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I have a large mole which is larger than any other on my body. It is located near the vagina just above my thigh. It is oval shape and sticks out the skin. I am worried this is cancerous. But i've had it for years. I'm just not sure if it has grown in size.
Is it canerous? or am I worrying over nothing? (link)
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It could be either. I also had a mole just above my groin area and I went to the dermatologist to get it examined and turns out she wanted to removed, just in case. It turned out not to be cancerous, but it gave me piece of mind anyways, and the scar is minimal. Plus, the procedure didn't hurt one bit! So, if it's something that worries you I would discuss options with your local dermatologist just in case.
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okay well i know that when guys get their cartalige pierced, that one side means they're gay and another side means their straight. well i have 2 questions::
1. which is which?
and 2. does it matter for girls and what side is the 'right" side because i just got my cartalige pierced adn the lady made me pick my own side because she said that it didnt matter..soo yeah 5's for anything that helps. thanks. (link)
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In our town, its the right side thats considered gay, for everyone. Girls get the left side pierced.
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rite.. me and my bf had sex last sat.. we did not use a condom [stupidly].. it only lasted 5 mins. but we did it about 3 times & we was playing with eachother in between... he was not properly hard! when we had sex.. and i was wet so i duno wether he pre-cumd but he did not cum inside me.. can i be preg??? .. im 14. and im so scared..
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You could be. But its too late to get emergency contraception so you will just have to wait and see if you get your period. But DONT STRESS because your period WILL be later that way. If you don't get it wait like 5 days then get a pregnancy test.
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My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him. I don't think I'm ready... see he's not pressuring me, but he wants me to... I can tell. It's gunna be my first time (if i do do it) could anyone give me any tips (gross i know, sorry) on what to do?
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Alright everyone here has given good advice. I just want to say two things:
Do not do it if you are not ready because you will regret it and it's not something you can take back.
Don't use the condoms at Planned Parenthood I have talked to many girls who say they have broken numerous times.
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I just got a job as a Hostess at my Aunts Restaurant and I was just curious as to what exactly I would do. Do I greet people? I'm a really friendly person, I just don't know what to say.. I'm sure my Aunt will tell me, but I don't want to say the same thing, all the time, to everyone, I'd like to change it up a bit. (link)
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I hostess at a family pizza restaraunt in my town and what you do is gather up the number of menus corrosponding to the number of people that are in the party.
Always ask how many people they have because some of them will have people on the way. Then, ask them smoking or non-smoking. Then go to seat them, but make sure to say (with a smile!) follow me, because some people wait for that as their cue to go to their seat.
As they are getting seated in their booth you may ask them how they are doing this afternoon/evening/morning. But make sure you wait until they are seated until you lay their menus out in front of them.
Then inform them that their server will be right with them, and leave them with a smile. If you want to be different, you could ask how they are, if they liked the weather, or reference to something going on in your town. But keep it short and to the point because there could be people waiting and you don't want to seem intrusive.
Any questions drop one in my inbox hope I helped!!
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Well, OK, I asked a question a while back about selling my house. The subject was "Real Estate Woes." I didn't get any answers, so, I thought maybe I should try & rephrase it. Can anyone give me any advice about selling a house? Like, would it be better to go through an agent or sell it by owner? Also, we still owe a good but, so, is it even possable to sell? We REALLY need out of the payments. Thanks for any help. (link)
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My mom is a realtor and I have heard her say many, many times that it's sooo much easier to sell if you have an agent, because just think, they know exactly what to do. They know where to place the ads and how to phrase them.
But do not go to one of the agencies that promises to sell your home for a flat fee because you WILL get ripped off.
Any more questions just send one to my Inbox!!
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Well I mean technically you could I guess, I just wouldn't go with Assist 2 Sell because they rip you off.
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Hey Christeena I have this problem that while me and my boyfriend are having sex he cant seem to cum...What should I do to make him come faster?
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Hmmm, it could be that he is just one of the guys that takes awhile for him to orgasm. If it's your guy's first time, or first few times, it's going to take awhile until you guys figure out what works for you. Have fun and experiment, because although it is frusterating for him that he can't come, and for you too, it just gives you more time to experiment! (Because there is a thing as cumming to quickly.) So just ask him what he likes and sort of experiment until you find something that works.
COMMON PROBLEMS ---
Girl isn't wet enough --- Try some lubrication, preferably warming for a new sensation.
Nervousness --- It just takes time...
