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"The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right".-Hannah Whitall Smith

The reason that I am on here to help people is this is what I want to do with the rest of my life and I feel like I give good advice. Im trying to help people from my own experience from the life I've had so far. I hope I help everyone I write to.

If for any reason anyone needs to ask a question in confidence you can email me at Xxpinkslipxx95@aol.com or at s0cialitex3lifee@aim.com and that question and my answer will never be posted anywhere. You have my word

World, im listening... and I want to help!

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waht if a guy finger bangs you, in which hole? and what if its the wrong one???

Well usually it'ss your vag hole. Bur don't worry because no guy will ever get the wrong hole

14/f
i really want to start wearing tampons,
and ive tried, but i just cant do it!
its scary, and what if i get it in the wrong hole.. can someone PLEASE explain everything step by step and how to do it and how to know its going in the right hole(becuase you cant really look down there).

It's really simple trust me all you have to do is as followed:

1. Take the tampon out

2. Put it in the hole. (Trust me you will know if it is the right hole because it is smack in the middle).

3. Go enjoy wearing a tampon

Relax it's very simple

Heyy umm I was reading your column and you have good advice about boyfriends. So here it is:
There have been rumors about my boyfriend how he is cheating on me. I don't know if they are true but lately my boyfriend hasn't been spending that much time wiht me? What do you think? Sould I confront him?

Ok the only thing that you can do is confront your boyfriend and ask him if it is true. As for why he hasn't been spending much time with you i can't answer that because i don't want to put something in your head. Just talk to your boyfriend and get everythign straightend out.

i have a pair of plain white nike trainers, and want to personalise them, with permanent marker or something. Any tips?

It's actually hard to say it epends on what type of marker you use really. Even though I am not sure I would say permanet marker but just to make sure ask the store you got them from or the company that mades them.

I got training next Saturday at coles (it's like Walmart & Target,i was just wondering do we get payed for training ?

Uhh yes I do believe so but just to make sure you will have to ask the manager. But when I had training at WALMART i got paid just not like I am now (because it is just training you don't get paid as much as a working person not on training.)

ok my birthday is in 2 days and i am really excited about it. So tonight my 2 friends and i are hanging out. they said it will be a little party.just a little get together. but i was telling my one friend H that i was going to wear a pin that said birthday girl on it just to be cute. and she said that would be bragging. i said no it won't because everyone has a birthday and i am happy about mine. and my other friend S had a crown on when it was her birthday and it was 1 day before. and H didn't get mad at that.now she is mad at me and i don't want to go now. Do you really think i was bragging? and how can i tell her that it is not bragging? i need help and fast!

ok here is what i think:

you weren't bragging not at all. however people see things different then how other people see them. just tell your friend that it's your birthday and you want to tell anyone anyway you want. also if your friend still thinks you were bragging then tell her about s and the crown and how she didn't say she was bragging.

I can guarante you it will work.

HAPPY ALMOST BIRTHDAY AND HAVE FUN!!!!

i started talking to this guy online about 2 years ago. then i stopped and blocked him, because i didnt think it was right, and now im talking to him again. i just blocked him because i didnt think it was right for me to be lying to this guy, not because he was rude or anything like that. he thinks i'm older than i really am and i orginally sent him a picture of not me, but a different girl because i didnt think i would still be talking to him. so i feel bad and like its wrong that im talking to an older guy and lying to him about my age and appearance. and i know this must sound crazy, but he's seriously amazing, like i've never talked to anyone like him before. and yes i know that he could be a petophile, but i am careful and dont give out any personal info. he wants to talk on the phone but im not going to since i think he would be able to tell that i was younger than he thinks i am, plus i dont want him to keep calling me and dont want to give out my number. and we really dont cyber(online sex) like in a way we do but its not like the usual chat room talk you would think. so anyone please give me your advice/comments? i would like to know what you think. thanks

My dear friend,
Don't feel bad I understand 100% where yuo are coming from. To make you feel more secure here is what you can do tell him you lied to him because you felt that if you told him your real age he wouldn't like you. I had a problem like this before where I said I was 16 when I was really 13 when I found out that he went to my school he wanted to meet with me. I knew he went to my school because he was on the football team. Anyway I didn't tell him I lied till I saw him face to face. He understood, infact me and him are still dating today.

Good Luck!!!
Be yourself

i have a friend shes my mate of 7 yrs online pals then we meet face to face 4 yrs ago our familys meet i just want to know i thought friendship was a 2 way thing were u could say we once were like sisters then in the last 2 yrs shes changed and its allways me ringing to check on her n her family and then she always has excuses when i ring there it hurts like hell as she is the only friend i "trusted" and now i feli like im a used rag can anyone understand and help me do i just let friendship go as i cant handle the hurt its like i get kicked in face all time now please can someone help with advice for me im glosing it and i cant stop crying as it hurts me s much

Almost the same thing happend to tme you see all you have to do is be honest with your friend ask her why she is acting this way. Tell her how you feel and that you are hurting inside. If she stillis going to treat you like a used rag then she is not a true friends so I would say yes get rid of he rif she is not going to treat you like you treat her.

I a hair gel that's a strong as it gets, does any one know where I could find it?

Pomade.

