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i need advice
i have a friend shes my mate of 7 yrs online pals then we meet face to face 4 yrs ago our familys meet i just want to know i thought friendship was a 2 way thing were u could say we once were like sisters then in the last 2 yrs shes changed and its allways me ringing to check on her n her family and then she always has excuses when i ring there it hurts like hell as she is the only friend i "trusted" and now i feli like im a used rag can anyone understand and help me do i just let friendship go as i cant handle the hurt its like i get kicked in face all time now please can someone help with advice for me im glosing it and i cant stop crying as it hurts me s much
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You should find out what the problem is. Just ask her straight up why she doesn't call you as often as she used to. Be specific. You can even ask her if she still wants to be friends at all. If she seems uninterested, or like it isn't a big deal to her, then she probably isn't as into the friendship as she was before. If it hurts more being friends with her than not being friends at all, I suggest you move on. If you want, you can tell her that you tried being her friend but she doesn't seem to be returning the favor, so you won't try anymore. Hopefully she'll be honest and tell you whats up. Good luck
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Almost the same thing happend to tme you see all you have to do is be honest with your friend ask her why she is acting this way. Tell her how you feel and that you are hurting inside. If she stillis going to treat you like a used rag then she is not a true friends so I would say yes get rid of he rif she is not going to treat you like you treat her.
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