Member Since: August 12, 2009
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i was talking to a friend and she said i wasnt exciting.
it kinda really hurt my feelings.
cuz when im texting i guess im boring.
i was perfectly content with my life.
but now it like all changes. :/
any ways to be more exciting? (link)
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Awh babe. Don't let one person make you feel like that. Don't let anyone make you feel like that. And key words "WHEN I AM TEXTING". Uhm. Wow. Who cares? Obviously your whiny little friend.
Kyle
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I want to become a vampire. do not say "they do not exist." i am not crazy lol and this isnt really about twilight or anything. i just think it would be cool. dont say i cannot handle or survive or something like that. i just want to know how. im not talking about mythical vampires like the ones in movies. and what exactly are vampires? dont say mythical creatures. what powers do they have? and stuff like that. HOW! i am willing to accept the consiquences. much luv! (link)
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What??? Really??? Look I don't like cussing at chicks (and I can tell your a chick) but I'm sorry baby, that's just fucked up. THEY DO NOT EXIST. Go talk to a therapist and tell me how it goes.
Kyle
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I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months now.
I feel like I shouldn't be in this relationship at all anymore. He's always so clingy. Like I have to be at his house every night and if I'm not by a certain time he starts freaking out calling and texting like crazy..And if I tell him one night "hey I just want to sleep at home tonight" he freaks out like "why?? you act like it's so horrible coming over here".....well YEAH it is because all my stuff is at home and everything I have to do in my life and take care of is at MY HOUSE. Sometimes I just want my space and I don't want to sleep in your bed where you want to cuddle and cuddle until I can't breathe and I can't sleep with someone on top of me.
I can't hang out with my friends anymore and I hate it I feel like I have no life anymore. And I've tried telling him this and he freaked out he was like "Well wtf now I'm not a part of your life?? Fine well if you'd rather hang out with your friends then whatever" and he always talks about how he's not just a stepping stone and whatever and he talks like he thinks we're going to be together forever....when I don't want to be! Even if these problems didn't exist I'm 20 years old I'm not trying to get married I'm young I want to have fun and live my life not be tied down to some psycho!
Also he does this whiny high pitched voice all the time and I know it's just him trying to be cute but it bugs the hell out of me. I can't stand it. You're a man act like a man not like a little girl....it's not attractive....and on that note I'm not physically attracted to him at all...when we first started dating I was attracted to him because we had fun together...but now all he wants me to do is after work shower and come over just so we can sit around and watch tv until we go to bed....and then he has the nerve to ask me why I never dress up for him anymore....(DUHH BECAUSE WE NEVER GO ANYWHERE!! I'm not gonna dress up to sit on your couch!)
So that attraction I had for him is now gone and I'm left with somebody that I don't want to be with....
I made the mistake of telling him I loved him when I wasn't really in love. He kept saying it and saying it and I kind of felt obligated.....well now I don't mean it and every time he says it if I don't say it back he freaks out like "what you don't love me???" I just want to be done with it.
And on top of all this I'm going back to college in two weeks and I'm not going to have time for him....but he's still acting like he's gonna want me to come over every night and I don't even WANT to have time for him.
I just want to be done with this relationship but I don't know how. I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want to sugarcoat it so that it seems like we're gonna get back together, because I don't want to...and he has anxiety attacks and every time I get mad at him he has one and once I got so mad that I just left his house and he got REALLY angry started kicking his car and screaming and yelling then sent me like 100 text messages about it.
I just know he's going to freak out and get super pissed and I don't know what to do please help me.
