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Ok, so there are these jeans I want at Abercrombie and Hollister, but super expensive!! They are those pants that are torn/destroyed...Does anybody know how I could do it myself, and it would look good without spending a fortune??!!Thanks!!

Well just make little cuts on them!
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When you are making out with a boy (yes I am a girl) where do you put your hands? Where does he put his. When making out what do you do with your hands? sorry i just want to know if you answer this with a good answer I will rate a 5

Well you would grab him on his neck and he wold puthis hands around your wasit!!
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my boyfriend kinda throws me around a little and im ready to get out what do i say?

if he loves you he shouldnt do that to you! If i were you i would brake up with him because if you relize it he's hurting you not making you feal better!
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Hello everyone, how can you know if it is really love or not. There's this guy who I have a crush on for four years plus already and I still can't forget him. Whenever I see him last time and he goes near me, my mind can't think anything. It's like my mind is saying say something say something but I can't think of anything to say. Now, I'm worried about him and I don't know if this is really love. If it is, could it be possible that love exist at my age? I'm 16. And could it be possible that you love someone you don't know really that much?

well girl just go up and tell him that u have a crush on him maybe he likes you back and you don't relize it!!
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A friend of mine likes my boyfriend. But she is going out with his best friend(we can call him Lee) She says she loves Lee but then tells other people she Loves my boyfriend and just likes Lee.. shes ubsessed with my boyfriend and flirts with him constantly in front of me.. how do i make her realize shes dating Lee not my boyfriend

Well talk to her and get it starigh she should now that Lee is her Boyfriend and if she i going to go and flrit with other guys why is she dating Lee anyway!!
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Hi im Jessica im 13 years old and i just cant find a boyfriend that i can hold onto for a whileeither they get annoying or they start flirting with someone else what can i do to find someoone for me.If anyone out there wants to im me my s/n is xxlittlejxx9.
from jess

Well there are lots of boys out there! you can find lots but 5 out of 10 boys flirt with other girls so its hard if you ever want to chat about it hers my sn Ecuagrl93
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ok im a girl and my friend is a girl and she always touches my boobs, but she says its not on purpose, but she touches them for a long time. i tell her to try not to touch them, but it doesnt work. it is very uncomfortable for me cuz she is my best friend. wat should i do?

WELL MAYBE SHE IS HAVING SOME PROBLEMS that she should go to the docter to! you should talk to her and tell her to go to the docter and tell him or her about it or why dosent she touch her own boobs!
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My car has recently strared to squeal/screach when I break. It's not all the time, mostly when I am in traffic. I assumed I needed break pads, so I had a friend check them, and they are fine. She assumed I have a "hard spot" in the pad. Could this be the cause? What else could it be?

Just keep driving if u got it checked out and they said it was fine!
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Do any of you know any good sites to get background designs for icons on? I usually use google picture search but I can't seem to find what I am looking for. So my question is where can I find good backgrounds for icons? Thank you in advance.

u could go to buddypuddy.com tats a icon site 4 AIMs!!
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im a guy who is shy and i like this girl who is like my best friend and i want to have a bigger relationship with her, what should i do to get her attention? please help!! thanks

WELL YOU SHOULD TELL HER ABOUT IT! IF YOU ARE SHY JUST DO YOUR BEST TO TALK TO HER YOU AND HER ARE BEST FRIENDZ RITE?? SO SHELL UNDERSTAND!
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I want to start designing my own tshirts- and I'm not talking about iron ons and stuff like that. I'm talking about like, cute, haute-couture sort of stuff- orginal, like plain tshirts spruced up so much that they look completely different. Can someone help me or give me a site with ideas? I'm not a bad sewer.

hey girl well u could cheak Abercombie shrits dey real cool and i like them i lov to desiging to!! well cheak out abercombie Americian Eagle hollister wet seal and other stores!!.
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I have a boy friend and my perants are cool with it but then my friend said that he was going to ask me on a date my parents say that I can't date till I drive what should I do

Well its good to listen to ur parents!! so i think you should listen to ur parents!!
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my hair is slightyly thin but slighty thick..personaly i want it thick but i've heard that its horrible thick(not my hair..theirs)should i want thick hair..and if so then what can i do to make it thicker?(no styling or layers though it fries my hair)

well i have thin hair and my hair is straight and its better becuz wen you have thick hair you have to wear to much conditionar!!
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i usually pop my pimples and now i have alot of scars on my forehead, does anyone know any products that can get rid of scars? a product that are not that expensive and that i can easily get at a store

answer quick please

Well next time you should let them go away!! now you have some scars all those products are lots money so srry but dont pop ur pimples anymore
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I'm 13 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm blonde, blue-eyed, nice, sweet, smart, 128 pounds, 5 feet 1 inch. i have no idea why absolutley no guy wants to go out with me. please help!

U might be really pretty but guyz are like that!! maybe you need to change your style a little!! or justdress differently but dont go the dluty way!! ok well hope i could HELP
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My boyfriend like to fidle around with my chest, and oh do I not mind, I think it is pleasureable and feels incredible, but he also will ask me to touch myself like he does. The thing is, I don't mind touching my breats like that, I like the feeling of me touching them and it kind of turns me on. Is this weird or wrong?

Well its ok for your bf to ask you to do that but its kinda werid for u to do that!! also how old are becuz if you are to young its bad to get touched like that!
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I'm a girl and I'm 14. I'm attracted to the female body, but in an artistic way. I want to tell my friends, and show them some of my artwork, but I'm afraid they'll think I'm a perverted homosexual or something like that. Anyone have any advice on what to do or say?

Just tell them the truth and if they think that that means they are very dumb because art is art! like my social studies teacher told me cuz i used to say ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!! and he got mad and he told us that!! i guess they are dumb ass if they dont understand art i think i used to me like that!!
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I am going to a school dance on thursday (tomorrow). I don't know what to wear, however. It's a pretty casual thing. I also have no clue how to dance...some one please help! i rate high.

hey!! well you could wear a cool button shrit!! with the white undershrit underneath and some kwl Jeans!! well do your best danceing or get some1 to teach u!
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The guy I'm currently with is a GREAT kisser hes one of the best kissers in town! but i have a problem.... the guy i went out with b4 him was the first guy i made out with and he was BAD!!!! and now im afraid wen i work up the nerve to actually make out with my boyfriend now that I'm gonna b REALLY bad! Im scared as hell and dont no wot to do! see my ex said i was a good kisser but i was the first one he has made out with too and he was bad anyways... and see i have a few friends that said they wod make out with me and tell me if im bad or good or wot not but i cant do that anymore now that i have a boyfriend! Help plz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dont make out with a other guy 1st of all cause what if your boyfriend saw you?? maybe u r good and you just think thaT!!
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my bf never talks 2 me at skool...i am his 1st gf ever...and he gets REALLY nervous around me!..wut do i do???...i like him a lot ...but he need s 2 talk 2 me 2!

Talk to him maybe hes not the guy for you!!
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