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Q: Heyy everyone!

This is Lauren. I asked a few questions a while back. The most recent(besides this one) was about books. I didnt exactly get as many reponses as I was looking for. I took some of the advice. I took Shattering Glass, Cut, and A Child Called It from the library and read them. Does anyone know any other good books that deal with relashionships, dealing with abuse or rape, or any other REALLY dramatic books? I also LOVE a good mystery!

Thanks a Ton!
Lauren =)
a bend in the road is a wonderful book by nicholas sparks it involves mystery a love story and a relationsho[! check it out
there is always gossip girls and a-list novels but those arte more lyfstyle of thr rich and famous!

Q: I live in Florida. 14/f. Anyway, we have company in town from Ohio. A little girl who is six years old and a little boy who is almost two years old. What would be some things that we could do Tomorrow with either just the six year old or both the six year old and her brother? The mother would be coming too but we can't think of anything to do.

♥ haleigh
maybe go see a movie there look like there are some good ones out

Q: ok well i always feel like i'm getting fat in my legs and i know i'm not but i feel it and the only work-out that i get is from cheerleading and besides that i'm eating like crazyy well not fruit i should say and i always think about going anerxioc and i even try but then i feel sick and about to throw up and so do you have any tips to get me motivated to work out and stop eating junk food and start eating healthy...or any like sites to help me loose weight or at least become skinny b/c all my friends are like really tiny or at least l0 pounds lighter and everytime we liek do piggy back rides or something i'm never the one being picked up b/c i weigh 90 pounds and i just feel like i need to lock myself up someplace and not eat...i'll rate 5's for any answer!! please help me b/c i'm going to start to not eat so help me quick!! please
90 lbs?? girls would kill to be 90 punds this is what i would reccomend lay off the snacking and teh sodas and sweet and try the fruit apporach...make sure you eat all three meals because each meal is very important because your body is growing
for breakfast: stay away from like poptarts and sugary items try a bowl of cereal or like a piece of fruit stay away from alot of bread(pancakes waffles and so on) drink water or a type of juice apple or orange

for lunch; try a sandwhich stay away from fried food for lunch try either like pasta(carbohydrates) or wraps(totilla with like lettuce tomamato chargrilled chicken) are good or try a salad with a low fat dressing they make like low fat honey mustard stick with water for lunch a gatorade is not bad either for a little energy aviod sodas at first it will be kinda tough and you may get headaches but stick to it...the less sodas you drink you will feel good and better about yourself

try to minimize snacking between lunch a dinner

for dinner try to avoid fried food as much as possible grilled chicken or steak is good alogn again with pasta or sometimes an all veg. diiner is good corn is not bad with like mash potatoes and like boiled shrimp

the anorexic route is not the way to go it is very dangerous and you can die from it...it is a seriosu issue one that you should not be considering talk to your mom or doctor also about how to lose weight...also exercising regularly is a good thing...right now it may not seem like it is paying off but in the long run it will!! maybe take yoga or something at your local fitness center but talk to your doctor because he will tell you what your weight needs to be and if your right on track(which you probably are)
and dont stop eating either just eat healthy!
good luck



Q: there is this girl that acts like she likes me and askes me over to her house all the time. anyway when ppl make fun of me she will laugh right along with them. Is she a true friend?
no... she is just insecure and trying to fit in

Q: I need ideas 4 my girlfriend for X-mas...any suggestions...plz?
hollister perfume
jewelry from like james avery
gift certificates to any where ae, hollister

Q: How/where can you get myspace layouts or even just background colors and all that?
whateverlife.com

Q: Hi i asked my friend to have a sleepover and she isn't answering me. I dont know what time to cll her or anything. She lives kinda far (Attleboro) from where i live. Is there anyway that i could get ahold of her without calling? And she is not on so i cant IM her. The only reason im not asking for calling is becaz i have called her so many times and its proably annoying. I rate high (5's)

Thank you

From,
This or that
text messaging mayb if she has a cell?

Q: what types of precautions should a person take before taking part in sexual activities if they have never had sex before?
i would reccomend absitnence. not doing it out of marriage that is your best bet of not having a child or std

Q: i am going to the movies on a double date next saturday and i was wondering what movie we should see. We want it to be romantic and not scary enough to give you nightmares but scary enough to coudle up with your boyfriend? ALso it has to be long because i never see my bf so i want it to be a long movie where i get to spend time w/ him. I rate P.S if it helps we are going to rockville cinemas 13 in rockville
i know your looking for a kind of scary movie but pride and predjuice came out and i would also reccomend rent...there arnt really alot of scary movies out but those are what i would see

Q: ok i have hair thats brown and its come down about an inch below my shoulders and on the left side i have bangs that go down to my ears but i really want a new hair style. but i don't know what. is there any cute hair styles yall know of or anything. Thx in advance.

