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Sad now and feel like im loosing friends
I am pretty popular, and all.
But it seems like no one even likes me.
I have maybe a few really good/best friends but other than that I just have little friendships with girls.
And guys, they all hate me.
I dont understand, I used to be really really good friends with 80% of the guys who hate me.
They all just are mean and I dont know what I did.
Some guys would be my friend and be nice to me, and then just randomly start saying how they dont like me and tell me to shut up when I talk.
I dont understand, they dont do this to any other girl.
Maybe Im not as pretty as everyone else, but does that mean they have to hate me?
This makes me really sad
and on top of that, the boy I like , hates me probably the most.
long story on that one
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there's probably a reason why most of these people seem not to like you. Wethere it's a stupid reason or not, there will be a reason. it may be because they think you aren't pretty, and while that's shallow, it happens. You may have an annoying habit you're unaware of, or maybe people just don't like you're personality. But it's not your fault.
It sounds like a girl i used to go to school with, she was friends with some popular girls who were associated with certain boys, and the boys didn't, well .. like her. The reasons for them not liking her were pretty stupid, she dyed her hair a crazy blonde color, and she laughed a lot. But it wasn't her fault.
There's nothing wrong with you. Maybe these people do really like you, and you just have a misconception. I'd try and straighten it out if i could, and maybe ask your friends what the deal could be, too.
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its better to have a few good friends who you know like you then a bunch of people who are just pretending. im not saying your like this but sometimes people who are really popular arent very nice to other people who they feel or less then them think about things your saying and how your treating others are you sayng things that come off rude? if not then look at the people around you who are saying nasty things to you maybe they think of you as beneath them if so then theyre not good friends to begin with i think your wasting your time with these people.or maybe someone who thought you was a friend started a rumor to bring you down..it happens. i think you should reevaluate who your friends are and break away from these negativite ones... these people who you arent as close to you but you still call them "friends" wont be there for you in the long run and you probably wont even hear from them after you graduate. theres a whole horizon of diffrent people to make friends with maybe you should consider going out side of your circle. start looking for people who you can actually value and will value you they might be diffrent from or simiilar to you but you never know. sometimes you can find a gem where you least expect it. if these other people were really your friends then they wouldnt abuse you theyre fake. your better off without them.
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hey sweety,
being popular isn't everything, i am far from popular but that doesn't get to me. I have a loving bf of 9 months and everything is fine. maybe you have changed a bit, sometimes people don't notice it but they do change and that could be reasons of why they don't like you. Friends aren't everything... They could be doing all this to make you feel sad, you need to show your inner strength and show them that it doesn't bother you. I beleive you need to have some self- respect for yourself... Saying your not pretty is negative... you gotta believe your an individual and love who you are.
Hope things work out for ya!
Elle
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