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I need advice to get over my e boyfriend im 15 years old . I just cant get over him its really hard but all he wants to sex but he would stop talking to me for a while I always felt like it was me I just need advice to get over him . he played a lot of mind games
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It might be tough at first, but just give it time. First off you're 15..after this blows over you'll realize plenty of other guys want to date you and that you can do way better. when you graduate high school you're going to look back and be like, I can't believe cared that much..or you wont remember him at all. I know this from experience.
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God, I'm so stupid. I don't even know how to navigate this site. After I got an answer, I don't know what to click on to post another quetion. I just forwarded a question by accident to tech support. God, I'm SO STUPID. I SHOULDN'T BE ALLOWED TO LIVE. (this was my next question): I know other people have problems and there are many injustices going on in the world, but I've tried everything. I'm 3 mos. behind in rent. My daughter was paying my rent but she cut me off without any notice and I just can't make it anymore. I'm on disability but only get $700 a month. I can barely live on that let alone get caught up. I've been diagnosed with agoraphobia, ptsd and bipolar 2. I have absolutely nobody in my life. I'm 48 and have no friends, no family, nothing to live for. I tried to kill myself about a mo ago. My son called the police and a bunch showed up at my door. They took me to a Crisis Clinic but I was there about an hour and no doctor or anybody came to talk to me so I left. I called a suicide hotline number and was put on hold everytime I called. I feel like God is telling me it's time to go. I've been literally pulling my hair out. My bathroom floor is covered in hair. I'm getting older and uglier. Nobody will ever want me. (link)
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You know, its easy to make simple mistakes..everyone does not just you. When you're feeling depressed like this, you just have to tell yourself the feeling is only temporary, don't dwell on things. If you're on meds, don't stop taking them immediately because it can cause serious mood swings and alter your thinking. Sometimes you just have to look out the window and say shit happens..you'll get through it. If you stay positive about your life and keep trying no matter what, everything will be okay.
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My dad sucks at driving, but you can't tell him that because he'll argue that he's the greatest driver you'll ever meet. To him, a good driver is someone who can maneuver the car well an do cool tricks. To me, and I hope to anyone else, a good driver is someone who is careful, follows the rules of the road, and cares more about safety than being cool.
My dad speeds, takes annoyingly hard turns, slams on the gas and on the brakes, has bad road rage, and texts while driving. He'll also take his eyes off the road to look at the passengers in the car while he talks to them. Once, he fell asleep while driving and when my sister woke him up, he yelled at her, "What? I was sleeping!"
He says that the only other person he knows who was better at driving than he is was my uncle who died in a car accident before I was born. That accident was not completely his fault, but it was partially.
Before that though, he was hated by most of our town for another accident he caused. He was trying to pass a car, but when he got in the next lane to do so, there was a car coming down that lane in the opposite direction. He didn't have much time to pass the car in front of him before he hit the car in the next lane, so the safe thing to do would have been to pull back over into his own lane. Instead of doing that though, he floored it and hit the other car head on. The woman in the car was a mother to small children. She was sent to the hospital where she was told to stay in bed due to a blood clot that the accident caused. She didn't obey the order and got up, which caused the blood clot to break and the woman to die.
People blamed my uncle, but he took no responsibility for it. My dad and grandparents saw no reason why he should. People wrote my grandparents letters saying that if they were good people, they'd help that woman's children I guess by giving them money, but they wouldn't do it. They said that it was the woman's own fault for getting up. The thing is though, that it never would have happened if he hadn't pulled something stupid and caused that accident.
I can't explain what it says to me that my grandparents wouldn't help that woman's kids and that they and my dad don't see any fault my uncle has in her death. It just makes me disappointed in them and it scares me because they don't seem to have learned anything from the accident. I can totally see my dad doing something like what my uncle did someday. He's so convinced that my uncle was such a great driver that he hasn't learned anything from either accident (that one or the one he died in). At least not what he should have learned.
How do I tell my dad that he needs to work on his driving an that he shouldn't follow my uncle's examples without sounding like a total @$$ hole? (link)
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This story is hilarious if you have dark humor..but yeah um. If I were you I wouldn't let him drive me anywhere. I don't think you'd be being an asshole..I mean I wouldn't want to die either.
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I'm a 13 year old girl and I call everyone darling, love, honey, etc. They've gotten use to it, but I'll call strangers that too on accident and I get funny looks sometimes. Or if the person doesn't know me well they'll think I'm flirting. Is it ok? Should I try to stop doing this? It feels like I'm being old fashioned or something.
Side note: I talk funny, too. I say words like therefore, no slang, and grammar that's so proper it sounds weird ( because people have become so used to using abbreviations and contractions, whereas I don't use any of that (I don't use it when I speak anyway.) It sounds even weirder because I'm so young. (link)
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You don't talk funny, you talk the way you were taught to speak. If someone finds it odd then oh well. If some one thinks you're flirting make it clear to them you are not.