CassieLynn*
i would reccomend layers and adding texture to your hair maybe get your bangs cut to where they are eye level i think you wil like thme more

Q: I see girls around my school that have really cute school bags. Alot of people have a silver bag with sequin straps. I LOVE that bag! Does anyone know where they sell them/or any really cute school bags? Thanks so much!
try old navy
the little carts in the mall
any purse/bag retail store
sammoon.com they have really cute suff and it is really cheap

Q: why do you think religion is important?
i thinkn religion is important becasue it gives you a sense of securitity.....a friend once tole me i'd rathe die believing in something then nothing at all. religion gives you an outline for a way of life give you morals and adds value to your life!

Q: does anyone know any really cute friendship quotes? im trying to find some for christmas cards im making for my friends. i dont really want corny ones but any you can give would be great thanks!
Best Friends is a promise... not a label.



There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother Proverbs 18:24

a best friends makes your problems her problems

best friends are the sisters God forgot to give us

"Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget." -G. Randolf

"True friends are the people that are there for you unconditionally. They are the people that never question you and support you no matter what the circumstances are. They are the people worth living for." -unknown

“A real friend is someone who you can sit in complete silence with and still walk away feeling like you just had the best conversation of your life.”
**"A friend is someone who can see the truth and pain in you even when you are fooling everyone else."—Unknown



"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." --Walter Winchell

"The road to a friend's house is never long." -Danish proverb

Q: does anybody know the shirt where it says hugs not drugs, and its blue ? where can i find this shirt cause i really want ittt
try urban outfittters

Q: Hey.
Im pretty slim. 5'3 93 ibs. Like im very petite and tiny. But it seems like my body is a little out of proportion. Like from my hips up its teeeny. But my legs are kinda big.
How can I make my legs lean and slim? But still with muscle? Im not like really wanting to loose weight on my legs though.
Anyone have any ideas?
Thanks! ♥
i would reccomend running on a treadmill and also elipticals they are amazing the will build muscles in your legs and make them look lean....also lying down on the ground and doing siscors (crossing your legs over each other rapidily)

Q: I`m trying to lose a couple of pounds latley. I was doing great until I started giving in to soda and candy again on halloween. I'm having a really hard time giving it all back up again and latley I've found my self eating/drinking more then I would normally have before I started to watch what I eat. I could use some help on how to get back on track. Thanks everyone!
if you are a part of a fitness center they usually offer plans to help you with this sort of thing also i would reccomend to cut off snacking and stick to your three main meals... i am addicited to diet dr. pepper and i would get headaches w/o one so what i did is i replaced diet dr. pepper with water when you get craving for candy try replacing it with liek string cheese or fruit.....like in order to please your sweet tooth try strawberries in a lite creamcheese instead of a normal so you are eating pretty healthy but also pleasing your sweet tooth...you could also try smoothies...i dont know if you have ever heard of jamba juice but they have alternatives and they are not completley bad for you....you dont have to starve yourself just eat right and exercise! good luck!

Q: Hey, i wanna get mi hair cut but i dont kno like what stile to get...... Im like 5 3 right now mi hair is past mi sholders, im not skinny..... i have red/ brown hair.... um im like a tomboy but i want somthing different.
If you need more info to answer mi question IM me at: MessyGirl12345 or Email me at: MessyGirl12345@aol.com um... I need advice soon i wanna get it cut tommorow.

Thanks in advance!

depending on how thick you har is you could ask for texture and layers you probably want it where you can still pull it up in a ponytail btu i would just ask for some layers and to add some texture to you hair....also you could flat iron it to give it different looks!
have fun!!

Q: We need to come up with some shirts for our cheer squad. Does anyone have any ideas? Our mascot are the Bobcats and our school colors are maroon and white. Thanks alot!
we use white out??
maroon out?

Q: my friend has a lot of freckles especially on her upper lip and she looks like she has a mustache and nooo cover ups hide it is there any way to get rid of freckles?
have your friend talk to a dermatoligist but other wise try the lemon juice route good luck!

Q: is there anyway to find out no name numbers that call you on your cell??

thanks!!
perhaps *69

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hey it is KJ!!! I love fashion shopping music hanging out with my friends God is the most important thing in my life. i am not one of those adive columnist who put random junk..so feel free to ask anything...

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