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Telling it like is. Not sugar coating my answers to spare your feelings.. so beware .I believe in God, Karma, luck, fate, and living on the edge. Being average or normal isn't for me. I never wanted to blend in... it's all about being unique and being yourself . Loving who you are, and to hell with anyone who who doesn't agree.
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how do I tell a girl no to a date and that I'm a gay guy?
the same way you just asked the question. Just tell her.
If a boy have a Std and he eats you will u get it
If he has a cold sore/ herpes in his mouth you will get Herpes down there.
Depending on What std he has , just depends on a few things.
I still slep with my mum
She may want you to sleep with her cause she feels comfortable with her kiddo near. I can understand that. She just loves you a lot.
If you sleep with mom AND dad then you need to give them some space and let them sleep alone. This goes for any age.
**** If you are able to read and write then you need to be in your own room********
How old are you? If you are 5-8 it's okay sometimes cause we all need our Mommy.
age 8-11.... I wouldn't admit it to anyone that you sleep with your Mother, you will be made fun of.
Over 11 ..... C'mon, it's time to face the monsters under your bed. You are almost a teenager.
If you have two digits in your age.... No reason to sleep in her bed every night. You already know this or you wouldn't have mentioned it.
Do I have a STD after I gave my new boyfriend a BJ and my throat is a little sore
you will be alright.
I believe I am highly under the influence of greed. I have been using my parents credit card for a game that I often play and I need to know if I should tell them or lie to keep myself out of trouble. What should I do and how should I do it?
you are better off telling them cause it is worse if they discover it themselves.
That is good that you feel guilt for it, so you cannot be too bad/greedy.
There is hope for you yet : )
They will be more understanding and will be proud that you were upfront about it. If you were my kid I would not punish you at all if you told me about it before I got my bank statement in the mail. By the way..... you cannot avoid being caught cause people check the monthly statement to check for possibly being charged for something they didn't buy. So you have no real choice but to fess up.
AGE 16 male.. I just bought condoms for me and my girlfriend. but where should I hide them From my parents. BTW my parents dont know we are having sex.
I am positive that they would be relieved to know you are using condoms . They would rather see you with condoms that without.
They will think you are being a good Boy Scout "always be prepared". You don't have to tell them you have done the deed, just tell them you just have them in case of emergency. They don't wanna be grandparents yet. Feeling certain that is the main concern.
They know they cannot keep you from having sex.
I have this teacher who screams like 30 times a day and scares the heck out of my whole class and were all scaered 2 talk 2 her. I dont know what to do. Also my teacher is so mean! Somtimes i come home with a headache because i try to hold in my tears. Can you give me ome advice to deal with mrs *******
(i want her to remain annonoymas
To ell your parents would be the right thing to do BUT.... I understand why you wouldn't want the teacher to know it was you who complained about her. This is a really tough question that you really are limited who you can go to with this problem. Yikes!
Here is what I would do.... write a letter to the principal and type it don't use your handwriting. Get to the point and tell him or her what you said in your question. In fact you could print what is written here.
This is the safest way. The next best thing is the get a few of the other kids in class to talk to their parents and have the parents go in for a talk to her as a group. That way nobody would be singled out for the teacher to pick on. Good luck finding parents that are able to take off work at the same time though.
Depending on how your parents are and predicting the reaction may be tough but if a letter doesn't work you must have your parents do something. Nobody should be taking problems out on you like that. The teacher has to be confronted by an adult. She/he won't mess with you again if your parents talk to her. In fact that may be the best thing to do first... talk to your parents.
Good luck Dear.
I have a boyfriend of almost four years, who is basically everything that I want in a man. He is mannerly, polite, good in bed (he is the only man who I ever slept with, who was truly able to make me cum – out of three other sexual partners that I had), and loves me, as I love him.
He is the kind of guy, who not only drove all the way out of his way to pick my family for my cousin’s wedding, but helped my mom who was carrying around a cane at the time get around during my cousin’s wedding day. Not only that, but he stayed at my cousin’s wedding until he was told to go home, even though he was really sick.