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Im 21 and a female and Nathan is a 29 yrvold male. He is an old friend of my brothers who lives in texas that's where I'm at visiting family now. Nathan is my first crush. I haven't seen hinincei was four yrs old. Since I been down here visiting we have had sex several times. And he doesn't really cuddle with me afterwards. It see,s like he might kinda like me but I know I like him more and because I have a hard time expressing my self , I sent him a message on fb bout nt cuddling with me and he just read it but no response usually he waits until we're both online butnidk just nervous what do I do now ?? And if I need to message what I said them I'll do that ...hmmm...??
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He's just using you for sex most likely. I mean, you're visiting..he obviously just wants to bang you. I'm not trying to seem rude or anything, I'm just stating my opinion. I'd be prepared for the worse.
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Im a 24yr old female and I've been married for 2 years now. me and my husband are trying to conceive for a few months now but nothing. My question is are there certain things we have to do to conceive faster? We have sex about every other day
Is there anything we could do to conceive faster ? Vitamins maybe ? More sex? Anything? (link)
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You need to go to a doctor and let him/her figure this out. The best time to get pregnant is when you're ovulating. But really go to a doc, you guys need to make sure you're healthy enough to do this and a doctor will surely be able to help you out.
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Me and my boyfriend have just started dating, and he already wants a kid. I am 17 and he is 18, I love kids, BUT I'm not 100% I'm ready. I am a girl to likes to go out and have fun. Any suggestions on how to handle it? (link)
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Im going to put this simply. If you dont want to have kids dont. Its your body and your choice. Think about everything your mother ever taught you and did for you, would you be ready to do that at this age? You're still in the mindset of a teen ager, you still want to go to parties and things of that nature. If you're not even worried about college yet then how would you raise a child. A baby doesn't stay a baby for ever, it's a person with feelings and a life just like you. Do you think you could handle being responsible for another life? It's all about what you feel. If he doesn't like your decision then he can kick rocks. You're only 18, you do not have to tie yourself down to anyone..you have years to settle down. From the ages 17-19 you'll most likely change very drastically, I'd hold off on the whole baby thing.
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Im 22, boyfriend is soon to be 26. Been together for 6 months. He by far treats me better than anyone and Im starting to really care for and love him. He's had a very bad past, and used to abuse pills and drugs and a lot of stuff. At the beginning I caught him abusing pills about 3-4 times. I could tell by the way he acted and a couple times he ended up telling me he did take one. He knew I wouldn't wanna be with him if he's doing that. Well, now i am certain he's gotta be doing something. He tells me he smokes weed sometimes, yet for months and months he's said how proud he is that he hasn't smoked at all. I confronted him the other day if he took pills and I told him I notice how sick he looks and gets out of no where and how he can't keep it up during sex. He'll look pale, complain about his heart beating weird, start sweating, sometimes feels cold to touch, and complains about not feeling right. That's when he said no I smoke sometimes though. Anyone know sure tell signs of someone taking pills? The ones he would be taking is like xanax or serious pain killers. He acts sketchy but I have no sure way to find out. What are signs? I don't think smoking the weed he smokes, which is wax (thc wax like marijuana) would do those symptoms? Plus, he's had those symptoms when he's been with me all day and I know he didn't have time to go smoke (I would have smelled it) (link)
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Some signs you can look for are pasty looking tongues or lips. paleness with bags under the eyes, especially with pain killers. Does he have involuntary lip or jaw movement? Look at his eyes, are they dilated? If his pupils are really small, or really big and glazed over he's most likely high off of something. If he was doing it and quit suddenly, these could also be withdrawal symptoms. There are drug test kits you can buy, and if he's being honest then he should be willing to use one. You may love him, but if he does have a drug abuse problem he needs to get help. This would be out of your hands, this is something he would have to fix himself. The only thing you could do is support his sobriety.
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I've been trying to lose weight for a while, but I haven't had much luck. Anyone have some ways to shed some weight fairly quickly but healthily? (link)
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To burn body fat, you have to do cardio and eat healthy. Don't eat any microwavable foods. Eat greens, like Kale. Eat vegetables and fruits as snacks. Eat fish and whole grains. Not only will you feel great but you'll look great too. Figure out your bmi so you can have knowledge of how many calories you should intake daily and how many you should burn when you work out. Yoga is also very good for you and will help with circulation and bone health. I would start off with working out two to three times a week. And your diet is a never ending thing..The sooner you change what you put into your body the sooner you see results. Be sure not to over work your body, you have to give your muscles time to rest during the week. What ever schedule you make for yourself just make sure you stay consistent with it. I'd also go to a doctor and get regular check ups to make sure you're healthy. Most importantly, don't over eat or under eat, and drink lots of water. Don't starve yourself, that actually makes you gain more weight. Don't eat to get full, eat until youre not hungry. Once you get in the groove of it all you should get used to it and add more to your workouts and diet. It takes patience and persistence, at times it will be a challenge. If you don't see any results with in the first 1-2 weeks dont get discouraged you have to keep going and you will see results. Denise austin on youtube would be great to start out with if you need work out videos. I hope this helps.
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One of my friend is late in her periods always ,please tl me y its like that and what should she do to become correct periods (link)
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I advise she see a doctor, just to make sure everything is working normally.
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