I need advice on what to say and how to bring it up. Should I blame it on school? I'm still going to be working while going to school so I really wont have extra time to deal with his needs. (link)
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i dont really see how your STUCK in the relationship. did he chain you to his ankle? no. sure hes really clingy. blame it on school, or tell him how you really feel. he sounds like a pansy so i think your gonna hurt his feelings either way, but telling him how you really feel would probably get him off your back for good. in fact, just show him this question you posted. i think that would get your message accross. but no matter what, ditch him. dude sounds like a physco.
kyle
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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on??? (link)
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dude, trust me, total turn on. yeah i know im a guy but like gunner ive had experience with this. as one chick said, if you want long term girls, most of them get really turned on by gentlemen. if you want easy girls then treat em like shit and theyll love you for a night. ive found that opening doors for them is a personal favorite.
ky
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hey my name is katie.okay so this question isnt really about me...its about my friend sara. sara is going out with this guy named josh.and they are sooo cute together. theyve been going out for a year and a half now. josh really loves her. but i was talking to sara the other day and she said that she might have a crush on this other guy matt. the thing is..matt is one of her ex boyfriends from like 2 years ago. but she isnt totally sure if she does like matt. she just said that shes starting to get a crush on him. sara doesnt wanna say anything to josh because she doesnt want to lose her relationship with him..but she doesnt know if she wants to go out with matt.
helpppp! (link)
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dude. not your business. dont get involved cos you might regret it later if things get messy.
kyle
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14/f
My exboyfriend/friend told me he loved me and got me single and commited only to him for two months. Then we fooled around (no sex) and he's not been the same. Tonight He just went off on me for asking him if he lied to me.
"Yea I lied to you. I felt bad for you and your lonely ass. I felt bad for you this whole year. you'be always been beneath me (he's a foot taller and literally means it. He feels bad cuz he's even told me he feels like he's got more authority just by being bigger) and youre mad because I never flet the same way about you. I'm not even trippin right now so you can say whatever you want and get lost."
He told everyone he knew that he scored...
I'm really trusting and wanted to believe everything he'd tell me because I really thought he cared. But apparently not.
He begged me to stay with him. He cried after randomly blowing up multiple times at me and apologizing. He did everything to make me believe he cared.
I'm naive and believed him.
Can guys really lie like this, this easily??? Should I not trust guys anymore??? because honestly, I'm scared....I know just saying straight out that I'm scared may seem a bit irrational but...really. I don't want to go through this ever again.
any advice will be greatly appreciated. really any, you have no idea. (link)
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he sounds like a player to me. and not even a very good one. yeah. he lied. but trust me, he didnt do it because he cared about you and felt sorry for you, he did it because he wanted to fool around with you. and then when he did, he (duh) told people about it. hes just a jerk that isnt worth your time. so forget about him. who cares if hes crying and screaming, let him be baby because i bet this is the first time he didnt get what he wanted from a girl. find a better guy. theyre out there.
kyle
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Okay so I am 15(F)and the guy is 16(M). I really like him. We have been dating for like two months now. But anyway. The problem is that sometimes he can be really dirty. Sometimes I like it or I don't mind it, but other times I feel like he wants me to be dirty back. He wants to have sex... Yeah, I don't. He gets that though I think. But whenever we are making out, I am always the one to stop it. Like, if it starts going too far, I am always the one to say "Okay, that's enough". I feel like he is always ready to just keep going, that I can't slip up. Or sometimes when we are on the phone or texting he will send/say somthing really dirty and I will be like "uhm..." and just kind of choke up. He's always like "Don't be so tense babe" but I don't know, I'm not used to that kind of stuff. All the guys I have liked before have been really... I don't know... not like that. I've told him that I'm not really experienced with those kinds of things (the making out and naughty phone converstations), but for some reason, he thinks thats hot and it only makes him want to do it more. I'm really stuck because I like him, but I just don't know how to be dirty like he wants me to... Help? (link)
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just do what he wants you to. hes putting out an effort, and so can you. im not saying have sex with him, but do what he says. don't be so tesne. it's not like anyone ever got hurt from being a little dirty, so try it. and, yeah its hot. it makes him feel ilke your all his, and hes taught you everything. i can see that. but yeah, just try a little, and chill out, hes your boyfriend.
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