Hello there. I'm Blank_Trouble, and I'll answer your questions about whatever if I have advice. I'm a guitarist, a music-aholic, and I have given all my friends advice since second grade. I'll try to help you as best as I can.
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i'm 16 and a girl. i have never had a boyfriend and i'm tired of it. it's not like i can't get one i have boys ask me out and stuff it's just that i always say no. then they get mad at me and don't speak to me. i like them and stuff it's just that i always say no. wat should i do. (link)
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It doesn't matter if you have a boyfriend or not; it doesn't determine who you are. If you like a boy and you feel comfortable with him, go out with him, but only if you want to. Don't go out with someone just because they'll get mad if you don't. Also, try to let them down gently, then they might not be mad.
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I have this friend and I have been friends with her for like 5 years, and recently I met this guy and I like him a lot, and I told her that. And this guy told me that he liked me too. Well now she is going out with him. He still calls me and say that he loves me and wishes he was with me. I don't know if I should talk to the girl or if I should stay a way from her since she stabbed me in the back. What should I do? (link)
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Ask her why she did this to you. It seems she was either jealous or she liked him secretly, too. Then ask this guy why he'd go out with her if he 'loves' you.
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i cant afford a trainer...umm what can i eat or drink to make me sing better lol i really want to be able to...and how do u sing from ur stomach? ive heard that u like use ur stomach (link)
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I've heard that eating/drinking dairy will affect your voice. And stay hydrated!
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whats the biggest difference between high school and middle school? (link)
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In high school, you'll have more options, new people, new (and maybe harder) classes, and you'll be getting ready for college if you're going.
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i want to be an advice columnist for something more than this, any ideas? (link)
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Maybe you could find out if your local paper needs an advice collumnist, or a website you like.
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muh lil sister , is always tellin me what 2 do and i've tryed almost everything to let her no that im older and that im not always gonna listen 2 her but she still finds wys 2 push me around can sum 1 give me advice im out of option? (link)
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Just ignore her. She's not in charge of your life!
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how can I stop being so SHY!?! Guys only go out for me because of my looks and not my personality because I sorta freeze up around people I don't know well or aren't friends with. (link)
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Try to be more outgoing, and get to know guys before you go out with them. Then you'll know they're going out with you for the right reasons.
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what's a good way to make friends? (link)
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Find people with similar intrests by joining clubs, groups, etc.
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I always let my best friend borrow some of my shirts, but she will borrow them and forget to give them back. Like 2day I have to wear a blak shirt 4 school and she borrowed it and now she says she already gave it bak but i no she didn't because i have looked everywhere and it is nowhere and she wore it last. Also she borrowed one of my favorite shirts and she said she can't remember where it is but she will look for it and she still hasn't found it. Anyways- this doesn't usually happen, but i think i should not let her borrow anything else from me until she gives me the other stuff back. Is this a good judgement or is there an easier way? (link)
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Why don't you tell her that you won't let her borrow any more of your stuff until she returns the ones she won't give you back? If you're over at her house, maybe you could say, "Hey will you check for that one shirt I lent you quickly? I have to wear it soon, and I'm pretty sure you never gave it back!"
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...I want world peace. Anyone with me? (link)
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Of course.
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where can u get the cheapest CDs? thx, erin (link)
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Some stores have sales on newly released CDs to try to get more people to buy them. Also, buying used CDs will save you a ton of money, and if they're damaged, most stores will give you a refund.
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I bite my nails, it's a nervous habit (a bad one too). I think it's because my parents put a lot of pressure on me and my sisters (one of them also bites her nails). I like chewing on things, and nails are just convenient. I don't like gum, though- so I don't want to chew on that. I don't want to chew on food because I don't want to stuff myself because of a nervous habit. I hate carrots. How can I stop biting my nails? Sometimes I don't even realize what I'm doing and then my nail is gone! (link)
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What I do is tape my nails with a thick medical tape. It sounds weird, but if you leave it on for a few days, you'll get used to not biting your nails.
Also, try to find ways to relieve your stress. It might help.
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i love rock/punk...i'm always looking for new stuff to listen to. can anyone name a few bands for me? (link)
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The Bronx, Alkaline Trio, Much the Same, Leftover Crack, The Damned, The Distillers, etc. Some bands have links to bands they like on their websites, try looking there.
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ok here it goes: ok..i LOVE to write stories, poems, and song lyrics..like it's fun (the idea of doing it). I try but i just dont get anything good. Any tips?? thAnKs (link)
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Write about whatever comes to mind, but don't get rid of anything you don't think is good. Later you might be able to reword it or change it in some way to make it better. Also, if you learn many different styles of writing you should be able to find a style that best suits you. Improving your vocabulary might do wonders for your writing, too.
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