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Is she really a friend?
i have a best friend who when i tell her i love her all she says is you to.She says she dosent like bing touch when i give her a hug but she hugs other people.If i let her go what should i do to not suffer so much?
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hey,
I think you need to sit down and talk to her, if your not good at confrontation do it via text message or over the internet. i am sure you have other friends who you can gain better friendships with. I know i have no best friends or hardly any friends at the moment, due to issues that happened last year... i find that friends aren't everything, sometimes its good to be an individual. It hurts to start with and still does sometimes if you think about it, but my life has changed, i have changed. Life keeps rollnig by each and every day you gotta make the best of it!
Hoping you conquer your problems, Elle
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some people do that because there not comfortable with their sexuality. they dont want to be mistaken for gay maybe she gets that vibe from you or has misinterpreted you for something your not. some people are like that. i personally dont think that huging anothers girl or saying i love you is lesbian like me and my friends ay i love you and hug all the time but i have known people who do get that kind of vibe and think that way. it also might depend on how long youve known her she might feel your rushing her friendship or that your being clingy. im not saying you are. but there are people who can willingly embrace anyone immediately and there are people who need more time. maybe she feels like she has to hug these people because she doesnt want to be rude if she doesnt know them or maybe shes known them longer. be for yoyu let her go take in those factors. maybe you should talk to her about it if your comfortable enough to say i love you you should be comfortable enough to confront her about it in a calm manner. if you decide to let her go then that means shes turned out to be a not so good friend and you wont suffer because you wont miss the abuse if thats not the case then maybe you should try to work it out communication is key.
normally when people are using you they try to be sweeter then average so i dont think thats the case unless you really think you have something she wants.i think if she was using you you she would be more inclined to be overly nice and hug you and so on to butter you up.
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Have you even talked to her about this issue? I should hope you have if you plan to send her packing.
She is your best friend, you should be able to tell her your problems and how you feel.
You can't just throw away a best friend and go get a new one. A best friend is some one who you share complete trust.
I would say not to let her go. I would say you need to talk to her before you make such a decision.
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Well I used to have a friend like that and i told her i didn't want to be her best friend anymore so i got a new best friend but me and her are still friends.
Tinkerbell94
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