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online talk
i started talking to this guy online about 2 years ago. then i stopped and blocked him, because i didnt think it was right, and now im talking to him again. i just blocked him because i didnt think it was right for me to be lying to this guy, not because he was rude or anything like that. he thinks i'm older than i really am and i orginally sent him a picture of not me, but a different girl because i didnt think i would still be talking to him. so i feel bad and like its wrong that im talking to an older guy and lying to him about my age and appearance. and i know this must sound crazy, but he's seriously amazing, like i've never talked to anyone like him before. and yes i know that he could be a petophile, but i am careful and dont give out any personal info. he wants to talk on the phone but im not going to since i think he would be able to tell that i was younger than he thinks i am, plus i dont want him to keep calling me and dont want to give out my number. and we really dont cyber(online sex) like in a way we do but its not like the usual chat room talk you would think. so anyone please give me your advice/comments? i would like to know what you think. thanks <3
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I you don't want to talk to him on the phone, you are probably best to stop talking to him all togeather.
You have a choice to make: Either fess up and tell him the truth about your age or block and delete him permenantly and promise not to do this anymore.
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If you really like the guy you need
to tell him the truth. Look at it this
way. You will never have a relationship
with the guy the way things are now anyway.
If he gets mad and stops talking to you,
it is just something that would eventually
happen anyway.
Its not a good idea to do to much lying.
You have the option of just not saying
how old you are. Use a screen name and
don't give out your real one. Lying if
you are under age and he is not could
get him thrown in jail for "kinda"
cybering with a minor. And it wouldn't
even be HIS fault.
Come clean or block him and move on.
Only you know the right thing to do here.
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My dear friend,
Don't feel bad I understand 100% where yuo are coming from. To make you feel more secure here is what you can do tell him you lied to him because you felt that if you told him your real age he wouldn't like you. I had a problem like this before where I said I was 16 when I was really 13 when I found out that he went to my school he wanted to meet with me. I knew he went to my school because he was on the football team. Anyway I didn't tell him I lied till I saw him face to face. He understood, infact me and him are still dating today.
Good Luck!!!
Be yourself
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