It’s really little things like that, that tell me how much he loves me. The one time he bought me pads, after he took me out to breakfast, because I had left my card at his house. I was sick over winter break, and I could tell that he was concerned. When I thought that I was pregnant at first, instead of freaking out, he worried that I was just really sick or stressed. It’s like things like that. We have this amazing dynamic and he is the one who I want to spend my life with.
Another thing I look for in a guy is someone who has a successful future ahead of him. Since I am in my twenties this either means someone who is in the service, going to school, or who graduate college, in my opinion. My boyfriend loves numbers and is majoring in accounting, he is graduating in May of this year. The two of us have talked about getting married. We want each other. We need to be in each other’s lives.
I’m serious about this guy enough that I want to marry him. He said that he wants to ask me one day, just not yet. I’ve decided that I’m going to propose to him, with a cheaper ring that I want to get engraved with our names on it. Basically, this will not mean the phases of starting to plan a wedding, but sort of pre-engagement, like we’re entering into a contract that we’re going to get engaged… I guess. I do want the traditional thing where I wear the engagement ring, lol. I know that’s want he wants too.
We have a significant problem – he knows that this is a problem, but for some reason he cannot break it. He doesn’t call me every day. When I try calling him, he never answers. Neither does he text me back right away when I text him. He’s admitted that he’s socially awkward, he really doesn’t have much friends other than on World of Warcraft and on nights that he plays Magic the Gathering, so I don’t know if he just has a really rough time with building relationships, and he’s also admitted that he can be lazy.
He has suggested other ways around this. Promising me that he would get better, and I think that it something that he wants to work on. He even suggested that we try Skyping.
I have talked to other girls in the past about this, and they all say that if their boyfriend did that to them, they would dump him. I have made up my mind that I don’t want to leave him, but I do want this mannerism to change. I know that you can’t change a person but because a behaviorism, I think it’s something that can be trained into him.
He has admitted that he’s socially awkward and I’m the first girl who he’s dated for over a year. He also admits that he can be very lazy. Truthfully, I’m less experienced than he is – he is only my third boyfriend. I’m like his fifth or sixth girlfriend, and, like, the seventh or eighth girl who he’s slept with. Before him I dated a guy for 5 months, and then I also dated another guy for a little over a month.
When we first started dating he would call me every night. Now, his phone calls have turned into less and less. I used to threaten to leave him for this in an attempt to counter this, but he got frustrated with me one day for saying that, he told me, “Never do that again. If you’re going to break up with me then just do it.”
My boyfriend only says things like that when he’s really upset about something, when he’s hurt he masks it by acting really angry, and occasionally mean. When things aren’t as rough, he never acts like that. That’s something I can live with.
That same day his grandmother was starting her chemotherapy, she had just recently been diagnosed with lung cancer a few weeks prior. They had also found out that the cancer had spread through her body. So, really, things were not looking bright at that point.
Now, that it’s getting worse, I really just want to be there for him. Also, I’m so stressed out right now. I haven’t seen him in a while because I was sick over my winter break, and he wanted for me to find out what was wrong with me before I traveled anywhere. He was angry that I chose not to go to the hospital. I had a yeast infection and a bacterial infection. I think that it was the result of a hormonal imbalance, since it seems better after me going on birth control.
This semester is not easy for me, because I decided to take 18 credits, including an independent study and my thesis tutorial. Both of which I have to do a lot of work in. I’m concern that I’m going to get distracted, if I travel down there, so I really need for him to make this effort in order for us to stay together. Granted, spending time together is highly important but communication is even more so.
I travel to see him because I have a bed to sleep in after I get there. I live in my grandmother’s house and she will not let him stay the night. Thus, he would have to spend $45 in tolls to see me for a few hours, and then drive all the way back home. That would be a 2 hour drive on a good day, longer on a bad day. Personally, I don’t mind travelling down there because I love sleeping next to him.
How do I get him to improve on this?
Okay... he sounds like a wonderful person, although I see you are making excuses for him.
