do things you're the thing that I do
You're the reason I'm living I'd be lost without you
I'll tell you again (you're the reason I'm living) all you carry me through
All of life's little burdens I'd be lost without you (you're the reason I'm living ooh)

It is by Wanda Jackson :)

hahah well this is a fun question :]

Erm well generally in a threesome all three people are involved doing things to each other, therefore in this case the girl would be doing things to both guys and both guys would be doing things to the girl as well as to each other. If you want to know details... well they'd give oral to the girl in turns probably depending on how the threesome goes, then intercourse could start between two people while the spare is orally pleasuring the other guy or something like that... basically threesomes are the place to let sexual imagination run wild and free...

Basically the ingredients for a threesome are 3 very sexually willing and open people =]

Threesomes sound fun dont you think? But I wouldn't like having one with my bf and another girl...

Ok I know this is easier said than done and believe me I've been through it before but... if your gut tells you there isn't a chance with this guy you've got to force yourself to move on. And you will let go.. you've just got to try.

Basically.. STAY AWAY FROM HIM! AVOID HIM LIKE SWINE FLU!!!!
This is actually hard to do in practice, but you have to cut contact with him if you really want to get over him. Many people face the same problem, but usually the more you try to pull him towards you the more he'll push away.

You have to realise the hard way that you can't force him to be with you =/.

I think for your sanity its better to stay away from this guy ... do you have good friends? Hang out with them, single ones are better, and enjoy playing the field for a while =). Remember that even if you think the world of him now, it may just be linked to obsession fuelled by the fact that your cousin may be going out with him.

Try focusing on other things. Your life will probably seem a lot more pleasant when he's in it, but it's only because you're dreaming of something that isn't there.. if you really do want to get over him, you'll have to do it the hard but more fruitful way and enjoy your life.. away from him! Be independent.. you might think he's amazing but you don't need just another guy like him:] Make contact with other guys and you'll see what Im talking about.

If you want any more help just let me know but I suggest giving this a go first...

Hope to have been of some little incy help :]

You need to access your shared files folder which is usually found in C:\Documents and Settings\[your account name]\Shared

Then you can open your mp3 transfer wizard if you have one and add the files. If you dont have any special software for your mp3 you can just open it from my computer, select the suitable folder (e.g. my music) and drag and drop, or press CTRL while selecting the songs you want to transfer and you can do multiple transfers. Or if you want to add all of them you can do CTRL+A.

Hope to have helped =]

SUNBATHEE =]] (if you can find a private sunny place)

otherwise,you could also use bleach for sensitive skin

or,you could keep shaving or try waxing and thatll eliminate the problem all-together(but I dont advise it too strongly)

remember that the hairs probably arent as dark as they seem to you.if you live near a beach its unlikely anyone would notice anything if you go for a swim(you'll be covered by the water,and it'll also get you more of a tan=])dont worry too much!

remember that the tv booties are selectively chosen and rare.also,they're probably waxed.either that,or there's re-touching on the film.

=]

No problem at all, whatsoever, zilch, nada

=]

Have you tried using a lighter flow tampon? Like a mini? I used to have the same problem and I had to start using tampons for a while before it was comfortable to put in. Even now sometimes it can hurt a little, but its to be expected.

If your having this problem all the time then maybe your putting it in wrong. Try pushing it in almost horizontally. And on your heaviest flow. I know you might think you have tried this, but you'd be surprised what these little changes can do until your body gets used to the feel of tampons.

I hope this helps, but know that you also shouldnt force it in too much. For the first few times I had to leave mine inserted just a little, until it got easier. If you still cant fix the problem(and you're probs tired of me=]) then maybe you have some friends with the same problem, if you can talk to them about this.

=]

First of all, this is one of the most common problems possible to have with tampons. I'll try to be as clear as possible hear, but please tell me if you have any other questions.

With an applicator, there are two parts. When the applicator is at its full length, you should hold the bottom part of the top half of the applicator and try pushing all of the top half in first(the bit with the tampon inside)before you actually start pushing the syringe-type bottom half of the applicator. Note: You should do all of this while sitting on the toilet, it will make it a lot easier. If you struggle to get the part holding the tampon inside, try changing direction and dont be afraid. A little resistance or an uncomfortable feeling is normal. If it hurts a lot, dont force it too much. You could try using a lighter flow tampon until your body gets used to it, but it will be easier to push it in and out when you are on your heaviest flow.

Okay, once you have the first half in, and are ready for the syringe-type bit, hold the very bottom of the top half of the applicator and use your index finger to push the syringe. It should be completely pushed for the tampon to be where it is supposed to.

Once you have pushed the end bit in all the way, you should be able to safely remove the applicator and dispose of it without tugging at the tampon string. When you take the tampon out again, make sure you pull the string really gently and slowly.

Dont worry if it doesnt work though, I know plenty of people my age with this problem. Just feel free to contact me =]

Hope to have helped =]

There's only one thing to do... but try not to search the internet, it'll just fill your head with unlikely ideas. You have to see a doctor. You didn't mention your age, but it would be good if you can find a way to see a private doctor or free clinic so you can remain anonymous. Also, a stranger will reduce the embarassment factor. It's important that you realise there's nothing to be shy of and that you dont put off seeing a doctor for much longer, so you'll know exactly what you're dealing with. Don't worry, though, its most likely just an infection.

Hope to have helped=]

http://www.delete-computer-history.com/increase-virtual-memory.html

If that doesn't work, you can try installing software to increase RAM by downloading it off the internet.

If that doesn't work, I'd have to buy more memory =]


Hope to have helped!!

1. Not really, because its so quick, but some people feel a little pain.
2. No, it depends on the sensitivity of the skin, not the thickness.
3. I doubt it =]
4. You'll probably be a little nervous, but try to remember theres nothing to be afraid of.

Well, to me, it can mean kissing, second base, or even foreplay, but on first thought Id say touching/feeling stage. However, its reallyyy subjective so it depends what situation its used in.

Hope to have helped =]

I'm in my second year of junior college, I'm taking English, pure maths, philosophy A, sociology, french and biology intermediate. There's not much about me I can write here, but I'll probably still end up writing things anyway..basically i just really like nice, non-judgmental people who have a sense of humour.

Im really optimistic, inspired, ambitious, dreamy, crazy, and unpredictable. I try to be non-judgmental, Im v.v open minded, sometimes can be a bit stubborn though. I love being passionate about things and certain people, having really close loving relationships.. living life to the full. I despise authority, believe in nature, adore music, love animals, nonconformist in every sense, unorganised, love adventure. Having fun with friends, playing games like we used to, having long meaningful conversations, building relationships, being able to feel free, being myself... Listening to music when I travel, enjoying nature.. hope to do something I love in the future.. mainly study psychology, maybe journalism, I would really love to do voluntary work in different countries. I really love travelling and..well, I write... Dont know what else to say (=.. ermm hope you're doing swell

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