Not excited enough --- Try more foreplay time to get him more stimulated.
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A lot of people seam to think its gross if you don't shave "down there", I mean should I????? does everyone? lol and is it a turn off if you dont?
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I think most guys would rather not have a bush down there, so trimming it would at least help out that part. Personally, I shaved it like my boyfriend wanted it because I hated having hair down there. Now mine is what some would call a "landing strip" which is a trail of hair. It's nice and trimmed. Hey, my boyfriend likes it, and so do I! I suggest going with what your comfortable with, that's the only thing that matters!
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Hi, i weight 116.5 pounds and im 5'6. my age is 14. i have a 8% body fat percentage rate. i run and workout every other day, and i play baseball. i think im fat, i dont no why, it takes over my life! please help me. do u think im fat? (link)
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You're not fat, trust me. If anything you might be a little bit underweight, or close to it. You shouldn't think you are fat because it will just lead to an eating disorder which is never good.
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Do guys like it better if you wear lipgloss when you kiss/makeout with them? I"ll rate i promise!! (link)
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I wouldn't really wear anything when kissing or making out because it tends to get messy and I'm sure your guy doesn't want his lips to be cherry red! Lol, anyways, sometimes even chapstick can be messy, my boyfriend has complained about it a few times. So I say put on some chapstick beforehand and let it soak in so your lips are kissably soft for the occasion! ;)
Hope I helped and have fun!
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So, last night (Around 1:30 in the morning?) my boyfriend and I had sex and whatnot. We used a condom and all, but it ripped. I don't know if he realized it at first, so I don't know if he got his sperm inside of me or not, but I'm reallllly paranoid. We've had sex a few times before without a condom but he swears he pulled out before anything happened. I have no idea what to do, I'm really scared. Should I go get an ECP? I'm not sure when I was supposed to get my period but I was expecting it sometime this weekend/week. Any advice you can give me us greatly appreciated.. Please help? :/.. (link)
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I would get the ECP just to be safe and also a pregnancy test afterwards if you do not get your period by next weekend. And I would keep track of your period in the future so you know when to expect it and can avoid unnessecary worry.
Good luck, hope I helped!!
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whats wrong with me i like my best friend boy friend and i know thats wrong and i dont want to hurt her but i really like him and i think he likes me too im scared to tell her how i feel and im scared to tell him. i know she is going to cry. (link)
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No. Your crossing the line totally. You will lose your friend even if things between you and her boyfriend don't work out. I have been stabbed in the back exactly like this and it ends in hell. DONT'T DO IT. Find someone else.
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Okay, once I was looking at some questions, and I came across this girl who had this problem. Though after she was done explaining her problem she gave a list of ways that she would like the question to be answered. The most non secencial one was when she said, "For all you people who TlaK lyk DIs" Don't bother answering. That just pissed me off because if you REALLY need help, then you wouldn't care how people answered your question, as long as it gets answered in the first place. My question is: If people list ways to answer their question, then how are we suppose to answer it honestlly if we can't fully express our feelings due to their moranic limitations? (link)
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Well, if you wanna T@lk LYk D*z and someone says don't, I guess you saved time by not having to answer a question.
C'mon people. It's common courtesy to type correctly and so people can actually comprehend it. If you don't like that rule, don't answer the question. It's that simple.
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ok you are supposed to start the sunday when you get your period right? that is what the planned parenthood lady told me but are supposed to start when you first get your period or when it ends? thanks. (link)
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Hey, I just recently started mine and I am on the Sunday start just as you (I got mine from Planned Parenthood also!)
Let's say you get your period on a Friday. Start taking the pills Sunday. What about if you start on a Saturday? Start taking them on Sunday. What if you start on Sunday? Start them Sunday. I think you get the point, lol. You start them on Sunday regardless of whether you are still bleeding or not, 'kay?
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Okay i just took a pregnancy test..And i cant till if it is positive or negative... There is a very very dark blue line across where it would say negative and a line that is barly barly even there ( it kinda looks like it was already there but i cant tell) Has anyone had this happen before? (link)
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I've taken one before that says even the faintest plus sign means you are pregnant...so I'm sorry, but you likely are. Take another one just to be sure though.
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Ok, so I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have together for a good solid 7 months. We're sexually active, but trust me when I say that our relationship is about more than just sex. We respect eachother and this is the first relationship I've had that really means something to me. I'm not positive if I'm 'in love' but it sure comes close.