You will totally fck up if you start pressuring him, trust me on this. What is the urgency anyway?
When men start to feel pressured into things they will balk. Your attempt to make things better (for you) by asking him to marry you will be the biggest mistake you ever made my Dear. Nothing will push him away faster.
Let him be the man and let him do this at his own pace. Men want to be men, let him do the man thing and ask you to marry him! When he is ready to ask you he will ask you.
You are a smart girl, that is easy to see by the way you wrote your letter. So be smart and back off some, if you want this man to stick around. You sound a bit clingy and I understand that you love him and do not want to lose him. Cornering him and demanding he do anything that he does not want to do is just is not the way to keep him.
Step back and stop thinking about it so much. You are probably wearing yourself out over thinking the situation, and over thinking things is NEVER good.
Ypour friends say they wpould drop him if they were you? Really, over him not calling you everyday? That is insane to put such demands on someone that is not your spouse. They are either full of it by suggestioning you break up or you are not telling the entire story in the letter you submitted. You may be sugar coating things, hmmm?
If he is mean to you or hits you then disreguard everything I said previous because you are looking for love in a man than is only going to cause you hell. I suggest you do not persue someone that is is hateful or beliitles you in anyway.
If he is really as good as you say then think about what I said and chill out some, and please above all else do not >>>DO NOT ask him to marry you! It will not get the results you hope for.
You mentioned that you are aware you cannot change anyone and you are so right! Then you said you could "train" him. Oh my...... stop trying to control this man! He will resent you for it, understandably so. Listen to yourself! You cannot train anyone, how would you feel if someone tried to train you in to do something you were not wanting to do. yet?
Let him do this at his pace. You need to TRAIN yourself on how to be patient.
In my life I have never been what you would call normal. I have social quirks: I don't like looking people in their eyes, I move awkwardly, I take things literally, I talk to myself when I'm alone, I'm overtly sensitive, I don't understand all of the norms well and I perceive things differently. I have my issues, I get angry and I have known to tell or break things and hurt people's feelings. These outbreaks happen once a year. I have been perceived as a monster or a villain. Personally, I'm not innocent but I'm Christian as well and I've worked hard to control myself and not give up. I haven't killed anyone or anything unless you count insects and spiders. I haven't done anything that's taboo or horrible to people but over years I have given up to be normal and be happy. After one incident , in which I was perceived as bizarre and different I have become depressed and hopeless. I have lost a lot of things. I want to meet a psychiatrist but I'm not wealthy and I want it private. Is there anyone who can give me advice
Don't let what other people think of you turn you into that person. You are someone they may not be able to figure out and that is why they call ya strange/different. It is on them not you.
My friend, we all have our quirks but why focus on the negative?
If you do not feel comfortable in your own skin (as they say) then you can look up MHMR and they will get you some help. It will not cost you anything. There is a lot of help out there for free but you will have to do some research on it online to find what ya want.
Don't sweat anyone's opinion of you. Just be you and be happy that you aren't easy to figure out. Who the hell wants to be like everyone else and "blend in" ? Noway, I know that I never want to blend in!
So, I'm a teenager, and my parents seem happy together. They go places together and talk, but... Well, first off, they don't sleep in the same bed. My mom has three dogs who like sleeping with her, so she sleeps on the couch with them. My dad sleeps in the bed alone because the dogs annoy him when they crowd the whole bed. Is this weird? Also, I know this'll sound weird, but they never have sexual intercourse. I know it's none of my business, but I know for a FACT that they haven't done anything of the sort since I was, like, born... I'd know if they did, LOL. Since they're never alone in a room with the doors shut or whatever, and they're just never... Alone. Except for when they talk and are at the store, but I know that my parents aren't intimate. There's honestly no way. Is this weird? I've brought it up a few times jokingly, and my mom says because she's too busy or whatever. It's kinda concerning.
sadly enough it is not that uncommon. Things change after many years together and people just get comfortable. Seems a lot of couples stop trying to do things that would please thier s/o and just get set in thier ways. If the other spouse doesn't raise hell about it then things just start being that way all the time, I suppose.