Can you tease your hair if you don't have short hair and extensions. And how do you, i've watched some videos on youtube but they freeze up too much. kthanx

What you'll need is some hairspray, a brush/comb, and a flat iron.

1. Flat iron your hair so it's nice and straight all over. Unless of course, you don't want a straight tease :]

2. brush the top section [top layer of hair, usually right above ear] into a small ponytail. take the under-layer and, section by section, back comb it [When you brush your hair up instead of down]. When you finish back combing a section, hold it straight out from your head and hairspray. Continue untill the entire bottome layer is kindof "sticking out".

3. take your brush and GENTLY and SWIFTLY brush the outside if your teased sections, so they are still tease but it has a straight section on top of it.

4. take your hair down and add volumizing spray/wax to the top of your hair.

this one goes out to the girls out there!
so im a male. 17.
im not going to get into the story behind this but basically i had a disease, couldnt kiss the girl i love, disease is gone after a year, i can touch her, and i want our first kiss to be special

so you know how in no reservations the movie shes blind folded and hes feeding her things and then he kisses her? at least i think its that movie.
i want something awesome like that.
i really need ideas here
i dont care if its staged
i want to plan it before hand

and dont give me anything like itll be special regardless...you cant plan it...thats not the answer i want. i want it to be memorable.

so girls. whats your kissing fantasy???

My kissing fanatsy actually happend and here it is:
My boyfriend told he wanted to take me out. He also told me that I had to dress sorta fancy so I wore a shirt with a nice blouse.(You can tell your girlfriend the same thing). He then picked me up at my house and headed over to a semi-expensive restraunt. He pulled my chair our and let me sit. He told me to order anything I wanted. At the end he told me he had one more suprise he blind folded me and put me is his car and drove somewhere. When we were there he un-blind folded me. When he did I realized we were ina beautiful park and he had a table set up, with a thing of flowers on it. We sat down and he kissed me. Ever since then we have been in an exclusive relationship and are very serious about eachother and I will never forget that day.

Good Luck!!!!! : )

My throat has been swollen for like 3 weeks at first it hurt and was swollen then it stoped hurting but stayed swollen then a few weeks later it started hurting again and got a little swollener then it stopped hurting again the whole back or my throat and my tonsils are swollen is it possible i have an STD

Don't worry I highly doubt it. But it does sound more like mono.

sometimes i play with myself too much and my clitoris hurts and is raw sometimes, is that normal?

Don't that same thing happend to me you just need to be more wet.

hi! has anyone here seen the step up 2 movie?
the dancing at the end was amazing. i really want to learn how to dance like that, especially that part at the end, where the girl is like, idk how to say this but i guess... breathing? it was really awesome. any suggestions? thnx so much!

You can try by going to a dance studio look around for any GOOD dance studios or aske your friends if they dance. Sure enough you learn exactly how to dance like that.

if i have cervical cancer, and get remove and curable, it that mean i can't get pregant?

It depends on your situation. Sorry I can't help you there onlyy your doctor can tell you that. Go to a doctor he will definitly have an answer for you.

I want to talk to guys my age (14) and be like dirty talk, because i cant get a bf and i get horney sometimes, but i dont want to show my pic. Any websites or things? Thanks.

Heck yeah infact you can go to www.meez.com set up a profile where you make a doll. ANd they have chatrooms there and you will definetly meet a guy.

Good Luck!

i have these pills and i had them in a little bag to carry in my purse.. the bag got a little damp and got the pills wet.. on one side they are puffy.. but not broken.. its still attached.. are they still ok??? haha i feel like a loser.. just double checking.. thanks!

It's hard to tell but just to be on the safe side don't take them get rid of them and get new ones.

In french class i accidently asked the teacher (in french) if i could drink the toilet when i should have asked if i could go to the washroom and now im SO embarrassed! Everytime i think about it, i really wanan kill myself from the embarrassment. Is there anything i could do that will help me forget about it?

Don't feel bad at all. I am also going to tell you a story:

I took Italian and in plain english I sucked! ANd my teacher had this rule where if you had to ask her something it had to be in Italian. So when I had to go to the bathroom I raised my hand I said to her that I peed in my pants. I wa sembarrased at the beginning but I got over and so did everyone else. I laugh abot it today,.

P.S. that was 3 months ago I got over two weeks after it happend. So don't worry people make mistakes. Especially in foreign languages. So don't sweat it. Rel;ax take your mind off of it and just laugh about it.

I'm 17 and she's 15. We have thought about sex but havent really decided on anything yet. I live in Utah and i was wondering if there were any age differences or limits that might make this illegal for us. I tried to look at Utah law stuff but it all just seems too confusing and shady. So somebody please clear it up for me. Would it be legal if we decided to have sex? if not, why not?

Sorry to tell you this but in Utah the girl has to be 16 and the guy has to be 18. Don't worry it's just one more year

hi,
I was wanting to know if you get more points for a pike or herky in cheer tryouts. please help. my pike is pretty good, I can improve it before tryouts. My right herky is really good. Right now I am planning on doing a toe touch double whip into a right herky. If I can get more points for a pike i would do a double toe touch pike. Please help.................

Pikes are definetly worth more. Good Luck!!!

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