I am a teenage girl, who has been through alot, friendship wise and relationship wise... i am willing to help anyone and be there for anyone... I strive to the best of my ability too answer your questions in the best way i can!
Website: Always here for You!
Gender: Female
Location: Australia
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
Member Since: January 13, 2007
Answers: 34
Last Update: January 19, 2007
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this guy i like or i think i like, likes another girl name stacy. i know he like her becasue he draws her name on his notebook and on this stickers that say HELLO MY NAME IS...and they all say STACY.i know beacuse i saw them. it just gets me mad because this guy has kissed me more then 2 timmes and i know he wants more then just a kiss he wants to have sex and i am not ganna give him that beacuse i am not a bitch. also ths guy told me that he likes me and wants to go around with me but when he told me that he was all HIGH. plz help me tell me what to do. (link)
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Hey,
if i were you i would try move on, I wouldn't wnat to be in a relationship with someone doing drugs... He obviously only wants one thing SEX... a girl shouldn't be used for that!!!
Hoping you all the best
Elle
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First off, I'm a 15-year-old girl
I'm tired of falling on love with guys who are too old for me (the oldest being 21 and a friend of mine).
How do I avoid this happening?
Thank you. (link)
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hey,
I am a 15 year old girl who is dating an 18year old guy, we have been together for 10 months now and are gonig along really well.. at first my family didn't accept us but now they do...
No-one can help falling in love, it happens naturally. You may well be more mature then other people your age, i know that i am.
Don't let anyone tell you your falling for the wrong guy, the only way you are gonig to find out is by experience...
If you know they are too old i believe it wont be too hard for you to start liking guys your age... hang around them etc...
Hoping you all the best
Elle
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okay, this is going to be kind of long since you need background information. my "first love" and i had been "talking" for 2 years but were never an official couple. he took my virginity and we've been through alot, we would never fully commit to a relationship and never spent any "quality time" with me, like we would hangout but we would never really go anywhere. but i ended up falling in love with him, but he was involved in selling drugs, and didnt want a girlfriend while he was living that life. so i would try to move on and talk to other guys and we would go months on end without talking then he would find out and try to become part of my life again only to leave once he was sure he still had me. well this started in 04 and continued on till now basically again we hadnt been talking for a while and i was determined to move on and i met this boy max. max is involved in selling drugs so i cant say hes better in that way, but he's affectionate with him in front of his friends, funny my friends and family all love him, and hes a total sweetheart. everytime i even hear his name i smile. now my "first" called me around newyears and got sent away to tennesse he came over to say goodbye and FINNALY said i love you back and i gave him my chain. he calls me everynight now, and really wants to get on track tell me he loves me, and hes finnaly opening up and hes been immature. blaise blaise. you get the point. well were together officially now. and why i thought this is what i always wanted i cant help but think about max. me and my mom got into an argument over my first the otherday and for the first time she hit me, i ran away and i ended up going to max and he stayed with me and was helping me out. i then called my first and told him what happened he made me return home. max then got kinda quiet, but later that night i txt him thank you and sorry and everything and he was just like dont worry about it i like you alot. and i like him alot too but i couldnt say that. all my homegirls think it should be obvious and im dumb for even thinking about max. i mean i waited two years for my first. but i was starting to move on and max just sort of had that impact on me, i dont know maybe its my fear of commitment but i think i really do care. but my first is opening up and i do still love him, but i think he waited two long. im at complete lost. at what i should do. i dont want to put my first down when hes already down but at the same time. i care for both of them. HELP! (link)
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Hey darling,
I don't really know what to say... You and only you can make your own decision and your decision should be respected! I personally don't like the fact hat these guys are selling drugs but that of course is my very own opinion... Maybe you needed your first to come around to show you who you really loved etc... Don't worry about him being already down, you may make it worse but at the end of the day you have to do whats best and right for you. I am sorry to hear that your mum hit you, have you spoken to her about that? Maybe your first ordered you to go home because you were with max!?!?! you going straight to max for his strength and guidence tells me you love and need him more.
Hope you sort it out, hoping you all the best
Elle
p.s let me know how things are travelling
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ok so i wanna propose to my girlfriend of 3 years. but i have 2 questiosn.
1.what stores can you buy really good engagement rings? like i know theres kay and zales but what else?
2. what should i do to propose really cute. like i was thinkinon valentines day..or like if i did wait till next xmas eve..under amistletoe or something. something really cute or creative. thanks soooo much (link)
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proposing is meant to be romantic etc... Maybe a place she loves, on the beach under a sun set anything like that... anyday would bealright... birthday's, valentines day, your 4 year anniversary... its all up too you... Any jewllers store will ahve engagement rings and you may even like the option of designing one yourself to make it that extra bit special and unique!!!
hoping you a happy life with you girlfriend, all the best!
Elle
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how can i hit puburty fast is there a way plz help (link)
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I'm pretty sure there are alot of people out there like you! There is no possible way to make it happen faster... its a part of life and nature.. it hits when it wants to! most people are aged between 13-16... that doesn't mean that it can't come earlier or later. If your a girl, you should be living life now to the fullest without getting your periods.... they are nothing special and you will experience that when they arrive!!!