It is obvious that they do love each other or else they would live apart. It's pretty damn cool that you love them so much be concerned if they have alone time to boom chicka wow wow.
How bout arranging it for them to have the house to themselves to possibly do some things they may have been neglecting for far too long? Not that they would use the alone time for it but hey it is a good idea. You could give them a bed and breakfast getaway for christmas of Mother/ Fathers day. I bet they would do the deed then ; )
My bother moved to Spain with his girlfriend. He lived with her perants. Him & his girlfriend have been kicked out and now have no were to go and can't get back to the uk. Wot can they do or were can they go for help ???
Contact the US Embassy
My father told me that I tripped off his friends because I was able to name over 50 countries at the age of 2 1/2. What does tripped off mean?
It means you totally impressed them with your knowledge! I am impressed too!
At home there is a small drawer with a razor blade that we use to scrape crud of the stove. One day I was getting some dishwasher capsules and I was holding said razor blade. A little later, I saw my dog and he was growling at me and once I put the razor blade back in the drawer, he stopped. Can my dog be telling me something?
Why don't ya ask him? He would know better than anyone else.
Well I am in relationship since 2011..i told him everything about my past life..he never used to pick ph calls in front of me..he didn't even tell me everything about his life..i tell him even about my family problems but he never tells me about his..he hangs around with gis friends but when I go with my friends everytime he creates an issue and spoils my plans..he keeps saying that he is very possessive about me but I don't understand where his possessiveness goes when we quarrel n part..he never calls me to settle up things..he has an ego problem but do I have to say sorry to patch up everytime!!he has a colleague in his office who likes him..hw likes her pics n gives comments on fb..whereas he blocked me on fb..not only that he blocked me from every social media n messengers..when I got to know about that girl I told him to unfriend her...he did unfriend her..but recently he again befriended her on fb n they both like each other's pics..they might chat also..n they talk to other over ph for hours...other staffs in his office even tease them as couple..is he cheating on me?he shows no special interest in me then what's the point to heat on me!!he could easily break it off with me n go in relationship with her..on the very first month of our relation he said it doesn't matter to him if I am in his life or not coz he needs none..he keeps breaking his oath on my life to drink alcohol n instantly makes issues for his alcohol consumption...i knew that he used to drink even before our relation started..all is friends support me..but now he n his mom are accusing me for his addiction..they are saying that I keep hurting him so he drinks..sometimes I wonder does he really love me?
Oh yes, he is for sure cheating on you! Everytime you break up he doesn't try to get back with you because he knows you will come to him and say you are sorry. Plus when you break up that gives him free time without restrictions.
You already know that this man is not relationship ready. I know it hurts but for your own best interest you really need to get away from him. He will suck all the confidence you have right out of you.
If it is going to eat at you wondering what he is doing when he is not around then it isn't worth the ulcer. You will lose site of yourself and your own goals if you are always wondering who he is with or what he is doing.
His Mom will most likely blame anyone else BUT her son for his problems so do not take what she says personal.
Run fast and hard in the opposite direction or later you will regret the time you wasted on the egotistical man.
I have lied to my boyfriend his car handle fell off so I try to fix it with some super glue he came to my house that evening and asked me if I tried to fix his hand on his car with super glue and I stood in front of him face to face and I said no so he said well I'm going to call my son and see if he done it so you got a hold of his son and his son said no I didn't do it look at the cameras that you have at your house and it will tell who did it. So the next day when he left for work I text him that I did ithe forgive me for that stupid lie but he still broke up with me because I did it face to face if you truly love somebody you shouldn't have to lie to him you should tell them the truth what should I do I asked him for a second chance but he's not listening or even talking to me
The guy sounds like a real dic#head.
I am not sure why you want someone that you have to walk on egg shells around.
Friend, if that is all it takes for him to break up with you I promise you the lie you told is not the real reason he is breaking up.
Something tells me that this man may be seeing someone else. When someone is picking at everything ya do or making mountains out of mole hills then that person is up to something, but they will blame you. I Hope I am wrong but I'm not.