So, we've had sex maybe 8 or 10 times since we lost our virginity to each other a couple months ago. At first, I was totally "I'm ALWAYS going to use protection!" but we've gone a few times without (but we've made SURE to pull out). I know that that there are still SO many risks but I thought we were being careful. Well the more I've been thinking about it (and it's been increasing lately) the more I think I might be pregnant! The thought alone totally freaks me out!! I'm adopted and my birthmother had her first child at age 13 and me at 15 and I've always promised to myself not to follow in her footsteps. I've been researching everything online and I havn't had any of the 'earliest signs of pregnancy' EXCEPT for my missed period which was supposed to come yesterday but I've had missed/late periods before. Apart from that I havn't been bloated or tender anywhere and I don't know if it's just paranoia, but my stomache's been looking a little "poochy" lately. The last time we had unprotected sex was maybe 2-3 weeks ago but again, he pulled out wayy before he came.
I'M FREAKING OUT, PLEASE HELP!!
-kbabe (link)
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I know what you mean about using protection. I had always promised myself I would but now we use the pull out method too (I'm now vstarting birth control though, I started taking the Pill Sunday.)
Anyways, like you, I have had scares before about being pregnant. Almost every month actually. This month I was four days late and last month it was five. And like you, I thought my stomach was bloated too. But that can be because right before your period you retain water which can make you look "poochy."
Honestly, I don't think your pregnant. Have you been stressed lately? Eating poorly? Those could all be reasons that you may be late, other than just being a normal teenager. If it doesn't come in a week I would suggest getting a test but I think as long as you stop worrying about it (which is hard, I know!!) you will start soon. Anyways, hope I helped and send one to my Inbox if you have any more questions I'd be happy to answer them!
♥ Christina
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Last night I was at a party and I smoked skunk 1 (its supposed to be the best weed ever) well it was my first time smoking (that type of weed) and it had a BIG effect on me but NOT in a good way!
I literally thought I was going deaf (I heard a ringing in my ear and it got louder and louder) and then we went outside and I couldn't see anything, like I was losing my eyesight. My friends and I were so scared (but then 2 seconds later they forgot about it) but it lasted for 4 hours!! So does anybody know why this would happen to me?
Has this happened to anybody else and should I not smoke this kind of weed anymore?
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Chances are the weed was laced with some kind of substances and that's why it was having those effects. Weed is not supposed to do that to you at all.
So stop thinking your so fucking cool and smoking weed. It's stupid.
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could someone please tell me if this is a song or a quote..i seen it on someone's away..
That I love you
I have loved you all along
And I miss you
Been far away for far too long
I keep dreaming you'll be with me
and you'll never go
Stop breathing if
I don't see you anymore
I wanted
I wanted you to stay
'Cause I needed
I need to hear you say
That I love you
I have loved you all along
And I forgive you
For being away for far too long
So keep breathing
'Cause I'm not leaving you anymore
Believe it
Hold on to me and, never let me go
Keep breathing
'Cause I'm not leaving you anymore
Believe it
Hold on to me and, never let me go
Keep breathing
Hold on to me and, never let me go
Keep breathing
Hold on to me and, never let me go
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It's a song (a really good one at that!) It's called Far Away by Nickelback.
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ever since a few weeks ago i get raped (daily) in school. It all stared when i started going to after school tutoring and these guys would be there and when i would go to my locker after tutoring was over they would force me into the boys restroom . Then they all take turns on me doing what ever they wanted and i can't stop them. there is about six of these guys.They would make me do things to them and myself i would never do.Oh, i forgot to tell you that a teacher walked in and saw them and he joined right in. Now if i tell the principle he won't beleive me cause this teacher and him are very good friends.I don't know who i can talk to.They hurt my body once and made me bleed but that didn't stop them. I need help, is this okay, is it rape, if so what should i do, who should i go to. Please Respond!!! i am only 13 (link)
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No, this is not okay. At all. Yes, it is rape. What do you need to do? Tell your RIGHT AWAY.
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hey everyone! :]
Im 14 years old and i wiegh 117 pounds : /
im not really fat but i have HUGE love handles how do i get rid of them and how long do u think it will take.
Ill rate 5's for anything!
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I read online that doing a variation of the sit up targets your side abs and love handles.
Instead of doing regular sit ups, get in the sit up position and then turn over on your side, keeping in the same position. Do your normal situps, twisting to the ceiling. Do some reps then turn over on other side and repeat.
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