Hoping you all the best
Elle
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hey elle, you're amazing.
to follow up on my question, since i already called him and he hasn't call me back, what would you do in my situation? i don't want to seem too desperate and eager.. and also, should i candidly say that i like him?
p.s. you are the best advice giver i have ever encountered. honestly you are what i was hoping for when i came on advicenators as a last resort. thank you so, so very much. (link)
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i honestly don't know what i would do in your situation. I for one am very over powering and don't give up!!! i would keep calling til he answered... but thats just cause of the way i am!! its not nessarily the right way to go about it.. you could let out you like him and see what his reaction is. theres no such thing as desperate.. just don't come accross that way.. talk it out naturally, let it flow, be open and don't be negative or start an argument!
Thanks!! i am only new at this... today is my first day!!!
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how are you suppose to maintain your "area" down there
im a girl and i don't know if i am ssuppose to shave it all down there or leave a strip or just keep it short. i know this is a personal question but I don't know what I am suppose to do, or what is normal. my friend said it is whatever i want, but what do guys like the most? is it ape-like to have hair down there? (link)
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hey,
well there is no set way to maintain your vaginal area. everyone has there own opinions and no-one cna tell you what to do... it all depends what you like. Some say that if they shave or wax it all off then they feel like a little kid who hasn't reached pubity!!! everyone is different... Some people experience rashes from shaving, I have! I now get a Brazilian was which costs about $35.00 to get it professionally done, yeah i tcan be a little embarrassing but they have done it all before. i leave a strip down the middle simply cause the middle hurts more to wax. But the options are endless!!! Just search around and find what yo like and decide!
Hoping you all the best
Elle
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im scared to get my ear lobs pierced should i be (link)
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Hey,
everyone has the phobias... it took a week for people to get me to get my ear loes peirced.. it didn't hurt a bit and i realised i had nothing to worry about.. The person doing it has got certificates and done courses to know what to do and to know how to do it properly. There is no cartlague there either which reduces the pain. I have also got the top of my ear periced recently, i got it done by needle and it didn't really hurt, you just gotta lok after your perciings and keep them clean etc.. You can make your own decision, don't let anyone preasure you... after all you have the right to have your decisions respected! Maybe even talk to the people where you are going to get it done before you decide!
Hoping you all the best
Elle
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he's always been an assertive charming guy, texting me or calling me or iming me first, and making plans.
currently he's going through a tough time. he lost a lot of his friends and seems to be antisocial at this time.
occasionally he will come online to talk to me for an hour or possibly hours, and he'll always ask why it is we don't hang out because he really liked me. though, i'll text him and he'll respond in very short sentences that sound closed off and borderline rude. i'll ask if he wants to hang out, he won't respond.
he still is always the first to im me, meaning he still wants to talk to me. sometimes he'll send me random text messages after we haven't been talking for an extended period of time, asking how i am, or wishing me a happy new year, or telling me random things about his dream.
i still kind of like him, and have never really gotten over him although i always get over people easily. i'm sick of waiting for him to come around, i'm sick of him ignoring my phone calls but whenever he feels like it he can contact me. i'm sick of that, i'm sick of the mixed messages. if he really wants to be friends like he says he does, then why doesn't he follow through with plans? he always either doesn't respond or says i don't know now, i'll call you...
this last time i called he would've had no excuse not to respond, like last time he said he didnt get the message, but this time his phone was turned on. i left a short message asking him to call me back, but he hasn't.
he'll come online in a couple of days and pretend nothing happened, still being like, i wonder why i never see you.
what should i do, should i confront him (what do i say, without making it seem like i care too much?) or do i ignore him from now on?
HELP! (link)
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Hey,
seems like he's going through a really tough time... i lost all my friends last year too but i had a bf, he's the one who got me through everything... Maybe he feels he needs you and he may even like you but he might be afriad your going to turn on him too like everyone else. I believe you need to talk to him as soon as your can, by text, phone call or internet... I think you need to tell him exactly the way you feel, try and get him to open up too you... say your there to talk to etc, if he brushes you off i think you should move on, it may take time but you gotta do it... life isn't going to stop and wait for this situation to sort out, it keeps rolling on by and you could be missing out on opportunities because of this guy!
Hoping you sort everything out
Elle
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My boyfriend Christopher's birthday is on January 21st. he is going to be 18, and by the time it is his birthday we will have been together for only 2 months. i have been thinking about what i should get him alot lately, because i want it to be cute, funny, romantic, or just something he has wanted. when i asked him what he wanted for his birthday he told me i dont know. so i have no ideas. the problem is that i would probably get him a stuffed animal or something, but i got him one for christmas plus a electric razor. if anyone has any ideas and can get them to me before his birthday it would be greatly appreciated. thank you! (link)
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My bf turned 18 last year, I got hi lots of little things, a leather wallet (something he can have on him all the time to remind him of you,) I made a cushion for him to have on his bed, it had photo's of us and tour names and the date we got together on it. I got him chocolates and a keyring which is believed to bring wealth, i also got him a really nice card that meant something really special... Make it unique, use your creativity and go all out!!! i believe watches, rings and jewllery are a lovely gift but of course thats only if you know they are going to wear it...