A lie is in fact a true insult to the other person in the relationship. You were trying to fix something , it's not like you cheated. It is true though that if you cannot believe what your s/o tells you then it's best to cut your ties because it is a good indication more lies will follow.
People in love do not kick each other to the curb for something so small.
If you want him back (no idea why ya would)give him some space. If you act desperate /needy it will run him off faster than the lie ya told. So chill and wait. You already said you were sorry so do not say it again. Go on with life and be happy or fake it cause then he may return. They can't stand it if you recover quick and appear happy. In the meantime you may realize you are happier without Captain Paranoid.
I recently started talking to my best friend again and I have been avoiding her. I have been scared to talk to her because we had a big fight over something ridiculous and I did not want to get into another one over the same topic. I felt comfortable with her the other day when I saw her and I felt happy again, just by seeing/talking to her even for a few minutes. But I was really mad at her for no reason during that same week. I really don't want my negativity to rub off on her and I don't want to get mad at her and then flat out take it out on her. I feel as if it's my impulse control disorder that makes me feel anger towards others and it prompts me to be mean to others (verbally,emotionally or mentally). I just want to be a good best friend for her. I want to be nice to her because she means the world to me. I want to let her know I care about her, even if she doesn't think so, but I really do. If anyone has advice on how to avoid taking out my anger on her, please, I would love to hear it! :) thank you!
If you want to b a good best friend then talk to her. Pull her aside and say we need to talk . If the talk resolves things like it should then you are set. If it brings on more anger and resentment then there is an underlying problem that has no be brought up.
Handle it like you would want someone to handle it if the situation were reversed.
Okay, this question is for guys only..
I'm 13/f and I am thinking about getting my lip pierced. This may sound dumb but guys do you think having a lip ring is a turn-on or a turn-off? Would you want to kiss a girl if her lip is pierced?? I rate high. Thanks a million!
You will meet, date, and kick to the curb many men. When all is said and done it is you are the one who likes it or not.
You are the one who will see it the most. If one guy doesn't care for it another will be sure to love it.
The best advice I could give you would be to not worry about what anyone else thinks. Do what makes YOU happy. Living or looking a certain way to suit someone else is weak.
Be you and be bold.
Can you give me edvice on how to tease a guy?
The advice best suited for the question would be... don't tease them at all.
There is innocent flirting and then there is being a "tease".
Not cool at all to tease. It could get you in a dangerous situation, be very careful. Males do not take to teasing well unless you have every intent on following through.
A tease is not something anyone wants to be known for either.
Good luck :)
ok here is my big Q school is starting and I don't know what to wear because I don't want to look redickulus please help
thank for the advice last time
Wear the bright Green colored top, or one that is similar in color. My personal favorite.
That color really looks pretty on you!
Then again there isn't a color that looks bad on you.
Remember pretty is as pretty does. You are pretty inside (huge heart!) and outside.
So... don't sweat that first day of school yet.
It is Summertime.. enjoy!
i don't understand how people could be anti-gay!! they are born like that..they can't help it! some people think that they choose that, but why the heck would anybody choose to be gay when they are all so discriminated against! in fact, why shouldn't they be allowed to make that choice! the constitution says that it's a free country, oh no but not for gays! and that goes the same for racists, sexists, etc... why can't we just let gays marry! they love each other, and you are keeping them away! just because they are different and might freak you out doesn't mean they have no feelings!! i'm not gay but i just can't believe this!! my friend was recently killed by an anti-gay group because she was lesbian!! oh my god can somebody PLEASE tell me why people are like this!!!???
People are just stupid and ignorant.
The topic of gays is something most straight people do not understand. The thing that makes people lash out is because I personally think they are afraid of the topic, or just homophobic.
I am also hetro, straight up girl. Never gonna change my preference for men only.
Like you I have friends that are gay. People would never choose to go against the entire world intentionally. I agree it is from birth that the genes, dna, whatever it is it has been selected by someone up in the sky. Who really has the right to question him? Not me.
Push up on the question. Well worded!