Hoping you find something
Elle
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when i was 9 or 10 my brother molested me. the molestation went so far i would even call it rape. while it was going on i told him no i didnt want to but he made me think i was wrong for not wanting to. afterwards he tried to have these sex talks with me about how to do sexual acts and what happens when guys get excited, i finally told him i didn;t want to talk about this with him. it took alot of courage but i hated it, i hated him. he told me if i told anybody he would tell them that i touched him, and that nobody would believe me. i felt disgusting, and i thought [still think] people will think i am disgusting for letting that happen to me.
now im 15 and it still horrifies me. i have never told anybody because im afraid they will think i am gross. i can never tell my parents, NEVER, because they will not believe me. He hides it so well and soemtiems i even wonder if he remembers doing it. once i braught it up, he acted like he didnt know what i was talking about and i sut up quickly, i didnt want to talk about it. I know it happened... but there is nothing i can do
now it is a huge problem b/c i have been dating this great guy for 3 months and i won't let him touch me. at first i just told him i was prude but when he puts his arms around me i freak, and once i decided to just ignore it and make out with him as uncomfortable as i was, he hand started to go up my shirt and i ran out of the room and started to cry hysterically. this shouldnt still be happening, but it is affecting me now more than ever.
i need this to go away
please help me forget about this and overcome my fear of somebody touching me. my bf is going to dump me if i keep doing this, he doesnt know why, im never going to tell him.
please help im desperate (link)
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Hey darling,
What can i say this is absultly horrible...
I know it would be hard but i really believe you need to tell someone or talk to your school councillor, they can't tell anyone without your permission or anything so anything you said would be kept confidential, i know it would be hard but you really need to see someone. Rape is illigal, this isn't just going to go away... yo will probably have it at the back of your mind for ages. but the thing is you need to come up with ways to deal with whats happened. By saying that i mean, accepting it nd moving on or coming up with ways to push the thought out of your mind. Its gonig to be a long ride but you have to get through it before you get older.. the longer you wait the harder it is going to be... I strongly advise of gonig to a councellor, no-one has to know your seeing someone. maybe you should talk to your bf, make him understand that your not totally comfortable with guys touching you and state that its reasons you don't wanna say... make sure he knows that he's not doing anything wrong, maybe you should also tell him yu are not comfortable with sexual activites... if he isn't okay with that i don't think your relationship was meant to be, he should respect your decisions as should any guy... Its worse that its your brother cause he's going to be around in your life forever... you really need to get help from someone!!!
Bless you and hoping the best for you
Elle
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I am pretty popular, and all.
But it seems like no one even likes me.
I have maybe a few really good/best friends but other than that I just have little friendships with girls.
And guys, they all hate me.
I dont understand, I used to be really really good friends with 80% of the guys who hate me.
They all just are mean and I dont know what I did.
Some guys would be my friend and be nice to me, and then just randomly start saying how they dont like me and tell me to shut up when I talk.
I dont understand, they dont do this to any other girl.
Maybe Im not as pretty as everyone else, but does that mean they have to hate me?
This makes me really sad
and on top of that, the boy I like , hates me probably the most.
long story on that one (link)
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hey sweety,
being popular isn't everything, i am far from popular but that doesn't get to me. I have a loving bf of 9 months and everything is fine. maybe you have changed a bit, sometimes people don't notice it but they do change and that could be reasons of why they don't like you. Friends aren't everything... They could be doing all this to make you feel sad, you need to show your inner strength and show them that it doesn't bother you. I beleive you need to have some self- respect for yourself... Saying your not pretty is negative... you gotta believe your an individual and love who you are.
Hope things work out for ya!
Elle
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i have a best friend who when i tell her i love her all she says is you to.She says she dosent like bing touch when i give her a hug but she hugs other people.If i let her go what should i do to not suffer so much? (link)
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hey,
I think you need to sit down and talk to her, if your not good at confrontation do it via text message or over the internet. i am sure you have other friends who you can gain better friendships with. I know i have no best friends or hardly any friends at the moment, due to issues that happened last year... i find that friends aren't everything, sometimes its good to be an individual. It hurts to start with and still does sometimes if you think about it, but my life has changed, i have changed. Life keeps rollnig by each and every day you gotta make the best of it!
Hoping you conquer your problems, Elle
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I'm 15. what kind of birth control pills would i be put on? and does anyone know approximate costs? (link)
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Hey i am 15 years old as well... I got put on the pill 4 months ago. I am on the levlen ED TABLET 150MCG/30MCG. You get 21 active pills they are for when you don't have your period and 7 in active pills they are known as the sugar pills which you take when you are due and have your period. Each month i guess i have missed one or two put have never had any pregnancy scares. They are excellent! They $20.00 which gives you a pack with four sheets in it, this will last you four months... so basically it works out at $5.00 a month. After yiou have had a week of full pills you should be right to have un-protected sex but remember the pill doesn't protect you from STD's And STI's! When you go to the doctor to get prescribed the pill she will put you on the one she thinks is best for you.
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